Question for the guys: "Fake"women uncovered?
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I said this on another post talking about "fake boobs". If I can touch them they're real
I totally agree with this!!! My answer, yes my boobs are real!
As for the topic of the debate, I think you'll get answers all across the board. But for every style there is someone that finds it attractive. What works for one may not work for the others. Butt padding, padded bras, socks, fake bake, make up, whatever you do rock it like you've got it!0 -
Have never cared. It's just superficial stuff.0
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It would have to be an extremely drastic thing for me to care.
Being with a lady is about pleasing her not worrying about how big her breasts are.0 -
I would have surgery if I were rich
Nose job
Boob implants
Lipo
Acid skin peel
Just nothing injected to the face0 -
Pretty interesting answers!
I went from a C to an A cup, the bf doesn't mind at all but there's times my shirts don't drape right if I don't have at least a tiny bit of padding there...plus the whole headlight thing.
The butt pad panties are just omg :laugh: but I seriously have seen people buy them.0 -
whatever makes a girl feel more confident is ok with me. as a guy, i try to look my best. however, breast enhancements are about the last thing i look for in a mate. i'd much rather be with someone who i can talk about current events / theories with rather than just gossiping about who did what or can you believe what person x did. also important is someone who is a good match for my personality.
as physical attraction is also important, the best advice i can give is to be as fit and confident as you can be. and it seems that's the goal all of us, male and female, are striving for here.0 -
Why is it the forum view if you have breast implants or are a man and built you are a retard?!0
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whatever makes a girl feel more confident is ok with me. as a guy, i try to look my best. however, breast enhancements are about the last thing i look for in a mate. i'd much rather be with someone who i can talk about current events / theories with rather than just gossiping about who did what or can you believe what person x did. also important is someone who is a good match for my personality.
as physical attraction is also important, the best advice i can give is to be as fit and confident as you can be. and it seems that's the goal all of us, male and female, are striving for here.
I'm not really sure what breast enhancements have to do with gossip. Breast size, breast enhancements, or any other beauty enhancements don't have a thing to do with a woman's ability to maintain an intelligent conversation. Many highly educated women wear padded bras, shapewear, have implants, use fake tanner, or hair extensions. I hate to break it to the guys out there, but the things women do for their appearance are about their own self, usually it has nothing to do with what a man may think.0 -
Why is it the forum view if you have breast implants or are a man and built you are a retard?!
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you!! So right! 0 -
whatever makes a girl feel more confident is ok with me. as a guy, i try to look my best. however, breast enhancements are about the last thing i look for in a mate. i'd much rather be with someone who i can talk about current events / theories with rather than just gossiping about who did what or can you believe what person x did. also important is someone who is a good match for my personality.
as physical attraction is also important, the best advice i can give is to be as fit and confident as you can be. and it seems that's the goal all of us, male and female, are striving for here.
I'm not really sure what breast enhancements have to do with gossip. Breast size, breast enhancements, or any other beauty enhancements don't have a thing to do with a woman's ability to maintain an intelligent conversation. Many highly educated women wear padded bras, shapewear, have implants, use fake tanner, or hair extensions. I hate to break it to the guys out there, but the things women do for their appearance are about their own self, usually it has nothing to do with what a man may think.
Too many people think its all about them. What THEY find attractive, what THEY would like you to look like. Surely the whole idea about MFP is to help people to achieve the own said persons goal?0 -
Why is it the forum view if you have breast implants or are a man and built you are a retard?!
Because the overeducated elite in the US is obsessed with "authenticity" and has been since the 1960s. For a recent example, google Lana del Rey. I say this as a card-carrying member of the 1%... although I have given in and realized that gel/acrylic nails are the only way I will ever get my manicure to survive more than 48 hours.0 -
i'm a 27 year old history graduate, my IQ is 154.
i drive an expensive sports car which is paid for by the company i work, which by the way, i'm 4th best salesperson in my company, the biggest cell network in the UK.
im successful, happily married, beautiful, a little over weight.
i had breast implants 5 years ago, for me, not for anyone else. i literally had none, i am 5ft 9, and curvy. i looked unbalanced and didnt feel feminine.
having breast implants doesnt make me fake, i dont wear hair extensions, i dont wear ridiculously high heels, i wear business suits in the week and jeans at the weekend.
