Need to Lose 100 LBS -Robins Thread !

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  • skinnyjeanzbound
    skinnyjeanzbound Posts: 3,932 Member
    edited October 2014
    Okay, it seems to be working in google chrome--yay!

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    This one is me (on the right) at 2009 Pridefest. Sadly, this is a "good" picture of me at my heaviest. One of the few I saved from that time b/c I thought I looked so "trim."

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    This one is 2009 or 10 (also on far right) at Edison Park Fest. I know you can't see much of my body, but I think you can still see how much heavier I was in my face alone.

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    This one is in Switzerland July 2013. The man on the van is an advert for a Brocki which is like our flea markets here in US.

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    Finally, this is last month with Susan in NYC.
  • RobinsEgg
    RobinsEgg Posts: 3,702 Member
    @Skinny - I'm so sorry to hear about your frustrating work schedule - and on top of that your very important work with the Union. I'm sure at some point you've had students grade each others work, is that possible now? Or open discussion even "for grades made on their participation and/or commentary" while you mainly just ignore them and grade their papers while they try to remember and talk about what they wrote? (in other words just trick them into talking during class so you can grade?) I don't know...I hate to see anyone work to the point of tears....I've def. been there myself.

    @Challenge - Skinny's suggestion is great, and I agree as well, November would be good for an "All In" Challenge. I am so fond of the Challenge we used for October and the past several months, I think it should just become a Standard Monthly challenge, because - heck, that is what we are here for - to get our Calories In Less than our Calories Out, Right? So, I propose we do just that... and then have another Monthly Challenge we work on each to our own degree of capability. There are so many of us at different levels of weight loss to go, exercise expertise, and nutritional knowledge. All of us are at different levels of learning.

    Again, I liked Skinny's plan to give herself 3 "free" days - one for Thanksgiving here in the US - and 2 for other reasons. She can plan ahead and cut back on calories ahead of time or plan extra exercise to combat the added calories.

    @Everyone - so what do you think of these Challenge ideas.
  • RobinsEgg
    RobinsEgg Posts: 3,702 Member
    @Skinny - you looook mahvelous! so super skinny! And @Susan - you're looking great too! I can tell that boot camp is making a difference!
    - Glad you got the photos to work!
  • skinnyjeanzbound
    skinnyjeanzbound Posts: 3,932 Member
    Yes, and to her credit susan looks thinner in person. That picture doesn't do her justice, but it's the best one of me, so I selfishly posted it. :#
  • NK1112
    NK1112 Posts: 781 Member
    @everyone ... I like RobinEgg's idea for @challenge
    .... keep the under or at calories for day rolling as a standard
    .... add another challenge we work on each to our own degree of capability.
    count me in.
    Niki
  • BohemianCoast
    BohemianCoast Posts: 349 Member
    edited October 2014
    Hey chaps, I'm back from my holidays!

    The last few days we've been staying with my brother and his family in their farmhouse just over the border in Scotland. The photo I've attached is the view from their window; how cool is that? It was a bit cool and misty all the time we were there but we still got some nice walks out in the lovely countryside. Food-wise, well, we ate a lot of delicious food!

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    Squeezing in personals -- sorry to all those i'm missing.

    @NaomiFilcock -- Naomi, everyone used to sing that song in schools here in the UK.
    @Morgori -- Tom, Martin Gardner was a huge influence on me while I was growing up, and I studied maths at university. Now I'm helping my daughter work towards her maths university entrance exam and I'm giving her Gardner's books to read.
    @GrammyWhammy -- Marsha, let me know when the date in June is! It would be great to meet up if the timings work out.
    @tlh0407 -- Tracy, my sister-in-law is a wedding cake maker. It's a good business but she's working every weekend! And my local Facebook swap group is full of Halloween costumes this week; I think being able to swap makes it much more affordable.
    @jtconst -- Tammy, yay for kittens!

    I am loving starting to see everyone's photos!

    And a great big WELCOME to all the newlings! This is such a great thread.

    Right. My big plan for today is to work out what we're going to eat for the rest of the week and to procure a pumpkin ready to carve tomorrow.

