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    how often do you have 'relations' ;] ?

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    • Posts: 71 Member
      I think its interesting that the answers here range from everyday to not in a long time. And in most cases, it seems that whatever the frequency is, it is not enough. Even when doing it everyday!! Oh well, makes me feel better that I am in the norm, at least according to this board.
    • Posts: 5,922 Member
      My libido is horrid. I don't know if it's my birth control or whatever mental stuff I'm going through that's making things so awkward, but I just can't find enjoyment in it anymore. :<

      Birth Control is awful for that. Very illogical - protects you from pregnancy and also prevents you wanting to do things that could cause pregnancy.
    • Posts: 884 Member
      Twice a week, maybe less. I don't know why but after 1 year, I am slowly losing interest in intimacy. It is starting to feel like work.

      i know what your saying... for me its been 4 years. everyone says "try new things" but that could be too far out of my comfort zone.
    • Posts: 57 Member
      Whenever we feel like it. I don't really count to be honest; I'm sure that's a good sign :P We've been together over 5 years and still going strong - even if I do have to give out "boob sessions" regularly :P
    • Posts: 100 Member
      Well it's been a little over six months and I still have a few more to go before I can have relations again but then it's 5-7 days a week every week! Can't wait till my hubby sees me after loosing weight and getting in shape!
    • Posts: 1,400 Member
      Ive been with my dude for almost 8 years and we rarely try 'new things' [aside from those awkward horny teenage years.../shudder/ouch] and IMO, our passions are still smokin'; average about 4-5 times a week. But since I've been seeing some inches going and things tightening up, he's been as grabby as an octopus. :)!
    • Posts: 161 Member
      Get yourself someone else. You are too dam pretty to get rejected. You should be getting it 7-10x a week.
    • Posts: 1,487 Member
      only 4 or 5 times a week. after being married for 12 years we don't do it everyday anymore.
    • Posts: 2,091 Member
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      Birth Control is awful for that. Very illogical - protects you from pregnancy and also prevents you wanting to do things that could cause pregnancy.

      I suppose abstinence IS the best birth control, but not for the reasons we'd want!
    • Posts: 999 Member
      My phone bill comes more often than I do....

      Not quite, but I love the saying :wink:

      :laugh: Only funny cause I can relate!!! :drinker:
    • Posts: 999 Member
      I have occasional threesomes with Ben and Jerry and usually about once a week I swallow Jose.

      :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :sad: :sad: :sad:
    • Posts: 884 Member
      Get yourself someone else. You are too dam pretty to get rejected. You should be getting it 7-10x a week.

      mm thank you doll ;] but im quite happy with what i have, even if its less frequent
    • Posts: 752 Member
      Sadly twicish a week. But only because of distance... If we lived together, it would happen every day, as I have a quota to fill.
    • Posts: 1,550 Member
      Me and my husband have weird schedules. I have the regular 8-5 schedule and he has the 4am to 1230am schedule so really only 'expected' on weekends but sometimes have spontaneous moments. Homework really is a big roadblock for that though.

      Otherwise, I battle with a low sex drive. I absolutely hate it. I love my husband to death. But for some damn reason I feel like it's work. I've never been a very sexual person and he's completely fine with that but I still feel like I am missing out on what other women see as a daily expected thing. I'm not on ANY weird medications so not sure what else it would be. We don't have marital problems either >_<
    • Posts: 1,031 Member
      Please clarify...Alone or with a partner??? LOL


      THIS!!!
    • Posts: 94
      Not nearlyyy enough as I want/need. I can do it every day, but my husband on the other hand... Lol.
    • Posts: 767 Member
      has this changed since you started your weight loss?

      is it you, or your partner who usually initiates it?


      truth is, im kinda sick of trying and getting shot down. then again, i have the Libido of a bunny.

      males *sigh* cant live with them, but cant live without them. ;]

      men?? hahahah i realised how shallow women are ever since i lost weight.. ya'll are nastier than us.. like i look for personality. now i got ladies who wouldve never second looked me
    • Posts: 384 Member
      my weight never mattered in that department. although the more fit i become the more inhibited our time is together.
      the bf & i are both in our late 40's (him closer to 50) & we average 3+ times a day, fri-sun.
      during the week his job leaves him drained, so we only get 1-2 times a day.
      we've been together going on 5 years now. & we started dating when i was at my heaviest.
      wish i would of known him when i was young & hot & my drive was a lot higher!:blushing:
    • Posts: 659 Member
      I don't bang bang boogie near enough haha.

      Part of that is due to morals, another part is actually finding mutual attraction with someone who isnt irritating haha :sad:
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      I have occasional threesomes with Ben and Jerry and usually about once a week I swallow Jose.


      You and I share this in common!:drinker:
    • Posts: 322 Member
      As often as we can with 5 kids. LOL :)
    • Posts: 85 Member
      3-4 times a week. He and I take turns initiating it. If it's a weekend and there's no work, sometimes twice that day.

      ^^^ exactly this
    • Posts: 498 Member
      I'm a newlywed and only twice a month. :blushing: We work opposite shifts though, so when we're together, at least one of us is sleeping.
    • Posts: 1,805 Member
      Jill never says no.
    • Posts: 498 Member
      Ohcrap. Something must be super wrong with my life then.

      Married, young (26) and I'm lucky to get it once a month. o_o

      He spends all his time playing video games. *Cry*

      Me too. Sad day. :frown:
    • Posts: 569 Member
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      You and I share this in common!:drinker:

      Ben, Jerry and Jose are all in trouble, I thought I was the only girl!
    • Posts: 764 Member
      I don't ever want to do it. Weight loss or gain doesn't really affect it.
      I'd give my fiance and I about once per week, if that?
    • Posts: 1,805 Member
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      Me too. Sad day. :frown:

      That's when you know you've got a problem. I game pretty frequently, but sex has a big priority.
    • Posts: 176 Member
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      men?? hahahah i realised how shallow women are ever since i lost weight.. ya'll are nastier than us.. like i look for personality. now i got ladies who wouldve never second looked me

      this happens to people after they lose weight. In fact, it happens to all single people who lose weight. The more weight we lose the less we feel we can trust people. I've dumped the weight twice when I was younger and I assure you men are just as shallow. think about this: now you can meet new girls and NEVER know if they would be that shallow - because they weren't around before you lost weight. I finally had to stop driving myself crazy over that one, but I am pretty sure my former boyfriend (still a close friend) will want me back, because he's suddenly interested again and I haven't lost all that much - as big as I am 40lb isn't enough to make that much difference, but he realizes that it';s all coming off this time and doesn't want to lose his chance to get me back and I can't wait to see what excuse he gives me for waiting 8 years to rekindle. Not happening....men are so shallow.
    • Posts: 647
      truth is, im kinda sick of trying and getting shot down. then again, i have the Libido of a bunny.

      males *sigh* cant live with them, but cant live without them. ;]

      girl, you know me. i had the SAME problem. it was 1x a week TOPS for us. we ran out of balloons one time and i refused to buy any- i wanted him to take some effing initiative for a change and get some for us instead of making me do it. we went 3 weeks with no action and i still ended up being the one to get more -_-

      fts.

      anyways, in other news, i live 100 miles from my current bf now, but when we do see eachother (about every week to week and a half) we usually go at it anywhere from 1-4 times a day, every day that we're together.

      needless to say, i'm pretty dang satisfied now.

      literally :)
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