people NEVER know they arent my own unless i choose to tell them, they look like what i should have been born with,
the self righteousness and judging on this thread is of epic proportions.0 -
Agreed, the irony, like you said is the people who claim to be 'normal' are perhaps the most judgemental and happy to generalize about others. I only hope in time that people can learn to accept the world as beyond black and white and see all the different shades of grey.0
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i'm a 27 year old history graduate, my IQ is 154.
i drive an expensive sports car which is paid for by the company i work, which by the way, i'm 4th best salesperson in my company, the biggest cell network in the UK.
im successful, happily married, beautiful, a little over weight.
i had breast implants 5 years ago, for me, not for anyone else. i literally had none, i am 5ft 9, and curvy. i looked unbalanced and didnt feel feminine.
having breast implants doesnt make me fake, i dont wear hair extensions, i dont wear ridiculously high heels, i wear business suits in the week and jeans at the weekend.
people NEVER know they arent my own unless i choose to tell them, they look like what i should have been born with,
the self righteousness and judging on this thread is of epic proportions.
And you're BEAUTIFUL!!!!!
I don't get why people assume that women with implants, extensions, et cetera, must be suffering from a low self-esteem or that they are somehow less "real" than anyone else. Personality is what matters and baby you've got it!!!! 0 -
i'm a 27 year old history graduate, my IQ is 154.
i drive an expensive sports car which is paid for by the company i work, which by the way, i'm 4th best salesperson in my company, the biggest cell network in the UK.
im successful, happily married, beautiful, a little over weight.
i had breast implants 5 years ago, for me, not for anyone else. i literally had none, i am 5ft 9, and curvy. i looked unbalanced and didnt feel feminine.
having breast implants doesnt make me fake, i dont wear hair extensions, i dont wear ridiculously high heels, i wear business suits in the week and jeans at the weekend.
people NEVER know they arent my own unless i choose to tell them, they look like what i should have been born with,
the self righteousness and judging on this thread is of epic proportions.
And you're BEAUTIFUL!!!!! I don't get why people assume that women with implants, extensions, et cetera, must be suffering from a low self-esteem or that they are somehow less "real" than anyone else. Personality is what matters and baby you've got it!!!!
I will raise my glass to that!0 -
what i dont get, is why girls get the "fake" versions of things they can achieve themselves. want long hair? GROW IT OUT. all you need is patience. if its wavy/curly like mine , just use a flatiron. want nice nails? GET A MANICURE. and if you want them to look fake (mine always get confused with the fake ones) just grow them out and have them cut into that square/fake nail shape. if you always cake your face on with foundation or whatever to fake awesome skin , stop that , and get awesome skin for real. go see a dermatologist and soon you wont need all that foundation. want long lashes? use some of that special mascara for making them grow. want a tan? lol i cant help here cuz my skin tans naturally (im latina) but you get my point....most of the "fake" things girls use can be achieved ,naturally.0
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Ok, I was shopping yesterday and I saw bras that added two full cup sizes and panties with butt inserts...lol. Ok now as part of the Itty Bitty Titty Commitee, I admit I got a pushup bra. I got a bf so I don't have to really worry about being "discovered" so to speak, but I was wondering, how do you guys feel when you meet a girl and then come to find out she has fake eyelashes, hair piece/extensions, padded push up bra, etc etc....I mean is it a deal breaker?
How do you guys feel about all that stuff we put on at times?
How do I feel when I find there may have been some enhancements: defrauded, bamboozled, completely taken advantage of. It's like going to a Foo Fighters concert only to find that Justin Bieber is playing instead. Sure the kid is an amazing talent, I celebrate his entire catalogue on a daily basis, but it's not what i paid for.
Ummm just kidding - when I was single I was always happy when a girl was cool with me seeing her naked. All shapes, all sizes, all beautiful - especially the one i married.0 -
what i dont get, is why girls get the "fake" versions of things they can achieve themselves. want long hair? GROW IT OUT. all you need is patience. if its wavy/curly like mine , just use a flatiron. want nice nails? GET A MANICURE. and if you want them to look fake (mine always get confused with the fake ones) just grow them out and have them cut into that square/fake nail shape. if you always cake your face on with foundation or whatever to fake awesome skin , stop that , and get awesome skin for real. go see a dermatologist and soon you wont need all that foundation. want long lashes? use some of that special mascara for making them grow. want a tan? lol i cant help here cuz my skin tans naturally (im latina) but you get my point....most of the "fake" things girls use can be achieved ,naturally.
