Would you date someone whose religion is different than your

SClausen2012

Before I was married I heard about how hard marriage and life can be. Still I had stars in my eyes concerning marriage.

I've been married over a decade now, to a fantastic Christian man. Life hasn't been easy, and if we weren't able to come together before God, united in prayer, I don't think we would've lasted, no matter how great my husband is. Going to church together, praying at home together- this is the glue that has gotten us through troubled times.

I have a friend whose mother married a great guy. He supported her church activities, and allowed his children to go as well. My friend worried on a daily basis on whether her dad was going to hell or not, because he was agnostic. Her parents marriage was strong, and her father was a very caring man, yet it hurt to see the pain this caused my friend.

soccerella

Athesists makes me sad.:frown: I feel bad that they do notblive in Jesus Christ. You all should rent or find the DVD series th Turth project and tat might open your eyes. Hell isscary adni woul dno want to face it. Will be praying for ALL athesists tonight

People that are atheists are usually atheists because of the extensive research done on religion.

if they did their "extensive" research they would see that God is real and that he sent his only son down to save us from sin. They would see he does exist. it is called faith

Proving something and faith are two completely different things. You cannot prove that God exists, you just have faith and believe He does


Interestingly in science we do the same thing. No matter what my findings may be, I will never "prove" anything. You simply cant. All you can do is fail to disprove your hypothesis and thus why everything is called scientific theory :flowerforyou:

katiew00t

Every religion is equally silly, so it doesn't really bother me if I date someone who believes in talking bushes or the Easter bunny or whatever floats their boat.

I could see it as being an issue in the long term, though. The majority of Americans who are casually religious in the "well, I guess it couldn't hurt" sense aren't all that bad, but the devout tend to have that really annoying habit of wanting to convert you. Off your high horses, wackos, there's no god that is going to throw someone in a pit of fire for eternity for not agreeing with you.

I'm curious why you couldn't just give your opinion without ridiculing and calling devout Christians wackos. It always amuses me how some non-believers come off as so angry with a religion they don't even believe in. You okay, there?

I'm okay, thank you! I knew that there would be some haters out there. I'm grateful for all the positive and non-judgmental responses.

My1985Freckles

After all I've said this far, I could not be in a relationship with a religious nut.

You do realise that the OP is a Christian!

I don't think she wants to hear you name calling "stupid, nut" Christians etc in here, so bugger off!

There are always a few in here...

I never said anyone was stupid... but you should get off your high horse, your arguments on this topic are pretty irrelevant
:flowerforyou:

The term "religious nut" is offensive.

sjmgde

Athesists makes me sad.:frown: I feel bad that they do notblive in Jesus Christ. You all should rent or find the DVD series th Turth project and tat might open your eyes. Hell isscary adni woul dno want to face it. Will be praying for ALL athesists tonight

People that are atheists are usually atheists because of the extensive research done on religion.

if they did their "extensive" research they would see that God is real and that he sent his only son down to save us from sin. They would see he does exist. it is called faith

It's called faith, not fact. You just agreed with me.

Yor faith in the bible is fact and your faith on beleiveing is called fact. I feel bad for you that you cant see what i am talking about. Believing in God and his word an all the great things he has done for us is an amazing feeling. He loves you so much and all that you do right or wrong and i do know this for a FACT

CannibalisticVegetarian

I think that I could actually have a meaningful relationship with someone whose religion was different from mines... as long as they aren't super pushy about it. I'm agnostic and living in the bible belt as is.. so I already tend to catch hell from others in the community. I'd hate to think that I have to fight my significant other tooth and nail because while he 'accepts' me, he wants to try and tweak my beliefs a bit and slowly mold me into that strong believer. It's not impossible though. There just needs to be leverage.

BlackStarlight

I will also add at this point that all the bashing from all sides isnt pleasent to read or helping the OP any. To you huni I'll say this... The choice is ultimately yours and I wish you all the luck in making it work xx

Tanyawhite30

After all I've said this far, I could not be in a relationship with a religious nut.

You do realise that the OP is a Christian!

I don't think she wants to hear you name calling "stupid, nut" Christians etc in here, so bugger off!

There are always a few in here...

Wow there girl....I dont think she called OP a stupid nut.......Calm down....I take it you`re Christian???

AmberJslimsAWAY

After all I've said this far, I could not be in a relationship with a religious nut.

lol, I dated one once, it was a blast! I used to piss her off so bad. it was fun ;p

THAT could be fun! lol

rml_16

After all I've said this far, I could not be in a relationship with a religious nut.

You do realise that the OP is a Christian!

I don't think she wants to hear you name calling "stupid, nut" Christians etc in here, so bugger off!

There are always a few in here...

I never said anyone was stupid... but you should get off your high horse, your arguments on this topic are pretty irrelevant
:flowerforyou:

The term "religious nut" is offensive.

Some religious people ARE "nuts." But a lot of atheists are, too. Neither side has a monopoly on nuttism or judmentalism.

AmberJslimsAWAY

After all I've said this far, I could not be in a relationship with a religious nut.

You do realise that the OP is a Christian!

I don't think she wants to hear you name calling "stupid, nut" Christians etc in here, so bugger off!

There are always a few in here...