    -- Alison

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  • kah68
    kah68 Posts: 1,515 Member
    edited October 2014
    Wow, October has flown by—it dawned on me yesterday my birthday is next week. :astonished: I’m glad daylight savings time ends on Sunday, too—while I like the sun out later I’m looking forward to more sleep!

    I like the idea of an “all-in” challenge for November; I’ve been a bit lax since June and really need to step it up. I didn’t like the newer gym as much as I thought I would so didn’t go often for cardio—just goes to show you cheaper isn’t always better. :confused: Now that I’m back to my old gym I feel like I’m back in my comfort zone and I’m looking forward to getting back into the pool and yoga along with trying new things to me, like Pilates. I also noticed they have added a bunch of new group fitness classes, I’m not one for group fitness but I may try the new Barre class.

    @Karen~Great pics, amazing transformation! Thanks for sharing. Susan looks great too! :smile: I wish I had more pics of myself, but I don’t. I think my friend took one of me in Newport when we toured The Elms mansion, need to ask her to send it to me. I had my picture done by the ship for one of the formal nights, but didn’t like the way it came out—I’m too critical of myself sometimes. :neutral_face:

    @NK112~Cute pics of your kitties.

    @Alison~What a beautiful picture! Scotland is on my bucket list.

    AFM~I got back to my old gym last night, it felt good to be back. I got everything set up through member engagement and then spoke with one of the trainers regarding sessions with the registered dietician (RD), Pilates and Yoga. I’m anxious to get back into yoga and try Pilates—my chiropractor has been on me about yoga, so he’ll be happy I’ve taken this step. I’ll start there and then in December or January I’m planning on repeating the resting metabolic test and scheduling some sessions with the RD to see what I need to tweak. Tonight I have a session with my trainer, so first cardio back in my old gym will be tomorrow.

    I love that it’s so much easier to post photo’s now. Just a couple of more pics to share, one of Zoe since I haven’t posted any since she was a baby and she’s grown so much—she’s a lion. :lol: The other is in Acadia National Park in Bar Harbour, ME.

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    Bear Creek at Acadia National Park in Bar Harbour, ME. The water was so still and I loved the way the trees reflected on the water. You can't see it but on the far right was the largest beaver hut I've ever seen!

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    Zoe, now 2, and silly as ever! :wink:


  • Lives2Travel
    Lives2Travel Posts: 682 Member
    @kah - Lovely pictures! Glad you had a good trip.

    @robin - You're making progress. You seem to be doing more every week and I hope your recovery continues apace.

    @skinnyjeanz - I had the same issue with pictures. Google Chrome was also my friend.

    @susan - So sad about your friend. I've been there and know how helpless you feel. Prayers for you during this hard time and that your decision will be one that leads you to happier times.

    AFM - Had a wonderful (and food filled) weekend. My mother's 85th birthday was on Saturday and I had the whole family over for dinner. Made a delish Butternut Squash soup which was actually pretty healthy having just 1 cup of light cream. I'm going to make a double batch and freeze it for the cold nights ahead. Also, made a Brioche chocolate chip bread pudding with cinnamon rum sauce for dessert. Oh my. Nothing remotely healthy there, but it was sublime.

    Went shopping for engagement rings with DD. So exciting! She found a beautiful platinum band with tapered baguettes on either side and was planning on shopping for a diamond with her fiance in Boston. My mother has 2 beautiful diamond rings (one from my Dad and one from my Stepdad) that are specified to come to me in her will. She offered to give them to me now so DD and fiance could use one of them for her ring and the other can be put aside for my other DD. DD was so touched and surprised when we gave her the option to use either of the diamonds in her ring. Her fiance-to-be is ordering the band and when it arrives, I'll take the ring she chose to have the stone removed and set in her band. Not exactly sure when they plan to get engaged, but thankful she has found a wonderful young man! And oh so thankful that I have a Mom who is willing to help them on their way!

