Hubby wants to see Magic Mike, should I be worried??

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  • TxAngel79
    TxAngel79 Posts: 318 Member
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    Its actually about a lot more then stripping. Maybe he heard that?!?!?! Or maybe he just wants to make you happy!! I know my husband won't go with me....but he is insanely jealous of the huge crush I have on Channing Tatum!
  • 76tech
    76tech Posts: 1,455 Member
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    There's actually more female nudity in the movie than male.

    attention, gotten. say what now? details. need details.
  • fuhrmeister
    fuhrmeister Posts: 1,796 Member
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    um, If he wanted to go see it with a group of guys I might worry. But really I think it's just a movie and if you relationship is fine otherwise I wouldn't worry. I think the movie looks funny.
  • kimi233
    kimi233 Posts: 271 Member
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    He offered because of answer A. It probably wasn't geniune, but you bought it and ended up going to Menards to buy home improvement stuff. WIN FOR THE HUSBAND!

    Yep pretty much, and he even got lucky with out seeing it, so that's a DOUBLE WIN! :laugh:
  • rob1976
    rob1976 Posts: 1,328 Member
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    Meh, I'm not clamoring to see the movie due to the swooning going on everywhere over Channing Tatum, but the movie looks like it might kind of funny. Had my wife asked me to take her to see it, I probably would have relented and just enjoyed spending time with her without our children. Luckily, her girlfriends have set up a single babysitter for all kids and they are going to see it themselves without any testosterone escort.

    As for your husband, he's probably going to check out the women going to see the movie. That is going to be a babefest for sure.
  • kati37
    kati37 Posts: 61
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    I just thought it was very sweet and funny he even offered. I was bummed because I couldn't go with the girlfriends to see it, our times didn't work out together, so he offered to take me instead! So he gets brownie points in my eyes. But I just figured he was looking at the big picture, wife gets a little turned on by the movie and he's right there to collect! LOL I guess I didn't see it any different than a woman going to a strip club. But I think the guys on here see it very differently. hmmm... that's kinda interesting. So just out of curiosity to the people that are replying B, what would say to a woman that went to a strip club with her husband?? Oh, and this is all in fun, no judgments or getting mad, just curious that's all!


    I think it is exactly that just him being sweet!! And so what if he does check out hot sexy guys!! When something is beautiful male or female I think we all look! Its about being comfortable in your own sexuality. I have been to strip clubs with my boyfriend! Not saying he would go see this movie with me. But we have both commented when we someone out that has a nice body or who is very attractive. Its human nature to pay attention to the beauty we are surrounded by everyday. Nothin more nothing less!!
  • jenbk2
    jenbk2 Posts: 623 Member
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    I think he wants to be the first man you see after watching the movie. This way he can wreap (sp ) the awards afterward :wink:
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
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    What is the big deal if a man wants to watch magic mike? No one would say anything if a girl wanted to go see Show Girls, Flashdance, Strip Tease, etc. Nothing wrong with admiring someone of the same sex...doesn't mean we are attracted to them sexually just means we appreciate their look and maybe even aspire to look like that ourselves (like you said - learn a thing or two haha)!
    It could also mean he is attracted to them. What is the problem with that?
    I don't think anywhere in my comment it said there WAS a problem with that. I said that it doesn't necessarily mean they are attracted to them sexually....I am implying that she shouldn't jump to conclusions and there could be more reasons than what she listed..........................................................
    If you didn't mean to imply that, I apologize. However the general tone of this thread is that if the guy is bi or even bi-curious, it's something to be worried about, and that is extremely offensive.
  • kimi233
    kimi233 Posts: 271 Member
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    What is the big deal if a man wants to watch magic mike? No one would say anything if a girl wanted to go see Show Girls, Flashdance, Strip Tease, etc. Nothing wrong with admiring someone of the same sex...doesn't mean we are attracted to them sexually just means we appreciate their look and maybe even aspire to look like that ourselves (like you said - learn a thing or two haha)!
    It could also mean he is attracted to them. What is the problem with that?
    I don't think anywhere in my comment it said there WAS a problem with that. I said that it doesn't necessarily mean they are attracted to them sexually....I am implying that she shouldn't jump to conclusions and there could be more reasons than what she listed..........................................................
    If you didn't mean to imply that, I apologize. However the general tone of this thread is that if the guy is bi or even bi-curious, it's something to be worried about, and that is extremely offensive.

