Booty call?

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  • HotMamaByVday
    HotMamaByVday Posts: 343 Member
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    You can buy what you need and not have to deal with any of the ramifications a 1 night stand can have (STDs, a baby, emotional attachment). Just saying.

    Are you talking male escort, or something battery operated?

    Both. If you need something now, its easier to buy then to set up a new booty call.
  • quink77
    quink77 Posts: 91
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    I guess a little back story could be helpful.

    This guy is NOT a random stranger. We worked together several years ago. I was married and he was in a committed relationship. There was always some underlying sexual tension but neither of us ever acted on it. After leaving that job, we stayed friends through Facebook. Last summer we got together for a drink and had a good time - but again nothing happened. Two weeks ago he messaged me and suggested we get drunk together sometime. We've been trying to work out a time since then.
    So....I'm not really sure why he's not interested. Other than the fact that he said he finds my "womanlyness" intimidating. I'm certainly not angry or bitter. It is what it is...
  • will010574
    will010574 Posts: 761 Member
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    Well I find your womanliness a huge turn on and apologize on behalf of him for not helping you out in your time of need! He is giving single men everywhere a bad name.
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,806 Member
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    I guess a little back story could be helpful.

    This guy is NOT a random stranger. We worked together several years ago. I was married and he was in a committed relationship. There was always some underlying sexual tension but neither of us ever acted on it. After leaving that job, we stayed friends through Facebook. Last summer we got together for a drink and had a good time - but again nothing happened. Two weeks ago he messaged me and suggested we get drunk together sometime. We've been trying to work out a time since then.
    So....I'm not really sure why he's not interested. Other than the fact that he said he finds my "womanlyness" intimidating. I'm certainly not angry or bitter. It is what it is...

    Tell him he should come over and have a drink. Then be forthcoming and get what you want.
  • lickmybaconcakes
    lickmybaconcakes Posts: 1,063 Member
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    Call up say hello, and what you up to ? in an innuendo voice
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,198 Member
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    Call up say hello, and what you up to ? in an innuendo voice

    So, in other words...how you doin'? :bigsmile:
  • quink77
    quink77 Posts: 91
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    I guess a little back story could be helpful.

    This guy is NOT a random stranger. We worked together several years ago. I was married and he was in a committed relationship. There was always some underlying sexual tension but neither of us ever acted on it. After leaving that job, we stayed friends through Facebook. Last summer we got together for a drink and had a good time - but again nothing happened. Two weeks ago he messaged me and suggested we get drunk together sometime. We've been trying to work out a time since then.
    So....I'm not really sure why he's not interested. Other than the fact that he said he finds my "womanlyness" intimidating. I'm certainly not angry or bitter. It is what it is...

    Forgive my ADD today... I missed part of the story.
    I sent him THE message last night for the hook up. I told him NSA, just casual, nothing complicated. That's when he said about being intimidated and that I'm "a cute girl who shouldn't have to try so hard".
  • Kerri_is_so_very
    Kerri_is_so_very Posts: 1,005 Member
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    This is what I send out

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    HAAAA!!!!
  • llw1013
    llw1013 Posts: 31 Member
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    I guess a little back story could be helpful.

    This guy is NOT a random stranger. We worked together several years ago. I was married and he was in a committed relationship. There was always some underlying sexual tension but neither of us ever acted on it. After leaving that job, we stayed friends through Facebook. Last summer we got together for a drink and had a good time - but again nothing happened. Two weeks ago he messaged me and suggested we get drunk together sometime. We've been trying to work out a time since then.
    So....I'm not really sure why he's not interested. Other than the fact that he said he finds my "womanlyness" intimidating. I'm certainly not angry or bitter. It is what it is...

    I'm thinking you'll get that booty call after all. I bet you just threw him off by being so direct...
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
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    I guess a little back story could be helpful.

