silly things that attracts you ...

xxTAMxx

~ Cheeky smirk with crows feet around the eyes (think Simon Baker)
~ Someone that looks like they can pick me up
~ Hairy chest
~ That 3 day growth look
~ Men wearing those fluro work shirts
~ Tattoos - black ink only

Cameron_1969

A girl who can make me laugh. . . or just gets my humor and can take one look at me that tells me "you're and idiot. . but that's why I love you"

AliciaBeth78

I am most attracted to the silly, goofy, sarcastic and smart guy.... So basically if a guy can make me laugh and hold an intellectual conversation with me, I'm swooning!

Tkwild

Brains, sense of humour, great smelling, and even more so - curls at the nape of the neck.

mousecat84

Men in uniform who wear tucked in shirts and belts. Be it a polo and shorts or long sleeve shirt and trousers; proper uniforms or business casual. Ohh yea...

I also love how my fiancé can act completely crazy and be so silly!

Neets86

Dark haired guys ooft! Sort of like the tall, dark and handsome thang going on! haha
A guy that's moderately tall too. Quite rugged...I don't like for a guy to be too clean shaven.. ;D

BUT most importantly? Of course the biggest turn on would be intelligence. :')

Throw in an accent, and ill be in heaven

Cold_Steel

Eye glasses... for whatever reason it is a fetish...

Really strange...

The way a woman eats... I will refuse to be a friend if you eat with your mouth open, talk incessantly while eating (spitting) and or doing any other assorted disgusting food - related process... Loud lip smacking, etc. When I see someone eating cleanly and whatever, very attractive.

Especially meat, that animal was already most likely electrocuted then beheaded... for you to be slobbering all over it is such a turn off !

Tybalt71

single moms they need love to, MILFS!!!!!!!! oh and chicks that ride bikes, love them-Ty

rammsteinsoldier

Tattoos
Strong hands
Hard hats
Dry sense of humor

ARMom8251

smell- if he smells good
grease smear on the t shirt (not like pizza grease, but car grease!)
the smell of engines on him -snowmobile or lawnmower
sweat. not gross drenched sweat, but if he is glistening, oh yes

geez, i guess it sounds like i like dirty boys!

This for me too, and I do like them a little dirty

deniseselah

the voice! love a deep voice. and don't put an accent or drawl in it (*blush*...*swoon*... repeat). and the way a guy laughs.
and +1 on eternity cologne or anything sandalwood-y.... but that goes without saying.

wow it is early in the morning for THIS conversation!

deniseselah

A girl who can make me laugh. . . or just gets my humor and can take one look at me that tells me "you're and idiot. . but that's why I love you"

when I call a close male friend an 'idiot' it's a term of endearment!

LButterfly201

Strong and protective
Hairy chest
Rough and ready

Yum!!! ♥

emma2309

Things that I noticed about my honey

1) He has a certain swag about him. It was not cockiness but a cool confidence
2) he has the MOST amazing shoulders in the whole world
3) he towered over me by a foot
4) the freckles across the bridge of his nose

These are all things I find attractive on most men, but he just did them better lol

There better be another one of these guys out there-this is my list!!!!Hahaha!

deniseselah

This is the most depressing thread I've read yet on MFP. It seems that women are more cliche about their turn-ons than I thought. It guess it's no wonder that the covers of romance novels look the way they do.

In most ways, I'm pretty much the opposite of the consensus here:

-My hands are not rough and are relatively small
-I don't like working on cars and hate getting my hands dirty
-I have no tattoos and will never have any
-I have a white-colllar tech job where getting dirty is not involved
-I'm 5'11", so I just miss the whole 6' and over thing
-I don't wear wife-beaters
-The only time I really sweat is when I workout
-I hate country music
-I drive a Ford Focus and wouldn't consider/need a pickup truck
-I'm painfully shy and come close to selective mutism when talking to an attractive girl, though it's gotten better with age
-I have no gray hair and won't likely have any for a long time (my mom is 68 and just now is starting to get gray hairs)

I do have some things going for me that conform with the consensus:

-I have a cleft chin
-I wear Eternity cologne from time to time
-I have dimples when I smile
-I have all of my hair
-I have continuous stubble because I hate to shave and I like how it looks
-I'm not metro
-I'm not a pushover by any means. I'm extremely strong-willed.
-I have other endowments of a private nature that aren't fit for public discussion, but lets just say they border on super powers

It's amazing that I've even had a date in my life. Thank goodness there are some geek lovers out there. It just seems that few of them come to MFP.

