Publicly humiliating someone is mental.

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  • lisakyle_11
    lisakyle_11 Posts: 420 Member
    what a complete LOSER. and i am *sure* he was God's gift, right?

    ugh. you are doing great.
  • mizzdivat
    mizzdivat Posts: 67 Member
    Let ignorant haters like that be your motivation. Keep it pushing girl :wink:
  • Ruthe314
    Ruthe314 Posts: 18 Member
    Two words....Tiny Penis!!!!!:laugh:
  • milkandtea
    milkandtea Posts: 116 Member
    Well, I think you're beautiful. I'm so sorry that happened to you! That douche sounds like a real winner.
  • Gatominx
    Gatominx Posts: 61 Member
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  • dorseykm
    dorseykm Posts: 412 Member
    Kudos to you for your success and going out! The jerk doesn't deserve any more of your time or energy.
  • megmo_7
    megmo_7 Posts: 98 Member
    Isn't it amazing how rude and hateful people can be. I was always fit until a health issue, several "friends" told me I could no longer be friends with them because now I repulsed all the hot guys. I have been mooed at, oinked at, was walking down the street and it had just rained a group of kids hit a puddle on purpose with the car they were in and yelled "that's what pigs get". I am so sorry you had to go through that, I am sure you looked STUNNING!!! Please just rock it that you have lost weight and continue on your journey. Gosh I am so riled up because some *kitten* called you that!
  • RedBull0512
    RedBull0512 Posts: 20
    You should be proud of what you have accomplished, I mean, 27 lbs loss is awesome and I have to say; I need to lose about 16 lbs and I wish I had the will power you do. I am sure you looked beautiful in your heels, it is a pity people so thick should exist as not to be able to acknowledge a beautiful women walking right pass them.
  • Karrix
    Karrix Posts: 288
    People are cruel. It only reflects on how ugly they are on the inside.

    I have had people put me down, but I never let them get to me. Rise above them, you're beautiful. :flowerforyou:
  • MooMooooo
    MooMooooo Posts: 306 Member
    I have too much class to have graced him with a response, but I'm enjoying reading yours (:

    My advice is to learn to answer back.

    This is based on personal experience, I am a really shy person and people can sense my vulnerability - I have been heckled in public many, many times.

    It sucks majorly. No, I mean it REALLY, REALLY SUCKS.

    Answering back is the best idea I ever had - because the people that do it are looking for an easy target, the last thing they want or expect is an answer back.

    Yes, they are BULLIES, and the one thing bullies have in common is cowardice.

    I have found that a really loud '**** OFF, YOU ****FACE' works well.

    They are always SHOCKED - I do it every time I get heckled in public now.

    It's a million times better than just copping it sweet.
  • carolemack
    carolemack Posts: 1,276 Member
    What goes around comes around. Someday he will find that karma is a bi**h!

    You are absolutely beautiful...don't let the a**holes get you down.
  • RedBull0512
    RedBull0512 Posts: 20
    I'm sorry you had to go through that. :(
  • firedragon064
    firedragon064 Posts: 1,082 Member
    It has nothing to do with you. It's all about that a**hole.
    People who have misery lives, would feel better about their sorry lives if they can make other people suffer.

    NOBODY can hurt you WITHOUT your permission - Gandhi.
  • jayraycee
    jayraycee Posts: 33
    Small Penis Syndrome!
  • chellabella26
    chellabella26 Posts: 45
    I have been heckled when out exercising...which makes a ton sense, lol. I have also been heckled when my children were with me. I agree with a previous poster that we should speak up and not let these fools get away with this childish and hurtful behavior!
  • Cold_Steel
    Cold_Steel Posts: 897 Member
    I think my favorite heckling moment in my life was I was walking my dog and I see this woman walking and a guy in a truck drives by and slows down to say something like "hey fatty... blah blah blah or something" his truck crapped out on him and he ended up getting stuck in the middle of the road. Instant karma... truck was smoking.
  • Finally22
    Finally22 Posts: 305 Member
    Oh - what a jerk!!!! You be proud of what you've done so far - don't you worry everyone gets what they deserve in the end!
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
    I just wish the law made exceptions for the murder of loud mouths like him. It would greatly improve our societies. Clearly he deserves to have a pack of rabid dogs tear his tongue out and eat it in front of him, but unfortunately, he will simply have to go on living a life so miserable and full of insecurities that he can only carry on by verbally attacking strangers in public.
  • Dawn3218
    Dawn3218 Posts: 80
    I'd have said that's WHY DISGUSTING UGLY MEN like you ought to stay away from alcohol.

    And he WAS repulsive looking!
    Like I don't set the bar very high, looks aren't at the top of my list but I wouldn't have even given this guy a chance if he bought me a drink...