    This guy is NOT a random stranger. We worked together several years ago. I was married and he was in a committed relationship. There was always some underlying sexual tension but neither of us ever acted on it. After leaving that job, we stayed friends through Facebook. Last summer we got together for a drink and had a good time - but again nothing happened. Two weeks ago he messaged me and suggested we get drunk together sometime. We've been trying to work out a time since then.
    So....I'm not really sure why he's not interested. Other than the fact that he said he finds my "womanlyness" intimidating. I'm certainly not angry or bitter. It is what it is...

    Forgive my ADD today... I missed part of the story.
    I sent him THE message last night for the hook up. I told him NSA, just casual, nothing complicated. That's when he said about being intimidated and that I'm "a cute girl who shouldn't have to try so hard".

    Wait a few days. He may booty call you back after he thinks about it.
  • jamiem1102
    jamiem1102 Posts: 1,196 Member
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    Text around 11 and say... "Whatcha doin later?" Code for - "I'm only texting you for one reason -- don't get it twisted."
  • jeniley65
    jeniley65 Posts: 35
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    He likes you. And he might even have a heart so NSA might be what he doesn't want to have with you.

    Go out or stay in for a drink. And be sure the batteries are charged before just in case....
  • kymillion
    kymillion Posts: 791 Member
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    tell him to quit playing games that you know your worth and your value and you thought it was mutual.. seems like he is playing head games or got his ego bruised when you didn't go out with him the night he invited you out..


    Guys* ugh.. the double standard ..
  • lickmybaconcakes
    lickmybaconcakes Posts: 1,063 Member
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    Call up say hello, and what you up to ? in an innuendo voice

    So, in other words...how you doin'? :bigsmile:

    Is it weird I read that in joey from friends voice :laugh:
  • spynoodle
    spynoodle Posts: 404
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    I guess a little back story could be helpful.

    This guy is NOT a random stranger. We worked together several years ago. I was married and he was in a committed relationship. There was always some underlying sexual tension but neither of us ever acted on it. After leaving that job, we stayed friends through Facebook. Last summer we got together for a drink and had a good time - but again nothing happened. Two weeks ago he messaged me and suggested we get drunk together sometime. We've been trying to work out a time since then.
    So....I'm not really sure why he's not interested. Other than the fact that he said he finds my "womanlyness" intimidating. I'm certainly not angry or bitter. It is what it is...

    Forgive my ADD today... I missed part of the story.
    I sent him THE message last night for the hook up. I told him NSA, just casual, nothing complicated. That's when he said about being intimidated and that I'm "a cute girl who shouldn't have to try so hard".

    It sounds kind of like he's put off by the uber fowardness.
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,806 Member
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    I guess a little back story could be helpful.

    This guy is NOT a random stranger. We worked together several years ago. I was married and he was in a committed relationship. There was always some underlying sexual tension but neither of us ever acted on it. After leaving that job, we stayed friends through Facebook. Last summer we got together for a drink and had a good time - but again nothing happened. Two weeks ago he messaged me and suggested we get drunk together sometime. We've been trying to work out a time since then.
    So....I'm not really sure why he's not interested. Other than the fact that he said he finds my "womanlyness" intimidating. I'm certainly not angry or bitter. It is what it is...

    Forgive my ADD today... I missed part of the story.
    I sent him THE message last night for the hook up. I told him NSA, just casual, nothing complicated. That's when he said about being intimidated and that I'm "a cute girl who shouldn't have to try so hard".

    It sounds kind of like he's put off by the uber fowardness.

    Sounds like he should sack up.
  • Gilbrod
    Gilbrod Posts: 1,216 Member
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    Men afraid of too much boldness? No such thing. Nothing like getting an invite straight up. No bullsh!t to dance around.
  • KCoolBeanz
    KCoolBeanz Posts: 813 Member
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    Just send him a text: "Not gonna lie, I'm horny. Cumming over?"

    DONE.
  • DannyMussels
    DannyMussels Posts: 1,842 Member
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    Just send him a link to this thread.

    Problem solved.
  • pyrowill
    pyrowill Posts: 1,163 Member
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    You should just say "hop in"