Where is he/she now?

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  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    as far as I know, he went to seminary and became a pastor, got married, etc. I have no clue beyond any of that. Never saw him again after the last break up. He was older....
  • Tiffaney82690
    Tiffaney82690 Posts: 99
    I never had a boyfriend in HS but the boyfriend I had right after graduation I could care less about hah!
  • Vench
    Vench Posts: 56 Member
    I finished high school after two years, so no boyfriends (wasn't much to pick from anyway). However, my preschool boyfriend and I are friends on Facebook and talk a few times a week. I still remind him how I broke up with him after a week because he farted.
  • lukeout007
    lukeout007 Posts: 1,237 Member
    My long term girlfriend after high school is still in the area I think but I know nothing about her. Haven't talked to her in years.

    The 2 "serious" relationships I had in high school are also a bit unknown to me. Last I knew the one that moved to another state while we were dating was married with kids...the other one is probably lying and manipulating her way into an abusive relationship. Couldn't care less though.

    For the most part I hope they are all doing well. But I don't think on them too much...I'm happy with my wife and my family.
  • zeldalemons
    zeldalemons Posts: 16 Member
    probably out looking for little girls to seduce.
  • korsicash
    korsicash Posts: 770 Member
    Married to someone he claimed to dislike in HS. Every time his life seemed out of whack would track me down and throw mine out of whack till he figured out what he wanted. Never was me but apparently I am the dumb one that let him back in multiple times. This last time while on break from the mutual friend he said some very unkind very untrue things after using me for money. I informed him he is a far better memory than human being and he wasn't welcome to intrude on my life any more. I wish them the best I truly do.
  • femmi1120
    femmi1120 Posts: 473 Member
    I still talk to my 2 exes from HS. One's been with a girl he met in college for a while now. The other just recently got a gf. It's the first gf he's had since me (5 years ago) so I'm pretty relieved... I was beginning to think I'd scared him off of dating forever :tongue:

    And I'm still with my 3rd HS boyfriend. I met him my jr. year and we've been together for over 4 years now :heart:
  • Amber50lbsDown
    Amber50lbsDown Posts: 255 Member
    I married him at 18 he turned into an abusive ****ty person, left him at 22 when I found out i was pregnant, divorced him got custody of my daughter and never looked back.
    I have no idea where he is or what hes doing and dont ever want to find out.
  • bluefox9er
    bluefox9er Posts: 2,917 Member
    i couldn't really care less where my rally girl is or how many kids she's got.
  • GasMasterFlash
    GasMasterFlash Posts: 2,206 Member
    I know exactly where she is. I lead the authorities to the site in exchange for a plea deal.
  • ladybug1620
    ladybug1620 Posts: 1,136 Member
    We keep in touch on facebook. He's married with a baby now (as am I) and is now overseas serving in the navy.
  • jennifer52484
    jennifer52484 Posts: 888 Member
    I married my high school sweetheart almost three years ago. We first started seeing each other when we were 14! We are now 27/28.
  • FunkyGranolaTree
    FunkyGranolaTree Posts: 363 Member
    My High School sweetheart is married and has two kids. We are in regular contact because we ended things amicably and have become really really good friends. i am glad to still have him in my life.
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
    We stopped talking when he and my best friend broke up. I haven't heard from him in ages. But my other friend and him had always been friends and I knew Mark was/thought himself in love with her (which is why best dumped him-he was a **** to her) and she recently called to tell me and and her husband just talked as she's no longer talking to Mark bc he's *too* into her and doesn't respect that she's married.
  • erickirb
    erickirb Posts: 12,294 Member
    My HS GF of 3.5 years (dated until I was almost done university), got married last summer and just had her first child last week. She came to my wedding reception in 2005 and I went to hers in 2011. We are Face book friends, but don't see each other ofter (she lives in Texas, moved from east coast of Canada) but comes home every now and then and we have some of the same circle of friends.
  • scapez
    scapez Posts: 2,018 Member
    The only HS boyfriend that I ever cared anything about is married and lives in Georgia. After we dated/broke up we eventually became very good friends - such good friends, in fact, that I went to his (first) wedding. I was sad when he moved because I knew I was losing a friend. He ended up getting divorced and remarried and we're FB friends now but don't really talk.
  • showtime11
    showtime11 Posts: 17
    Buried in the back yard.....ummm.....I mean I have no idea where she is.
  • TDGee
    TDGee Posts: 2,209 Member
    Speaking of where is he now...
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  • Jain
    Jain Posts: 861 Member
    I bumped into my first boyfriend last year when I went home for a wedding. I was shocked by how much he's aged & not well, this guy is just a couple of years older than me but looks 60!. Turns out he's had some very serious health problems, so bad he can't work. He's married with 2 grown kids and very happy, even with all his troubles. It was good to catch up with him after so many years.
  • brentrhodes
    brentrhodes Posts: 139
    I had three "serious" girlfriends in HS. One of them is in Germany, married with kids. One of them is in Texas, married with kids. The the third one lives in my town, married with kids. I saw her at the grocery store last week. We're all still friends in some capacity. Nothing weird or anything.
  • ladytinkerbell99
    ladytinkerbell99 Posts: 970 Member
    I found out two weeks ago that he died of a heart attack at age 31.....a year ago. It broke my heart to hear that because we had a secret/complicated/wonderful thing. As much as I love my husband and would never give him up......I always thought that if anything, God forbid, happened to my husband, that my fist love and I would end up together in the end. We always had a connection. There was a time, almost 9 years ago, when I had to chose my current husband or Truman, my ex. I chose my current husband. I do not regret it. But I have been secretly grieving by myself over this and it is so hard. MY husband knows about Truman and that he passed. He just doesn't know how much it hurts. I think he would misunderstand my feelings.