I never said anyone was stupid... but you should get off your high horse, your arguments on this topic are pretty irrelevant
:flowerforyou:

The term "religious nut" is offensive.

and it was not directed to anyone here. If you took offense, that's on you

Sascha

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manderson27

Athesists makes me sad.:frown: I feel bad that they do notblive in Jesus Christ. You all should rent or find the DVD series th Turth project and tat might open your eyes. Hell isscary adni woul dno want to face it. Will be praying for ALL athesists tonight

People that are atheists are usually atheists because of the extensive research done on religion.

You don't need to be sad for me sweetie. I live a happy joyful fulfilling life surrounded by people who love me and who I love in return. So save your prayers for other beleivers please. When I die I will be gone completely. No Hell or Heaven but I will leave behind me a legacy of love that my family can pass on to their children. THAT is true imortality.

papa3x

When I was about 17 I wanted to date a Jewish girl. I showed up at her house for a date and I guess her dad had other ideas. He told me that she was only allowed to date Jewish boys.

WhittRak

So, Jello anyone?

Momma1213

It's possible but not easy. Clear communication and ground rules need to be established and respected just like finances and chores. Nothing in life worth doing comes easy and if you both find that despite your opposing beliefs you love each other and are willing to make a go of it, then be honest with each other and never stop. Good luck to you regardless of your decision.

OLFATUG

So, Jello anyone?

Jello shots?

Kubiastic

I have not read the 19 pages of previous posts, I would not date somebody who was a different religion. My beliefs are strong and even though I sometimes lose my way and stray off my path it is what I TRY to live my life by. If somebody else purposely lived their life differently I do not think I could spend my life with them and that is the only reason I would date at this time was looking for future marriage.

rml_16

So, Jello anyone?

Jello shots?

Sometimes it's sad being a vegetarian.

WhittRak

So, Jello anyone?

Jello shots?

Sure!!!

Gwendalyne

This could go on and on and on...back and forth w/a debate on both sides.
If you believe in God, then ask God what you should do. Search the scriptures b/c the bible talks about this. There are those who believe and don't believe. I believe. God is the foundation of my marriage and my personal belief is that I wouldn't have the marriage I have w/out God in both of our lives.

Let the Word of God be the final say in your life b/c He is who you believe in.

soccerella

So, Jello anyone?

Jello shots?

I have irish car bomb cupcakes left over from this weekend I can pass around :drinker:

AmberJslimsAWAY

Athesists makes me sad.:frown: I feel bad that they do notblive in Jesus Christ. You all should rent or find the DVD series th Turth project and tat might open your eyes. Hell isscary adni woul dno want to face it. Will be praying for ALL athesists tonight

People that are atheists are usually atheists because of the extensive research done on religion.

if they did their "extensive" research they would see that God is real and that he sent his only son down to save us from sin. They would see he does exist. it is called faith

It's called faith, not fact. You just agreed with me.

Yor faith in the bible is fact and your faith on beleiveing is called fact. I feel bad for you that you cant see what i am talking about. Believing in God and his word an all the great things he has done for us is an amazing feeling. He loves you so much and all that you do right or wrong and i do know this for a FACT

Faith does not equal fact, no matter how you twist it.

xosmsox

I'm THRILLED to see all the outspoken atheists! It used to be such a stigma I'm so happy we are all coming out of the proverbial closet!

SClausen2012

This is an interesting discussion. So often, I have found on internet forums a lot of name calling, anger and belittling concerning religion (on all sides). I am elated to see the discussion on this thread more respectful, simply sharing thoughts and perspective.

In the discussion of logic- I do find it interesting that some of the greatest scientists (Newton, Copernicus, Descartes) in our history were people of faith. It seems even Einstein believed some type of creator- albeit much different than the common Judeo-Christian perspective. The importance here isn't so much on the who's who of religious thought but why. Why logical and fantastically intelligent people believed in a creator, or at least allowed for the existence of one? Why do we, as a human race, strive for the unseen? Why do we universally try to make sense of things, strive for a logic? If survival of the fittest is all there is and everything is dependent on chance, how can a conscience or morality exist? Why are we so caught up on "good and evil" themes in our histories and entertainment? Why do we like to root for the underdog?

sjmgde

This could go on and on and on...back and forth w/a debate on both sides.
If you believe in God, then ask God what you should do. Search the scriptures b/c the bible talks about this. There are those who believe and don't believe. I believe. God is the foundation of my marriage and my personal belief is that I wouldn't have the marriage I have w/out God in both of our lives.

Let the Word of God be the final say in your life b/c He is who you believe in.

I 2nd that

SaketoKim

Religious differences can be overcome if there is enough love. With that said... I am not religous but would totally respect my partners right to practice their religion. Jello shots! Great Irish Car bomb even better!

getfitdiva

This could go on and on and on...back and forth w/a debate on both sides.
If you believe in God, then ask God what you should do. Search the scriptures b/c the bible talks about this. There are those who believe and don't believe. I believe. God is the foundation of my marriage and my personal belief is that I wouldn't have the marriage I have w/out God in both of our lives.

Let the Word of God be the final say in your life b/c He is who you believe in.

Absolutely!

LatinaButterfly

My answer is no, I would never date outside my religion.

AmberJslimsAWAY

Religious differences can be overcome if there is enough love. With that said... I am not religous but would totally respect my partners right to practice their religion. Jello shots! Great Irish Car bomb even better!

:drinker: I want some jello shots!!!!