    Love the idea of "All In" for next month. I've have been "Kinda In" for the last few months and need to get my act together.
  • NewCaddy
    NewCaddy Posts: 845 Member
    Wednesday Wish: No one else gets this stomach bug. My nephew was over on Friday night and early Saturday morning he threw up. He acted fine before and after so we just assumed he ate too much popcorn and drank too much pop at the movie on Friday night. WRONG!! Got a phone call from school on Monday morning that Emma felt nauseous and needed to come home. Luckily it was only on Monday that she felt bad. Fast forward to Tuesday a.m. (3 a.m. to be exact) and I find myself quickly cleaning my toilet so I can throw up. UGH! Feel great today so at least it is fast moving, but…

    @Susan…good luck with your decision. They talk about pros and cons sheets (which are important) but listen to your gut…usually it is right. Sorry to hear about your friend…I’ll pray for his family, pain medication that will keep him comfortable and peace for everyone that is losing him from their lives.
    @Niki…Another 2 pounds…that is awesome!
    @Laurie…no lip from your dad???  HA!
    @Karen…I can’t add pictures the new way either. I did have success (semi – someone had to fix the sizing) using the old way. While I understand that bargaining for the contract is important, it’s such a bummer that it’s going to eat up so much of your time. I’m usually doing this from work computer so I don’t have access to Chrome…hmmm.
    @Kelley…beautiful pictures. While I have been to the East coast, it has always been New York and south. My mom has commented about wanting to do a leaves tour…we’ll have to see about it.

    AFM…with a sick daughter and then a sick self, Monday and Tuesday I did not get any workouts in. I even had my Mom take Jacob to saxophone lessons so Emma wouldn’t leave the house. We do have a workout planned for tonight so, I’ll get back on track.

    Fall is officially upon us. My trees (for the most part) are bare and the temperature is dipping very low overnight. I finally had to shut my bedroom window and am contemplating turning on the heat. We are seeing 40-50s for the daytime highs and 20-30 for the overnight lows. I’m trying real hard to wait until at least November 1st for the heat. Guess it’s time to pull out some blankets!!
  • Morgori
    Morgori Posts: 954 Member
    Top of the morning to everyone.

    Happy International Internet Day
    International Internet Day is celebrated worldwide, every year on 29th of October. Since the year 2005 the International Internet Day has been famously celebrated to commemorate a momentous day in the history of telecommunications and technology. This was the event of the sending of the first message, first electronic message which was transferred from one computer to another in 1969. This was situated in California, in the USA. Today the International Internet Day is also an on-line project germinating from the society, of the society and for the society. The International Internet Day project is open to everyone and anyone just as access to the internet is open and free for everyone. The International Internet Day thus celebrates this grand democratic fervor which in essential is linked to this idea of liberation, where everyone is afforded an equal opportunity and an equal advantage to share of services, which connect the world to each other.
    Gleaning back at the history of the event would inform us that the journey to this era of easy communication wasn't exactly as simple as surfing up information on Google. For starters it the present scenario has been preceded by years of attempts including failed attempts to render digital data visible to everyone, instead of using teleprinters and other devices. At the time when history was being made, Internet was known as ARPANET (Advanced Research Projects Agency Network). This was the year of 1969 when Charley Kline, a student programmer at the UCLA transmitted the first ever message on 29th of October in 1969. This event was to follow only few months after the first man landed on the moon. Great things were happening in the world, and this was one of it. Charley Kline, working under the supervision of Professor Leonard Kleinrock, transmitted a message from the computer housed at the UCLA to a computer positioned at the Stanford Research Institute's computer. The two computers, one at the UCLA was the SDS Sigma 7 Host computer and the receiver was the SDS 940 Host at the Stanford Research Institute. Interestingly enough the message was a text message comprising the word 'login'. But as it would transpire only the letter L and O could be transmitted across, because following the initial transmission the system collapsed and the transmission crashed.
    The Internet is a worldwide, publicly accessible series of interconnected computer networks that transmit data by packet switching, using standard IP (Internet Protocol). Now Internet has become one of the most important part of our life. Most of us cannot think of spending one day without internet. Internet has made our lives much easy.