    I posted earlier that this was all in good fun. I have NO DOUBT that my husband is straight, and it does cause a problem for ME if he is bi - or gay, given that I am his wife and have been with him for 14 years and have 4 kids with him. Do I care if anyone else on this earth is gay/bi absolutely not. As long as a person is happy it doesn't matter. I was laughing about this, because as with most reactions on here, for some reason guys get a bad rap for going to this movie, but if a girl goes to a strip club or watches porn with her man the majority of people consider that hot... that's all my point was being here. I know why my husband offered to go, he is a wonderful and caring husband that wants to make me happy... I thought it would be funny to hear everyone's reactions, that's all. I don't understand why you are getting all upset over this??
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
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    I posted earlier that this was all in good fun... I don't understand why you are getting all upset over this??
    I'm glad you think it's all in good fun, but the attitude of many of the posters here is very offensive. It's not even an overt "I hate gays" sentiment, it's a very casual attitude that of course a guy who likes other guys is weird and wrong. That's not "fun" to anyone who's experienced real discrimination. It's obviously not a real concern for you, but threads like this encourage discrimination and hate.
  • JoolieW68
    JoolieW68 Posts: 1,879 Member
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    Maybe he's hoping you'll be so revved up after the movie you can have wild teenage sex in the backseat of the car afterwards.

    Edit....why was I thinking the word 'wedding'..... I obviously need more sleep.
  • barbara4599
    barbara4599 Posts: 114 Member
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    I will go with answer D - he knew if he took you he would get lucky after!
  • AnitaVolpato
    AnitaVolpato Posts: 204 Member
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    Are you freaking kidding me... first of all I have no problem with gay people or bisexual etc. I WOULD have a serious problem if my HUSBAND was GAY or BISEXUAL...how would you not? that is bull****!
  • Erisad
    Erisad Posts: 1,580
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    Are you freaking kidding me... first of all I have no problem with gay people or bisexual etc. I WOULD have a serious problem if my HUSBAND was GAY or BISEXUAL...how would you not? that is bull****!

    If I had a bisexual hubby that wouldn't bother me as he would still like women and we may be able to have a sexy two man 1 girl three way, lol. If he was gay and never told me, I'd be a bit upset due to the lack of communication, not his sexuality. Then we could split and find people more suited to our needs.
  • firesoforion
    firesoforion Posts: 1,017 Member
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    It's received a lot of publicity, maybe he's just curious. Or maybe he thinks it's the next Harry Potter movie.
  • vytamindi
    vytamindi Posts: 845 Member
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    I'm glad you think it's all in good fun, but the attitude of many of the posters here is very offensive. It's not even an overt "I hate gays" sentiment, it's a very casual attitude that of course a guy who likes other guys is weird and wrong. That's not "fun" to anyone who's experienced real discrimination. It's obviously not a real concern for you, but threads like this encourage discrimination and hate.

    This is what has been bothering me about this thread, too. I mean, if he's bi, he's bi. Obviously he's chosen to be with OP for the time being, so as long as he's been honest with her, what's the big deal?

    My boyfriend and I have no issues finding attractive attributes of those who belong to our own sex. I can comment on women, he can comment on men, and as long as we're honest and together with each other at the end of the day, who gives a quack?
  • kesteele
    kesteele Posts: 127
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    My fiance wants to go see it with me. Only because most of the cast are in some of his favorite movies.
  • jyuubi
    jyuubi Posts: 109
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    Okay, if he does wanna see it for the guys, I wouldn't be /worried/. In case some people on this site are forgetting, guys can be bisexual and married to a woman at the same time.

    And I've read that there wasn't even that many scenes, and it was more storyline than anything?

    Personally I think it looks like a terrible movie, but I'm not for the whole stripper thing.
  • SCVSarah
    SCVSarah Posts: 231 Member
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    There are some breasts shown in the movie and you don't see any junk
  • focus4fitness
    focus4fitness Posts: 551 Member
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    Depends, did you ask him about the movie and then he offered. Or did he come up to you and offer out of the blue?

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