Grils...how would you react?

vudufrank

As an old, overweight lady, I would have to look him in the eye and ask very seriously "So, what are you doing later, Handsome?"

vudufrank

I like the chocolate that puts out. I hate chocolate that only wants to tease...

Lifting_chick

I like to look at the guy that works at my gym....to young for me but nice to look at but my gym buddy started calling him Shoney's Big Boy and has kinda messed up my eye candy :sad: :sad:

Evelyn_Gorfram

I often regret not having done the silly over-the-top things that strike in the moment, so I'll recommend the singing "I'm too sexy for my *kitten*... " and slapping your *kitten* to the beat.

IMHO, the message you want to get across is: "You're being way too obvious. Dial it down a few notches." Staring at him until he felt uncomfortable delivered that message effectively, so it was as good a response as any other.

I'd probably have said something really dorky like (in cold tone & with cold stare) "Can I help you with something?"

And then hours later thought of some much more clever remark like: "Aw, godammmit! Do I have toilet paper stuck to my *kitten* *again*?"

charmingtrouble

Just stare at his crotch???

and squint

HAHAHAHAHHAAHHAHAHAH :laugh: just imagine how many calories people are burning from reading this topic and laughing

mdebbie1026

I'm almost always the only woman on the weight floor and I lift heavy. So I get a lot of looks regardless. I just ignore them. Or I make eye contact and they look away.

Relevant funny story... was at the gym with my mom and she was checking out this guy. He caught her doing it and shot her a smile and flexed his bicep. She turned bright red and dropped a weight on her foot.

Best gym memory ever. I laughed for days.

Love the relevant funny story!...except the dropped weight on her foot part, that had to hurt!

dmpizza

That guy was a jerk, doesn't he realize you are only allowed to look if;
-you get on a treadmill behind her treadmill
-she just "happens" to walk past where you are "already" looking.

SeaStar

I'm socially awkward so any time something like that happens I kinda don't make eye contact, then do, then laugh and say hi really fast and then figure out what else I want to do in the weight room to walk away from my internal catastrophe :blushing:

Goal_Seeker_1988

In this situation I would reccomend this advice: WATCH IT!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8wRXa971Xw0

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

aippolito1

I'd just be flattered. I don't make a big deal unless someone tries to ask me out or get my number. THAT is annoying. Admiring my hard work is really just a compliment to me.

markymarrkk

best thread ever

Josee76

As an old, overweight lady, I would have to look him in the eye and ask very seriously "So, what are you doing later, Handsome?"

THIS ^^^ I love it!!!

I have worked hard to be where I am (and the journey is not over) .. There is one boy at the gym I go to, that I seriously am crushing on so when he does look my way.. he knows darn well I have been looking at him (it's almost like a little game we play... It's entertaining!)

xxTAMxx

I'm all for equal opportunity ogling. I am just really disappointed that the cardio machines at my gym face away from the weights area.

DaughterOfTheMostHighKing

i would love to turn around just once to see girl looking me up and down with delight in her smile. Never happens. Maybe one day.

it'll happen!

JulesofWinsto

I often have this problem with girls always with their eyes fixated on me. It's so uncomfortable. I'M NOT A PIECE OF MEAT

Enough talky talky. Just be purty and make me sammich. :flowerforyou:

:drinker: haha!

LeanerBeef

People look at people.....get over yourself.

california_peach

I'd probably look around to see what girl he was looking at and then if I saw no other girl I'd assume he was gay and checking out another guy. If there were no other people around, I would assume that I had something on the back of my pants and that he was trying to figure out how to tell me about it.

Either this or I'd wonder if I had just farted or something. It would probably just be the fart, cuz I really like spicy food.

NeedANewFocus

i would love to turn around just once to see girl looking me up and down with delight in her smile. Never happens. Maybe one day.

I'll ogle you if you ogle me. Deal?

deal!

NeedANewFocus

i would love to turn around just once to see girl looking me up and down with delight in her smile. Never happens. Maybe one day.

It happens, but we're sneaky. And mysterious. You'll never catch us!

what about just a smile?

Z_I_L_L_A

*girl....dammit

I was at the gym today doing strenght training. I was doing step up when i noticed a guy looking at my *kitten*. Now, i HAVE a great *kitten*!!!! But guys please, try to stay discrete when you check out a girl. What a really wanted to do was starting to sing "I am sexy and a know it" while dancing and slapping my bum but instead i just looked at him until he felt uncomfortable.
Did it ever happened to you and how did you react?

If no one notice you at all would you complain about that too? Or is it that the guy wasn't the one you wanted to look at your bum. Sometimes you have to take the bad with the good. Just sayin...

Karrix

I work hard on my body, especially my round bottom half. If they want to look, go ahead. Just don't touch!

jetscreaminagain

*girl....dammit

I was at the gym today doing strenght training. I was doing step up when i noticed a guy looking at my *kitten*. Now, i HAVE a great *kitten*!!!! But guys please, try to stay discrete when you check out a girl. What a really wanted to do was starting to sing "I am sexy and a know it" while dancing and slapping my bum but instead i just looked at him until he felt uncomfortable.
Did it ever happened to you and how did you react?

It made you feel good to know he was checking you out, right?

Then quit complaining. There are lots of people that would kill to have someone admiring their goodies.

Now, if he was giving you the creeps or something, thats one thing. But just oogling?

"Don't be hatin"

Being rude about it is not necessary. "Girl Dayum" is something that is unacceptable. Look at me, ok, Leer at me, not cool. I almost wanted to say you'd expect that kind of behavior among prisoners, but they don't even get away with that.

And no. It doesn't make my day to have someone leer and make comments.

moo_imma_pig

As long as they are just looking...... who cares??? If you have a problem with it just stare back with a "are you serious?" look until they get uncomfortable and look away. That's what I do. If you want to get real extreme scratch ur a** crack or pick ur nose.... that will help!!

MeStephy

I workout at home, but I have never had anyone ogle me ever that I am aware of.....I would love to know that someone liked what I look like. There is always hope that it will happen someday :laugh:

boomboom011

People look at people.....get over yourself.

amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!