Heavy lifters, do you get offended when...?

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  • Lift_hard_eat_big
    Lift_hard_eat_big Posts: 2,278 Member
    Heavy is relative. What is heavy for me may not be heavy for you. What bothers me is people who think they are "lifting heavy" but they have ****y form. Drop 90 lbs. off of that squat and squat deeper.

    That also bothers me. People lifting heavy with sloppy form is a gateway to injuries.
  • tajmel
    tajmel Posts: 401 Member
    I'm between untrained and novice, but I'm only on like week 6-7. I don't brag about how much Ilift, I brag about how hard I work - and that's what actually matters. We all start out at different levels of fitness.
  • Lift_hard_eat_big
    Lift_hard_eat_big Posts: 2,278 Member
    Do you get offended when people who don't lift heavy, claim that they are heavy lifters?

    According to these standards, I fall in between advanced and elite. I've been back in the gym for about 1.5 years now after a 4 year hiatus. I know some people at the gym that have been lifting for years and are nowhere near these standards for their years of experience, yet they brag to all their friends about how heavy they lift.

    http://www.exrx.net/Testing/WeightLifting/StrengthStandards.htm
    I thought "heavy lifting" meant that your own muscles were being challenged, after 10-15 reps, you're straining to complete the rep

    So I thought that term applied to the effect it has on your body, not to a weight range value.

    In my opinion, if you can do 15 reps, that weight isn't heavy enough.
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    No. I don't get offended easily. I doesn't matter to me if people say they "lift heavy" and they aren't "power lifting". As long as they've got their butt in the gym (or at home) and are doing something with a weight that isn't pink, I'm all for it.
  • Do you get offended when people who don't lift heavy, claim that they are heavy lifters?

    According to these standards, I fall in between advanced and elite. I've been back in the gym for about 1.5 years now after a 4 year hiatus. I know some people at the gym that have been lifting for years and are nowhere near these standards for their years of experience, yet they brag to all their friends about how heavy they lift.

    http://www.exrx.net/Testing/WeightLifting/StrengthStandards.htm
    I thought "heavy lifting" meant that your own muscles were being challenged, after 10-15 reps, you're straining to complete the rep

    So I thought that term applied to the effect it has on your body, not to a weight range value.

    well, you're right in a sense. It's a relative term and it is HEAVY for YOU if you are struggling to complete another rep (more like after 8) but it isn't heavy in an objective sense...does that make sense? Like someone else your size who is more trained would be able to do more.
  • californiagirl2012
    californiagirl2012 Posts: 2,625 Member
    I think it's silly to brag about it. I'm a heavy lifter for a girl and I just don't tell other girls anymore what I lift because they are intimidated. I can't help it if they SEE me lifting heavy, but I just don't say what I lift. Besides my goal is more to look good than the amount, but I can't help that the amount needs to go up as I get stronger. But I think it is different for the guys probably?

    I don't care what the amount is. Only that I'm working hard enough. Doing the right amount of weights for the reps being done, or the super set, or pyramid, or circuit, or whatever.

    The key is that you do the right amount of weight for YOU.
  • Lift_hard_eat_big
    Lift_hard_eat_big Posts: 2,278 Member
    i must be doing something right, I get compliments almost every gym visit now from random people. :) I guess it helps being a skinny b#$$2 and strong.
    yea i agree with this. I look skinny as crap but i lift same or even more than people with like 30lbs on me.

    I love that feeling! I'm 165-170, yet I outlift most 200 pounders at my gym.
  • MinMin97
    MinMin97 Posts: 2,674 Member
    "In my opinion, if you can do 15 reps, that weight isn't heavy enough."


    Good to know.
    So the number of reps should be 8-10, with the last few very difficult?
  • "In my opinion, if you can do 15 reps, that weight isn't heavy enough."


    Good to know.
    So the number of reps should be 8-10, with the last few very difficult?

    It depends on your goal (hypertrphy vs. strength):

    hypertrophy training utilizes shorter rest periods and more reps (10-12 maybe)

    strength training emphasizes low-reps and higher weight with longer rest periods (maybe 4-6 reps)
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    If you don't say that you lift heavy, then you run the risk of getting an annoying lecture about how you must be "toning with pink barbie weights to avoid being bulky" for the 10,000th time.

