Questions For Married Folks (For A Class - Help Appreciated)

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  • lisalamb62
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    Engaged when I was 26 (he was 39) we dated 4 1/2 years before we married after a 6 month (rough) engagement.
    Married 20 tumultuous years with three children.

    I re-married when I was 47 (he was 53 never been married) we got engaged 6 weeks after meeting and married 6 months later. Been married 3 very, very happy years!
  • t2811
    t2811 Posts: 56
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    We met in March 2008 and he proposed 3 weeks later (I was 43 and he was almost 40)... we got engaged officially in April 2008 and married in November 2009... still together and happier than ever....

    However... my first time was... engaged in July 1988 (after being together for 16 months) and married in October 1988 ( I was 23 and he was 31)... separated in 2007, so together for 19 years......

    Hope this is of use..... :)
  • deeharley
    deeharley Posts: 1,208 Member
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    How old were you when you got engaged? How long had you been together before getting engaged? How old were you when you got married? Are you still together (if so, for how long)? Doing some informal research for a class - answers appreciated!

    Had to quote so I remember the questions. :ohwell:

    24 when we got engaged - he was 21. We had been together 4 months, known each other 9. We were married 3 months later. Still together, 14 1/2 years later.
  • gregavila
    gregavila Posts: 725 Member
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    I've been married twice... And here are the stats.

    Number One

    Age when I met her and got engaged: 25
    Dated: 6 months
    Married at 26
    Together for 6 years and ended up divorced

    Number Two

    Age when I met her: 32
    Dated: 5 years
    Age when engaged: 36
    Engaged for 6 months
    Married at 36
    Still together. Have been married for 6 years this March, and together for almost 11 years.
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 899 Member
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    Engaged at 18....
    Married last summer at 19....
    I'll be 20 soon, and on my way to a divorce...what a waste of two years.
  • AmyEm3
    AmyEm3 Posts: 784 Member
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    We met when I was 21 and he was 28. Got engaged at 24 and 32. Married at 25 and 33. So, we've known each for 13 years and have been married for (will be next month) 9 years. Three kids.
  • mrsdizzyd84
    mrsdizzyd84 Posts: 422 Member
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    We were together for 2 years 11 months before getting engaged- i was 24 he was 26.
    Married 11 months after engagement- still 24 and 26.
    We are still married. We have been married for 2 years, 8 months. We have been together a total of 6 years, 6 months.
  • cardbucfan
    cardbucfan Posts: 10,396 Member
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    How old were you when you got engaged? 28 (he was 36-8 years older than me)
    How long had you been together before getting engaged? 3 years
    How old were you when you got married? 28 (6 month engagement)
    Are you still together? 21 years last month so we've been together 24 years
  • JourneyToTheOldMe
    JourneyToTheOldMe Posts: 31 Member
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    How old were you when you got engaged? How long had you been together before getting engaged? How old were you when you got married? Are you still together (if so, for how long)? Doing some informal research for a class - answers appreciated!

    Hi!

    We were both 19 when my husband and i got Engaged.
    We had been together for only 8 months when my husband proposed!
    We were both 20 when we got Married :)
    And we are due to celebrate 1 year of Marriage on the 26th of this month :)
  • gods_gal
    gods_gal Posts: 305
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    How old were you when you got engaged? 29 years old
    How long had you been together before getting engaged? 5 months
    How old were you when you got married? 30 years old
    Are you still together (if so, for how long)? 26 years and still happily married
  • Tanyawhite30
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    I am 30 years old, I meet my husband when I was 17, got engaged at 19 when we got pregnant with our son....then got married in 2007, we got seperated for 2 years and just recently got back together :)
  • karenjoy
    karenjoy Posts: 1,841 Member
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    How old were you when you got engaged? 21 first time and 41 second
    How long had you been together before getting engaged? 2 years first and 5 second
    How old were you when you got married? 22 first and 43 second
    Are you still together (if so, for how long)? 16 years first time and second we are on our 3rd year....
  • jazzalea
    jazzalea Posts: 412 Member
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    we met when I was 15 and dated for 7 years before we got engaged...

    we were engaged when I was 22 and married eighteen monthes later when I was 24

    together for 12 more years........

    Separated @ 36 till present....

    Still married but completely separated.... amicable friends no need to do anything formal at this point...

    *he is 2 years older than me for your data :)


    Hope that helps :)
  • UpEarly
    UpEarly Posts: 2,555 Member
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    I was 25 when we got engaged.

    We had been together three years.

    I was 26 when we got married.

    Yes... still together. It will be fifteen years (married) this October. :-)
  • niknanette
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    Engaged when I was 20, he was 22. Had been dating for
    4 years. Married 4 months later, still same ages. We are still married
    9.5 years later.
  • bas1955
    bas1955 Posts: 29 Member
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    Met at 14 & 13
    Married at 18 & 17
    Celebrating 38 years next month.
    6 kids, 9 grandkids later & still loving life & each other!
    Tremendously grateful
  • cessnaholly
    cessnaholly Posts: 784 Member
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    He proposed after 1 week. I said yes 6 months later. Married 1.5 years later. We were both 29. Been married 10 years last October. 2 kiddos. Many challenges along the way. Would do it again.
  • Erica002
    Erica002 Posts: 293 Member
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    I was 20 when I got engaged. We were together for 3 years. I was still 20 when we got married. And we are still together, celebrating 10 years this week.
  • LadyFleata
    LadyFleata Posts: 32 Member
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    met at 22
    married at 32 been living together for together 10 years when he asked me to marry him
    married Novemeber last year 11/2011
    so 3 months on the 26/2/12
  • angdan31
    angdan31 Posts: 95 Member
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    A) How old were you when you got engaged? I was 19 and he was 20

    B)How long had we been together before becoming engaged? 5 Months

    C)How old were we when we got married? I was 19 and he was 20

    D)Are we still together? (If so how long?) Yes, We are still together. We are celebrating our 25th anniversary this year!