I don't agree with most of what you said, but I LOVE my flatiron 0 -
I don't think it's so much that people don't expect a woman with large breasts (natural or otherwise) are incapable of intelligent conversation as it is that some people are incapable of intelligent conversation WITH a woman with a great rack.
Some things aren't achievable for all women. My hair won't grow much past my shoulders. It's wavy/curly and wispy. I don't wear extensions, though, except for Halloween. Too much hassle for everyday life. Ditto for nails... I have no interest in long nails. Mine don't grow long... my lifestyle won't allow them. I couldn't imagine putting in contacts with long nails.
But even with short hair, pale skin, small boobs and stubby fingernails... I'm still plenty feminine. I have a va-jay-jay. That's what makes me feminine. Not caring that much about my hair, skin, boobs and nails... makes me a really easygoing, low-maintenance person to live with.0 -
what i dont get, is why girls get the "fake" versions of things they can achieve themselves. want long hair? GROW IT OUT. all you need is patience. if its wavy/curly like mine , just use a flatiron. want nice nails? GET A MANICURE. and if you want them to look fake (mine always get confused with the fake ones) just grow them out and have them cut into that square/fake nail shape. if you always cake your face on with foundation or whatever to fake awesome skin , stop that , and get awesome skin for real. go see a dermatologist and soon you wont need all that foundation. want long lashes? use some of that special mascara for making them grow. want a tan? lol i cant help here cuz my skin tans naturally (im latina) but you get my point....most of the "fake" things girls use can be achieved ,naturally.
I don't agree with most of what you said, but I LOVE my flatiron
I dont agree either....lol.... not all hair can grow long. Not all nails can grow long. Not all lashes can grow long. And not all skin can tan nicely. You must be one of the lucky one's if you think you can do all that naturally. Peace! :flowerforyou:0 -
Its not the size of the waves, its the motion of the ocean that counts.
But yeah me and my coworker were having a discussion about this the other day at work, and its pretty unfair for men that they never know what is under all of our fakery.
Surely tho the motion of the ocean is easy to achieve in a big steamer than a dingy tho
One of the big things I love about women but also shows how much a difference it can make is make up - wow, can make such a difference. My ex was pretty but when she puts make up on, she could have any many she wants.
If we're just talking about boats, no. Big steamers feel the "motion of the ocean" much less than a dingy, which is thrown about and even capsized by a very active ocean. As for penises, meh. I'm a lesbian, so I don't care one way or the other about them. Women with padding and extensions? Don't care much one way or the other about that either--I don't are how big her boobs or butt are. I think men who care are shallow and not really worth knowing. Just an opinion.0 -
whatever makes a girl feel more confident is ok with me. as a guy, i try to look my best. however, breast enhancements are about the last thing i look for in a mate. i'd much rather be with someone who i can talk about current events / theories with rather than just gossiping about who did what or can you believe what person x did. also important is someone who is a good match for my personality.
as physical attraction is also important, the best advice i can give is to be as fit and confident as you can be. and it seems that's the goal all of us, male and female, are striving for here.
I'm not really sure what breast enhancements have to do with gossip. Breast size, breast enhancements, or any other beauty enhancements don't have a thing to do with a woman's ability to maintain an intelligent conversation. Many highly educated women wear padded bras, shapewear, have implants, use fake tanner, or hair extensions. I hate to break it to the guys out there, but the things women do for their appearance are about their own self, usually it has nothing to do with what a man may think.
i did not argue that breast implants were related to gossiping in any way.
i did state that i don't really care about them one way or the other, and that i'm much more interested in being able to have a conversation about things outside of superficial, immediate issues.
i think you may have found something in my post that wasn't actually there.0 -
what i dont get, is why girls get the "fake" versions of things they can achieve themselves. want long hair? GROW IT OUT. all you need is patience. if its wavy/curly like mine , just use a flatiron. want nice nails? GET A MANICURE. and if you want them to look fake (mine always get confused with the fake ones) just grow them out and have them cut into that square/fake nail shape. if you always cake your face on with foundation or whatever to fake awesome skin , stop that , and get awesome skin for real. go see a dermatologist and soon you wont need all that foundation. want long lashes? use some of that special mascara for making them grow. want a tan? lol i cant help here cuz my skin tans naturally (im latina) but you get my point....most of the "fake" things girls use can be achieved ,naturally.
