im so tired of people who...
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Im embarrased... Im embarrased to be a women, bc of the way some women act and behave and the way they treat other women who are trying to live a healthy livestyle.. last time I checked lifting weight is healthy and being healthy has no gender.. I mean seriously b!tch.. forget you b!tches!
hating on a hater makes me a hater.. but guess what COME AT ME!
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Amusing blog. With or without muscles I could never look like a man because I am a woman. Everyone is entitled to their opinions and if you are walking with bulging muscles just be prepared for the criticism. With all the strength of muscles so should your emotions. I once had a manager comment on my sister in law's wedding pic in her gown. She said she had big hips but she said it like it was a bad thing. Culturally speaking in some circles hips are a sure asset for many reasons. . ..but she didn't understand and I said nothing. Just like those that say a woman with great muscle looks like a man. Their perception their opinion. .eh!0
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I WANNA LOOK LIKE A DUDE, PICK ME0 -
If you really didn't care what people thought you wouldn't be raging and making a scene like that. What you do with your body is your business but people are entitled to their opinion. I must say that I believe you have put much effort to tone your body like that but I would never want to look like you do. It's not gross or disgusting, or unwomanly, it's just a question of taste. Does it means I'm skinny fat? No, I work out and take good care of my body as much as anyone here. You're the one being judgemental here.0
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I think there are two things that happen when people hate on muscular women.
1. For some people, they equate womanly and feminine with a certain waist to hip ratio and a certain bust size
2. Many muscular women, besides having a low body fat percentage are also women who have a different body type than the stereotypical feminine one above
So they criticize because muscular women do not fit their image of "womanly."
Everyone has a different opinion on what is womanly, and not all people are tactful about expressing it.0 -
**** sorry for the confusion.. these pics arent of me.. im not that amazing looking
im working to get there tho***
This is the most confusing thing to me about this whole thread.
Me too! Now I have to go back and re-read the whole thread with this new bit of information.
So worth it, though. This thread is hilarious :drinker:0 -
say fit women look like men.. I mean really??!?! are we all supposed to be skinny fat? is that what a woman is supposed to look like?? are all women supposed to be weak and fragile bc if we have muscle tone we are immideatelly manly... screw all of you and your stupid points of view... stop hating and focus on yourselves! do you know how hard these women have to work for them to look the way they do?
Im embarrased... Im embarrased to be a women, bc of the way some women act and behave and the way they treat other women who are trying to live a healthy livestyle.. last time I checked lifting weight is healthy and being healthy has no gender.. I mean seriously b!tch.. forget you b!tches!
hating on a hater makes me a hater.. but guess what COME AT ME!
EDIT: I never said you have to be sexually attracted to fit women.. what I said is... you cannot be a dumb b!tch and go up to a woman who works sooo hard and tell her she looks like a man.. the same way you dont go up to a fat person and call them a pig..
**** sorry for the confusion.. these pics arent of me.. im not that amazing looking im working to get there tho***
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lol @ all the jealous out of shape people hating on the OP.0
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Women typically suck. I avoid them even though I am one. :bigsmile:
^^ This. Except my pole sisters, they rock. (Seriously, until I started pole I only had one close female friend, now I have far more.)
I find that very sad. Just like some women attract bad men, I think some women put out an "abuse me" vibe to female rriends, and so attract lousy friends. I have more women friends than I can count and they're all awesome.0 -
^^^THIS!Photos 1 and 3 are completely unattractive to me (not that I'm into women lol). Pic 2 is fantastic. There's definition without complete absence of fat.
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My personal goal is to be slender and strong, but not to have overwhelming muscles like those in 1 and 3. Do those women work hard. Absolutely! I just don't think it is very attractive and don't think my hubby would want me to look like that.0 -
I find people who walk up to people just to insult them need a taste of their own medicine. Reply with something as equally insulting.0
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I got my first "you look like a dude" comment last week. I honestly had to roll my eyes.
Cutest guy I ever saw. LOL.0 -
Omg..your body is amazing!!!!!!0
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Fit does not immediately imply "muscly" as indicated in the photos that you posted. Just because I am not "muscly" like the photos that does not mean that I am "skinny fat" or "fat" or a "pig" or "ugly."
my1985...
you seem very upset or threatened by the OP, yet keep discussing it and tearing it apart. Can you please start your own thread to do so so we can keep this one clean. It's a rant. Since you still don't understand the point of the thread, let me reintroduce it to you:
OP posts that people need to be nice.
you are not acting nice - please leave.
to the op,
I've been told the same thing. Ignorant and foolish people will do anything for attention! You just smile and turn your back on them. If they do it again, you call BS on them, renouncing their labeling and declare your awesomeness in a very loud manner so the real men in the gym can step in.