    I dont know what mirror you are looking in - you have a lovely face!! You should congratulate yourself for how much you've lost so far and keep going - you will have the last laugh when idiots like him will be attempting to chat you up and they wont stand a cat-in-hells chance!!
  • Kymmu
    Kymmu Posts: 1,650 Member
    We can change our appearance but that guy will live his miserable life as a d/bag.
    No one of any character will ever have anything to do with him.
    He is doomed to be an *kitten* for the rest of his pathetic life.
    You my darling will go from strength to strength!
  • XXXMinnieXXX
    XXXMinnieXXX Posts: 3,459 Member
    Aw that's just awful. A tramp asked me for money once, when I said I didn't have any, he said 'don't want money of a transvestite anyway'. Really effected me and I was convinced I looked like a transvestite. Still runs through my head now. Please don't let this effect you like this. They are just mean spiteful idiots. Like so many people have said hell probably always be a as*hole. Please try to ignore him, although I really know its easier said than done x
  • katherinemm31
    katherinemm31 Posts: 163
    Once, when I was teaching, I got heckled. I had the students removed from the class. It has never happened again. Too bad you couldn't have had this bully removed.
  • SunKissed86
    SunKissed86 Posts: 51
    This is absolutely ridiculous!!! Gave me chills and tears to my eyes. People should really reevaluate their lives if they think it's necessary to say such cruel crap!!!!
    Walking by on the way to the bar a guy yelled "That's why fat girls should never come out."
    I felt so disgusted I no longer wanted the drink and went home.
  • jesska812
    jesska812 Posts: 102 Member
    That is so awful that you had to go through that. From your profile picture you look like an amazingly beautiful girl who I'm sure looked stunning when you went out. That thing obviously has his own issues and to make himself feel better he decided to pick on someone else - that instantly shows he has the mentality of a child! And just saying the earlier comments regarding his manhood are most probably right.....

    Please please don't let his cruel stupid thoughtless words affect you - keep dressing up, I say go for even higher heels next time ;) and make sure you achieve your goals!! You can do it!! And if you ever see him again make sure you buy that drink and proceed to throw it in his face.
  • KyleB65
    KyleB65 Posts: 1,196 Member
    When I was young I was that a@#hole!

    Then I got older and loaded on the weight and got a taste of the other side of the equation!

    There is no excuse for my behavior in my youth but today I am working on being a better person.

    I am truly heartbroken that you have suffered at the whim of the ignorant.

    That you have taken charge of your life and are working hard to be healthy is inspirational. Although it is cold comfort, the advice I have given my children as they have dealt with similar people: Ignore the opinions of the people whom you do not know or respect. It is the opinion of the people who know and care about you that is important.

    All the best on your journey!
  • mmarlow61
    mmarlow61 Posts: 112 Member
    Sadly there are people who are so miserable with their own lives that they HAVE to try to make others miserable to make themselves feel good. (I work with one.) I have found that NOT letting them get to you (and yes, it IS hard) is the key. Next time, just say "Bless his lil ole pea picking heart" then go on about your business and do NOT let it stop you! You have come a LONG way and made AWESOME progress. Don't let a dimwit knock you down.
  • Buddhasmiracle
    Buddhasmiracle Posts: 925 Member
    you didn´t deserved to be treated that way. It tell more about the kind of men he is and has nothing to do about your self worth. Hug

    This.
    what comes out of some peoples' mouths says everything about them and nothing about you. It's just awful to have your feelings hurt that way. Remember it's his problem, and his problem does not diminish who you are.
  • walkingitaway
    walkingitaway Posts: 4
    Sorry that happen to you just smile you know he is just a *kitten* x
  • mjoysmith81
    mjoysmith81 Posts: 5
    Oh wow, that must have been hard. I can totally understand where you are coming from. When I was younger I was made fun of a lot because of my weight. Many mean things were said to me. As I have gotten older and had many more life experiences, this is what I have come to know about people like that. People that say things like that in reality really don't like themselves. It makes them feel better to make other people feel how they feel about themselves. Sick, I know.. He actually has some real self esteem issues and in the end, he looks like the jerk because of what he decided to blurt out in room of people. He is a miserable son of you know what, and pay no more attention to that. I know it hurts, but you are doing great! The wonderful thing about the world is that we come in all shapes and sizes! If we were all exactly a like the world would be VERY BORING! So continue to love yourself and keep up the hard work you are accomplishing! You are motivating me because you have lost 25 lbs.!! Do you know how hard that is? I have been struggling with losing that same amount for a long time, You already did it!! Have a great day and I want to add you as a friend :wink:
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
    It has nothing to do with you. It's all about that a**hole.
    People who have misery lives, would feel better about their sorry lives if they can make other people suffer.

    NOBODY can hurt you WITHOUT your permission - Gandhi.

    Exactly.

    Unless this guy has proven his opinion to be worth listening to or considering then...don't.

    Nothing to do with you, everything to do with him. Don't assume the weight of other people's problems as your own.

    It's of no importance.
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