Why do YOU delete "friends"

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  • pxpwop
    pxpwop Posts: 704 Member
    Have not logged in for a month. Have like a thousand friends. Annoying.
  • MTBrob
    MTBrob Posts: 513 Member
    For eating below 500 cals per day in conjunction with advertising 'slimming aids' and appetite suppressants.

    wanna try shakeology :P
  • jazee11
    jazee11 Posts: 321
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    Haven't deleted anyone. Also, haven't been here long.
  • skylark94
    skylark94 Posts: 2,036 Member
    I had said I never would, but I went through and took about 30 people off of my list recently. Mostly it was folks who ate at 1200 calories and exercised like fiends. My news feed was getting crowded and I prefer to see posts from people who follow the same methods I do. I can't convince myself to give a "way to go" to someone who netted 700 calories for the day and has blown off my gentle suggestion to eat more.
  • WendyFitMomCHANGED
    WendyFitMomCHANGED Posts: 311 Member
    - haven't logged in a month (i'll take them back if they come back in)
    - If they have constant negativity
    - If they are combative with others when friendly advice is given

    I've only had to unfriend 1 person for the latter 2. This site is meant to help each other achieve a healthier lifestyle. You shouldn't ask for advice if you're not ready to accept it or ready to make change.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    Those just on here to solicit dirty pics
    Those mean to people I care about
    People who never interract
    If anybody ever sends me pics of their swimsuit parts, hasta la vista
  • UpEarly
    UpEarly Posts: 2,555 Member
    1) Inactivity

    2) People who regularly eat under 1000 calories a day

    3) People who ask to be friends, and then never say a word to me. I'm not saying a person has to reply to every single one of my feed posts, but say something to me sometime. If we never communicate at all, we're really not friends.
  • Moxylein
    Moxylein Posts: 52
    - people who barely eat anything and then burn all of it (or even more) off again

    - people who don't give any kind of support
  • Chiquita_Banana
    Chiquita_Banana Posts: 500
    b/c he wears a banana hammock and I just get tired of seeing his junk every time I log in.
    LOL HAHA
  • sunshine2212677
    sunshine2212677 Posts: 88 Member
    havent logged in in aaaaages
    just fills the pages up
  • jamm2000
    jamm2000 Posts: 79
    I typically delete people when they don't log in for an extended period of time, or if they are not making any progress or even trying to make progress. I am not here simply to collect friends; I want to be encouraged while encouraging others.
  • cushygal
    cushygal Posts: 586 Member
    if they haven't logged in for over a month
    if they do not interact with me at all.
  • iLoveMyPitbull1225
    iLoveMyPitbull1225 Posts: 1,690 Member
    innapropriate sexual content or anything else I feel crosses the line.


    Personally I am not here to get anything remotely close to that out of this site. I dont need attention or flirting over the internet with you. Especially if you are married or even in a relationship.
  • sunshine2212677
    sunshine2212677 Posts: 88 Member
    If they're sending me dirty messages, or if they don't interact with me. I want FRIENDS, not just people on a list.

    indeed
  • WendyTerry420
    WendyTerry420 Posts: 13,274 Member
    Because:

    -They never stop updating their status... NEVER!! I don't care what your boss just said to you, I don't care what song you're listening to!

    Ha! Don't friend me! :tongue:

    I like being able to converse with folks during the day. It makes my long, boring day at work feel a little better.


    To the OP: I usually friend anyone who asks. I only delete people if they quit logging in for a long time. My friends list is getting pretty large though, so I may have to be more discriminatory.
  • gc_tweety
    gc_tweety Posts: 205 Member
    I have only deleted one person - she updated constantly and wrote novels so I couldn't see any posts from my other friends. I felt terrible...for about a minute! LOL!
  • BerryH
    BerryH Posts: 4,698 Member
    Anyone who hasn't logged in for a month.

    In one case someone who chose prayer over medical advice for a seriously ill child.
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    b/c he wears a banana hammock and I just get tired of seeing his junk every time I log in.

    if i deleted all my friends who posted pics in the banana hammocks, id have no friends....lol
  • Desterknee
    Desterknee Posts: 1,056 Member
    - ED or eating under 1100 regularly
    - Mean/rude/arrogant
    - obvious friend collector
    -creeper

    Sometimes I just look through my FL. If I see someone and I can't think of anything about them (a meaningful interaction), or I think, "wait who is this person?", then I consider deletion.
  • Tank_Girl
    Tank_Girl Posts: 372 Member
    I deleted 2 people today for the sole reason they dont have anything in common with me, its not personal.
  • juncture
    juncture Posts: 129 Member
    The only thing that led me to delete someone so far was when all they ever ate was fast food and ready meals every single day, and I usually check out my friends food diaries when they're done logging for the day (for meal inspiration and stuff) and I just didn't want to be seeing all the fast food and junk every day :)
  • jconnon
    jconnon Posts: 427 Member
    A couple of months of not logging, no one else has irritated me enough yet to remove them.
  • MsP90X
    MsP90X Posts: 1,053 Member
    I delete for inactivity or lack of logging... nothing personal :)
  • Lift_hard_eat_big
    Lift_hard_eat_big Posts: 2,278 Member
    I can't stand ignorant or cocky people.
  • senyosmom
    senyosmom Posts: 613 Member
    Haven't logged in a month ..
    ^ THIS
  • 13inchestogo
    13inchestogo Posts: 296 Member
    ! People whom I believe have left for good like up to 2 weeks to a month inactive.
    ! Girls still participating in ED tendencies, it's okay if they want to ACTUALLY RECOVER and want to be healthy, I will support, but girls who are posting about how happy a stomach grumble makes them or how they just puked up their sandwich make me too sad.
    I feel terrible deleting others so I usually never do.
  • chunkydunk714
    chunkydunk714 Posts: 784 Member
    I can't stand ignorant or cocky people.

    yup yup!
  • mem50
    mem50 Posts: 1,384 Member
    I delete after a year of no-show. Or if they Deleted their account.....I check about every month or so.

    Sometimes stuff happens and they dissapear for a bit. I have gone MIA for a month here and there because of.....different reasons. Come back to find people have deleted me. Good Grief, it was not like I made my monitor die and had to save up the money to get a new one. Or the hard drive. Plus I really did not mean to get heat-stroke and not even have the umph to go to work. (did though, bills don't pay themselves...right?)
  • MtnKat
    MtnKat Posts: 714
    I delete:

    -Attention *kitten*. I don't want to look at your a*s and tits....and I don't want to hear about them all day long. Nor do I want to see you throw yourself at every guy on your friends list.

    -Someone who is mean or extremely critical

    -If all your posts are stupid silly *kitten* that has nothing to do with fitness or your weight (once and awhile is good....all the time is annoying)
  • still_crafty
    still_crafty Posts: 682 Member
    This is part of the friend request disclaimer on my profile . . . yeah, I come with a warning label.

    Fastest ways to get deleted from my friends list:
    - Fail to interact with me in some way - this crap makes me pissy.
    - Be consistently negative and/or complain about lack of progress while failing to take any advice or do anything to change it - again, makes me pissy.
    - B!tch at me about things I post in the forums, in my status updates or the things my friends say in their comments - opinions are like @ssholes, everyone has one, if you don't like mine or my friend's then get the *kitten* out.

    Oh, and sometimes I just get trigger happy when I start clicking the X. *shrugs*

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