Dudes, y would you not have RELATIONS with your SO

mustgetmuscles1

Hmm would this keep me from doing it?
Ugly? No would still do it. If its your SO you are with her for some reason other than looks might as well hit it.
Angry? No grudge f**king is some of the best.
Tired? No but I probably just lay there.
Stinks? No just suggest some shower time stand up style.
Just rubbed one out before she got home and not ready to go again but to embarrassed to admit it? No just give her some downtown action until your back in action.
Company over? No I would do my best to make her squeal in another room. Then walk out like I just won a gold medal.
Something good on TV? Nah I'll make it work.

Its got to be medical, mental, sexual orientation or she has turned into your mother.

Or you just like to watch her beg. Yeah Im gonna try that next.

AABru

Hmm would this keep me from doing it?
Ugly? No would still do it. If its your SO you are with her for some reason other than looks might as well hit it.
Angry? No grudge f**king is some of the best.
Tired? No but I probably just lay there.
Stinks? No just suggest some shower time stand up style.
Just rubbed one out before she got home and not ready to go again but to embarrassed to admit it? No just give her some downtown action until your back in action.
Company over? No I would do my best to make her squeal in another room. Then walk out like I just won a gold medal.
Something good on TV? Nah I'll make it work.

Its got to be medical, mental, sexual orientation or she has turned into your mother.

Or you just like to watch her beg. Yeah Im gonna try that next.

I'm pretty sure you are related to my husband...the man I refer to as Indian name "screws with nail in foot." make her beg...:devil:

AABru

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Someone sounds angry that he has an ugly wife...at least you know she won't leave!
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um i dont see how you can make that connection, but my wife is actually beautiful, as hard as it may be for you to beleive. THe truth hurts, I understand, but I am telling you all this to help you.
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So DUDE what is your reason #5? What is the one thing that would keep you out of bed wife your beautiful wife? My husband would have to be almost dead to say no, but then again, neither one of thinks it's creepy to have sex with a sleeping person!
:drinker:

mustgetmuscles1

So DUDE what is your reason #5? What is the one thing that would keep you out of bed wife your beautiful wife? My husband would have to be almost dead to say no, but then again, neither one of thinks it's creepy to have sex with a sleeping person!
:drinker:

Ah I forgot sleeping. :drinker:

crisanderson27

So DUDE what is your reason #5? What is the one thing that would keep you out of bed wife your beautiful wife? My husband would have to be almost dead to say no, but then again, neither one of thinks it's creepy to have sex with a sleeping person!
:drinker:

Sleeping? That just means it gets to be all about me for once lol.

I'd draw the line at dead.

Almost dead...well, maybe.

guamSUPERgirl90

My story,

The first two years were heaven! since we got the kids a PS3, he saw the kids having fun, played it, now he never puts it down. (addicted much?)

I play it too but not as much as he does! He can stay up on it after dinner (like 9pm) until like 3-4am! He uses a headset so definitely anything I ask he gets frustrated cause im bothering him. Then when we're out for special occassions he doesnt want to be intimate because he says he's "too tired" .

yeah he's too tired to show me itsy bitsy affection but not too tired to stay up all night playing video games!

reason #6 midlife crisis/ outgrows maturity

iam_thatdude

Someone sounds angry that he has an ugly wife...at least you know she won't leave!
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um i dont see how you can make that connection, but my wife is actually beautiful, as hard as it may be for you to beleive. THe truth hurts, I understand, but I am telling you all this to help you.
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So DUDE what is your reason #5? What is the one thing that would keep you out of bed wife your beautiful wife? My husband would have to be almost dead to say no, but then again, neither one of thinks it's creepy to have sex with a sleeping person!
:drinker:
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i dont have a reason #5, I put it there in case others did. If im asleep I tell my wife have at it, nothing better to wake up to, THis is my point (and again this thread was based on proving a point from another thread)....dudes who dont have sex with their GF/wives are up to no good. or they dont like their wife physically anymore or their junk doesnt work. THATS IT....Im sorry, thats how it is

mustgetmuscles1

My story,

The first two years were heaven! since we got the kids a PS3, he saw the kids having fun, played it, now he never puts it down. (addicted much?)

