Why do YOU delete "friends"
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Haven't logged in a month
Can't see their dairy
Obnoxious0 -
- People who belittle others
- People who don't log in for over a month (unless you're a personal friend of mine)
- People who have bad attitudes0 -
Usually just if they haven't logged in for a month or more. Or if I don't recognize their username (meaning they never update their status which means having them as a friend is useless because I can't motivate them if they don't post and they aren't motivating me).
I've never really had to deal with a rude friend or attention *kitten* but chances are if I had a friend like that, they would get deleted if I got too annoyed.0 -
people who haven't logged on for a month...i figure they gave up..
Sometimes they do ...but i don't delete them because of that ...because i have almost been their my self , but the support i get from the friends i do have ...keep me logging .....good and bad days .
Watching others loose more than me doesn't deter me from day to day ...but my health issues that are not weight related do .
So i figure if i have those problems so must other people ..And i encourage people to stick with them as they need support more than any one else on this journey .
So no i don't delete any one ....and have not had abusive people either ...must be lucky so far !
I am 64 yrs young and have dieting experience from all walks of life ...But since being on M F P ...Feel i have taken back control of my life and living it to the best of my ability .
Keep up the good work ...every one ....Cheers !0 -
-When they don't log in for a long time
-If they have ED and are working on furthering it rather than focusing on recover.0 -
--Eating disorder (or eating disorder tendencies folks)
-- little girls who lie about their age then post stupid **** (omg im so fat & mommy told me I couldn't go to the mall today, i hate her!)
--inactive for looong periods of time folks
--people who attack other people in my posts
Then theres always the random friend cleaning sprees I go on...delete people who I never speak to me & whatnot.0 -
1. No interaction on a regular basis.
2. Sometimes, I just can't keep up with everyone, so I have to trim it down to a size that I can manage and support properly.
3. Rarely, I friend someone who doesn't mesh well with me for whatever reason. That is rather uncommon though as I pre-screen FR now and try to look at what the person requesting has been posting in the forums or has on their profile to see if this is someone I would likely get along with or not.0 -
I delete if there's no interaction.....what's the point of being a "friend" if we never speak
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inactivity.
desperate need for attention.
ED.
uptight/no sense of humor.
sometimes i think that minimal interaction is ok...every once in awhile you get that nice post, and it makes it allllll good.0 -
This person always ate so unhealthy, I couldn't encourage them. Others would say 'good diary' and I would look and see cup of coffee bfst, diet bar. Lunch would be chips, dinner would be fries or whatever. So 600 cals. I wrote a few times with concern and then didn't want to encourage this lifestyle.
Can they tell when you unfriend? I hope not.0 -
Don't interract
Have not logged in for a while
Up date status every five seconds
Selof obsessed0 -
Cause they're not active/dedicated.
They use this like facebook, talking mostly about non weight loss related things.0 -
I dont!0
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So far have only deleted (and blocked) one creepy dude.
Am thinking I may have to do a clean up soon, though, there's more drama on here than FB sometimes. It's so distracting to have all that crap on my newsfeed.0 -
-eating disorder relations
-triggering posts (i've eaten 200 over my limit, omfg! im dead!- and yet the limit is set to like 700)
-rude or creepy
-the "bella swan" (that one person who just constantly sh!ts on themselves. "***** has lost 50 lbs!" and then they comment saying how it's not nearly enough and that it's only the start and that blah blah blah i hate my body, just constant *kitten* about how horrible they are.0 -
I like to keep my FL in the 20's. So if I get new FR's that look interesting, then I cut people to make room.
Typically, I cut who hasn't shown me their boobies.0 -
Not enought skin showing on their avatar, do not speak sarcasm or can't enjoy an occasional *kitten* grab.0
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If I don't know you enough after a certain amount of time....and I'm going through my list, I click on your profile and wonder who the hell is that? probably going to delete
If we have had no interaction
Sometimes I delete randomly
and then there's Yanicka's logic.....I agree with that too LOL \m/0 -
OMG YES! Get a twitter. HA I hate the depressing ones too.... Like seriously we are suppose to be motivated by each others posts... Not ready to slit our wrists for you. :laugh:0
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Mostly people I don't connect with, which would include older folks (no offense!) and those who act like this is Facebook.0
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Not being active on here, or not showing support of any kind.0
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People who have lots of reasons why they delete friends.
No, I haven't deleted anyone. If I ever did, it would be because I reached too many friends and had no more room. Then I'd delete the most inactive people. But I don't think that's going to be a problem.0 -
I only delete people who refuse to follow my expert advice. I mean, who do they think they are! They'll listen to some doctor or some licensed nutritionist and sometimes even some book they read. I'm the expert! Why, I've lost hundreds of pounds over the years! What could be more expert than that?? Anyway, I haven't deleted anybody, but, boy howdy, if I find out they're not listening to me, I just might!0
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I have a few reasons why:
1. You aren't logging in regularly
2. We don't seem to have any common ground other than weight loss
3. You UNDER eat all the time - I can't congratulate you on this and if I can't interact with you we have nothing in common besides wanting to lose weight.
4. You talk too much on your status... I have more friends than just one and I would like to be able to see their comments sometimes too.
5. You seem to be too serious in your "just joking - sexual come ons" and you're married or involved with someone.
6. Every other word from you has you praising the Lord - too religious for me.0 -
People who feel compelled to express their racist, sexist political opinions in their status updates, omg I delete them so fast it's ridiculous. People who come off as holier-than-though, or seem uptight/easily offended, people who deliberately undereat, if I can hear banjos playing in their Saturday night status updates they gotta go lol. Overzealous types who go overboard trying to pump everybody up ALL. THE. TIME. and people with whom I never actually interact, etc.0
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because they bore me or dont like me..0
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how could anyone not like you?because they bore me or dont like me..0 -
beats me but it has happend!
how could anyone not like you?because they bore me or dont like me..0 -
People on this site delete people for the dumbest crap. I wouldn't delete anyone, unless they were totally rude to me or something.0
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If someone is clogging up my timeline with lots of unrelated and pointless posts.
This is MFP, not Facebook and I would quite like to be able to find my other friends in those endless streams of posts as well.
Also if someone hasn't logged in for a week or more without a given reason, they're going as well.0
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