how often do you have 'relations' ;] ?

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  • nnylee
    nnylee Posts: 811 Member
    3-4 times a week. He and I take turns initiating it. If it's a weekend and there's no work, sometimes twice that day.
  • HelloSweetie4
    HelloSweetie4 Posts: 1,214 Member
    before starting to loose weight we were lucky if we were up for it once a month!

    Since we both started loosing weight, it's been almost daily, which makes for a very happy me! :bigsmile:
  • vade43113
    vade43113 Posts: 836 Member
    gotta find something more than Bath/Body works between relationships... I agree the cleaner I eat the more the Libido kicks!

    There is a reason for that, at least for guys, not sure for ladies... Testosterone, the guy's guy hormone breaks down in fat... less fat... equals more testosterone... more Testosterone... higher libido...Simple no?
  • Brazilll
    Brazilll Posts: 503
    Its basically the same schedule as my Insanity routine, 6 days a week, with one day "recovery". If it were up to me though, it would be multiple times, every day. :x
  • saralynn594
    saralynn594 Posts: 321
    Alone? At least once a day,with a partner,once in the past 4 months,and I die a little every day....
  • rammsteinsoldier
    rammsteinsoldier Posts: 1,552 Member
    What are relations? It has been so long, I have forgotten. :(
  • silkandsugar
    silkandsugar Posts: 125
    Almost 3 years together and it's a daily thing. If it were up to me then it would maybe be even more often?!
  • vade43113
    vade43113 Posts: 836 Member
    personally, never... and I don't really care
  • KaleidoscopeEyes1056
    KaleidoscopeEyes1056 Posts: 2,996 Member
    Not often enough for as hot as I am... :sad:
  • kylesmommy89
    kylesmommy89 Posts: 356 Member
    Almost every day. :) Usually no one really has to "initiate" it because it's pretty much a given that we are doing it. Since I've lost my weight I want it all the time and my husband does, too!
  • atjays
    atjays Posts: 797 Member
    Been a long time, then again I'm single. 2012 has already been a better year than the last 3 or so combined though... With that said, still looking
  • xHelloQuincyx
    xHelloQuincyx Posts: 884 Member
    There's something seriously wrong if he doesn't want to have relations! Come on, its a great form of exercise and a way to build your current relationship. Perhaps there's something else that's on his end that is getting in the way. You may want to try talking about it sometime, but do it away from the home, perhaps over lunch somewhere. Make it a safe conversation for him. We men don't like to show our vulnerability or our own insecurities.

    lol. me and him have been together over 4 years we can talk about anything. we have talked about it, and the excuse is that he works 50 hour weeks oposite my schedule :c
  • xHelloQuincyx
    xHelloQuincyx Posts: 884 Member
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    It's a bummer, ain't it? Wait, do relations with myself count? O.o
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    no. haha
  • ryall70
    ryall70 Posts: 519 Member
    I have occasional threesomes with Ben and Jerry and usually about once a week I swallow Jose.
    Soooo.... ur the other girl....lmao
  • Wreak_Havoc
    Wreak_Havoc Posts: 597
    Relations??? Hell! It's been so long I forgot who gets tied up!! :sad:
  • theprettyone1010
    theprettyone1010 Posts: 408 Member
    2-3 times a week, would be more but we don't see each other every day.
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    I need a **** to ride ride ride, I need a **** in my life, I need a **** who's mine, oh mine, I need a **** in my life.
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    I need a **** to ride ride ride, I need a **** in my life, I need a **** who's mine, oh mine, I need a **** in my life.
    volunteers to be ridin by you.
  • DAMNCHARLIE
    DAMNCHARLIE Posts: 569
    I used to want it everyday, I have "in house" now so 3 times a week is fine.
  • ECA67
    ECA67 Posts: 802 Member
    It's been four years since my husband passed away. I can't wait to make up for lost time.
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    I need a **** to ride ride ride, I need a **** in my life, I need a **** who's mine, oh mine, I need a **** in my life.
    volunteers to be ridin by you.

    i_volunteer_2.gif=)
  • TeachTheGirl
    TeachTheGirl Posts: 2,091 Member
    My libido is horrid. I don't know if it's my birth control or whatever mental stuff I'm going through that's making things so awkward, but I just can't find enjoyment in it anymore. :<
  • kimmieey
    kimmieey Posts: 87
    With my ex it was once every 2 months if I was lucky, I always initiated and that's why the time, I hate always initiating,I felt unwanted.

    It's been nothing since October 2010 and we broke up March 2011.
  • jryan12341
    jryan12341 Posts: 21 Member
    does this smell like chloroform? enough said
  • InnerFatGirl
    InnerFatGirl Posts: 2,687 Member
    Not in a long time now, we've come this close to breaking up because of it (and many other issues) :cry:

    Like you, I also have the libido of a bunny.
  • InnerFatGirl
    InnerFatGirl Posts: 2,687 Member
    It's been four years since my husband passed away. I can't wait to make up for lost time.

    I am so sorry :(
  • kiminikimkim
    kiminikimkim Posts: 746 Member
    Twice a week, maybe less. I don't know why but after 1 year, I am slowly losing interest in intimacy. It is starting to feel like work.
  • LittleMissRiiff
    LittleMissRiiff Posts: 10
    It's been weeks for me. But it's not me who's to blame. My boyfriend just doesn't have that drive anymore and it's because of his poor diet. I love him to death, but neither him nor I will be getting any lovin' until he gets his act together. D;
  • SabrinaJL
    SabrinaJL Posts: 1,579 Member
    Since I started working out and lost weight, way less than we used to. Weird, right? I'm not sure what's up with that. I'm just not into it.
  • FitBlitz
    FitBlitz Posts: 146
    Ohcrap. Something must be super wrong with my life then.

    Married, young (26) and I'm lucky to get it once a month. o_o

    He spends all his time playing video games. *Cry*
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