What makes YOU turned off?

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  • EBFNP
    EBFNP Posts: 529 Member
    Honestly, we all have our moments when we have a bad moment (ie bad breath, pass gas), so I can give a pass with that. However, a bad attitude or obnoxious personality...def a turn off!
  • Luvmesumkenny
    Luvmesumkenny Posts: 779 Member
    My husband just walked in the door, and let out a HUGE friggin fart. That was a huge turn off, and he will not be getting any tonight. Though I doubt that will make him learn his lesson.... I swear, sometimes I wish I were a lesbian! Men are pigs!!!!!!!


    ASHTRAY MOUTH!!!!
  • HellsKells
    HellsKells Posts: 671 Member
    B.O - probably goes without saying but hey....it's gross. Especially for a first impression.
    Unkempt facial hair - I don't wanna date sasquatch
    Clingy/needy guys - I did not realize how many of those are out there. No, I do NOT want to talk 5 times a day!
    Guys with baby mama drama - kids are cool; psycho exes are not.
    Guy that doesn't like music - I'm sorry, we can't even be friends if you don't like music.
    OCD Neat Freaks - I am not a slob, but I am also not a neat freak. If I wanna leave my bed unmade, I will!

    Yeah, I think it's fairly obvious that I'm picky, which is why I'm single :laugh:
  • Ocarina
    Ocarina Posts: 1,550 Member
    1. Man boobs. :P I don't mind a bit of chunk but major man boobs going on is a huge turn off.
    2. Smoking... my husband smokes occasionally but he knows he can't smell like it when I'm around. (We both smoked when we met... I quit... he hasn't)
    3. Any extra baggage... still talking to ex's
    4. Constant unnecessary anger. Got enough of this from parents growing up lol

    Yeah.... not a huge list. Hubby doesn't do any of these except for smoke so I'm okay!
  • taxidermist15
    taxidermist15 Posts: 677 Member
    1. Man boobs. :P I don't mind a bit of chunk but major man boobs going on is a huge turn off.
    2. Smoking... my husband smokes occasionally but he knows he can't smell like it when I'm around. (We both smoked when we met... I quit... he hasn't)
    3. Any extra baggage... still talking to ex's
    4. Constant unnecessary anger. Got enough of this from parents growing up lol

    Yeah.... not a huge list. Hubby doesn't do any of these except for smoke so I'm okay!

    ^^^^ OMG ZELDA FAN!!! awesome


    you can be as hot as sin, but if you have back hair, kicked to the curb


    you can be as
  • poedunk65
    poedunk65 Posts: 1,336 Member
    Rolls of fat on a ladies arms.......Disgusting!
  • xHelloQuincyx
    xHelloQuincyx Posts: 884 Member
    rude/ cocky. treats women badly. 'preppy' style. different political or religious views or just close minded. or unopen to accepting my beliefs
  • BodyRockerVT
    BodyRockerVT Posts: 323 Member
    Lack of confidence.

    I dated a few dudes that asked me, "Why do you like me?" INSTANT turn off. If you don't know your own worth no way dude.
  • emmymae22
    emmymae22 Posts: 206
    *edit* Ignorance and bad breath.
  • livestar
    livestar Posts: 140 Member
    assholery
  • gpstrucker
    gpstrucker Posts: 930 Member
    Stupidity
  • Chameleone
    Chameleone Posts: 281 Member
    gross feet...
    dirt under several finger nails...
    ignorance, and arrogance...
    and dirty washrooms....ugghh
  • MCinSoCal
    MCinSoCal Posts: 87
    Rudeness and bad manners
  • Twilightsunflower
    Twilightsunflower Posts: 324 Member
    wait you guys have an off switch?? not fair!!
  • Elzecat
    Elzecat Posts: 2,916 Member
    Guy that doesn't like music - I'm sorry, we can't even be friends if you don't like music.

    Yep.
  • HowieTwoPointZero
    HowieTwoPointZero Posts: 494 Member
    F* x-box

    Totally, Playstation or GTFO.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    rude/ cocky. treats women badly. 'preppy' style. different political or religious views or just close minded. or unopen to accepting my beliefs

    Accepting, or recognizing they are valid to you?

    Biiiiig difference there.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Lack of confidence.

    I dated a few dudes that asked me, "Why do you like me?" INSTANT turn off. If you don't know your own worth no way dude.

    Hang on there now!

    I doubt anyone would accuse me of being less than confident...and I'm well aware of what qualities I might possess, and what I don't....but it's STILL nice to hear from the specific person you're interested in, what she may or may not find interesting in me, as compared to what someone else does/did etc.

