Would you rather be "wanted" or "needed" ?

Lula16

like Cheap Trick says "I WANT you to WANT me"! ..... 'nuff said!

GreatSetOfBrains

The number of needed is soooo low and I though there would be a few more.

I want to be both "wanted" and "needed" for sure! Of course i want to be "wanted". Being wanted is a sexual thing to me. I want him to want me in everyway I want him, why wouldn't i want it that way? But I also "need" my husband and I hope he needs me. I have a desire to be with him that causes me physical pain when I cannot be with him. Would I die? I don't know, but I'd like to think he is that wonderful for me. I don't want to live without him. I was just away in Europe for almost 3 weeks without him and I can't imagine not being able to reunite with him. When I saw him I "wanted" him don't get me wrong. But more than anything I needed him to be a part of me again. . . .

slyder432

wanted, I hate needy girls

^^^THIS

LovingLisa2012

wanted

bwmiller1

wanted. Needy and I don't mix. Unless that need something i want to give...and yes, i'm talking about lots of things....

SARgirl

This makes me think of a time that my husband and I were arguing over the phone and I told him "you better be glad I love you because I don't need you!". He had been out of town for a month so I was taking care of everything at home and obviously could fend for myself. We will be celebrating our 9 year anniversary this month

AlayshaJ

Both! My husband tells me regularly that he needs me and that he wants me. He has me, so I don't really understand that... but I don't question it! He is such a sweetie pie. :flowerforyou: :blushing:

However, He is very different than any other guy I have dated. He told me he needed me sometime within our first year of dating and it made me swoon. Haha

Another guy told me he needed me after about three months, I didn't like him that much, so I just stopped returning his calls.

hedgiie

wanted to be loved, needed to be ****ed

GetFitNowKrystal

Wanted

JanetLM73

Wanted for sure, but I feel like I'm more needed.

jgardner38

Wanted...

Music_is_my_soul

I think to be wanted you are needed...

NU2U

Wanted!!!

mslack01

Wanted. Needed isn't all its cracked up to be.

HotCuppaJo

Wanted. I hate needy guys.

Totally agree w/ this^^^^

statickey

Wanted

NikkiJoH

wanted xx

lbrsmom

Wanted....end of story

If I am needed, I would feel like a maid. I am independent....I don't NEED anyone. I WANT someone but I can do being single just fine. see the difference?

beach_please

Wanted for sure. I like to know that he can stand on his own two feet but that life WITH me is much better. I got kids that NEED me... I want him to simply WANT me.

onequirkygirl

I hate needy.

stevepierson

Wanted

ajohn252

I think needed honestly, I'm a total control freak and I might like
knowing that I'm having that much of an effect on someone's life.
That probably sounds weird so I'm probably not explaining it right lol
Whatever

amanda8o

Wanted, I have kids that need me I don't need a man that needs me too

skinnysal301

wanted, I hate needy girls

SherryGbaby

wanted!

Shweedog

Considering the definition of need is to be in want of; and the definition of want is to feel a need or desire for...I'm gonna have to say both.

cdngirl71

Wanted!!

_Bob_

Wanted, hands down

mississippi_queen

I want you to want me....... I need you to need me..... I love you to love me.... I'm begging you to beg me...... Just like the song says. I think they are pretty much a different manifestation of the same thing. :indifferent:

happydays2525

Wanted!!