    ^ I am sorry for your loss.
  • ItsMandeeBitch
    ItsMandeeBitch Posts: 159 Member
    Bump
  • Oliviamarie05
    Oliviamarie05 Posts: 528 Member
    My fiance had a crush on me in highschool, I was completely unaware. We were friends throughout highschool and then after we graduated, about two years later, he got back in touch with me. We will be together four years next month and getting married in August :heart:
  • islandnutshel
    islandnutshel Posts: 1,143 Member
    well one of them is at work....making me money for my child support and alimony payments. never should have married that abusive jerk.

    That 191 that you lost, was that him?
    Fantastic weight loss!
  • islandnutshel
    islandnutshel Posts: 1,143 Member
    Oh asked him to be my grad escort and married him. Celebrating our 20th in December
  • twogirlsmama
    twogirlsmama Posts: 45 Member
    My HS boyfriend has stalked me on and off for 15 years now. Grow up already!
  • RLeighP
    RLeighP Posts: 232 Member
    I never really dated in high school. Socially awkward, shy, overweight.

    My first real boyfriend...dated when I was 19 and he was 21. He was lazy, didn't want a job. Once he got one, he was content to have me pay for everything while he waited until I went home at night and then went and blew all his money at the strip clubs. Then he liked to come back and tell me about his lap dances.

    And then he broke up with me because he "wasn't treating me right." Shortly after, I met my now husband and then my ex got upset, saying that he "f***ked up" and thought that I would wait around for him. Yeah. Sure.

    My husband hates for me even to mention him. There was a lot of conflict between them once I met my husband, and my ex really showed how immature he was. I think he's living in Arizona now, haven't heard from him in years, and I refuse to add him on FB for sure!
  • hersheythecat
    hersheythecat Posts: 117 Member
    He's a friend of mine on facebook and run into him occaisionally. It's interesting how people change though. He's completely different from the way he is in highschool and it's hard for me to realize he's not my big ole teddy bear anymore.
  • Shelbert79
    Shelbert79 Posts: 510 Member
    He's in prison for murder, been there since he was 19...
  • karenjoy
    karenjoy Posts: 1,840 Member
    He is a friend on facebook...I would not touch him with a bargepole..but his parents loved me, really loved me, loved me more than any of his other girlfriends since, they even came to my Wedding..they were like second grandparents to my three children...we still get on really well...he now lives in a mobile home in his parents garden....with his girlfriend. Its not awkward at all for me.....lol

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