    For example...I may like you because when another pretty girl looks at me, you intinctively...and unconsciously grab my hand. The last guy might not have cared, and it may have annoyed the guy before. One trait, three opinions, and you may not even know it's a virtue.

    See what I mean?

    =p
  • dlpnrn2b
    dlpnrn2b Posts: 441 Member
    #1 having no backbone
    laziness
    baggy jeans, gangster look, hat sideways, huge rings in the ear or whatever they are called
    the constant "adjusting of oneself " down there in public (men)
    spitting just anywhere
    blowing of nose in public.. especially at the restaurant table (GAG)
  • LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo
    LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo Posts: 3,634 Member
    blowing of nose in public.. especially at the restaurant table (GAG)

    Ugh I also hate that.

    I see a lot of guys here in real life blowing away their "stuff" from their noses onto the floor in public, THAT'S GROSS :sick:
  • HellsKells
    HellsKells Posts: 671 Member
    uh...what do you mean by "stuff". Because my mind totally went in the gutter, and if that's where yours is, then where in the hell are you hanging out? LOL
  • clarkeje1
    clarkeje1 Posts: 1,641 Member
    Everyone farts people!
  • LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo
    LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo Posts: 3,634 Member
    uh...what do you mean by "stuff". Because my mind totally went in the gutter, and if that's where yours is, then where in the hell are you hanging out? LOL

    LOL not that. What I mean is the "stuff" coming from your nose whenever you have colds.
  • soccermoma11
    soccermoma11 Posts: 126
    being short haha over 6' os a must!!
  • HellsKells
    HellsKells Posts: 671 Member
    Hahaha....gotcha.

    Yeah, I think it's time for me to step away from the computer for the night. My brain is taking everything straight to Gutter City.
  • dlpnrn2b
    dlpnrn2b Posts: 441 Member
    uh...what do you mean by "stuff". Because my mind totally went in the gutter, and if that's where yours is, then where in the hell are you hanging out? LOL

    LMAO :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • moxleymama6
    moxleymama6 Posts: 532 Member
    Having no sense of humor


    & that terrible clearing the nose & throat sound some guys make ...like "hawking a lugey"!! Yuck!
  • laughingdani
    laughingdani Posts: 2,275 Member
    Smoking
    Unnecessary amounts of cursing (there's a time and a place for it....)
    Bad manners
    Whiners
    Attention seekers

    On another note.... I find people with gapped or slightly crooked teeth very attractive.
    The imperfections give character, imo.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Everyone farts people!

    Once, when my older boy was little (3yrs old) and his mother wasn't home...I farted. The look on his face was priceless, total shock and confusion. So I immediately acted like I'd lost something important (looking around, and under things) and told him that an alligator must have got loose in the house...and we'd better find it before Mom got home. Over the course of the next year...this became a huge game (yes, I'm a guy...deal with it) between us. So anyhow...I was working out in the garage one evening, and had gone into the house to get a drink. I see Rachel sitting on the couch talking in a very serious tone to Cristopher, with my very concerned looking son standing there looking back at her. I asked what was wrong, and she started to talk but he ran right over her explaining to me that there was an alligator loose in the house and Mommy wouldn't let him look for it.

    I looked at her, busted out laughing and said 'You farted, didn't you?!'

    She turned about 72 shades of red, and said 'Oh my God Cris!...what have you been TEACHING HIM?!?!?!'

    Yep, priceless.
  • HellsKells
    HellsKells Posts: 671 Member
    Everyone farts people!

    Once, when my older boy was little (3yrs old) and his mother wasn't home...I farted. The look on his face was priceless, total shock and confusion. So I immediately acted like I'd lost something important (looking around, and under things) and told him that an alligator must have got loose in the house...and we'd better find it before Mom got home. Over the course of the next year...this became a huge game (yes, I'm a guy...deal with it) between us. So anyhow...I was working out in the garage one evening, and had gone into the house to get a drink. I see Rachel sitting on the couch talking in a very serious tone to Cristopher, with my very concerned looking son standing there looking back at her. I asked what was wrong, and she started to talk but he ran right over her explaining to me that there was an alligator loose in the house and Mommy wouldn't let him look for it.

    I looked at her, busted out laughing and said 'You farted, didn't you?!'

    She turned about 72 shades of red, and said 'Oh my God Cris!...what have you been TEACHING HIM?!?!?!'

    Yep, priceless.

    LOL.....that's excellent. My dad always tried to pass it off as "barking spiders".

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