I want honest opinions?

cole_carter

I would say the middle pic is too thin. I think the bottom pic looks the healthiest. IE: you look fine right now.

BTW: you are a very attractive woman. So let me amend to say you are beautiful and look sweet in all the pics.

CrystalDreams

I think you look fine now, if not a little too thin. I like your first pic the best. I think that you "boyfriend" who told you to lose weight is a grade d pig who isnt fit to be made into bacon. Seriously. You shouldnt let someone else control how you feel.

KFJOI4JWGOJM

The first & last for sure are my top picks. The middle one to be honest you are too thin. Very boney and unhealthy looking. I think you looked much healthier in the other ones. If your boyfriend is telling you that you need to lose more than honestly I think it's time to say goodbye. You need someone to build you up and make you feel beautiful inside and out not tear you down and criticize or try to change you. Just my opinion.Best of luck to you though

redheaddee

In my honest opinion, the first pic of you is my favourite. You look healthy and its a fine weight for your height. I think you look a bit too thin in the middle pic. If youre happy with yourself now like in the last pic then its also a healthier looking weight. You said it was your boyfriend and others who put the idea of losing weight in your head. Were you happy the way you were before? Has this been a healthy weight loss/lifestyle change for you?
Ultimately its what youre happiest with, once youre getting the right nutriition and feeling good and energetic etc

agreed

FlaxMilk

I think you are gorgeous in all of them. Is 120 healthy for your height? (I didn't read the rest of this thread so sorry if this has already been covered.) How did you feel? Optimally, I would vote for the last picture, but I think they are all good.

KrazyAsianNic

Do whatever you need to do to feel how you like. However, my honest opinion is I like the last picture. The middle one you seem too boney. Whichever you choose. do it for yourself.

BTW, you're really pretty

Glasgow_Vegan

I think you look under weight in the middle and last photo. It would be healthier to eat a bit more and do some strength training to put on muscle.

Newf77

HGoneswt opinion, your boyfriend is a jag nut and needs to STFU before someone stuffs their fist down his throat. You look marvelous in the first shot, if you were unhappy with yourself then maybe some muscle mass or tone work. This is so you do not tire as you toss that dingleberry out of your life.

HealthierAndFitterMe

i think the last picture you look great ! the middle picture you didn't look that great . i really like the last picture . you look perfect . just keep to what you're at .

thatrunnergirl1

Oh wow, I don't know your boyfriend, so maybe this is too critical but it seems like he's feeding onto creating insecurities or something??? You looked fantastic in your first pic, and amazing in the third. The middle one seems troublesome to me, although if you felt good then, then that's fine too. I feel like the middle pic would be hard to maintain, and not necessarily the most attractive option. You're young and beautiful and don't let any guy tell you otherwise!

BBeccaJean

First pic...my hubby agrees. Girls have to have a little meat on their bones and you're 5'8"...140 is a bmi of 21...very normal!

stacymercado

You look AMAZING in the first - healthy - slim - and beautiful. Stick to the 140's. Keep on eating girl and smile!!! PS - someone needs to talk to have a serious sit down with your man because what he said was not just mean but VERY untrue.

birdies13

Telling someone with an obvious eating disorder that they are too thin is exactly want they want to hear.

thistimeismytime

I think you look great in the 3rd pic! You look really cute in the first pic too, but it's a little harder to see your body. The 2nd pic--I ONLY say this because you really wanted honest opinions--you look a little bit ill, too frail and bony. If I were you, I'd stay where you are and just focus on being healthy, lifting weights, and not worry about the scale anymore. :flowerforyou:

And I really hope you have a different boyfriend now, because if he was griping about your weight in that 1st picture, he has a very distorted view of what a woman should look like.

brneydgrlie

Your current pic looks much better than at your lowest weight. If you feel big or flabby (which you are NOT), try working out with weights rather than losing more pounds.

stephaniebrowning

I like the first pic best. I agree with others that 140 is a GREAT weight for someone 5'8"

funkyspunky872

Let's not take this wrong way now, but I don't understand why everyone is suggesting for you to build up more muscle. If I concentrate on the 2nd picture especially, I think you need some fat on you -- bring back your boobs and curves and everything.

