Women are just as bad.

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  • cgrout78
    cgrout78 Posts: 1,628 Member
    Man1 Hmmmm what am i thinking?

    Woman 1 Damn I look good today *checks self out in the mirror*
    Woman 2 that you want to bend me over and spank me? oh wait..that's what I'M thinking..my bad!
    Woman 3 Better question is probably what are you NOT thinking.
    Woman 4 If I had to take a guess, I'd say it was something quite lewd and fun!
    Woman 5 ???
    Woman 6 You forgot to wear your black thong?
    Woman 7 Oh I'm sure only clean and pure thoughts.....father Ty
    Woman 8 for some reason my telepathic communication skills don't work with you! uuggh!
    Woman 9 How to cause trouble on MFP today?
    Woman 10 that you love all your MFP ladies ;)

    I've taken out names because I don't wanna embarass people but this is what I mean.. This is copied and pasted from my updates.. Some are a little too graphic.. I only have a fragile mind lol

    By the way - I'm woman #4! :)

    I was woman number 2...and FYI...I only post things like that to certain people that I know don't mind it.
  • mickipedia
    mickipedia Posts: 889 Member
    Don't forget women flirting with women, very naughty.

    Id love too!!

    Oh now that IS fun :)

    This is what drives men crazy. The only difference is YOUR comfort level. There are a lot of women on here that happily receive graphic messages from other women, but go apesh*t if I guy crosses that line. And this ties back to a prior point. A woman that gets offended will blast the guy in multiple ways. A guy that is offended will just say no thank you or move on.

    What if a guy sent another guy a graphic message? Would he speak up then? :laugh:
  • vim_n_vigor
    vim_n_vigor Posts: 4,089 Member
    OP- Are you really just looking for more naughty friends for your list?
  • MelissR75
    MelissR75 Posts: 735 Member
    What do you define as creepy?

    Hanging outside my kitchen window. If you are not going to come inside and make me a sammich, please go away!
    Ok - next time I'll come in :)

    The back door is unlocked. ;)
    See you soon :)
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    I'm trying to defend men as I know they are too macho to mention it themselves.

    Well, bless your heart!
  • WarriorMom2012
    WarriorMom2012 Posts: 621 Member
    I'm an equal opportunity creep...I ask all my friends to bend me over and spank me :drinker:
  • DestroyTheOpposition
    DestroyTheOpposition Posts: 444 Member
    Its all in good fun. Its just words on a page. I don't deem it offensive. Unless it gets personal. Even then... I might laugh. In my opinion some just need to remove the stick from their ___ and relax.
  • loseweightjames
    loseweightjames Posts: 360 Member
    Bump so these ladies can admire the abs. :wink:

    Do you guys actually enjoy it?

    very much :D
  • MFPAddict
    MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
    What if a guy sent another guy a graphic message? Would he speak up then? :laugh:

    If he were straight, he would just block him. No need to draw attention to a guy wanting you to drop the soap.
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    What if a guy sent another guy a graphic message? Would he speak up then? :laugh:

    They usually just block me.
  • TrophyWifeSass
    TrophyWifeSass Posts: 490 Member
    I'm an equal opportunity creep...I ask all my friends to bend me over and spank me :drinker:

    True story and I love it!
  • auroranflash
    auroranflash Posts: 3,569 Member
    People can do or say whatever they want, if you don't like it, just delete them... maybe your priorities are different. It happens.

    I do think it's disrespectful of you to post something that was on your news feed on the public forums, though, even if you changed the names.

    People have added you or accepted you as their friend, and it is like a private conversation. It casts you in a poor light to post a conversation that was among friends and put it up for judgment, moreso than the details of their conversation does for them, which was your original complaint...
  • Cmonnowguys
    Cmonnowguys Posts: 361 Member
    I agree. I see a lot of women on here being overly flirtacious and honestly pathetic looking. It's like really? This isn't a dating site. Being friendly is one thing but some take it too far.

    THIS
  • Tiggerrick
    Tiggerrick Posts: 1,078 Member
    It's the double standard thing... A man flirts and he's a creep. A woman flirts and it's expected. Women have to say 'yes' for it to be OK (body language IRL, messages on line). Once it's on, it's ON.

    I can see how this could be motivating for some.... "You're looking good" can go a long way in validating all the hard work. Thing is, fitness is more than just the outside looks, there are health benefits, but most people focus on the outward appearance.

    OH, and BTW, I personally DON"T get offended, scared away, or think poorly of women who are CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO FLIRT that do it. It takes guts for ANYONE to put it out there.

