I want to call myself curvy

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  • rachelrb85
    rachelrb85 Posts: 579 Member
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    Your friend is not a very nice person. That joke so freaking offensive.

    Just to clarify, she is about that weight but thinks she's "curvy". So it was a serious post for her.
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,468 Member
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    ok 2 things

    1) people who start threads such as this are attention seeking (i.e lady jane knows shes got a hot bod and wants the wooooorrrrrllllld to tell her.)

    2) The guys who lavish that attention on her say the most CRINGE worthy things.......

    Number one is incorrect. I'm not really sure how I was seeking attention when I started this.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
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    ok 2 things

    1) people who start threads such as this are attention seeking (i.e lady jane knows shes got a hot bod and wants the wooooorrrrrllllld to tell her.)

    2) The guys who lavish that attention on her say the most CRINGE worthy things.......

    Number one is incorrect. I'm not really sure how I was seeking attention when I started this.

    partially correct - you do have a hot bod. :bigsmile:
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,468 Member
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    ok 2 things

    1) people who start threads such as this are attention seeking (i.e lady jane knows shes got a hot bod and wants the wooooorrrrrllllld to tell her.)

    2) The guys who lavish that attention on her say the most CRINGE worthy things.......

    Number one is incorrect. I'm not really sure how I was seeking attention when I started this.

    partially correct - you do have a hot bod. :bigsmile:

    coming from you my dear, that makes me blush! Thank you, and ditto!!
  • DrMAvDPhD
    DrMAvDPhD Posts: 2,097 Member
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    I love how this has gone from 'fat girls' thinking they are curvy to slim girls/the skinny fat crowd with no curves calling themselves curvy. :huh:

    I'm thin yes. But I have very wide hips. Very large chest, and a tiny waist... thus ME being curvy.
    How big are you up top, you dont look big too me.

    Lol girl you sound bitter as hell. I haven't seen body shaming like that since...well... the last post like this came up. You're clearly dealing with envy; step off.

    Wait wait wait. OP can tell all overweight people they aren't curvy, but this poster saying the OP's boobs look too small to be considered curvy in her opinion is body shaming?

    Double standard.

    ...But that's not what the OP said? Do people just pick and choose which statements to read on here?

    The OP has made many comments here about how fat is fat and curvy is curvy. As if they are mutually exclusive. I know this because I read all 14 pages before I even bothered to comment. I hate body bashing as much as the next person, but saying "Your boobs don't look big to me" is NOT body bashing. It's an observation, the same one I made and didn't say. The two pictures she has available for us to see hide her 36DDD assets quite well.
  • SWilkins75
    SWilkins75 Posts: 277 Member
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    How about everyone just calls themselves what they want and we can all get over it already?

    Just don't call me Shirley!!!

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    AAHHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
  • _Ivian
    _Ivian Posts: 198
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    Side note - My mom's measurements before she had me were 32-22-42. Poor thing...I ruined her :laugh:
  • tashjs21
    tashjs21 Posts: 4,584 Member
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    this picture goes from stick to curvy in a year and I gained weight and lost body fat, gaining defined waist, therefore - curves. And, oh mah goodness, a siize 2 WITH curves.... I know, but stranger things have happened.

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    :love: Yowza, you look great!! And I LOVE How your weight is actually more even though you are smaller. Nice reminder to not pay that pesky scale too much mind.

    BTW--you were curvy before now they are just more pronounced.
  • tashjs21
    tashjs21 Posts: 4,584 Member
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    This thread is still going? Who cares if you are overweight, "curvy overweight", thin curvy, thin straight, apple, pear, banana? Lets stop throwing labels around, fighting over who gets said labels, etc. It's all pretty damn stupid.

    yeah we should all judge each other based on where we shop!

    I shop at thrift stores and goodwill... and proud of it dang it! I'm cheap as fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu...... :wink:

    Another reason I am glad we are friends! Me too! I like the hunt of clothing that looks awesome on me that is cheap! :laugh:
  • tashjs21
    tashjs21 Posts: 4,584 Member
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    This thread is still going? Who cares if you are overweight, "curvy overweight", thin curvy, thin straight, apple, pear, banana? Lets stop throwing labels around, fighting over who gets said labels, etc. It's all pretty damn stupid.

    It's not about labels, it's about definition. Say you''re having phone sex with some random stranger and you say you have a curvy body, is he going to the you're fat or voluptuous, athletic, etc.

    Why can't I just tell him 36", 24" 36" and 5'3"? (Which I'm not but he doesn't know that).

    Okay, well what if he says he has a fetish for curvy women and wants to know if you're one? And he doesn't understand measurements, but that's okay because he has a really hot voice.


    Chances are if you are having phone sex with a random stranger, both are going to be lying.

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  • BAMFMeredith
    BAMFMeredith Posts: 2,829 Member
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    I love how this has gone from 'fat girls' thinking they are curvy to slim girls/the skinny fat crowd with no curves calling themselves curvy. :huh:

    I'm thin yes. But I have very wide hips. Very large chest, and a tiny waist... thus ME being curvy.
    How big are you up top, you dont look big too me.

    Lol girl you sound bitter as hell. I haven't seen body shaming like that since...well... the last post like this came up. You're clearly dealing with envy; step off.

    Wait wait wait. OP can tell all overweight people they aren't curvy, but this poster saying the OP's boobs look too small to be considered curvy in her opinion is body shaming?

    Double standard.
    Exactly. 36DDD my *kitten*. I can see two pictures of the OP. The one in the mirror looks like she has a slightly padded bra on. You definitely don't see no DDD's when she is laying down. Where did they go????
    Hazel, don't waste your time trying to defend your opinions. I too wondered what her chest size was when she told everyone she had a VERY LARGE chest. Like someone said before, you can be curvy thin or fat. If I had to describe the OP it would be "thin". Curvy is not the word that would come to mind.

    K well, I've met Amber in person and seen her in various states of undress---I can assure you she's being honest about her bra size. Good Lord.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
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    Your friend is not a very nice person. That joke so freaking offensive.

    Just to clarify, she is about that weight but thinks she's "curvy". So it was a serious post for her.

    she said smaller thinner less curvy girls are only wanted by dogs.

    Id call that a serious post.
  • SWilkins75
    SWilkins75 Posts: 277 Member
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    I have known enough heavier women who would tear up anyone thinner than them, and hid behind their insecurities with their larger breasts--breasts they had BECAUSE of heavier weight.
    I never hate on thin people because I AM fat lmao. Unless they start acting like they are better than others just because of it. That's the impression I have been getting from her. Also I have been anywhere between 130-282 (pregnant with my huge son) and I have ALWAYS maintained a D cup. The only difference was my measurements around. Not all big girls have big boobs and not all small girls have small boobs. Don't forget that genes can also make a difference.
  • small_ninja
    small_ninja Posts: 365 Member
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    90% of the time when someone describes themselves as curvy I want to say:

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    It seems we've gotten far away from what curvy actually is.

    :laugh:
  • hazelovesfood
    hazelovesfood Posts: 454 Member
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    i think every one has diffrent idea bout curvy i have a size 36k boobs a small waist and hips i no i m not small but i have curves and i love them x
    now that is big boobs indeed woman lol.
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,732 Member
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    Corn.
  • spicypepper
    spicypepper Posts: 1,016 Member
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    "Curvy" and "big boned" do not equal fat!

    ^ This!
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
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    Every time this pops up I read "I want to call myself crazy" ....
  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
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    Corn.

    That explains everything. Finally someone with real answers.
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
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    Corn.

    That explains everything. Finally someone with real answers.

    It's not easy being the answer for everything.