MEN...what size would you want your woman?

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  • firefightmc
    firefightmc Posts: 33 Member
    size is irrelivant its how she carriers her self, grace, smarts and respect beauty is more than a dress size
  • anywhere from a size 8 to a 24....
  • Anthonydaman
    Anthonydaman Posts: 854 Member
    Men want their women size "available and willing" lol

    Hahahaha, ya that's true
  • Awake_Alive
    Awake_Alive Posts: 261 Member
    [/quote]Did it ever occur to you that I knew exactly what I was saying???? I prefer plus size women that's why I indicated the size I did by underwear (get it??). Think Sir Mix a Lot......
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    My people thank you ;)
  • JenAiMarres
    JenAiMarres Posts: 743 Member
    size 7-14 (panties)

    I have never heard of this????!!!!! Unless I am missing something!! Lol!

    Anyways, I know u directed this to men..but I just have to say....most men have no clue what size a woman is I am mid 120s and work with all men...they think I weigh 95lbs. I wouldn't trust what a man says he likes "size wise" it's more of a body type that men are attracted to and it differs greatly from man to man!

    Any man worth your time will be looking for your body type exactly!!!

    Trust me I have let men's perception of bodies/my body mold my relationship with my body more than I would like to admit...but trust me...I'm over it as of lately!!!
  • I dont think guys care about pants size hell i doubt many of them even understands how our pants sizes work i know i dont
  • neverstray
    neverstray Posts: 3,845 Member
    size 7-14 (panties)

    I have never heard of this????!!!!! Unless I am missing something!! Lol!

    Anyways, I know u directed this to men..but I just have to say....most men have no clue what size a woman is I am mid 120s and work with all men...they think I weigh 95lbs. I wouldn't trust what a man says he likes "size wise" it's more of a body type that men are attracted to and it differs greatly from man to man!

    Any man worth your time will be looking for your body type exactly!!!

    Trust me I have let men's perception of bodies/my body mold my relationship with my body more than I would like to admit...but trust me...I'm over it as of lately!!!

    Yeah, for me it's a body type I'm after. Not really a size.
  • JadeRabbit08
    JadeRabbit08 Posts: 551 Member
    size 7-14 (panties)
    pantie sizes run completely different from pant sizes...so your looking at a L-xxxL in pantie sizes...

    Haha I thought the same thing!! :laugh:

    Not in Australian size.

    Australia 10 12 14 16 18 20

    USA 8 10 12 14 16 18

    UK 10 12 14 16 18 20

    Europe 38 40 42 44 46 48
  • lozzae85
    lozzae85 Posts: 35
    I enjoyed reading all your opinions on this post. But they are exactly that. Opinions. Everyone is entitled to one and they are all different some people like stick thin some like a few extra pounds. I think as long as your happy and healthy in yourself thats the main thing :heart:
  • _Ben
    _Ben Posts: 1,608 Member
    Most men, my self included, dont really know sizes. When I can see the illiac crest through your skin, I think thats normally pretty good
  • stayxtrue
    stayxtrue Posts: 1,186 Member
    A guy who goes for a girl based purely on size and how skinny they are, are generally shallow guys. It goes far beyond weight and size, Personality has to come into it as well. Obviously you have to be attracted to the person, and to be honest someone who is just plain skin and bone is just not attractive. I much rather a woman to be HEALTHY and HAPPY... not UNHEATHLY, SKINNY, and UNHAPPY.

    Thats my 2 cents worth :)
  • skywa
    skywa Posts: 901 Member
    how do guys know womans sizes so well? i have no idea what size my bf is. lol.

    i think woman and men alike can look ideal at different weights depending on their body type/frame.
  • scs143
    scs143 Posts: 2,190 Member
    size 7-14 (panties)
    pantie sizes run completely different from pant sizes...so your looking at a L-xxxL in pantie sizes...
    Did it ever occur to you that I knew exactly what I was saying???? I prefer plus size women that's why I indicated the size I did by underwear (get it??). Think Sir Mix a Lot......



    Love this!!!

    All you guys for the most part answered perfectly!
  • sugarbone
    sugarbone Posts: 454 Member
    Aiming for a size to please the opposite gender (or the same gender depending on oritentation, or anyone really) is stupid. Do what makes you happy or you'll always be upset with what you see in the mirror, and/or have a partner who doesn't respect your control over your body. Also, the notion that "men only like real women with curves" is the biggest load of crap I've ever heard in my life. Some like tiny women or big boobs or blonde hair and that doesn't make them evil. To each their own!

    I had a boyfriend who told me he liked me better when I was 10lbs heavier, and that I should stop working out. He's gone now, lol.
  • hongruss
    hongruss Posts: 389 Member
    Without being too twee, WHATEVER SIZE MAKES HER HAPPY, I am not with a person because they can fit in my travel bag or stop a Mack truck in its tracks. I am with them because they are funny, engaging & sexy! I have been with size 6's insecure & needy & I have been with size 14's(UK sizes) Confident & Vivacious. What I would say is that whatever women I have been with they mostly want to be their friends, the skinnies want bigger breasts & the larger curvier women wanted to be smaller & wear clothes where men didn't stare at their tits all day haha.

    Russ
  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
    What I find funny is that if this was reversed, there is no question,
    Because guys know what women want, and that's exactly why they/we do it.