    And about the 'just as bad', sometimes, they are worse.... luv it!!!
  • cgrout78
    cgrout78 Posts: 1,628 Member
    OK, since it was apparently my spanking comment that riled you up so much...would you like to spank me? I've been a very naughty girl...LOL

    There, now since I asked a girl AND a guy am I better? I'm pretty sure none of the people i have on my friends list mind my comments like that, and if they do, they can drop me as a friend. *shrugs*
  • I agree. I see a lot of women on here being overly flirtacious and honestly pathetic looking. It's like really? This isn't a dating site. Being friendly is one thing but some take it too far.

    THIS

    Ditto.
  • BiggTim
    BiggTim Posts: 53 Member
    I don't ever see any of this from my MFP friends.
  • mickipedia
    mickipedia Posts: 889 Member
    OK, since it was apparently my spanking comment that riled you up so much...would you like to spank me? I've been a very naughty girl...LOL

    There, now since I asked a girl AND a guy am I better? I'm pretty sure none of the people i have on my friends list mind my comments like that, and if they do, they can drop me as a friend. *shrugs*

    Hun, as I said earlier on.. None of this is aimed directly at you.. It was just the first one I saw that had loads of comments all leading to the dirty side. Obviously everyone has different opinions, I was simply pointing out that women are quick enough to call guys creeps but if its the other way round its fine.

    If you're happy and he's happy then I don't mind, as I said I was using it as an example.
  • MFPAddict
    MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
    OP- Are you really just looking for more naughty friends for your list?

    Not the OP, but ^^^^^ was definitely added incentive for me to post in this thread. :bigsmile:
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Easy answer...unless it directly affects you it is pointless to worry about what others are doing or how they are using MY Fitness Pal.
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    I'm gonna disagree. Kind of. I'm much worse than all my friends, as far as shameless flirting goes. But i've gotten nudies of 11 guys, and only 4 girls. I think that speaks volumes.
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    I was reported for it...true story.

    Look: I apologized for that and tried to explain that I was on hallucinogens and thought the "Report" button was actually a "Transport" button. Gawd! Am I never going to live this down?

    Mhhhhm, and I thought the add a smiley was an add a vagina.....
  • Begood03
    Begood03 Posts: 1,259 Member
    I'm gonna disagree. Kind of. I'm much worse than all my friends, as far as shameless flirting goes. But i've gotten nudies of 11 guys, and only 4 girls. I think that speaks volumes.
    Maybe you are not sending enough out. lol
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    OP- Are you really just looking for more naughty friends for your list?

    Not the OP, but ^^^^^ was definitely added incentive for me to post in this thread. :bigsmile:

    Ditto.
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    mhhhhm, and I thought the add a smiley was an add a vagina.....

    They have one of those? Where do I click?
  • shelbynicole32
    shelbynicole32 Posts: 179 Member
    Unfortunatly the internet makes it hard to interpet the sarcasm or jokingness of peoples comments.

    But yes, in reality women really are just as bad as men, BUT thats okay. If they want to fish for compliments then let them.
    Sometimes women need to feel that they are still beautiful and attractive so they flirt a little to get it. :tongue:
    Granted some take it overboard but hey, it is what it is.
  • personally i would love more people to randomly post up on my wall wow your looking great etc. i post up whenever i notice someones picture change. normally saying wow, twit twoo, doing awesome, looking gorgoues etc but i mean what i say i dont say wow you look gorgeous id love ot bend you over lol.

    i think womens boundaries can be way lower then mens and not seem like a creep lol.
  • MFPAddict
    MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
    Unfortunatly the internet makes it hard to interpet the sarcasm or jokingness of peoples comments.

    But yes, in reality women really are just as bad as men, BUT thats okay. If they want to fish for compliments then let them.
    Sometimes women need to feel that they are still beautiful and attractive so they flirt a little to get it. :tongue:
    Granted some take it overboard but hey, it is what it is.

    Nice bikini top. :tongue:
  • mickipedia
    mickipedia Posts: 889 Member
    I agree. I see a lot of women on here being overly flirtacious and honestly pathetic looking. It's like really? This isn't a dating site. Being friendly is one thing but some take it too far.

    THIS

    Ditto.

    Some of the comments I've seen in the past remind me of those drunk women that stumble from one guy to the next telling him how much she's had to drink and how vulnerable she is and when he doesn't seem interested she'll try the next guy.

    Obviously comments that bad are quite rare - the ones I used as an example are pretty mild in comparison.
  • Steve_Runs
    Steve_Runs Posts: 443 Member
    What do you define as creepy?

    are you trying to define your level of creepiness with this thread???

    No, its just personally I think someone asking to be "bent over and spanked" is creepy.. Seems that men don't mind so much
    hell i like it!
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