Guys, should girls hit on you first?
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And if she asks me out... she's buying dinner!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:0
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"Hitting on" isn't necessary... just open your mouth and say something.... anything. I'll take it from there. :flowerforyou:
Seriously right?
I often wonder how many wonderful women I may have actually (and mistakenly) passed by...completely assuming they had no interest whatsoever.0 -
I've been in situations where you don't know who is who (like at a party or BBQ of a friend of a friend, and you don't know who s married to who and all that), but you're on their turf and they know, and they want to at least spark up conversation, I think they should and it's welcomed.0
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"Hitting on" isn't necessary... just open your mouth and say something.... anything. I'll take it from there. :flowerforyou:
Seriously right?
I often wonder how many wonderful women I may have actually (and mistakenly) passed by...completely assuming they had no interest whatsoever.
Ditto. Reading minds would come in handy on a daily basis!0 -
I'm not a guy.... obviously... but when hitting on someone, I always prefer to initiate it. I'm usually the biggest flirt out of my relationships though not always the sexual aggressor... that's prob 60/40.0
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hmm no wonder im single...im always afraid to hit on a guy first lol..damn0
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I love to make the first move, it's like a challenge! Although, I am married now so I try and behave and not flirt too much
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Not necessarily true. I feel flattered regardless and I wouldn't dare be a jerk about it.
but be honest is this something you'd love only if she was someone you'd want to go out with in the first place? :laugh:I love it when a woman shows me she's interested. It's a nice change of pace.
Good for you! I know so many men that are repulsed by women whom they are not attracted to hitting on them. I am always flattered when someone hits on me Except when I was 17 and a 46 year old man who worked for my school hit on me, that actually just scared me! 0 -
I prefer when girls hit on me.
Mostly because there's no fear of rejection on my end.
Plus, then I know they are interested.0 -
hmm no wonder im single...im always afraid to hit on a guy first lol..damn
Are you hitting on me?
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hmm no wonder im single...im always afraid to hit on a guy first lol..damn
Are you hitting on me?
:flowerforyou:
Maybe...lol..if i am im glad it was so simple...if only it worked this way every time.0 -
hmm no wonder im single...im always afraid to hit on a guy first lol..damn
Are you hitting on me?
:flowerforyou:
Maybe...lol..if i am im glad it was so simple...if only it worked this way every time.
Ahhh...maybe.
It's ok, I know when I'm being let down easy (I think!).
/sigh!
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Somebody said it earlier, Men are like Women, in that we all appreciate attention. Any guy/girl that abuses that attention & belittles a person for showing their feelings will ultimately end up sad & alone because of their lack of emotional empathy.
To the OP, I think more men than women realise are shy! not ignoring you. For myself I am terrible at reading cues & don't understand where politeness & friendliness ends & flirting begins.
Men can be pretty stupid:blushing:
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hmm no wonder im single...im always afraid to hit on a guy first lol..damn
Are you hitting on me?
:flowerforyou:
Maybe...lol..if i am im glad it was so simple...if only it worked this way every time.
Ahhh...maybe.
It's ok, I know when I'm being let down easy (I think!).
/sigh!
:brokenheart:
well u do have a sexy back...thats all i got to go off of lol0 -
hmm no wonder im single...im always afraid to hit on a guy first lol..damn
Are you hitting on me?
:flowerforyou:
Maybe...lol..if i am im glad it was so simple...if only it worked this way every time.
Ahhh...maybe.
It's ok, I know when I'm being let down easy (I think!).
/sigh!
:brokenheart:
well u do have a sexy back...thats all i got to go off of lol
But...but...
What more do you need??
/facepalm...this is always so complicated!!
Ok...I'm teasing! But...wait!!
How tall are you??0 -
Depend on how they approach, but is always nice to a guy when a girl clearly shows interest in him in any way. I wouldn't mind, and if I like her would be a plus.0
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I was going to say "No way! Guys should hit on the girls first! I would never go up to a guy" but then I thought back and realized that I'm almost always the one that initiates things lol. So never mind :blushing:
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And if she asks me out... she's buying dinner!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
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personally i have no problems going up to the guy and letting him know i'm interested by flirting with him. i'll leave it up to him to ask me out if he's interested, if not then i least i got to work out some flirt muscles.
in general i've found most single straight guys i've encountered are open to talking to a woman who approaches them first. i've never had any outright rejection like the kind i've seen women do to men.0 -
OP, I don't think any man would have a problem if u hit on them0
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I asked a guy out a few months ago and his response was "na, I don't think so".......I was going to pay and even told him this....His loss....
Go on and ask him, if he says no then it's definitely his loss.....:flowerforyou:0 -
Girls are welcome to hit on me at any time....sadly, not many do!0
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Let's put it this way. Guys who reject girls solely because the girls express interest in them aren't capable of forming healthy relationships anyway. They lose interest as soon as they feel like they've "won" you.
Go get 'im!0 -
Yea I am sick of girls being rude if I try and talk to them... so I think its time for girls to make a move... Also you girls are sooo hard to read half the time0
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Yes please. Talk to me, hit on me, make the 1st move however you see fit...it's all good.0
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i only hit on girls twice. Only 1 was "successful" I am a quiet guy when it comes to girls but doesn't mean i won't speak to them. I had girls hit on me in high school but i was too dumb back then.0
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I am a pretty shy, quiet, and slightly awkward guy so a girl would probably need to take the initiative with me (and even then I may react awkwardly).0
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hahah last girl i tried to hit on she was really shy/akward so i never knew if she wasn't interested or if she was just really scared -_- too bad for me :P. It totally took a toll with my confidence i am very nice and apparently in shape :ohwell:I am a pretty shy, quiet, and slightly awkward guy so a girl would probably need to take the initiative with me (and even then I may react awkwardly).0 -
I am not shy by any means, but like a lot of guys I often miss the subtle "hints" women often drop. Most of us guys are pretty linear in our thinking and don't pick up the hints women seem to think are obvious. If you like a guy be direct about it. What you might mistake for a lack of interest is just us being thick-skulled guys.
I have never been one to "hit on" anyone. I'll strike up a conversation sure enough, but have never used a pick up line in my life. Every woman I have ever dated was the one who initiated things in a direct fashion.0 -
I'm pretty shy so I love it when a girl hits on me0
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They are welcome to hit on me anytime!!
It may take them a few Jaeger bombs before they do though............0
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