im so tired of people who...

liftandcycle

I think the OP was rude in the manner in which the post was written. I get what she's saying. I don't like that physique myself, but I wouldn't walk up to a woman looking like that and say she looked like a dude. It's just uncalled-for. That being said, if I saw her at the gym or somewhere that her muscles were exposed in the manner which they are in those photos, I can't say that with #1 & #3 I wouldn't *think* it. We all have our own opinions about what we like and aspire to. Calling others Bs and categorically calling them skinny fat and jealous is just as rude as what is being condemned. JMHO

*laughing for a second* anyways... where did I categorize skinny fat woman as jealous *****es?? i asked are all women supposed to be skinny fat? I say to that.. HECK NO! theres not only one category of women! theres many categories of women! theres fit women, fat women, thin women, muscular women, skinny fat women.. and I called the haters of each category *****es..

busywaterbending

liftandcycle,

you should never be "embarrassed" for how weak minded, immature, uneducated, unmotivated women are!


Have mercy and pity on them. Especially the ones who got a low SAT score!

You have manners, muscles, and a strong desire to see other women motivated to be motivated. You get it! Maybe they don't because no one ever taught them that they can believe in themselves?

liftandcycle

liftandcycle,

you should never be "embarrassed" for how weak minded, immature, uneducated, unmotivated women are!


Have mercy and pity on them. Especially the ones who got a low SAT score!

You have manners, muscles, and a strong desire to see other women motivated to be motivated. You get it! Maybe they don't because no one ever taught them that they can believe in themselves?

I lol'ed so hard!

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macpatti

say fit women look like men.. I mean really??!?! are we all supposed to be skinny fat? is that what a woman is supposed to look like?? are all women supposed to be weak and fragile bc if we have muscle tone we are immideatelly manly... screw all of you and your stupid points of view... stop hating and focus on yourselves! do you know how hard these women have to work for them to look the way they do?

Im embarrased... Im embarrased to be a women, bc of the way some women act and behave and the way they treat other women who are trying to live a healthy livestyle.. last time I checked lifting weight is healthy and being healthy has no gender.. I mean seriously b!tch.. forget you b!tches!

hating on a hater makes me a hater.. but guess what COME AT ME!

It took me a while to realize these pics weren't even of you! I don't condone the behavior of people who tell you that you look manly, but if I were to cover the face of these pics, it would be hard to tell if the person was a man or a woman. That is not an insult. It is my opinion by looking at the body (yes, I've seen men and women who have bodies like this). You come across as angry (name calling, cussing, saying "COME AT ME"), but then you didn't like it when people "came at you" with different opinions. People gave their opinion, as you did yours. You may not like them, but your original post wans't exactly sugary sweet either.

busywaterbending

I'm glad you found it as funny as I do. Look at those muscles! Those gals are attracted too. Or are they laughing?

and glad a MOD stepped in. Thank you!

mariposa224

are we all supposed to be skinny fat? is that what a woman is supposed to look like?? are all women supposed to be weak and fragile bc if we have muscle tone we are immideatelly manly... screw all of you and your stupid points of view... stop hating and focus on yourselves! ...hating on a hater makes me a hater..

im not freaking out on ppl im freaking out on haters.. HATERS ARENT PEOPLE

seriously just... just leave.. reading your post have brought my IQ down 30 pts.. everyone in this threat became stupier with ur posts.. LOL

OK, in the top one, you make it sound as if it's a horrible thing if people are skinny fat. I'm not saying it's good or bad. It just reads in a very negative light as you then say "screw all of you and your stupid points of view." You say that this makes you a hater. Then you say that haters aren't people, so I'm guessing you're including yourself in this non-personhood? You attack another poster for expressing her opinions...

I said in my post that I would never make a remark to someone saying that they "look like a dude," which is what your post was originally about. You said you're tired of people saying things like this. So why are you now attacking me? I merely stated that I found the way you went about expressing your point rude. My opinion, which I also stated.

TheBraveryLover

I used to be in that camp who thought that but I've grown to realize how rude and judgmental it was for me to think or express so. MFP (and bodybuilding.com) has taught me to appreciate all body types and for that, I am grateful that my eyes are now open. I still do not have the same goals as the fitness model/competition goal women have, but I definitely see the beauty in them, in their own right.

I still feel that a certain amount of muscles on a woman can look too masculine, but that does not mean it looks manly or ugly. Just because I prefer a more feminine look (i.e. higher body fat) does not make the lower body fat women less attractive. So yes, I agree, the constant "ewww, thats not what I want to look like!" is unnecessary. There are more mature ways to express your personal goals, without disparaging a woman who may look the opposite of it.

