What's your BIGGEST MISTAKE??

curvykim78
curvykim78 Posts: 799 Member
What's been the biggest mistake of your life.....ever do something you wish you could totally forget or go back in time and change...and do over or do differently?
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  • LydiaA82
    LydiaA82 Posts: 36
    My biggest mistake was probably eating farrr tooooooo muuuccchhhh during both pregnancies, i put on 2.5 stone for each and fell pregnant with my son when my daughter was 3 months old (he was planned) so didnt have time to lose the first weight!

    Oh well lol
  • 1smemae94
    1smemae94 Posts: 365 Member
    Lets see... the biggest mistake in my life was trusting my ex (ty) as much as I did, and not trusting his friend (kyle) when he told me that ty was cheating on me. I ended up staying with ty until i walked in on him one day and learned the truth. I wouldn't go back and change it though because if it didn't happen I wouldn't have ever gotten to know kyle, and I wouldn't have learned what a decent guy is.
  • sillygoose1977
    sillygoose1977 Posts: 2,151 Member
    My first marriage. I was 19 and incredibly naive.
  • BNA_Mommy
    BNA_Mommy Posts: 36
    Marrying my daughter's sperm donor @ 19. Don't know why I didn't stand up to my dad when he told me that I had to get married because I was pregnant. I was divorced by the time I was 24, and besides having a wonderful amazing daughter, it was the worst thing I have ever done!
  • BubbleGumKisses
    BubbleGumKisses Posts: 156 Member
    Everything I did during my 3 years on Heroin... I'd take back every second of it, if I had the chance... I was the world's ****tiest person... FACT
  • recoiljpr
    recoiljpr Posts: 292
    Working for over 11 years at a job I detested, for a company I detested just because I got paid a lot of money.
  • curvykim78
    curvykim78 Posts: 799 Member
    Marrying my daughter's sperm donor @ 19. Don't know why I didn't stand up to my dad when he told me that I had to get married because I was pregnant. I was divorced by the time I was 24, and besides having a wonderful amazing daughter, it was the worst thing I have ever done!

    live & learn :)
  • CallieM15
    CallieM15 Posts: 910 Member
    Id be a far happier person If I didnt letmyself gain back weight previously lost.
  • curvykim78
    curvykim78 Posts: 799 Member
    My biggest mistake was probably eating farrr tooooooo muuuccchhhh during both pregnancies, i put on 2.5 stone for each and fell pregnant with my son when my daughter was 3 months old (he was planned) so didnt have time to lose the first weight!

    Oh well lol

    I think we've all eaten too much, that's why we're here on MFP. :) lol
  • thewang
    thewang Posts: 71 Member
    Same happened to me!
  • SamanthaD23
    SamanthaD23 Posts: 53 Member
    Weight-wise? Getting a desk job that pays a lot.
  • BubbleGumKisses
    BubbleGumKisses Posts: 156 Member
    How bout you Kim?
  • CallieM15
    CallieM15 Posts: 910 Member
    Everything I did during my 3 years on Heroin... I'd take back every second of it, if I had the chance... I was the world's ****tiest person... FACT

    Hind sight is 20/20. At least 3 years isnt a lifetime. Youre an amazingly strong person!
  • MissAnjy
    MissAnjy Posts: 2,480 Member
    Marrying my (now) ex-husband "for the kids sake"
  • Skipping college to start my life with that one guy. Yes, you can see that ended well.
  • LydiaA82
    LydiaA82 Posts: 36
    My biggest mistake was probably eating farrr tooooooo muuuccchhhh during both pregnancies, i put on 2.5 stone for each and fell pregnant with my son when my daughter was 3 months old (he was planned) so didnt have time to lose the first weight!

    Oh well lol

    I think we've all eaten too much, that's why we're here on MFP. :) lol

    Exactly :)
  • nakedsun
    nakedsun Posts: 115
    I don't really regret any of my mistakes because they make me who I am today.

