Do you believe in love at first sight?

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  • galegetsthin
    galegetsthin Posts: 1,340 Member
    Love, no. Lust, yes. Sometimes that lust blends into love. Sometime that lust blends into a giant *kitten* that is gonna screw you over. It's all just a crapshoot.
  • SCVSarah
    SCVSarah Posts: 231 Member
    Lust and attraction, yes, but there's a lot more to actual love.
  • MustBeTheRows
    MustBeTheRows Posts: 377 Member
    I absolutely do. It happened to me. I saw her in a video, singing about hippos.
  • Mikkimeow
    Mikkimeow Posts: 1,282 Member
    No. Infatuation at first sight, yes. It can lead to love but most often it just leads to disappointment. I have a good man now but we'll see how long it takes for him to get bored of me like the others. *sigh*

    Isn't that a bit of a defeatist, self fulfilling prophecy type attitude? If he is a good guy... You shouldn't expect him to leave. Then you have no one to blame but yourself when he does.
  • fbmandy55
    fbmandy55 Posts: 5,263 Member
    Absolutely. I have experienced LOVe and Lust at first sight and there wasa big difference between the two!
  • BriskisGrl
    BriskisGrl Posts: 461
    Yes, and still married to him!
  • kgprice11
    kgprice11 Posts: 749 Member
    Yes I do as well as a thing called fate :)
  • adet983
    adet983 Posts: 138
    yes and never talked to any of them
  • logicman69
    logicman69 Posts: 1,034 Member
    Love?, no.... Attraction?, yes.

    This.. True love builds over time as 2 individuals get to know each other. There might be a connection, a spark, a "HEY NOW", but I believe that true love happens over time.
  • ESVABelle
    ESVABelle Posts: 1,264 Member
    I believe you're confusing it with "lust"...very similar though.
  • JanetLM73
    JanetLM73 Posts: 1,226 Member
    I used to, then I got married :laugh:
  • MariaLivingFit
    MariaLivingFit Posts: 224 Member
    More like infatuation with the option to see if you can live with somebody's bullsh!t as it unravels before you.

    :tongue:

    well said.
  • tlamarch
    tlamarch Posts: 105
    I do , As soon as I seen my bike I knew it was love at first sight
  • taxacctdfw
    taxacctdfw Posts: 67 Member
    Did when I was in my 20s but then I grew up and realized NO, it doesn't happen at first sight.
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    all i know is it didn't happen for me. I'm sure others feel differently, and that's cool. I don't think you believe in it, unless you have experienced it.

    That said - I had met and hung out with the woman who would become my wife a few times, but I do remember exactly how she looked, what she was wearing, where she was sitting, how she was sitting and the sunlight on her face the moment I realized that I did love her.
  • SPNLuver83
    SPNLuver83 Posts: 2,050 Member
    I sure do. From the moment I opened the door on my first date with my now-husband and saw his big, sexy and oh so charming smile I instantly fell head over heels for him :) That was nearly 6 years ago!
  • rextcat
    rextcat Posts: 1,408 Member
    I used to, then I got married :laugh:

    lol
  • Bigpelly8
    Bigpelly8 Posts: 504 Member
    Lust at first sight, not love.
  • AJ_Pete
    AJ_Pete Posts: 863 Member
    What... is.... love?
  • 76tech
    76tech Posts: 1,455 Member
    i do. i'm hopeless that way though.
  • LemonBurns
    LemonBurns Posts: 538 Member
    I believe in lust at first sight

    ^^ THIS ^^
  • secretlobster
    secretlobster Posts: 3,566 Member
    I did. The person I fell in love with at first sight, I just broke up with last night after more than seven years together. Love at first sight can K my A.
  • takingnameskickingbutt
    takingnameskickingbutt Posts: 231 Member
    Well When I met my late wife Zena, it was the end of the Night at a club in Norwich England, I knew by the end of those three dances I wanted her to be my wife, so I did something I never used to do and I asked her for her phone number, she then did something she never used to do and gave it to me. Not sure its first site but took about 20 mins. We were married 23 years 10 months and 9 days when god called her home.

    Oh my gosh! I love this so much! I am crying with love in my office!
  • Wonderwoman2677
    Wonderwoman2677 Posts: 428 Member
    Well When I met my late wife Zena, it was the end of the Night at a club in Norwich England, I knew by the end of those three dances I wanted her to be my wife, so I did something I never used to do and I asked her for her phone number, she then did something she never used to do and gave it to me. Not sure its first site but took about 20 mins. We were married 23 years 10 months and 9 days when god called her home.

    This made me cry...mostly from joy that you found each other, but also that you lost her.

    I found my husband the same way and knew the moment I met him.
  • hiker282
    hiker282 Posts: 983 Member
    Yup, people can connect instantly in such a way that they never want to spend their lives with anybody else. Attraction is the spark that can light the flame of a love that lasts a lifetime. But just as easily, that flame can be put out.
  • Mikkimeow
    Mikkimeow Posts: 1,282 Member
    What... is.... love?

    SO MUCH WIN
  • Temple_Fit
    Temple_Fit Posts: 299 Member
    Yes
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
    Maybe the expression love at first sight might not be the right one.

    Meeting someone and after a very short time feeling like you found part of you that was missing?

    Finding someone that is so completly compatible with you that you feel comfortable with him/her right away?
  • thebaconbeast
    thebaconbeast Posts: 560 Member
    No because it takes me a fairly long while to begin to like someone in the first place.
  • KellyKAG
    KellyKAG Posts: 418
    Nope. I believe in lust at first sight (which is fun) but you can't love someone without knowing them.
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