What kind of person hates women or are "scared" by women? They have some very serious issues if a woman is scary to them!0 -
It's just good manners you wouldn't walk up to someone and say *anything* that is meant to be an insult. I mean, why would anyone do that? It's just good manners, which I think have, largely, gone by the wayside, especially on the internet.
That being said, I have seen everything from "anyone who thinks muscular women are attractive, must be stupid" to "anyone who doesn't think muscular women are attractive must be stupid". We all have our own opinion. Now, when someone posts a bunch of BIG photos in the forums and thinks they will only get praise and positive comments (no matter what they look like), they must be kidding themselves. Especially, with the intro title. It's like jerking a chain. I'm sure there are groups for women body builders to post and compare photos without fear of getting any negative comments, but to post in a public forum.. well.. see what you are going to get? It happens every time, so it shouldn't be a surprise.
Edit: I just went back and looked at the OP. I must say there is a confrontational attitude, not to mention some insults if a person doesn't like her body type. And..quote: <<."are all women supposed to be weak and fragile bc if we have muscle tone we are immideatelly manly... screw all of you and your stupid points of view.">> not to expect some negative response for this line is naive. I don't believe I saw even *one* person who said women should be weak and fragile.0 -
*sigh*
Why does there have to be competition?
Soft and curvy. Hard and toned? Something in between soft and hard? It's all good so long as the organs inside that body are nice and healthy. And yes, you can have a 'skinny fat' person who is perfectly healthy and a muscular person who is not healthy. It can happen. Either way, all healthy body shapes are beautiful, whether they're 'ideal' or not. And yes, even some overweight bodies are beautiful! (although I admit there is a limit...)
Let's just all calm down... shall we?
^^^^^ And this too!0 -
Fit does not immediately imply "muscly" as indicated in the photos that you posted. Just because I am not "muscly" like the photos that does not mean that I am "skinny fat" or "fat" or a "pig" or "ugly."
my1985...
you seem very upset or threatened by the OP, yet keep discussing it and tearing it apart. Can you please start your own thread to do so so we can keep this one clean. It's a rant. Since you still don't understand the point of the thread, let me reintroduce it to you:
OP posts that people need to be nice.
you are not acting nice - please leave.
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to the op,
I've been told the same thing. Ignorant and foolish people will do anything for attention! You just smile and turn your back on them. If they do it again, you call BS on them, renouncing their labeling and declare your awesomeness in a very loud manner so the real men in the gym can step in.
What kind of person hates women or are "scared" by women? They have some very serious issues if a woman is scary to them!
I officially love you! :flowerforyou:0 -
I'm not jealous nor am I out of shape. So, try again :flowerforyou:lol @ all the jealous out of shape people hating on the OP.0 -
Fit does not immediately imply "muscly" as indicated in the photos that you posted. Just because I am not "muscly" like the photos that does not mean that I am "skinny fat" or "fat" or a "pig" or "ugly."
my1985...
you seem very upset or threatened by the OP, yet keep discussing it and tearing it apart. Can you please start your own thread to do so so we can keep this one clean. It's a rant. Since you still don't understand the point of the thread, let me reintroduce it to you:
OP posts that people need to be nice.
you are not acting nice - please leave.
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to the op,
I've been told the same thing. Ignorant and foolish people will do anything for attention! You just smile and turn your back on them. If they do it again, you call BS on them, renouncing their labeling and declare your awesomeness in a very loud manner so the real men in the gym can step in.
What kind of person hates women or are "scared" by women? They have some very serious issues if a woman is scary to them!
You wouldn't want to see me "not nice." I gave the OP my opinion and she lashed back at me. She has called every woman who doesn't agree with her a B. So, no. I'm not leaving.0 -
To get a body like the OP posted for reference, you have to work pretty hard.
So hard in fact, that I really doubt they'd give two rat turds about someone else's opinion. At that level, you do what you need to do for yourself and leave all the BS opinons from others on the curb0 -
I'm not jealous nor am I out of shape. So, try again :flowerforyou:lol @ all the jealous out of shape people hating on the OP.
if you are not out of shape then my comment wasnt for you!
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Women typically suck. I avoid them even though I am one. :bigsmile:
^^ This. Except my pole sisters, they rock. (Seriously, until I started pole I only had one close female friend, now I have far more.)
wow. I could do an observational study on this thread alone from statements like this.
here's my theory:
It's posts like this one I quoted above that prove that the people who reply to this thread in a manner that has absolutely no context what so ever to the original point of the post have a high probability that they failed their English comprehension SAT or received a less than average score.
I'm not rude, I'm scientific!