My1985Freckles

if you have nothing nice to say.. dont say anything.. thats the point of my post..

What a novel idea.

gsager

bump!

dawnkykong

I got my first "you look like a dude" comment last week. I honestly had to roll my eyes.

I would have said "you must be jealous" and then flipped my hair and walked away...I've seen your 'success' pictures and I only hope that one day I have a bangin body like yours! You seriously look amazing.:)

liftandcycle

You come across as angry (name calling, cussing, saying "COME AT ME"), but then you didn't like it when people "came at you" with different opinions. People gave their opinion, as you did yours. You may not like them, but your original post wans't exactly sugary sweet either.

i feel like you just wrote me a office referral for bad behavior... why so sensitive? besides the MOD just stepped in.. so I cant really continue replying with my incredibly amazing sarcasm.. which is freaking awesome.. and when I said "COME AT ME" i meant it.. and everyone did come at me! did I back down? no! ofcourse not b/c I can take them.. and the ppl who agree w me agree with awesomeness! i love ppl who accept all body types.. have a lovely day!

macpatti

i feel like you just wrote me a office referral for bad behavior... why so sensitive? besides the MOD just stepped in.. so I cant really continue replying with my incredibly amazing sarcasm.. which is freaking awesome.. and when I said "COME AT ME" i meant it.. and everyone did come at me! did I back down? no! ofcourse not b/c I can take them.. and the ppl who agree w me agree with awesomeness! i love ppl who accept all body types.. have a lovely day!

I accept all body types. I wasn't "scolding" you at all. The point of your OP might have been received better had you not come across so angry. That's all I was pointing out.

Jeff92se

Bunch of people here need a candy bar

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XO_uJVL8KkA

mariposa224

i feel like you just wrote me a office referral for bad behavior... why so sensitive? besides the MOD just stepped in.. so I cant really continue replying with my incredibly amazing sarcasm.. which is freaking awesome.. and when I said "COME AT ME" i meant it.. and everyone did come at me! did I back down? no! ofcourse not b/c I can take them.. and the ppl who agree w me agree with awesomeness! i love ppl who accept all body types.. have a lovely day!

I accept all body types. I wasn't "scolding" you at all. The point of your OP might have been received better had you not come across so angry. That's all I was pointing out.

AMEN sista!

mariposa224

Bunch of people here need a candy bar

Having a square of Godiva dark chocolate (50 calories) as we speak....er... type.

liftandcycle

i feel like you just wrote me a office referral for bad behavior... why so sensitive? besides the MOD just stepped in.. so I cant really continue replying with my incredibly amazing sarcasm.. which is freaking awesome.. and when I said "COME AT ME" i meant it.. and everyone did come at me! did I back down? no! ofcourse not b/c I can take them.. and the ppl who agree w me agree with awesomeness! i love ppl who accept all body types.. have a lovely day!

I accept all body types. I wasn't "scolding" you at all. The point of your OP might have been received better had you not come across so angry. That's all I was pointing out.

AMEN sista!

Dreamer1311

I don't condone the behavior of people who tell you that you look manly, but if I were to cover the face of these pics, it would be hard to tell if the person was a man or a woman. That is not an insult. It is my opinion by looking at the body (yes, I've seen men and women who have bodies like this)

I agree! As long as you are happy with the way you look it shouldn't matter. Everybody has different views and opinions. You shouldn't be judged by the way you look only.

Jeff92se

so hot

libby328

say fit women look like men.. I mean really??!?! are we all supposed to be skinny fat? is that what a woman is supposed to look like?? are all women supposed to be weak and fragile bc if we have muscle tone we are immideatelly manly... screw all of you and your stupid points of view... stop hating and focus on yourselves! do you know how hard these women have to work for them to look the way they do?

Im embarrased... Im embarrased to be a women, bc of the way some women act and behave and the way they treat other women who are trying to live a healthy livestyle.. last time I checked lifting weight is healthy and being healthy has no gender.. I mean seriously b!tch.. forget you b!tches!

hating on a hater makes me a hater.. but guess what COME AT ME!


EDIT: I never said you have to be sexually attracted to fit women.. what I said is... you cannot be a dumb b!tch and go up to a woman who works sooo hard and tell her she looks like a man.. the same way you dont go up to a fat person and call them a pig..
**** sorry for the confusion.. these pics arent of me.. im not that amazing looking im working to get there tho***

Girl if you look like this who the heck cares what other people think! Smokin hottie is what I call it, but hey thats just me!

Edit: Read through to fast the first time! Still stand by my smokin hot comment though

Sascha

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