    “If you chase two rabbits, both will escape.” ~Unknown

    Tom
  • kah68
    kah68 Posts: 1,515 Member
    @Tracy~Yuck on the stomach bug--glad you and Emma are better. Wow, 40s-50s and heat? Hard for me to comprehend since I'm still running the a/c--autumn hasn't made it to Texas yet! :smirk:

    @Tom~Its also national cat day! :smiling_imp:
  • mountmary84
    mountmary84 Posts: 259 Member
    I weighed in today and am down 3.5# this week. You all help more than you know. Thank you! Now if I could just reset my ticker to reflect that, but I have a little catching up before anything will show as I initially started at a lower weight. Oh well, I will get there regardless.
  • Lauriek70
    Lauriek70 Posts: 2,087 Member

    Well last night was not a good night as dad went to the hospital about midnight. He will be going to a rehab center (nursing home). I hope he gets better this time. It took about 4 EMT's and firefighters to get him out of his chair.

    I will be back later, right now I need a nap.

  • Morgori
    Morgori Posts: 954 Member
    edited October 2014
    kah68- http://www.nationalcatday.com/about.htm
    - I have internet but I do not have a cat >:):)

  • Morgori
    Morgori Posts: 954 Member
    edited October 2014
    Cat Day
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  • GrammyWhammy
    GrammyWhammy Posts: 484 Member
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    Because it's National Cat Day, I thought I'd post a photo of our kitty, Blue, so named because he's a blue tabby. It was taken December 2008, right after we adopted him. Blue was 3 years old and malnourished at the time, but now needs to join MyFitnessPet as his belly, which is very pretty, plump and spotted, has grown substantially. He was 10 pounds when he chose us, and now weights 16 pounds, despite being on a very restricted diet for years. Apparently our weight issues are genetic :D

    NK: My first cat was also named Strawberry and was a dead ringer for your Strawberry. Believe in reincarnation?

    Allison: Your posted photo is exactly what I hope to see next year when we get to Northern Ireland and Scotland. Getting excited now.

    Kelley: The cruise photos are gorgeous! Camera or phone?

    Barbara: Nice loss! Keep up the fab work.

    Laurie: A setback for your dad? So sorry. Hope rehabilitation is just the ticket and he's better pronto.

    Welcome home, Helen, from another prodigal.

    October Challenge:
    23/29 days under my 1350 goal (5 of the 6 days I was over only a wee bit, 1 day over about 500); 24/29 days of cardio.

    I like RobinsEgg/Ellen's November Challenge idea of "All In," with the modification of allowing a free day on Thanksgiving. Also, I'm going to try to get my fitbit steps up to 10,000 everyday. Normally, given my knee and foot injuries, I log about 7,000-8,000 steps daily except on training days when I hit 10,000. Now that I feel a little better, I'm going to try to bump it up to 10,000 everyday except Sunday.

    Think I'm coming down with something as my throat is very sore, so I'll say good night.

    Zicam is my friend.

    GrammyWhammy=Marsha
  • skinnyjeanzbound
    skinnyjeanzbound Posts: 3,932 Member
    @marsha—Love the pic of blue! So cute. I also fear I may be getting sick. Nothing serious just a tiny bit of congestion that I hope doesn’t develop into anything more serious. Thanks for the reminder to take my zicam.

    @laurie—sorry to hear about your dad’s setback—get some rest.

    @barbara—3.5 lbs is awesome!! Congrats!

    @tracy—sorry to hear you and yours were sick. We have had very chilly nights and have already turned on the heat for limited periods to chase out the chill. I’m hearing whispers of “snow” in the forecast. Definitely not ready for that.

    @L2T—congrats on your DD’s upcoming engagement. I don’t think either of my grandmothers had an engagement ring. Both were immigrants with no money for such extravagances when they married. My mom’s mother did have a lot of jewelry and my sisters and I each got to choose a ring when she passed. I chose a beautiful opal. I also got several junk rings—she had a lot that are so cheap they have adjustable bands. Many say “Avon” in the band—you would probably need to be 40+ to remember when the “Avon Lady” would sell jewelry, make-up, and trinkets door to door. Even though those rings aren’t worth any money, I love them b/c they remind me of my “fancy” grandma. LOL

    @kelley—love the pics and thanks for the compliment. That’s great that you are enjoying being back at the old gym.