(I learned that loophole here on MFP from all the low carb haters !!!)0 -
you cannot be a dumb b!tch and go up to a woman who works sooo hard and tell her she looks like a man.. the same way you dont go up to a fat person and call them a pig..
Except people DO go up to fat people, and call them worse than just a pig. If you want to be all bulked up, that's your choice, but it's also everyone else's choice to react to that however they want. Is it really worth freaking out on everyone?
But she is not bulked up, she has a solid amount of muscle and very little fat. It is the low body fat that makes her muscles look big, but I bet her arms are much smaller then most fat peoples' arms.
This. If lifting "bulks" a woman up it then that means she still has a healthy layer of body fat on her. And some women have large frames so to a woman with a small frame she might look "bulky". But the only way women can get muscles like a man is if she takes testosterone, HGH, steroids or something. I did two months of P90X (just the resistance/strength a couple of times a week) and got some really nice muscle definition. But I couldn't see it. When I went Primal as an experiment (I got the shock of my life actually but N=1 so I'm not going there) I lost body fat ALL OVER and out came the muscle definition. I never looked like that but I'm good with it. Heck, her muscles aren't even big or bulky - they look like feminine muscles to me. You just to see all the amazing definition.0 -
find the Zombie:
remember, it's really rude to go up to a zombie and tell it "you look dead! "
manners! Please, let's practice some manners here! Oh wait, can we practice that in the gym? How many calories does that burn? 0? Then it's so not worth the work!0 -
Whatever happened to having your own opinion? YOU might look like a dude to some people, if so, they have a right to think that.
They can think it all they want it's when people start saying it that it becomes a problem.0 -
I think the OP was rude in the manner in which the post was written. I get what she's saying. I don't like that physique myself, but I wouldn't walk up to a woman looking like that and say she looked like a dude. It's just uncalled-for. That being said, if I saw her at the gym or somewhere that her muscles were exposed in the manner which they are in those photos, I can't say that with #1 & #3 I wouldn't *think* it. We all have our own opinions about what we like and aspire to. Calling others Bs and categorically calling them skinny fat and jealous is just as rude as what is being condemned. JMHO0
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Fit does not immediately imply "muscly" as indicated in the photos that you posted. Just because I am not "muscly" like the photos that does not mean that I am "skinny fat" or "fat" or a "pig" or "ugly."
my1985...
you seem very upset or threatened by the OP, yet keep discussing it and tearing it apart. Can you please start your own thread to do so so we can keep this one clean. It's a rant. Since you still don't understand the point of the thread, let me reintroduce it to you:
OP posts that people need to be nice.
you are not acting nice - please leave.
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to the op,
I've been told the same thing. Ignorant and foolish people will do anything for attention! You just smile and turn your back on them. If they do it again, you call BS on them, renouncing their labeling and declare your awesomeness in a very loud manner so the real men in the gym can step in.
What kind of person hates women or are "scared" by women? They have some very serious issues if a woman is scary to them!
You wouldn't want to see me "not nice." I gave the OP my opinion and she lashed back at me. She has called every woman who doesn't agree with her a B. So, no. I'm not leaving.
what are you even talking about? there is no evidence I said all women who dont agree with me are *****es... ur agument is completelly invalid... I saidIm embarrased... Im embarrased to be a women, bc of the way some women act and behave and the way they treat other women who are trying to live a healthy livestyle.. last time I checked lifting weight is healthy and being healthy has no gender.. I mean seriously b!tch.. forget you b!tches!
i also said.. "are all women supposed to be skinny fat?" thats a legit question Im saying forget the haters if you wanna be skinny fat go for it.. if you wannt be fit.. go for it.. and crew ur point of view bc no one asked for it some people feel the need to tell a fat person they are fat and tell a fit woman that she looks like man.. if you have nothing nice to say.. dont say anything.. thats the point of my post..0 -
To get a body like the OP posted for reference, you have to work pretty hard.
So hard in fact, that I really doubt they'd give two rat turds about someone else's opinion. At that level, you do what you need to do for yourself and leave all the BS opinons from others on the curb
Before I lost the weight, someone's negative opinion of me would have completely derailed any progress i had made. Now, I know that i've worked hard, and while I haven't been called a man yet, I am pretty confident that it wouldn't effect me in a negative way.0 -
find the Zombie:
remember, it's really rude to go up to a zombie and tell it "you look dead! "
manners! Please, let's practice some manners here! Oh wait, can we practice that in the gym? How many calories does that burn? 0? Then it's so not worth the work!
Hehehehehe.0 -
Anyone who says I look like a man can suck my d...
Hmmm... that's not a good argument, is it?0
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