Where is he/she now?

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  • ladytinkerbell99
    ladytinkerbell99 Posts: 970 Member
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    I found out two weeks ago that he died of a heart attack at age 31.....a year ago. It broke my heart to hear that because we had a secret/complicated/wonderful thing. As much as I love my husband and would never give him up......I always thought that if anything, God forbid, happened to my husband, that my fist love and I would end up together in the end. We always had a connection. There was a time, almost 9 years ago, when I had to chose my current husband or Truman, my ex. I chose my current husband. I do not regret it. But I have been secretly grieving by myself over this and it is so hard. MY husband knows about Truman and that he passed. He just doesn't know how much it hurts. I think he would misunderstand my feelings.


    ^ I am sorry for your loss.
  • ItsMandeeBitch
    ItsMandeeBitch Posts: 159 Member
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  • Oliviamarie05
    Oliviamarie05 Posts: 528 Member
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    My fiance had a crush on me in highschool, I was completely unaware. We were friends throughout highschool and then after we graduated, about two years later, he got back in touch with me. We will be together four years next month and getting married in August :heart:
  • islandnutshel
    islandnutshel Posts: 1,143 Member
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    well one of them is at work....making me money for my child support and alimony payments. never should have married that abusive jerk.

    That 191 that you lost, was that him?
    Fantastic weight loss!
  • islandnutshel
    islandnutshel Posts: 1,143 Member
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    Oh asked him to be my grad escort and married him. Celebrating our 20th in December
  • twogirlsmama
    twogirlsmama Posts: 45 Member
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    My HS boyfriend has stalked me on and off for 15 years now. Grow up already!
  • RLeighP
    RLeighP Posts: 232 Member
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    I never really dated in high school. Socially awkward, shy, overweight.

    My first real boyfriend...dated when I was 19 and he was 21. He was lazy, didn't want a job. Once he got one, he was content to have me pay for everything while he waited until I went home at night and then went and blew all his money at the strip clubs. Then he liked to come back and tell me about his lap dances.

    And then he broke up with me because he "wasn't treating me right." Shortly after, I met my now husband and then my ex got upset, saying that he "f***ked up" and thought that I would wait around for him. Yeah. Sure.

    My husband hates for me even to mention him. There was a lot of conflict between them once I met my husband, and my ex really showed how immature he was. I think he's living in Arizona now, haven't heard from him in years, and I refuse to add him on FB for sure!
  • hersheythecat
    hersheythecat Posts: 128 Member
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    He's a friend of mine on facebook and run into him occaisionally. It's interesting how people change though. He's completely different from the way he is in highschool and it's hard for me to realize he's not my big ole teddy bear anymore.
  • Shelbert79
    Shelbert79 Posts: 517 Member
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    He's in prison for murder, been there since he was 19...
  • karenjoy
    karenjoy Posts: 1,840 Member
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    He is a friend on facebook...I would not touch him with a bargepole..but his parents loved me, really loved me, loved me more than any of his other girlfriends since, they even came to my Wedding..they were like second grandparents to my three children...we still get on really well...he now lives in a mobile home in his parents garden....with his girlfriend. Its not awkward at all for me.....lol
  • hollyk57
    hollyk57 Posts: 520 Member
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    :) My High School hunny? He's at home right now...waiting for me to come home and see him on my lunch break. We're married now with two little puppies (our kiddos)..... happier and closer than ever. I love him so much... truly my soul mate
  • hollyk57
    hollyk57 Posts: 520 Member
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    He's in prison for murder, been there since he was 19...

    Oh my!
  • theladyy
    theladyy Posts: 176
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    Doesn't exist.. :/

    Ditto.
  • DaBossLady24
    DaBossLady24 Posts: 556 Member
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    Him and I ended on horrible terms after going to college together and we just graduated. A year later and he's on the alumni board for our college and I now work here, so I'm forced to see him occasionally--oh, and he still attempts to talk to my current girlfriend (who he tried to get with after we ended things). :grumble:

    My life is one big bowl of awkward now. :laugh:
  • jad54
    jad54 Posts: 192
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    i couldn't really care less where my rally girl is or how many kids she's got.

    Go Irish!
  • _snw_
    _snw_ Posts: 1,305 Member
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    my high school boyfriend?

    probably prison.
  • Jking826
    Jking826 Posts: 131 Member
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    @ work emailing me because he loves me...lol.... We been married almost 4yrs with 2 kids.... :smile:
  • Donnacoach
    Donnacoach Posts: 540 Member
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    Mine is probably sitting belly up to a bar sucking beer through a straw!!!!
  • RainRedfield
    RainRedfield Posts: 597 Member
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    She and her husband live locally.

    They have kids and seems happy. We don't really talk anymore
  • monipie
    monipie Posts: 280 Member
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    i met my first boyfriend when i was 15, he was 21. got married and had a son w/ him- when i was 18. got divorced when i was 22. he lives in guam (where i am from originally) we only talk when it involves my son. sadly, he is a deadbeat dad.

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