    I lift as heavy as I can lift, while maintaining form and not injuring my long term injuries. When I am able to increase, I increase (and that is happening at a good, steady rate). I lift heavy for me. It's not heavy for other people. And I would never brag about how heavy I lift. I lift weights for recreational fitness. I would never claim to be some kind of professional lifter.

    These MFP threads are getting so petty.
  • kiachu
    kiachu Posts: 409 Member
    I think it's silly to brag about it. I'm a heavy lifter for a girl and I just don't tell other girls anymore what I lift because they are intimidated. I can't help it if they SEE me lifting heavy, but I just don't say what I lift. Besides my goal is more to look good than the amount, but I can't help that the amount needs to go up as I get stronger. But I think it is different for the guys probably?

    I don't care what the amount is. Only that I'm working hard enough. Doing the right amount of weights for the reps being done, or the super set, or pyramid, or circuit, or whatever.

    The key is that you do the right amount of weight for YOU.

    Exactly. According to the chart I'm at the advance level of everything. But I I stay in the 12-15 rep range. Why? Because I'm training for aesthetics not to be a power-lifter.
  • californiagirl2012
    californiagirl2012 Posts: 2,625 Member
    "In my opinion, if you can do 15 reps, that weight isn't heavy enough."


    Good to know.
    So the number of reps should be 8-10, with the last few very difficult?

    It depends. If you are doing a pyramid 21 reps / 13 reps / 8 reps / 5 reps / 8 reps / 13 reps/ 21 reps
    The weight needs to be according to the set.

    Other days are different routines, circuits, super sets, regular sets (10 reps), and all kinds of switching up routines (That is what is great about the Adonis Index Workout and the Venus Index Workout)

    You can't lift heavy all the time (well you can)
    But if you change it up, well, it changed my body to what it is today. Been doing this workout a year now and out of over 30 years of lifting this is the best I've ever looked and the strongest I've ever been!
  • "In my opinion, if you can do 15 reps, that weight isn't heavy enough."


    Good to know.
    So the number of reps should be 8-10, with the last few very difficult?

    It depends. If you are doing a pyramid 21 reps / 13 reps / 8 reps / 5 reps / 8 reps / 13 reps/ 21 reps
    The weight needs to be according to the set.

    Other days are different routines, circuits, super sets, regular sets (10 reps), and all kinds of switching up routines (That is what is great about the Adonis Index Workout and the Venus Index Workout)

    You can't lift heavy all the time (well you can)
    But if you change it up, well, it changed my body to what it is today. Been doing this workout a year now and out of over 30 years of lifting this is the best I've ever looked and the strongest I've ever been!

    21 reps? wholly moley. I've never done that many.
  • californiagirl2012
    californiagirl2012 Posts: 2,625 Member
    I think it's silly to brag about it. I'm a heavy lifter for a girl and I just don't tell other girls anymore what I lift because they are intimidated. I can't help it if they SEE me lifting heavy, but I just don't say what I lift. Besides my goal is more to look good than the amount, but I can't help that the amount needs to go up as I get stronger. But I think it is different for the guys probably?

    I don't care what the amount is. Only that I'm working hard enough. Doing the right amount of weights for the reps being done, or the super set, or pyramid, or circuit, or whatever.

    The key is that you do the right amount of weight for YOU.

    Exactly. According to the chart I'm at the advance level of everything. But I I stay in the 12-15 rep range. Why? Because I'm training for aesthetics not to be a power-lifter.

    Ahhh you limit yourself. You need to try Venus Index. You are ready for the advanced workouts already. You are already HOT, this advanced stuff I'm doing would be amazing for you. The standard 10 reps, or 12-15, that is old school stuff.
  • No because heavy is relative to each individual.

    This.
  • Sasssy69
    Sasssy69 Posts: 547 Member
    No because heavy is relative to each individual.