I play it too but not as much as he does! He can stay up on it after dinner (like 9pm) until like 3-4am! He uses a headset so definitely anything I ask he gets frustrated cause im bothering him. Then when we're out for special occassions he doesnt want to be intimate because he says he's "too tired" .

yeah he's too tired to show me itsy bitsy affection but not too tired to stay up all night playing video games!

reason #6 midlife crisis/ outgrows maturity

Such a waste. Hope he breaks out of his addiction before it causes a rift that cant be fixed.

CassieReannan

I have never refused sex, unless I am passed out tired.
Usually my fiances excuses are:

- Tired
- Sick (eg. sore leg, flu, headache)
- Dont feel like it
- Lets do it in the morning (never does)
- Playing PS3 or PC
- Cat is in the same room (lol)

iam_thatdude

I have never refused sex, unless I am passed out tired.
Usually my fiances excuses are:

- Tired
- Sick (eg. sore leg, flu, headache)
- Dont feel like it
- Lets do it in the morning (never does)
- Playing PS3 or PC
- Cat is in the same room (lol)

Hate to break it to you, but those are fake reasons. I will bet he doesnt want to get married.

CassieReannan

I have never refused sex, unless I am passed out tired.
Usually my fiances excuses are:

- Tired
- Sick (eg. sore leg, flu, headache)
- Dont feel like it
- Lets do it in the morning (never does)
- Playing PS3 or PC
- Cat is in the same room (lol)

Hate to break it to you, but those are fake reasons. I will bet he doesnt want to get married.

Yes I know, and he just tells me hes not into it anymore. How can a 20 year old male not be into sex!?
When we dated, about 1 year of it was maybe 2 - 3 x a week.. Now its pretty much.. well 2 - 3 times a month!
But we are LDR at the moment and when we get time together we do it, but its only once. :explode:

misskerouac

I have never refused sex, unless I am passed out tired.
Usually my fiances excuses are:

- Tired
- Sick (eg. sore leg, flu, headache)
- Dont feel like it
- Lets do it in the morning (never does)
- Playing PS3 or PC
- Cat is in the same room (lol)

Hate to break it to you, but those are fake reasons. I will bet he doesnt want to get married.

Yes I know, and he just tells me hes not into it anymore. How can a 20 year old male not be into sex!?
When we dated, about 1 year of it was maybe 2 - 3 x a week.. Now its pretty much.. well 2 - 3 times a month!
But we are LDR at the moment and when we get time together we do it, but its only once. :explode:

When my husband and I were long distance we'd visit each other and pretty much just take breaks for food. That's the fun part of LDRs.

robot_potato

Hockey night in Canada. Actually, that's my reason. He'd ask for a BJ while watching his team win but unfortunately he's a Leafs fan.

why cant u do him during intermission?

Cause he makes fun of my team and i'm more likely to punch him in the crotch. Both our teams are out now so i guess hockey's not an excuse anymore....

iam_thatdude

I have never refused sex, unless I am passed out tired.
Usually my fiances excuses are:

- Tired
- Sick (eg. sore leg, flu, headache)
- Dont feel like it
- Lets do it in the morning (never does)
- Playing PS3 or PC
- Cat is in the same room (lol)

Hate to break it to you, but those are fake reasons. I will bet he doesnt want to get married.

Yes I know, and he just tells me hes not into it anymore. How can a 20 year old male not be into sex!?
When we dated, about 1 year of it was maybe 2 - 3 x a week.. Now its pretty much.. well 2 - 3 times a month!
But we are LDR at the moment and when we get time together we do it, but its only once. :explode:

Hes cheating, I can almost guarantee it. He doesnt want to have sex with you so you get upset and break it off with him because he is too much of a wimp to do it himself.

jaydubbayu

I've left my wife hanging once... I was passed out drunk on beer and whiskey. That's about it.

now HER on the other hand.... Ha ha!

babyworms

you don't know these people, so why not shut the hell up and go live your life rather than trying to ruin everyone else's.