    But probably a toss up between attempting to run away with a boy at the age of 16. It messed up a lot of family trust even though I got stopped at the border. It was more stupid and I wish I had enough foresight to see how dumb it was. The other mistake is when my grandfather was dying. I didn't go to the hospital and i didn't see him before he passed. I know I had my reasons then but at this point I don't remember them. All I remember is not seeing him before he was gone.
  • jesusHchris
    jesusHchris Posts: 1,405 Member
    Watching that movie "Lost if Translation".

    I will never get those two hours back.
  • curvykim78
    curvykim78 Posts: 799 Member
    Id be a far happier person If I didnt letmyself gain back weight previously lost.

    Me too! :(
  • XmanMike
    XmanMike Posts: 183 Member
    Leaving damn near the perfect woman for me because of my immaturity. Dumbass! It happened 13 years ago and I think that's why I still struggle with being single. Karma: it's a b*tch! Still believe in love and all I need is one woman to believe in me...
  • Bobby_Clerici
    Bobby_Clerici Posts: 1,828 Member
    I brought along a non-criminal friend to a hold up, and he ratted me out first chance he got.
    I spent 2 years in Juvenile Prison.
    Anyway, know your associates before trusting them with the things in life that could get you popped with a felony.
    Lesson Learned!:drinker:
  • CallieM15
    CallieM15 Posts: 910 Member
    Leaving damn near the perfect woman for me because of my immaturity. Dumbass! It happened 13 years ago and I think that's why I still struggle with being single. Karma: it's a b*tch! Still believe in love and all I need is one woman to believe in me...

    How sweet. Love doesnt know time! Is there a chance that things could work out now?
  • Prudiddy
    Prudiddy Posts: 262 Member
    My biggest mistake was probably eating farrr tooooooo muuuccchhhh during both pregnancies, i put on 2.5 stone for each and fell pregnant with my son when my daughter was 3 months old (he was planned) so didnt have time to lose the first weight!

    Oh well lol

    I agree with this^ mine was putting on 100lbs the first pregnancy and 60lbs the second was the biggest mistake any human could make! Now we have to work so hard to get it off, but I heard the body will look twice as good as it did before by adding strength training to our programs. We will see!
  • LinaBo
    LinaBo Posts: 342 Member
    My last job. Even though my previous employers wouldn't win any awards for "most understanding and progressive group of people", I shouldn't have been working for much of the 3.5 years I was working there. I was REALLY sick, and really stressed, and behaved in ways that dragged my personal troubles through my work space, and my work troubles through my personal space. I only continued working because I had no other way of putting a roof over my head and food on my plate. I shat where I ate, too, and even though I don't regret the person (who is still one of my best friends), we should've kept it outside of work, more than we did.
  • iLoveMyPitbull1225
    iLoveMyPitbull1225 Posts: 1,690 Member
    wasting my time with the wrong men for YEARS at time
  • SPNLuver83
    SPNLuver83 Posts: 2,050 Member
    Putting up with my abusive ex husband for as long as I did.... and not listening to my father when I was younger.. :/
  • Coco_UK
    Coco_UK Posts: 84 Member
    Watching that movie "Lost if Translation".

    I will never get those two hours back.

    hahaha! I am with you there!
  • BubbleGumKisses
    BubbleGumKisses Posts: 156 Member
    My biggest mistake was probably eating farrr tooooooo muuuccchhhh during both pregnancies, i put on 2.5 stone for each and fell pregnant with my son when my daughter was 3 months old (he was planned) so didnt have time to lose the first weight!

    Oh well lol

    I agree with this^ mine was putting on 100lbs the first pregnancy and 60lbs the second was the ***biggest mistake any human could make!*** Now we have to work so hard to get it off, but I heard the body will look twice as good as it did before by adding strength training to our programs. We will see!



    PSHHHH if that's the biggest mistake any human could make, I'd like to know what planet you live on
  • HellsKells
    HellsKells Posts: 671 Member
    Partying my way right out of university. I had a full ride that I basically gave away for booze and drugs. :frown:
  • _stephanie0
    _stephanie0 Posts: 708 Member
    Watching that movie "Lost if Translation".

    I will never get those two hours back.

    lmao.

    this is how i feel about "the wicker man"