    Yep - This. When I lift, I lift to failure, and do between 8-12 reps. And I do between 3-4 sets each. My reps get less with each set. I bump my weight up every 2-4 weeks depending on what I have achieved (i.e. if I can now do 15 reps).

    But do I get offended by someone who says he is lifting heavy? No. Why would I care?
  • chivalryder
    chivalryder Posts: 4,391 Member
    I find this thread very interesting. I'm starting to do pure strength training, but I'm not going to be lifting weights. Once I can do one-arm pull ups and one-arm handstand push-ups, would that make me a heavy lifter? If I weighed 200 lbs when I get to that point, it would be equivalent to benching 400 lbs. Does that count?
  • kiachu
    kiachu Posts: 409 Member
    I think it's silly to brag about it. I'm a heavy lifter for a girl and I just don't tell other girls anymore what I lift because they are intimidated. I can't help it if they SEE me lifting heavy, but I just don't say what I lift. Besides my goal is more to look good than the amount, but I can't help that the amount needs to go up as I get stronger. But I think it is different for the guys probably?

    I don't care what the amount is. Only that I'm working hard enough. Doing the right amount of weights for the reps being done, or the super set, or pyramid, or circuit, or whatever.

    The key is that you do the right amount of weight for YOU.

    Exactly. According to the chart I'm at the advance level of everything. But I I stay in the 12-15 rep range. Why? Because I'm training for aesthetics not to be a power-lifter.

    Ahhh you limit yourself. You need to try Venus Index. You are ready for the advanced workouts already. You are already HOT, this advanced stuff I'm doing would be amazing for you. The standard 10 reps, or 12-15, that is old school stuff.

    I guess. I just move the weight up when I seem to be able to pump out 15 reps pretty easy. I'm just trying to get bigger. Its been working so far! I'm very old school. *L*
  • shorty35565
    shorty35565 Posts: 1,425 Member
    What is heavy is different to every individual. U have to start somewhere.
  • californiagirl2012
    californiagirl2012 Posts: 2,625 Member
    "In my opinion, if you can do 15 reps, that weight isn't heavy enough."


    Good to know.
    So the number of reps should be 8-10, with the last few very difficult?

    It depends. If you are doing a pyramid 21 reps / 13 reps / 8 reps / 5 reps / 8 reps / 13 reps/ 21 reps
    The weight needs to be according to the set.

    Other days are different routines, circuits, super sets, regular sets (10 reps), and all kinds of switching up routines (That is what is great about the Adonis Index Workout and the Venus Index Workout)

    You can't lift heavy all the time (well you can)
    But if you change it up, well, it changed my body to what it is today. Been doing this workout a year now and out of over 30 years of lifting this is the best I've ever looked and the strongest I've ever been!

    21 reps? wholly moley. I've never done that many.

    Yep that last set is REAL FUN! LOL But we only do pyramids for a few weeks, and can do some circuit and super set days in between. Then we have some modified pyramids, and other stuff. Always something different, every day, every week, it's AWESOME and never boring. Any type of pyramid like that makes me sore every time.
  • meeper123
    meeper123 Posts: 3,347 Member
    Do you get offended when people who don't lift heavy, claim that they are heavy lifters?

    According to these standards, I fall in between advanced and elite. I've been back in the gym for about 1.5 years now after a 4 year hiatus. I know some people at the gym that have been lifting for years and are nowhere near these standards for their years of experience, yet they brag to all their friends about how heavy they lift.

    http://www.exrx.net/Testing/WeightLifting/StrengthStandards.htm

    Maybe it makes them try harder. You need to stop worrying about what others say and do your own thing.

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  • MinMin97
    MinMin97 Posts: 2,674 Member
    I think it's silly to brag about it. I'm a heavy lifter for a girl and I just don't tell other girls anymore what I lift because they are intimidated. I can't help it if they SEE me lifting heavy, but I just don't say what I lift. Besides my goal is more to look good than the amount, but I can't help that the amount needs to go up as I get stronger. But I think it is different for the guys probably?

    I don't care what the amount is. Only that I'm working hard enough. Doing the right amount of weights for the reps being done, or the super set, or pyramid, or circuit, or whatever.