    @alison—lovely picture! We traveled to Scotland the first time I visited my sister while she was at university in Manchester. Loved it there! Funny story—in Manchester I was having a really hard time understanding the dialect, so my sister had to keep “translating” for me. However, when we got off the train in Edinburgh, we jumped in a taxi and the driver and I talked the whole 10-minute ride to our hotel. When he drove off, my sister laughed and said “Scottish you can understand, but you can’t understand English?!?!”

    @robin—I think you are channeling billy crystal! LOL I also like the idea of keeping the calorie challenge as a mainstay and switching up a secondary challenge from month to month. Thanks for the suggestions of ways to reduce the grading, I do have my students trade and grade or self-grade when it’s just a quick quiz or worksheet. However, most of the work (especially in AP) is all essays that I have to grade. There’s just no way around it—it’s the price I pay for having the best kids in the school. Fortunately, they remind me of how awesome they are on a daily basis which helps get me through. And I do have them work in groups to do analysis on their own (while I try to get some grading done), then we come back together to share insights. It helps, but I still have to facilitate those discussions so it’s hard to concentrate on grading essays.

    @niki—adorable cats!

    Wed. Wish:
    Still wishing for laurie’s dad to recover from pneumonia. I would wish for papers to grade themselves, but that’s a wasted wish.

    I made a bit of progress on the essays. Handed back one class and started in on the second. Tomorrow both of my junior classes will be writing journals (sheesh—more writing to grade!), so I hope to get the 2nd set of AP essays done and handed back on Friday. That will leave just 25 for the weekend.

    I skipped the gym today to grade, but it was probably just as well. I’ve been exhausted and, as I mentioned above, fear a cold coming on. Finishing up some laundry then going to bed.

    Grading Goals:
    1. 29/66 AP essays

    Exercise Goals:
    Sun--walk gunner DONE + gym DONE
    Mon--rest day (meeting) DONE
    Tues--rest day (meeting) DONE
    Wed--walk gunner NOT DONE + gym NOT DONE
    Thurs--walk gunner
    Fri--walk gunner
    Sat--walk gunner + gym
  • grandmakaye44
    grandmakaye44 Posts: 1,205 Member
    Today I had a better handle on things. I kept busy getting some cleaning done. Tomorrow will be cleaning bathrooms. DS and his family will be here for Halloween and will spend the night. I already know that Halloween will be a lost cause. I'm trying to figure out how to feed the family something healthy while making donuts for the trick or treaters. Halloween is always a very crazy day for me.
    I'm really loving seeing all of the pictures. I'm glad that they made it easier to post them. I was cleaning up a pile of stuff today and found a picture of me taken at my 50 year class reunion just a couple of months before I joined MFP. Holy cow, I could hardly believe the difference. I will have to scan it and post it as my before picture.
    Everyone keep up the good work.
    Onward and downward. Kaye
  • NewCaddy
    NewCaddy Posts: 845 Member
    edited October 2014
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    This is a test to see if I can upload from my iPad. This is a picture of my two nephews and two kids. Jacob is the taller one in the back. He and Chase helped Daniel in the Lion's Den arcade game. Parker is 7 and an obvious Vikings fan (a boy after my own heart). Emma is Wick'd Wolfie.
  • Lois_1989
    Lois_1989 Posts: 6,410 Member
    edited October 2014
    Weeelllll.... as it's Thursday Truth, I guess its quite appropriate to say the last 2 weeks have been awful. I've gained 1lb, which means my grand loss for the month is....*drum roll*..... 1lb. To say I feel deflated would only be the beginning. I'm struggling massively. My problem is that I will happily eat healthy, fruit, veg, stir-fry, fish (all types) my partner on the other hand is the most fussy person I've ever met. I think he is addicted to fast food. If he gets home late, I'm happy to cook but he doesn't want to wait. So yesterday I defrosted meatballs to have with pasta or rice, when he got home, said he feels ill (as in a cold/flu thing) and he wants a pizza hut. I said I've defrosted meatballs, but no, he wants a pizza hut. I left it 10 minutes to see if he changes his mind and asked him again, he has already ordered pizza hut on his iPad. So what can I do?!
    And I'm frustrated with my Achilles. I'm not the most patient person in the world. I want to ramp up the exercise so I can at least balance out the rubbish food but I don't want to push it. I'm caught in an unhealthy limbo. I'm dreading Christmas now, I wanted to loose at least some weight before then so If I put weight on I won't be heavier than I am now, but that seems to be turning into a distant dream now.