    I would guess size 6 to 10.
    I'd be more worried about how they look in a skirt than the size. If they are all cottage cheese in a plastic bag look.

    and OP, your friend would be better off with some confidence, guys go for chicks with confidence.
  • malibulu
    malibulu Posts: 79
    I am not losing weight and becoming more healthy to please a man...I'm single, but I'm becoming more confident and happier with myself for me and my children. I don't think I'll forever be at my thinnest, but I do think I'll forever be thinner than I was. I like a man for who they are... I like a bit of meat and think if a man likes me, they'll like me for who I am. If they don't, then that's fine, we weren't meant to be, and thats good.

    I see your point with the question you're asking, but I think it is more important to ask, "WOMEN...what size do you like yourself?" because that changes from woman to woman too xxx
  • Easy on the eye is my only requirement.
  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
    Speaking superficially of course, I am most attracted to very thin women, but occasionally I see a woman who isn't all that small but somehow pulls it off.
    Its all about proportion and firmness.
  • solarpower03
    solarpower03 Posts: 12,161 Member
    Fit and feminine with some muscle tone.
  • wickedcricket
    wickedcricket Posts: 1,246 Member
    some of the posts on here are SO STUPID! THIS IS 2012- MEN DON'T TELL US WHAT TO DO WITH OUR BODIES! If a man wants to control a female body- GET A BLOW UP DOLL OR BARBIE!

    Honestly- HOW is the #ERA gonna pass if women keep attitudes like this!?!

    Jesus and all the apostrophes
    sigh
  • glittermouse
    glittermouse Posts: 582 Member
    size 7-14 (panties)
    pantie sizes run completely different from pant sizes...so your looking at a L-xxxL in pantie sizes...
    Did it ever occur to you that I knew exactly what I was saying???? I prefer plus size women that's why I indicated the size I did by underwear (get it??). Think Sir Mix a Lot......

    *swoon*
  • carlie_carl
    carlie_carl Posts: 285
    I like a girl to be curvey in the right places, My ideal gal would be an 10-14 but thats unimportant tbf, a pretty smile, nice hair and a good personalliy wins me over :)
  • Just so we're very clear on this...I lost weight FOR ME!! Not for my husband, whom I love with every fiber of my being, not for my phenomenal children, not for my friends or for anyone but ME!! I feel better about myself when I'm thin, and I know my husband likes me at my current weight, but it's mainly because I'm happier being thin. My husband supports and encourages me every day in all aspects of my life...maintaining my weight loss is just one thing.

    You may not have meant it the way it sounded, but there are enough issues in our lives that we shouldn't have to worry about what size our men want us. But, I'll throw it back at you...LADIES, what size to you prefer your men????

    Didn't mean to go off, but I needed to set it straight!!
  • Laura8603
    Laura8603 Posts: 590 Member
    I think the intent of the OP was to show that we women do not have to be a size 0 in order to be sexy. Most men like curves. We need to be easier on ourselves and not drive ourselves crazy trying to reach some impossible goal.
  • TeutonicKnight
    TeutonicKnight Posts: 367 Member
    6'7" 210lbs is my ideal woman. I am 5'8 1/2" 181lbs.

    KIDDING!

    I like a woman who can look in the mirror and be happy with her own self image. THAT IS SEXY! IF she is happy at a size 14, that is a lot sexier than a woman not happy with her Size 4 body.
  • curvy and voluptuous, a woman that is happy in her own skin and is happy with herself is all that is really important to me, if SHE and again she is the only one that can make this descion, if she wants to change something about herself, whatever it may be e.g. job,lifestyle choices, anything in her life, as long as it is a safe descion I will support her 100%. I think the world puts too much pressure on women to look a certain way and that in my opinion is just plain wrong. ACCEPT EVERYBODY AND LOVE EVERYBODY FOR WHO THEY ARE ON THE INSIDE, IT WILL MAKE THEM EVEN MORE BEAUTIFUL ON THE OUTSIDE WHEN YOU LOOK AT THEIR HEART, THAT IS THE TRUE DEFINITION OF WHERE BEAUTY COMES FROM! BEAUTIFUL WOMEN COME IN ALL SHAPES AND SIZES, BUT THE TRUE DEFINITION OF BEAUTY FOR ME IS WHAT IS IN HER HEART
  • lelliebugh
    lelliebugh Posts: 340 Member
    The real answer is, there's a lid for every pot. Different men like different things! Some men are very picky, others are very open and accepting. Just like some men are kind, loving and supportive, while others are massive *kitten*. There's men out there who love big breasts, small breasts, tall gals, short chicks, shy girls, outgoing girls, nerdy girls (that one is surprisingly popular IMO) and dumb girls too, long hair, short hair, high heels, trail shoes, religious, atheist. . . and some guys like thin girls and some guys like a thick sister. This is because each person is unique. So it ultimately doesn't matter what "men" want, because that whole question is way too broad to even be meaningful. Somewhere out there is a man who will be smitten to his knees by what you have to offer. While you are waiting for him to appear, get busy with trying to be your best self. Don't try to make yourself conform to some imaginary ideal that means nothing anyway. Just let your light shine with your own sweetness. The Universe will do the rest of the work for you and the man will arrive.

    LOVE THIS ANSWER
  • I think the intent of the OP was to show that we women do not have to be a size 0 in order to be sexy. Most men like curves. We need to be easier on ourselves and not drive ourselves crazy trying to reach some impossible goal.

    PREACH!
  • If you spend all of your time doing exactly what men want you to do you will probably very sore, and very tired.

    And with scabbed knees.... Yes I went there. Ha!
    hahaha naughty !
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