    The key is that you do the right amount of weight for YOU.


    Exactly. According to the chart I'm at the advance level of everything. But I I stay in the 12-15 rep range. Why? Because I'm training for aesthetics not to be a power-lifter.

    Ahhh you limit yourself. You need to try Venus Index. You are ready for the advanced workouts already. You are already HOT, this advanced stuff I'm doing would be amazing for you. The standard 10 reps, or 12-15, that is old school stuff.
    Well, you can imagine I am at the most, novice.
    However, I LOVE doing this so far.
    I already feel like superwoman (lol she's in there, somewhere!)

    I have been doing the "old school stuff", but that's because I want to gain some strength/fitness and remain injury-free while I get a feel for all of this.

    I will soon be ready for more challenge....I have higher weight/lower reps in mind.

    I don't know how far on the Heavy-Lifting chart I want to get.

    You ladies look beautiful, BTW:)
  • californiagirl2012
    californiagirl2012 Posts: 2,625 Member
    I think it's silly to brag about it. I'm a heavy lifter for a girl and I just don't tell other girls anymore what I lift because they are intimidated. I can't help it if they SEE me lifting heavy, but I just don't say what I lift. Besides my goal is more to look good than the amount, but I can't help that the amount needs to go up as I get stronger. But I think it is different for the guys probably?

    I don't care what the amount is. Only that I'm working hard enough. Doing the right amount of weights for the reps being done, or the super set, or pyramid, or circuit, or whatever.

    The key is that you do the right amount of weight for YOU.

    Exactly. According to the chart I'm at the advance level of everything. But I I stay in the 12-15 rep range. Why? Because I'm training for aesthetics not to be a power-lifter.

    Ahhh you limit yourself. You need to try Venus Index. You are ready for the advanced workouts already. You are already HOT, this advanced stuff I'm doing would be amazing for you. The standard 10 reps, or 12-15, that is old school stuff.

    I guess. I just move the weight up when I seem to be able to pump out 15 reps pretty easy. I'm just trying to get bigger. Its been working so far! I'm very old school. *L*

    LOL well I was old school for over 30 years. I'm glad I changed it up. If you want to get bigger you should try this. I can give you some sample workouts if you message me. Give it a shot.
  • Lift_hard_eat_big
    Lift_hard_eat_big Posts: 2,278 Member
    it's annoying as ****--or when someone tries to make my HEAVY lifting appear UNheavy. WTF?!? Seriously!?

    According to those standards I am
    advanced/elite for bench
    advanced for squat
    advanced for deadlift

    I want to try the power clean and power snatch but no olympic lifts allowed at my gym :( Babe maybe you can help me when I'm back! :)


    Babe, you're the strongest female lifter I know! Lift to body weight ratio, you outlift many men I know as well! Of course I'll teach you power cleans and snatch when you're back with me :-)
  • MrsBully4
    MrsBully4 Posts: 304 Member
    I use to be a heavy lifter. Now I am a thin lifter.

    LOL
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
    I am more offended by guys that load to heavy and do 1/4 squats. *kitten* to the grass is the only way.
  • kiachu
    kiachu Posts: 409 Member

    LOL well I was old school for over 30 years. I'm glad I changed it up. If you want to get bigger you should try this. I can give you some sample workouts if you message me. Give it a shot.

    Holy Bajolies your 51??? Cheers to you! :drinker:
  • Why would I care? I'm competing against gravity, not them.
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
    Do you get offended when people who don't lift heavy, claim that they are heavy lifters?

    According to these standards, I fall in between advanced and elite. I've been back in the gym for about 1.5 years now after a 4 year hiatus. I know some people at the gym that have been lifting for years and are nowhere near these standards for their years of experience, yet they brag to all their friends about how heavy they lift.

    http://www.exrx.net/Testing/WeightLifting/StrengthStandards.htm
    Why are you concerned what someone else says and/or does? (I didn't read the other posts... apologies if this is repetitive)
  • steve1686
    steve1686 Posts: 346 Member
    anyone who brags about how much they lift better be a damn powerlifter or i couldn't give less of an f
    I can't even tell you what my max bench is