As for my silly attractions:

-Intelligence. A smart girl bumps her hotness level up five points. Sometimes I'll watch Jeopardy and there will be an reasonably attractive woman on there. I'm usually smitten.
-Sense of humor. Another huge turn-on.
-Braces. Since I was a kid I've always thought braces were cute. Still do.
-A really cute pony tail is a big turn-on
-Like other guys, I like girls who can pull off the ball cap look
-Glasses. Not hipster oversize glasses but normal ones
-A nice butt....big or small it just has to be there and have some shape. Some girls who are otherwise in shape and attractive have flat, shapeless butts. This is a deal-breaker.
-Sun dresses. They accentuate everything I love about women.
-A girl who plays with her hair while waiting at a stop light
-Geekiness. I love me some female geeks. My ideal girl is Kari Byron on Mythbusters.
-Girl-next-doorness if that's a word, and I'm pretty sure it's not

dude! +1 for geeks! remember, the first word in the post's title *is* 'silly' so don't go being down on yourself I fall for dudes in the 'geek' category because I'm a geek too. The smarter, the better. I've been single for a long time (LONG time. did I mention a loooooong time? :huh: ) and I've learned the hard way that the best way to *stay* single is to walk around with a checklist of 'what makes guys/girls hot' - sure, initial attraction exists, but it doesn't lead to ongoing chemistry and lasting love/affection. Several of the things I listed I found attractive *after* I got to know the person. Still, I enjoy seeing a thread like this and reading everyone's responses.

/soapbox

coachblt

WOMEN - silly ones, of course.

ARMom8251

Rough and ready

Yum!!! ♥

LMAO, but I totally agree!

Alma_Sana

smell-cologne
guys that wear A-shirts(wife beaters)
motorcycles
broad shoulders

THis! Having an edge. Also Personality. He has to have a good sense of humor and be fun to be around. Having a serious side sometimes is good too.

StephanieDJL

When they smell good
Tattoos
Good shoes!
Hands - big palms, long fingers, bitten/short nails
Confidence, a little bit of 'swag'
Dimples
Use of correct grammar/spelling
Competence, nothing better than watching someone do something they're good at
Over 6'2 although over 6'5 is better! (I'm a giantess)
A man in a well tailored suit
Firemen
Broad shoulders, a nice neck & big arms nnggh!

I could go on for days, I'm clearly a pervert haha

jennifer52484

I think I found _snw_'s perfect gift for her man.

OMG where can i buy this??

Faye_Anderson

Haven't read all the responses but a couple on the first page describe the guy who lives on the bus station :laugh:

kate_sunflower

Haven't read all the responses but a couple on the first page describe the guy who lives on the bus station :laugh:

I was thinking the same thing hahaha!

Ok, my turn:
-Good sunglasses - not talking expensive, just saying guys are hot to me in sunglasses
-I always notice a guys shoes first (not eyes.. nope sorry) and it can be a dealbreaker haha
-Guys that voluntarily cut their hair really, really short is a turn off - I like something I can run my hands through! (but not too long..)
-Good deodorant/cologne YUM

neverstray

I don't know if I'll describe this right but I'll try.

She walks in a room, and she has jeans that fit great and a tight crease. Kick *kitten* heels that look brand new and are killer awesome. Her hair is perfect and playful. Bright smile and warm heart. Well put together package and airs confidence.

When I see that, I want her so bad.

If she has tattoos, that's a big plus.

rensker

1. Rough hands - Big, callused, short (unmanicured) nails
2. A smile and a wink
3. BIG arms

My BF has/does all three... SO lucky!!!

BCKS

When my BF gives me a hug and leaves a slight scent of his cologne on me. Intoxicating!!
Also, when he's being funny and gives me this amazing smile and look in his eyes. Gets me EVERY time! :blushing:

Tybalt71

i love women, they need to be adored, hugged, kissed, loved, yummy-Ty

asgard825

Wild hair
Eyes
Strength (of personality)

CoryIda

I keep coming back here and looking for:
"A 5'10" woman with red hair, freckles, visible muscles, and some stretch marks on her tummy"
but I haven't found it yet. :sad:

_Christine_

I keep coming back here and looking for:
"A 5'10" woman with red hair, freckles, visible muscles, and some stretch marks on her tummy"
but I haven't found it yet. :sad:

I'm very attracted to you. You know, in a non-sexual, wish I was you kind of way.

DAM_Fine

i love women, they need to be adored, hugged, kissed, loved, yummy-Ty

And you know we love you for it.