    Ever felt like running away and starting a happy healthy life somewhere else? That's me right now...

    I also want a cat so I can join in on the cat photos, looks like fun :smile:

    I'm gonna browse the success stories for motivation...

    Love you all <3
  • chrissylove0
    chrissylove0 Posts: 7 Member
    Hey my husband is like that too, but he's a police officer and I don't eat what he eats. I have what I have if he doesn't like it he gets his own and I have healthy left overs for me. Win win good luck

  • Morgori
    Morgori Posts: 954 Member
    Good morning everybody.

    Happy Mischief Night
    When : Always October 30th
    Mischief Night is today, errrr tonight! It is an evening when people traditionally participated in harmless (please) mischief. We stress harmless or innocent mischief. Other forms of mischief can lead to big trouble. Even seemingly harmless mischief can be the source of problems.
    This night is discouraged by law enforcement organizations. The mischief is sometimes less than funny, and can even lead to vandalism or destructive.
    Important: We neither encourage, nor endorse participation in this day. Why risk getting in trouble??
    Historically, some common forms of mischief on this has included:
    • Soaping windows
    • Egging houses and cars
    • Tossing a few rotten tomatoes
    • Toilet papering house trees, etc.
    • Knocking on doors, then running away
    Have a happy, safe, and harmless Mischief Night.

    “People are very open-minded about new things – as long as they’re exactly like the old ones.” ~Charles Kettering

    Tom
  • kah68
    kah68 Posts: 1,515 Member
    edited October 2014
    @Tom~LOL, love the national cat day pic—thanks for sharing! :smile:

    @Marsha~Thanks. Pictures are from both, surprising the new iPhone 6 takes fantastic videos and photos. Blue is a cutie pie. Zoe weighs around 18 and she’s still growing, but she’s a Maine Coon—they don’t reach maturity until five. :open_mouth:

    @Laurie~I’m so sorry your dad had to go back to the nursing home, I hope he makes a speedy recovery and is back home soon.

    @Tracy~Great pic of the kiddos, hope they have a fun Halloween!

    @Lois~I’m so sorry your Achilles is still giving you grief, it a long road to recovery when it's injured—the blood flow to that area is minimal so it just takes a long time to heal. I can empathize all too well, mine gives me grief too—I’m actually seeing my ortho doc this afternoon. Mine flared up in June and hasn’t improved, so time for an injection or something.

    AFM~Morning was off to a rough start as I had to have my car battery replaced (one in it only 3 years old, thank you Texas heat). Car had issues starting yesterday after work and after a session with my trainer so I had it tested—bad cell. Called the dealership and went by before work, luckily it was still in the 50/50 part of the warranty so I only had to pay for half of a new one. Good session with trainer last night, boxed a little. Today cardio at the gym and meeting with the Pilates instructor to set up one on one session.

    Exercise Goals:

    Monday~Trainer DONE!
    Tuesday~Rest Day DONE!
    Wednesday~Trainer DONE!
    Thursday~Cardio
    Friday~Trainer
    Saturday~Swim
  • NK1112
    NK1112 Posts: 781 Member
    @Tom - I recall we called it "Beggers Night" when I was a little girl ... good to know it's "Mischief Night" ... because it explains something to me. We did have some pranksters come to our door ... knock - knock and no one there; one time we had soap writing all over our picture window. I always thought it was because the beggers didn't like the handouts they received. (Which was a surprise to me because my dad gave out full size Hershey, Mars Bars, and Chunkie Candy bars instead of popcorn balls or apples. And when he ran out of those treats he gave money enough for the kids to buy a candy bar themselves.)

