im so tired of people who...

liftandcycle

say fit women look like men.. I mean really??!?! are we all supposed to be skinny fat? is that what a woman is supposed to look like?? are all women supposed to be weak and fragile bc if we have muscle tone we are immideatelly manly... screw all of you and your stupid points of view... stop hating and focus on yourselves! do you know how hard these women have to work for them to look the way they do?

Im embarrased... Im embarrased to be a women, bc of the way some women act and behave and the way they treat other women who are trying to live a healthy livestyle.. last time I checked lifting weight is healthy and being healthy has no gender.. I mean seriously b!tch.. forget you b!tches!

hating on a hater makes me a hater.. but guess what COME AT ME!


EDIT: I never said you have to be sexually attracted to fit women.. what I said is... you cannot be a dumb b!tch and go up to a woman who works sooo hard and tell her she looks like a man.. the same way you dont go up to a fat person and call them a pig..
**** sorry for the confusion.. these pics arent of me.. im not that amazing looking im working to get there tho***

cyncetastic

I got my first "you look like a dude" comment last week. I honestly had to roll my eyes.

pander101

Well said!

MJ7910

did someone say something to you specifically, or is this just in general people's attitudes?

lizard053

I got my first "you look like a dude" comment last week. I honestly had to roll my eyes.

You definitely don't look like a dude to me! LOL!

Some people are just ignorant and think that super-model-anorexic look is beautiful. Just ignore 'em! They aren't worth the effort!

~It would be nice if I could spell things right the first time around...

shedoos

Amen

MyTime1985

Women typically suck. I avoid them even though I am one. :bigsmile:

candykay0605

if being strong makes me look like a guy.. then so be it lol I LOVE how SEXY my shoulders look with the lean muscles I have... cant wait till everything looks that way!

healthyliving_girl

Can I look like you, pretty please?

....for real though. I'm working on it. Thanks for the inspiration!

softballsharie

I sense anger...

TexanThom

Whatever happened to having your own opinion? YOU might look like a dude to some people, if so, they have a right to think that.

412HeavyLifter

EFF them haters!!!

CookieCrumble

Really? Why do you care what people think or say when they make generalisations? Is your personal point of self reference so wishy-washy that you can't just ignore this, or tune it out?

Never mind the little things, do your own thing and don't allow a surfeit of compliments or criticisms to change your course.

Women should do what they feel is right for them, regardless of what they look like, and without looking for constant reassurance that will never be forthcoming - THAT'S how women should be.

Birder150

I sense anger...

lol ... yup.

HJCsDaddy

I have this exact arguement with some of my buddies all the time. Personally, I am a HUGE fan of ripped women! there is little else more bad *kitten* than a woman who exudes confidence, determination and will power (before I get my face ripped off, no I am not exluding non-ripped women from the previous adjectives). People talk $hi+ about them becasue they are completely envious, nothing else.

liftandcycle

Whatever happened to having your own opinion? YOU might look like a dude to some people, if so, they have a right to think that.

does this also mean I have the right to go up to a fat person and tell them flat out that they look like a pig? Im not saying you have to be sexualy attracted to fit women! im sayign its rude to be a stu!pd B!TCH and tell a woman that she looks like a man! DUHHHH!

rblauvelt7

Can I have those thighs? Please please please! And I hate comments about women being "manly" because of muscles. People need to grow up.

softballsharie

Maybe, they're not actually hating? Society has been trained to feel this way, whether it be wrong or right. Men typically have big muscles (knight in shining armor) and women are delicate little pansies (snow white). They might just be saying, hey, you look like what society has taught me to think should be manly. So instead of taking it as an insult, maybe try educating them. They just may not know that it is healthy to have muscles.

cekeys

I sense anger...

Anger leads to hate,

hate... leads to suffering.

bebreli

I sense anger...

lol ... yup.

Maybe it's too much testosterone ;o)

lickmybaconcakes

say fit women look like men.. I mean really??!?! are we all supposed to be skinny fat? is that what a woman is supposed to look like?? are all women supposed to be weak and fragile bc if we have muscle tone we are immideatelly manly... screw all of you and your stupid points of view... stop hating and focus on yourselves! do you know how hard these women have to work for them to look the way they do?

Im embarrased... Im embarrased to be a women, bc of the way some women act and behave and the way they treat other women who are trying to live a healthy livestyle.. last time I checked lifting weight is healthy and being healthy has no gender.. I mean seriously b!tch.. forget you b!tches!

hating on a hater makes me a hater.. but guess what COME AT ME!

You have very aesthetic abdominals , they look very good.

Haters are gonna hate .

jl622

Your stomach is unbelievably amazing. Like everyone else said "haters gonna hate"

rmsrws

I don't see where you resemble a dude at all you have lean toned defined muscles. That is what I want. I don't want to be huge and bulky. I'd gladly take what you have. There will always be haters no matter what, its society! The most important thing is that you are happy with you!!!

softballsharie

mmmm ::clicks over to mfp from Old Republic:: Yoda's such a cutie.


Also, I'm not ashamed to say that before starting my journey and joining this site, I would have said the same thing about you. I had no idea that it was natural for a woman to have defined muscles. I always thought they needed some type of hormone therapy or steroids to do so. I now know better, but I honestly thought that these women were destroying their bodies, and I would insult them because I thought they were setting a bad example for healthy.

Dimplybutt

Really? Why do you care what people think or say when they make generalisations? Is your personal point of self reference so wishy-washy that you can't just ignore this, or tune it out?

Never mind the little things, do your own thing and don't allow a surfeit of compliments or criticisms to change your course.

Women should do what they feel is right for them, regardless of what they look like, and without looking for constant reassurance that will never be forthcoming - THAT'S how women should be.

^ ^ This

minadeathclutch

I have gotten called a man more than 10 times in the last week.... its pretty funny. i got called that online by a bunch of anorexic girls and then by a bunch of thugs...

they said " this guy is a ****"
and "you sir are an *kitten*"

and "this guy needs to go back to lifting weights and stfu"

hillarious.

i must be doing something right.

HJCsDaddy

Whatever happened to having your own opinion? YOU might look like a dude to some people, if so, they have a right to think that.

does this also mean I have the right to go up to a fat person and tell them flat out that they look like a pig? Im not saying you have to be sexualy attracted to fit women! im sayign its rude to be a stu!pd B!TCH and tell a woman that she looks like a man! DUHHHH!

THIS X2!!!

BruteSquad

I would say most women that say it are jealous. I would say most men that say it are jealous and threatened.
If a man ever accuses you of it, I am pretty sure you can tell them that it is false, you look much better than any man.

You look great, but you know that I would be unable to confuse your gender.

I have seen a women that look like men, but that is what they were going for.

minadeathclutch

Amen

OMG MY IDOL!

ewells2420

You DO look manly. Sorry.

Anayalata

Really? Why do you care what people think or say when they make generalisations? Is your personal point of self reference so wishy-washy that you can't just ignore this, or tune it out?

Never mind the little things, do your own thing and don't allow a surfeit of compliments or criticisms to change your course.

Women should do what they feel is right for them, regardless of what they look like, and without looking for constant reassurance that will never be forthcoming - THAT'S how women should be.

+1. the constant need for approval is something I've never understood about women. Ignore the idiots and move on.