I don't agree with most of what you said, but I LOVE my flatiron
I dont agree either....lol.... not all hair can grow long. Not all nails can grow long. Not all lashes can grow long. And not all skin can tan nicely. You must be one of the lucky one's if you think you can do all that naturally. Peace! :flowerforyou:
Not to mention that "natural" tanning increases your cancer risk dramatically.0 -
panties with butt inserts...lol.
And WHERE can I get these? :happy: I think I shocked the lady at the department store when I asked if they had something to make the butt BIGGER not smaller. I was blessed with a chest, but a butt like a frog that stood up. *sigh*
They have them on amazon.com. They also have them for men, no socks required.
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_i_0_9?url=search-alias=aps&field-keywords=padded+underwear&sprefix=padded+un,aps,265
Everywhere. Department stores, WalMart, online...everywhere.0 -
I think false advertising just leads to future disapointment. xP
You gotta rock what you got.
As for implants...well i think thats a little different just because now it IS part of what you have going on. You arent going to take off a chicks bra and be disapointed by the massive amount of padding that just fell out.0 -
I think false advertising just leads to future disapointment. xP
You gotta rock what you got.
As for implants...well i think thats a little different just because now it IS part of what you have going on. You arent going to take off a chicks bra and be disapointed by the massive amount of padding that just fell out.
If a guy is "disappointed" because your breasts aren't big enough, he's not worth your time. Padding is a lot safer than implants.0 -
Yea, most bras are at least a little padded.. Otherwise our nipples would be the third party in every conversation. I hate bras as it is, so I definitely don't want to be wearing one that makes me feel like I have an infant strapped to my chest! I prefer a more natural look on a lady but the girls that that dig the highlights, extensions, fake tans, fake nails, fake boobs.. etc... aren't necessarily suffering from a low self-esteem. It's a "look." Same goes for the boys with overly gelled hair, and a fake tan, wearing their little brother's t-shirt.. I guess that's a look too. Different strokes. To reiterate what a lot of you have already said.. The personality can make or break it. It doesn't really matter what you're wearing.. If you're arrogant and ill-mannered.. you're ugly, and no amount of makeup or self-tanner is going to cover it up. :flowerforyou:
I agree with every bit of this. I actually really like my small boobs and feel that giant padded bras just make me feel awkward. Now that they are growing (pregnant) I actually need to shop for lightly padded bras and even those feel weird.0 -
Fake boobs, Fake tan, Fake hair....it's certainly a woman's choice but if you don't have the personality to back it up it's of no interest to me.
At the end of the day if it helps your confidence ( don't become conceited ) then it's all good but please have the personality to back it up
Aww, I like this answer! ^^0 -
Since I read this, I have ads for butt inserts...0
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I have boobs, maybe too much -38DD- of my own, and plenty enough butt too; but I'm not gonna knock anyone for wearing a padded bra if that's what makes them feel better. I'm not in that boat re: implants either, don't think I'd be interested in doing that, but then again you never know unless you're there. I do partake of a little fake n bake ie tanning, in the dead of winter occl for some color & "blue light" effect; have long hair of my own but do color & highlight it myself; have never had fake nails because I'm WAY too active & low maintenance; do wear a little makeup on a regular basis to work & out but not working out... Confidence is the sexiest quality that one can have (most feminine or masculine) depending on gender; and personality, sense of humor, compassion, and intelligence (be it learned or common sense) are what make a person worth being with!
I think anyone who is totally "plastic" meaning personality as well as many overdone enhancements to personal attributes MAY have an issue with body image or be insecure; but it depends on the person...
Hopefully, our goal on here is to be healthy & feel good about ourselves; so I support you all!
PS: Size matters, to a point... ; ) But skilz count extra!!! 0
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