    Thursday Truth ... I am such a slouch when it comes to digging in and doing the tasks I should be doing around my home that I am so tempted to hire a cleaning service to come in and set things right. IF I can find one willing to tackle the job. Does anyone hire help for cleaning the house, or taking care of the grounds? If so, I sure would like to get an estimate of how expensive these services are ... I've thought I might put that amount of money aside and log it in my expenses as housekeeping service fees ... then pay myself for doing the work ... maybe that would motivate me because then I'd have a cache of money to spend on clothes and trips and such.

    October Challenge ... Through Wednesday, Oct 29, my at goal calorie count is 19 days.

    Niki

  • MrsMorgori
    MrsMorgori Posts: 51 Member
    Thursday Truth ~ I have been slacking in walking :( I WILL DO BETTER!
    I'm so glad I get tomorrow off, even tho it was not scheduled :| My eye appointment was changed :# Good thing I have Tom to drive me in case he dilates my one good eye!
    We will prolly hit Rambo's Kitchen for breakfast on the way :D Then pick out some nice meat and shrimp for the smoker this weekend.
    Have a GREAT Day :)
  • cblue315
    cblue315 Posts: 3,836 Member
    edited October 2014
    Hello everyone.
    Progress report October
    Down 12 pounds - Yea, no human sacrifice necessary!
    Calorie goals - 24 days on target, 5 days above, 1 terrible, horrible, go good very bad day
    I have been contemplating my situation and believe it may be necessary to go back on one of my antidepressants. The SAD is getting to me already and it is only the end of October. If I want to stay on goal with my weight loss, fitness plan, continue getting to a better place with my husband, and catch up at work I need help.
    My sister actually made me cry today and that is definitely not me. Add to that a customer came in today, asked for an additional adjustment on her bill and I wanted to get snarky with her, I know this is not me. I have been adding some tanning to my routine just for the additional sunlight as well as taking vitamin D. This summer I switched out several light bulbs at home to full spectrum. So I will be calling the Dr. today before this get out of hand.
    Thanks to all for your generous sharing, concern and general camaraderie. This thread is truly the main reason I have stuck with this for so long, 145 days :D .

    @Niki, my sister was a cleaning lady before she came to work for me. At the time she charged $25/hour. Not sure what it goes for in your area.

    @Lois, my husband and I only eat the same things at the same meal about once a week. When it is my turn to cook. Do what you need to do for yourself. Truly no one will ever say to you, "OK, now it is your turn".

    @skinnyjeansbound, I can really identify with the backed up paperwork. My desk is once again about 20 files deep. Good luck, may the grading elves show up for you.

    Love to all
    Lori <3
  • NewCaddy
    NewCaddy Posts: 845 Member
    Thursday Truth: I have two: I didn’t make the November 1st goal – I turned on the heat this morning. It got down to the low 20’s overnight and just couldn’t shake the chill (My husband’s response was FINALLY!). Also, I got plain chips and onion dip in my house and haven’t been very good about limiting myself. But it’s gone now so I should start behaving again.