Beezil

I think it's normal for men to want less sex as they get older and women to want more as they get older... isn't it? o.O Since the male sexual peak is around 18-19 years old and the female's is around 35-36 year old... (at least those were the numbers last time I looked them up...lol)

crisanderson27

you don't know these people, so why not shut the hell up and go live your life rather than trying to ruin everyone else's.

Seriously? If a post here could ruin someone's life...they've got other issues entirely you know?

Funny thing is, this is his thread, he started it...they chose to reply, how is he ruining their lives?

I think it's normal for men to want less sex as they get older and women to want more as they get older... isn't it? o.O Since the male sexual peak is around 18-19 years old and the female's is around 35-36 year old... (at least those were the numbers last time I looked them up...lol)

Thank you!! You have now officially confirmed that I am, in fact...19yrs old, which I firmly believe, rather than 37...which is what my drivers license says =p.

Beezil

you don't know these people, so why not shut the hell up and go live your life rather than trying to ruin everyone else's.

Seriously? If a post here could ruin someone's life...they've got other issues entirely you know?

Funny thing is, this is his thread, he started it...they chose to reply, how is he ruining their lives?

I think it's normal for men to want less sex as they get older and women to want more as they get older... isn't it? o.O Since the male sexual peak is around 18-19 years old and the female's is around 35-36 year old... (at least those were the numbers last time I looked them up...lol)

Thank you!! You have now officially confirmed that I am, in fact...19yrs old, which I firmly believe, rather than 37...which is what my drivers license says =p.

:laugh: Lucky wife!

crisanderson27

you don't know these people, so why not shut the hell up and go live your life rather than trying to ruin everyone else's.

Seriously? If a post here could ruin someone's life...they've got other issues entirely you know?

Funny thing is, this is his thread, he started it...they chose to reply, how is he ruining their lives?

I think it's normal for men to want less sex as they get older and women to want more as they get older... isn't it? o.O Since the male sexual peak is around 18-19 years old and the female's is around 35-36 year old... (at least those were the numbers last time I looked them up...lol)

Thank you!! You have now officially confirmed that I am, in fact...19yrs old, which I firmly believe, rather than 37...which is what my drivers license says =p.

:laugh: Lucky wife!

Not married =(.

Got any leads??

Natx83

I have never refused sex, unless I am passed out tired.
Usually my fiances excuses are:

- Tired
- Sick (eg. sore leg, flu, headache)
- Dont feel like it
- Lets do it in the morning (never does)
- Playing PS3 or PC
- Cat is in the same room (lol)

Hate to break it to you, but those are fake reasons. I will bet he doesnt want to get married.

Yes I know, and he just tells me hes not into it anymore. How can a 20 year old male not be into sex!?
When we dated, about 1 year of it was maybe 2 - 3 x a week.. Now its pretty much.. well 2 - 3 times a month!
But we are LDR at the moment and when we get time together we do it, but its only once. :explode:

Hes cheating, I can almost guarantee it. He doesnt want to have sex with you so you get upset and break it off with him because he is too much of a wimp to do it himself.

Wow... guy... really?

Thats a bit harsh..

Almost probably right though or something along those lines...

Beezil

you don't know these people, so why not shut the hell up and go live your life rather than trying to ruin everyone else's.

Seriously? If a post here could ruin someone's life...they've got other issues entirely you know?

Funny thing is, this is his thread, he started it...they chose to reply, how is he ruining their lives?

I think it's normal for men to want less sex as they get older and women to want more as they get older... isn't it? o.O Since the male sexual peak is around 18-19 years old and the female's is around 35-36 year old... (at least those were the numbers last time I looked them up...lol)

Thank you!! You have now officially confirmed that I am, in fact...19yrs old, which I firmly believe, rather than 37...which is what my drivers license says =p.

:laugh: Lucky wife!

Not married =(.

Got any leads??

I'm actually surprised by that...

And honestly, if I did I would definitely give them to you! :flowerforyou:

crisanderson27

you don't know these people, so why not shut the hell up and go live your life rather than trying to ruin everyone else's.

Seriously? If a post here could ruin someone's life...they've got other issues entirely you know?

Funny thing is, this is his thread, he started it...they chose to reply, how is he ruining their lives?

