can you date your brothers ex wife

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  • 4daluvof_candice
    4daluvof_candice Posts: 483 Member
    well what's off limits to me, if I were single are:

    1. family members exes
    2. best friend exes

    :wink:
  • WeepingAngel81
    WeepingAngel81 Posts: 2,232 Member
    WOWWW!!! HOLY ZOMBIE THREAD!!!!

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    The trolls must be uniting today :wink:
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    WOWWW!!! HOLY ZOMBIE THREAD!!!!

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  • SofaKingRad_II
    SofaKingRad_II Posts: 591
    It would be so weird to me knowing that my spooge is going in the same exact spot as my brother's....:blushing:
  • Macstraw
    Macstraw Posts: 896 Member
    Not gonna even get into whether I think it's OK, just gonna ask 2 questions:

    1) Are you prepared to deal with your brother and the rest of your family?

    2) Are you aware that she might be his ex for a reason that's not readily apparent to you? And that you putting any blame on your brother for the failure of the marriage might be tainted by just getting her point of view?

    (OK, 2 1/2 questions).........
  • kuroi19
    kuroi19 Posts: 45
    If you and your brother are on good terms you should ask him first.
    If you are on bad terms or don't speak, screw it go for it if you want to.
    Most people would feel weird to get with someone even their friend had called dibs on let alone brother, I mean they slept together, but if you think it through and it doesn't bother you, whatever why not.
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  • _HeartsOnFire_
    _HeartsOnFire_ Posts: 5,304 Member
    WOWWW!!! HOLY ZOMBIE THREAD!!!!

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    Love it!
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  • jdforshort
    jdforshort Posts: 269 Member
    Some cultures would consider it providing a home and a father for the boy especially if it's OK with the in-laws! Uncle-daddy is the stigma name given by the "judges". I think the boy will have a less of a problem than the "judges" do! Is it better for him to have a complete stranger, with no blood ties, as a step-father? Sometimes, in joint families kids call the eldest uncle big daddy or some patriarchal name anyway. Much ado about nothing, if you really look at it from the benefit point of view, keeping the "family" , albeit bloodline together (if you can think beyond individuality that is). Bottom line is, the guy needs to figure out whether it is just a fling or "weather it together".
  • chrisrivers3517
    chrisrivers3517 Posts: 3
    Yes its been 20 years since their divorce, and also 20 years since i have seen her.
    Like I said. I lost her when he did. Not this time..
    Npe, I'm not gonna sneak around. He will either get over it, or die with it.
    We dont think its him thats gonna have the issue. Its gonna be his wife now.

    GREAT you came back! Let's open up this can of worms, shall we...

    So you think your brother's wife will have problems with you dating his former wife. Interesting. Tell us why.

    (I'd pay cashy money to stop all the replies from people reading the first post and responding with no clue what's really going on here)

    And your first post..some of it didn't make sense. What's been 20 years? Since they broke up? And you haven't seen her in all that time? Also, boobs?
  • Brianna716
    Brianna716 Posts: 303 Member
    my cousin married her son's father's brother... uncle daddy! keep it classy.
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  • Hellbent_Heidi
    Hellbent_Heidi Posts: 3,669 Member
    Year and a half old thread....pretty sure he's no in need of advice here anymore.....:ohwell:
  • kdb247
    kdb247 Posts: 326 Member
    Nope:noway:

    Family member ex-anyone are off-limits; it’s an unwritten rule. But I know some people feel they are destined to be together, fate or whatever. I say no!
  • OliveRiver
    OliveRiver Posts: 81 Member
    Besides, do you really want his sloppy (and probably psycho) seconds??

    ^This^
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    That's a line you don't cross, IMO. Doesn't matter how long a time period goes by.
  • kdb247
    kdb247 Posts: 326 Member
    Year and a half old thread....pretty sure he's no in need of advice here anymore.....:ohwell:

    Never know; maybe someone needs this with more advice
  • M22KY
    M22KY Posts: 61 Member
    LOL! This brings to mind them damn Jacksons. Dated/married the same woman and she had kids by both of them. So the kids are brothers and sisters AND cousins!! :grumble:
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Why is this zombie still eating brains....
  • nancybuss
    nancybuss Posts: 1,461 Member
    My mother-in-law is married to her ex's brother. He's a great guy compared to the ex.
  • somefitsomefat
    somefitsomefat Posts: 445 Member
    Is it flat out wrong? No. They are ex's. Is there an underlying bit of "ick factor" to it? Maybe. Think Uncle-Step Daddy. Do what feels right for you though. It's a free country (mostly).
  • ItsMeGee3
    ItsMeGee3 Posts: 13,254 Member
    Wow, that's just wrong on so many levels. YUK
  • bsprual
    bsprual Posts: 1
    yeaaaah.. i dunno about that. You dont by any chance live in Kentucky do you? :laugh:
  • Pinkee33
    Pinkee33 Posts: 769 Member
    Of course you can.... you aren't blood related! I, personally, don't see what the big deal is over this.... :huh:
  • auburngirl06
    auburngirl06 Posts: 153 Member
    Negatory!

    Dude.... Your brother put his junk in that. No. Just no

    THIS is what first went through my head. No way dude.
  • fuhrmeister
    fuhrmeister Posts: 1,796 Member
    No....It will just be messy all the way around. There is someone less controversial out there for you. Good luck finding her.

    That being said you should feel free to have a relationship with your nephew and perhaps be friends with your brother’s ex if you can “behave”. My nephews mean the world to me and I would never give them up if a divorce happened to my sister.
  • fbmandy55
    fbmandy55 Posts: 5,263 Member
    I know a lady who married her husband's brother 5 weeks after her husband died of cancer. She got about $100k in life insurance, bought a brand new house and Harley for her new husband and bought cars for all of her kids. She blew the entire $100k in 3 months.

    They lost the house she bought and now are living in a **** hole. Karma I say.
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,267 Member
    ok, I heard the story... my answer - no
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,984 Member
    "This is my uncle... Wait, no, my step-dad... wait, no, my uncle..."
    Oooh, and if they have a kid.............................this is my cousin.......no wait my half sibling......wait my full sibling because we share mom's genes and some of dad's genes too?

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