    @Mary…wow.. 3.5# -- great week!
    @Laurie…sorry about your dad.
    @Marsha…I had a cat that looked just like Blue when I was growing up on the farm. His name was Pepper and yes, there was an all white one named Salt.  My youngest sister started to get to name them after that and we had Whitey, Blacky, Orangy and Snowball. Hope you caught your cold in time.
    @Karen…When my grandmother passed, she had three “nice” rings. One went to each of her daughters. But she did have LOTS of costume jewelry that we granddaughters got to pick from. I got a blue cameo necklace that had lots of chains. When I took it to the jeweler to get it down to one chain, his comment was “This isn’t worth any money, why spend it to get it changed?” I didn’t cry when I said it, but man, that necklace was worth everything to me! Unfortunately, that chain did break and I’ve lost this necklace, but everytime I see a cameo necklace I think of Grandma. And yes, I’m old enough to remember my Mom getting jewelry from the Avon lady. 
    @Kaye… I wish I lived in a small town that could take/give homemade treats. I grew up in one of those and while nobody made donuts for Halloween (thanks, now I feel cheated!! HA!) We did have the occasional homemade popcorn ball or cupcake. Now I know it would just get thrown in the garbage so I hand out pre-packaged treats.
    @Lois…my husband hasn’t always been the most supportive with my weight loss attempts. He and I sat down and I told him that I really wanted it this time and he needed to help me (when he started in about self control I reminded him he is a smoker and recovering alcoholic and he quit talking). We made the agreement that he could still have those treats, but that if it was something that I would want to, he needed to hide it somewhere and never eat it in front of me. I still don’t know where his hiding spots are. As far as meals, he’s been very good about eating/not complaining. Have you had a sit down with him about your needs?
    @Kelley…sorry to hear about the battery…they just don’t like extremes do they?
    @Niki…ooooohhhh love that idea! I bet I could get my husband and kids to help more if I did it that way. They wouldn’t want me to get all the cash. Oh yeah, that’s why I don’t have a cleaning service now…can’t afford it!!! But I am hosting Thanksgiving and Christmas so I have some motivation. We are down to about a dozen boxes to go through. One of the boxes I opened yesterday was all my old photo albums from high school and college. I graduated in 1991, so the hair was pretty tall and permed. Emma asked why we all had static!!! Nope honey, we did that on purpose. 

    AFM…my sister couldn’t go to the gym late last night (8:45 was the earliest I would be able to go) but she sent me a text with the full workout and I went at 9:15. I did the routine 3 times (usually we do it twice through) and increased the weights by 5 pounds. For about 10 minutes afterwards I wanted to vomit, but now I feel so proud of myself for pushing through it. Then just as I was putting my shoes back on, the final inning of the world series was playing…couldn’t leave then. Thought KC was going to pull it out, but no…bummer! I’m not even a baseball fan in any way, shape or form, but I love a good close contest and that’s what all baseball fans got.

    I have a book series that I read about once a year that I started last night. It is a Christian book series and if anybody would like a good read, I would recommend it. It’s called The Mark of the Lion and the author is Francine Rivers. It begins with the fall of Jerusalem and follows three main characters…a Jewish slave girl taken from Jerusalem and sold to a Roman family…a German tribe member that becomes a Gladiator…and the members of the Roman family. It’s a wonderful story and has lessons that I feel I need to be reminded of on a yearly basis.

    I hope you all have a great day!
  • mountmary84
    mountmary84 Posts: 259 Member
    Got "trapped" having lunch with hubby at a place I didn't want to go today, BUT managed to do fine. I had a salad and skipped what he had. I feel triumphant about that; it has always sort of been a problem here too.
    @cblue the weather around these parts is not helping anyone! ...and we are just getting started. Looking forward to meeting you next week.
    B
  • Helenatrandom
    Helenatrandom Posts: 1,166 Member
    I know I'm late for Wednesday wishes, but I'm going to wish for Laurie's dad to have a complete recovery and Skinnyjeansbound to find grading to go quickly and smoothly.

    Thursday Truth- I really can't blame anyone but me for my choices. My husband will now eat whatever I put in front of him. (At one time, he'd only eat fish if it was breaded and fried, but now we have baked tilapia at least once a week...) The family member who was staying with us and giving me a hard time for not cooking like my mother hasn't been staying with us for a long time. I allowed my habits to slip back. (But not entirely... we are still eating tilapia... :smile: )
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    @cblue315 Good for you for realizing you need help. I'm often afraid to ask for help when I need it, so I see a lot of strength in your decision.

    @Niki Paying oneself sounds like a great idea! (Though I don't think I could afford me at $25 an hour. I'm willing to negotiate, though)

  • DevilsNegu
    DevilsNegu Posts: 60 Member
    Hi I'm not sure if this group is still going. I hope it is.