I think it's normal for men to want less sex as they get older and women to want more as they get older... isn't it? o.O Since the male sexual peak is around 18-19 years old and the female's is around 35-36 year old... (at least those were the numbers last time I looked them up...lol)

Thank you!! You have now officially confirmed that I am, in fact...19yrs old, which I firmly believe, rather than 37...which is what my drivers license says =p.

:laugh: Lucky wife!

Not married =(.

Got any leads??

I'm actually surprised by that...

And honestly, if I did I would definitely give them to you! :flowerforyou:

I know right? I'm surprised too!

Well, sort of lol...I've come to the conclusion that I'm not made for a modern relationship. I'm all about us, we, sharing, giving to get...etc. Modern girls are all about me, I, taking, and entitlement it seems....no matter how good a person they are otherwise.

As for the leads...thanks!...it would be very much appreciated!

CassieReannan

I have never refused sex, unless I am passed out tired.
Usually my fiances excuses are:

- Tired
- Sick (eg. sore leg, flu, headache)
- Dont feel like it
- Lets do it in the morning (never does)
- Playing PS3 or PC
- Cat is in the same room (lol)

Hate to break it to you, but those are fake reasons. I will bet he doesnt want to get married.

Yes I know, and he just tells me hes not into it anymore. How can a 20 year old male not be into sex!?
When we dated, about 1 year of it was maybe 2 - 3 x a week.. Now its pretty much.. well 2 - 3 times a month!
But we are LDR at the moment and when we get time together we do it, but its only once. :explode:

Hes cheating, I can almost guarantee it. He doesnt want to have sex with you so you get upset and break it off with him because he is too much of a wimp to do it himself.

Wow... guy... really?

Thats a bit harsh..

Almost probably right though or something along those lines...

Hes not cheating Trust me.

cmckenzie2

There are a million different reasons for both men or women. Feeling a bit rubbish about themselves, tired, stressed, depressed, busy, in a rut. A lot of men will try to make out they would only never want sex with their girlfriend/wife if they'd gone off her or whatever - and put the 'blame' on her - but there's much more to it than that. Men just don't like to admit that in general, especially young men, there could be any of a million reasons at any given time.

bridiew

my ex and i didnt have it for 3 months before we broke up! all him as i have a massively high sex drive. i know he wasnt cheating on me because when i broke up with him to be with my current partner (AMAZING S- LIFE B THE WAY) he was devastated went crazy drinking loads and called me everyother dy to get back with me! that was 2 years ago and we met up a few months ago to catch up and when he left he left me a voicemail saying he can never see me again because he is still in love with me!

so im guessing he jusy had a shocking drive! he was a chef and worked like 70 hours a week and was tired all the time.

so they arent all cheats!!

downieel

My DH doesn't want it that often, we can go forever, I blame our weight, and low self esteem, we're both carrying A Lot of weight

SnookiBaby92

Haha this thread is funny x

collinj8

Because my wife is 38 weeks pregnant, and I have been cut off. HA HA.
Just a side note, gaming or computer will cause a man to forget his husbandly duties.

Kell_Smurthwaite

Illness can definitely be a factor. My hubby (before we were married) was diagnosed wit han overactive thyroid gland and he got very ill before he would go to get checked out. We still had regular sex, but we definitely had less of it than we had before, simply because he felt tired and ill all the time.

I know of some women who didn't have sex while they were in the later stages of pregnancy, so their SOs had to go without and visit Rose Palm and her five lovely daughters while they waited it out. Then, of course, they had to wait a bit longer whil their lovely ladies recovered from the birth. Then a bit longer till their ladyfolk could find a moment when they weren't so exhausted. Then find a time when they weren't interrupted by their new born wanting to be fed. Or changed. Or held. Or a million other things that a newborn invariably wants. LOL!

Me and hubby kept right on with our, ahem, "relations" right through pregnancy (in fact, we had a quicky in the bathroom to try and get my labour to progress a little the day before our son was born because I wasn't dilating properly - sorry if that's TMI!) and were right back in the, um, saddle within a couple of weeks. Albeit very gently because I had an emergency c-section and was tender.

Anyway, those are the only reasons, other than the ones listed in the original post, that I can think of...