What makes YOU turned off?

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  • CEQuick75
    CEQuick75 Posts: 311 Member
    Missing more than 2 limbs
    Shorter than 3'-5"
    Purple skin

    Beyond those, it's go time!
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Jealousy is number one.

    If I tell you you're my guy, don't get all jealous because there are other dudes in my life. I have friends. Some of them are male. Deal with it.

    I tend to agree (I'm not a big fan of jealousy...possessive women however...yeah I can handle that lol), but I can see both sides. Often, that jealousy comes from the fact that 9/10 of the previous women he dated told him he was their guy too. And then he found out that their friends were her guys, and her boss was her guy, and her brothers friends were her guys...etc, and the WHOLE time she was telling him they were just her friends and to chill out lol. You might say 'but he should trust me!'...and I'm sure he wants to, but sometimes it needs a little push in the right direction.

    Just playing devils advocate here :).

    I was on the other end of that as well. His friends were his number one girls, his chemistry professor (who was admittedly smoking hot) was his number one lady, his roommate was his number one gal. So I get it.

    But I will prove to you, over and over again, that you're my dude. See? Honesty is always the best policy. And I'll nudge. Don't you worry. :flowerforyou:

    PS: "You" = hypothetically my guy haha

    Ahh...good girl! You've got it covered then :).

    Seriously though...as long as that surety is given...if the guys still being an *kitten* about jealousy, find yourself a new man. For me...the effort she puts into making me feel secure, is something she deserves to have repaid ten fold with trust.

    :heart:
  • coopersmom2006
    coopersmom2006 Posts: 839
    The inability to do the things you say you are going to do. BIG turn off.
  • cmeade20
    cmeade20 Posts: 1,238 Member
    clingy/neediness
    lack of ambition/laziness
    guys who b!tch about how many pairs of shoes I own
  • dandrews010
    dandrews010 Posts: 253 Member
    bad breath and general miserable-ness. Like people who just can't get through a day without a needless moan, Bad breath is pretty disgraceful tbh.
  • Fairy_Farts
    Fairy_Farts Posts: 166 Member
    No sense of humor...or rather, someone who does NOT find me amazingly clever, witty and does not laugh at all of my jokes

    I just laughed so hard that I wet myself. I think that deserves extra credit, Ro :wink:
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    Skinny guys wearing wife beaters.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Skinny guys wearing wife beaters.

    And sagged skinny jeans?
  • LilRedRooster
    LilRedRooster Posts: 1,421 Member
    Light switches.
  • Kennkaru
    Kennkaru Posts: 210 Member
    Anti-intellectualism.
  • torylinnangel
    torylinnangel Posts: 253
    men who look like apes :noway: (sorry, no excessive bodily hair please (this doesn't mean you have to shave your legs/arms))
  • wellbert
    wellbert Posts: 3,924 Member
    Any perfume. It all smells like chemical skunk *kitten*.

    Lots of make-up. (it smells really bad, too.)

    Smoking of course. I'd rather scrape the gunk off the bottom of my car into my mouth than kiss another smoker. I spent half the night throwing up. Couldn't get the taste out.

    Feet. Especially gross,scaly feet.

    Keep your socks on in bed, please.
  • HauteP1nk
    HauteP1nk Posts: 2,139 Member
    Overly sensitive men (I dated a guy that cried all the time!)

    Cockiness & Narcissistic guys

    Lack of Manners
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Anti-intellectualism.

    Haha, if you recall, this is how you became one of my MFPeeps :).
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    Skinny guys wearing wife beaters.

    And sagged skinny jeans?

    *shiver*
  • kymillion
    kymillion Posts: 791 Member
    lack of teeth, spacing in teeth or general unhygienic appearance and or being ... people who aren't well proportioned. its a F@#ed thing I know but I am an artist .. ****e has got to add up, or I cant even hang with people. yes its OCD like. no I cant help it ..
    I also dislike people that are easily influenced and or abuse anything..

    I am a freak and this is fine with me.
  • LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo
    LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo Posts: 3,634 Member
    body odor
  • keem88
    keem88 Posts: 1,689 Member
    F* x-box

    thank you, i just got turned down for that **** last night. i guess it is more attractive than i am :/
  • yo_andi
    yo_andi Posts: 2,178 Member
    Skinny guys wearing wife beaters.

    And sagged skinny jeans?

    Bleuccchhhh.



    That is all.
  • sisierra
    sisierra Posts: 659 Member
    arrogance
    immaturity
  • abberbabber
    abberbabber Posts: 972 Member
    My husband just walked in the door, and let out a HUGE friggin fart. That was a huge turn off, and he will not be getting any tonight. Though I doubt that will make him learn his lesson.... I swear, sometimes I wish I were a lesbian! Men are pigs!!!!!!!

    That is the most anger I have ever seen towards a fart in all 31 years of my life.

    R.G. (AZ)
    P.G. (TX)
    S.M.ASCE
    Practicing Engineering Geology for 7+ years
    MFP Member 1+ year

    :laugh::laugh::laugh:

    For realz. Lighten up.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    F* x-box

    thank you, i just got turned down for that **** last night. i guess it is more attractive than i am :/
    *in his best Vin Diesel voice*

    That boy needs a beat down.
  • bluefox9er
    bluefox9er Posts: 2,917 Member
    'loose' instead of 'lose', poor grooming and Raiders/Cowboy/Packer fans ( who really should know it's LOSE and not loose).
  • jallen1955
    jallen1955 Posts: 121
    stupidity, meanness, bigotry, xenophobia...slovenliness,

    actually, pretty much everything
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    F* x-box

    thank you, i just got turned down for that **** last night. i guess it is more attractive than i am :/
    *in his best Vin Diesel voice*

    That boy needs a beat down.

    I SO heard Vin Diesel's voice :laugh:
  • keem88
    keem88 Posts: 1,689 Member
    F* x-box

    thank you, i just got turned down for that **** last night. i guess it is more attractive than i am :/
    *in his best Vin Diesel voice*

    That boy needs a beat down.

    LOL
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    stupidity, meanness, bigotry, xenophobia...slovenliness,

    actually, pretty much everything
    Oh...ouch lol.
  • itgeekwoman
    itgeekwoman Posts: 804 Member
    My serious turn off is stupidity. The obvious ones like bad breath and body odor of course.. but mostly I can't stand someone that can't carry on an intelligent conversation and laugh at jokes as well as be serious when it is appropriate.

    I don't suffer fools gladly.
  • abberbabber
    abberbabber Posts: 972 Member
    Hmmm....turn offs. Rudeness, I guess? I don't know, it doesn't happen often :laugh:


    ETA: Bad hygiene...yea, that's a definite one.
  • keem88
    keem88 Posts: 1,689 Member
    F* x-box

    thank you, i just got turned down for that **** last night. i guess it is more attractive than i am :/
    *in his best Vin Diesel voice*

    That boy needs a beat down.

    I SO heard Vin Diesel's voice :laugh:

    ^^ word, me too lol :tongue:

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