How to flirt

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  • tanyakay87
    tanyakay87 Posts: 223 Member
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    I think it's all about confidence! You can have the best pick up line in the world but if you're stammering or fumbling over it then it loses it's appeal or you might get away with them feeling sorry for you and you two actually hitting it off lol. I've had a guy chat to me about what he did for a living and I was so absorbed in his confidence and mannerisms that I actually can't tell you a thing he said. He could have been telling me about how he artificially inseminated cows for all I know and I was grinning like an idiot :D

    Also not seeming too desperate. A little chit chat whilst standing at the bar, a winning smile and a casual "maybe I'll see you at the bar again in half hour!" used to work for me. At least that's how I got my boy!
  • Juxtaposie
    Juxtaposie Posts: 25
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    I love how flirting automatically just jumps right to sex with so many people.

    And there is something wrong with that ???

    UMMMM I'M GONNA GO WITH.....NO :devil:

    Without a doubt, everyone looks at it differently. For me, flirting is (I should say was, I do a whole lot less of it now that I'm battling my weight issues) more of a game. Not the "oh, that girl is a complete c**ktease" kind of game, but in the way that it was a slower, sweeter ride all the way out to the finish. ...I don't know, I guess I don't really know how to convey what is in my brain to text. I just think there's a lot more to it than just getting laid. If that's the goal then "Nice shoes, wanna f**k" conveys the message. :)
  • JamesOfLondon
    JamesOfLondon Posts: 60 Member
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    I think it's all about confidence!

    ^

    Gold
  • HMD7703
    HMD7703 Posts: 761 Member
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    Bend and Snap!~

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  • JamesOfLondon
    JamesOfLondon Posts: 60 Member
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    That'd work too.

    Okay, maybe not if she was holding a drink.
  • tanyakay87
    tanyakay87 Posts: 223 Member
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    That'd work too.

    Okay, maybe not if she was holding a drink.

    Ah but what if she did whilst holding a drink and wearing a white shirt?! Bonus!
  • lg3703
    lg3703 Posts: 190
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    People want what they can't have. Hoochy girls are a dime a dozen. Be friendly, confident, fun & a little mysterious... and never catty or jealous of other women! That shows insecurity. Good luck!
  • JamesOfLondon
    JamesOfLondon Posts: 60 Member
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    That'd work too.

    Okay, maybe not if she was holding a drink.

    Ah but what if she did whilst holding a drink and wearing a white shirt?! Bonus!

    Its like you can read my mind.
  • tanyakay87
    tanyakay87 Posts: 223 Member
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    That'd work too.

    Okay, maybe not if she was holding a drink.

    Ah but what if she did whilst holding a drink and wearing a white shirt?! Bonus!

    Its like you can read my mind.

    Great minds think alike and all that James!
  • Laura_Suzie
    Laura_Suzie Posts: 1,288 Member
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    Bend and Snap!~

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    hahahaha! THIS. "Works everytime!"
  • shannoninBC
    shannoninBC Posts: 371 Member
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    OMG this one had me in tears!!!

    The best
  • chatnel
    chatnel Posts: 688 Member
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    some wonderful advice there, thanks everyone

    I love that shin one, going to use it on the weekend for a laugh :smile:
  • Little_minx_76
    Little_minx_76 Posts: 36
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    Thanks for this thread ive learnt alot !!
  • Erindipitous
    Erindipitous Posts: 1,234 Member
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    Hahahaha..
  • chatnel
    chatnel Posts: 688 Member
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    heading to a bar tonight going to try some of these beauties. Starting with a bend and snap.....
  • Bucky83
    Bucky83 Posts: 1,194 Member
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    I have been told (since I sometimes don't realise that I do flirt) that apparently I play with my hair subconsciously.

    What has worked for me in the past, is complimenting a guy's shirt.

    Kind of went like this:

    Me: Hey, that's a great shirt! Who's responsible for you wearing that tonight?
    Him: Me....I bought it. What's your name?

    (I'm IN!) Hahahaha.

    It has also not worked for me:

    Me: Hey, great shirt! Who bought that for you?
    Him: My girlfriend.

    (OUCH!)
  • elsham
    elsham Posts: 549 Member
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    LOLOLOLOLOL.

    Really though, just start talking.
  • royalty_mind_1me
    royalty_mind_1me Posts: 284 Member
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    As a woman I find just talking to a man shows interest, when you stop...either they pursue or not...a man knows what he wants and needs :blushing:

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