GabsMommy28

My opinion is you would be MUCH healthier dropping your boyfriend. The guy you are with should think you are beautiful, special, lovely and damn well perfect just the way you are, no matter what the numbers are.
Now, about the pictures. I agree with most posters. The first is my favourite of you. You look comfortable and at ease. The second one is scary. You were at a healthy weight for your height.
Your boyfriend isn't going to do you any good. REAL men don't say things like that to their ladies.

viad25720

I'm huge so excuse me I guess I have no right talking but middle pic no way. Your faces so thin, hips It's too much. You look healthy and normal, not to mention 140 is in healthy range for your height. Maybe just tone, do what makes u happy.

elisa123gal

two things.. A boyfriend who mentions your weight..and that you need to lose? Dump him. You'l never keep him happy..never be good enough. A man who loves you ... thinks you are so beautiful no matter what..and would never suggest that.

Second.. I think you should stay at the comfortable weight of the last photo. you look great.

viad25720

Also, if you have the much of a distorted image of yourself, you may need a counselor. Classic symptom of eating disorder I know that sounds mean/offensive but I'm not attacking you. I had a huge over eating problem. I'm not perfect. But you really need to consider what I'm saying as caring advice. Don't be in denial

sandyyy712

Also, if you have the much of a distorted image of yourself, you may need a counselor. Classic symptom of eating disorder I know that sounds mean/offensive but I'm not attacking you. I had a huge over eating problem. I'm not perfect. But you really need to consider what I'm saying as caring advice. Don't be in denial

Trust me, I'm not in denial at all. I know I've developed an eating disorder...first I ate too little which is why I looked how I did in the second. But now, thanks to my over-restrictive diet and people telling me I was too thin, I've started overeating. I'm trying to find a happy medium, but so far I haven't been successful.

tennisbabe94

I think you look best in the third picture, the middle one you look a bit too thin. But how do YOU feel? In which picture did you feel happiest? That will lead you to your answer. You're really beautiful in all three though!

Anomalia

Your boyfriend is a **** for saying anything about your weight. I think you look the best in the third pic, that is a more realistic weight to maintain than the second pic.

Mommagoose4

I think you look the most healthiest in the last picture - you look sickly skinny in that middle picture you want to get back to you! And yes this is coming from the skinny girl turned fat & trying to be skinny again. I think no you look awesome. So honestly be happy with who you are....

mollyW2012

i think you should feel comfortable in your own skin. i agree you looked much too thin in the middle picture. if your boyfriend was telling you to drop some weight my opinion is you should drop HIM. I'd bet you'd feel much lighter after that! you looked young and beautiful in the first picture.

ABSOLUTELY. What she said.

Corsetopia

I don't see any problem with any of the photos, I think you look good in all three, even the middle one. I don't think you look sick in that picture, just thin. Keep your head up and as long as YOU'RE comfortable and healthy who cares what others think? ...Especially that boyfriend of yours, plenty of fish in the sea who would worship you, not tell you to lose weight when you already looked super cute.

tom_olech

Your boyfriend is an idiot...you look stunning! Altho in your middle pic you look alittle too skinny...

laurenleighlugo

You worked hard to get into the shape you were in. Honestly I don't see a problem with any of the pictures you posted. As long as you're healthy, be whatever weight you wanna be. You're so pretty and that won't change no matter how your weight fluctuates.

JulieinMaine

I think you look great in the first picture, healthy and young and just right. The middle picture you look much too thin, unhealthy. If you feel comfortable in the last picture, that's fine, but if not, go back to how you were in the first picture and get a new boyfriend who doesn't judge you for what you look like on the outside. The most important thing is that you feel good and you are healthy. You're too young and pretty to worry about such things, just be happy with yourself. :happy: