Weight and attraction

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  • bulbadoof
    bulbadoof Posts: 1,058 Member
    I don't think I'm specifically attracted to a certain body type. I've dated underweight guys, overweight guys, average guys, muscular guys... found them all sexy. I think a person's body is one of the last things I take into account, actually. I am attracted to a sexy voice, a sense of humor, a distinctly masculine smell, physical and mental dexterity, expertise in things that interest me, a dominant demeanor, and self-confidence.

    That said, I am a sucker for guys with long hair.
  • ohmykai
    ohmykai Posts: 210 Member
    **** SKINNY BONEY WOMEN ...... NO THANKS!!!!!! A GIRL WHO WILL GO OUT TO DINNER AND EAT A STEAK INSTEAD OF 2 BITES OUT OF A SALAD!!

    I'll order the steak, but what if I can't finish the whole thing? lol.....
  • lepow
    lepow Posts: 92 Member
    I definitely prefer bigger! Bigger Personality, Bigger Hearts and Lots of Compassion for People, and Bigger Minds! But that's just me :smokin:

    Ditto!
  • ksavy
    ksavy Posts: 271 Member
    I have dated pretty much the whole range of body types. Slim, to average, to chunky, to obese, and muscular. I will admit though that the only obese (from fat not muscle) guy I dated was also when I was at my highest weight and feeling bad about myself. I generally am most attracted to moderately muscled men though, larger muscles but not nearly the size of guys in body competitions.
  • PaleoRDH
    PaleoRDH Posts: 266
    I think my hubby has the perfect body. He's tall and lean with muscular arms and hiney, not with muscles popping out everywhere, but you can see em. :heart: :heart: :heart: :love: :heart: :heart: :heart:
  • ErinBeth7
    ErinBeth7 Posts: 1,625 Member
    I've dated a very skinny guy to a guy who was tall and big with some flab....so I guess it is nothing in particular for me and a whole lot of personality.
  • BackTatJIM
    BackTatJIM Posts: 1,140 Member
    **** SKINNY BONEY WOMEN ...... NO THANKS!!!!!! A GIRL WHO WILL GO OUT TO DINNER AND EAT A STEAK INSTEAD OF 2 BITES OUT OF A SALAD!!

    I'll order the steak, but what if I can't finish the whole thing? lol.....


    sharing is always welcome ... I can eat a lot of steak ;-)
  • Brandicaloriecountess
    Brandicaloriecountess Posts: 2,126 Member
    Every person I have dated, been attracted to has been totally different in the looks department.

    I really TRULY find my attraction to be more about the personality and how they make me feel.
  • Brandicaloriecountess
    Brandicaloriecountess Posts: 2,126 Member
    **** SKINNY BONEY WOMEN ...... NO THANKS!!!!!! A GIRL WHO WILL GO OUT TO DINNER AND EAT A STEAK INSTEAD OF 2 BITES OUT OF A SALAD!!

    I used to finish my dinner PLUS my (ex) bf's hahaha oops :)
  • bc0329
    bc0329 Posts: 5
    I am attracted to semitall guys who look like they take care of themselves, with a great personality with a side of kiddish and slightly musclie. So, it's a little bit of everything all rolled into one.
  • imchicbad
    imchicbad Posts: 1,650 Member
    Wait...your asking the guys.....but are they sober?:huh:
  • denezy
    denezy Posts: 573 Member
    I'm honestly surprised at these answers. I don't really find thin guys attractive at all (sorry). Athletic yes, thin goodness no.
  • JessFehr
    JessFehr Posts: 27
    I love husky men! Covered in hair! I'm weird...

    I am married to one of those. :) lol!
  • rm830
    rm830 Posts: 531 Member
    i like any guy that will love my curves! :)

    a guy that like hips and a booty on a woman is my kinda man.

    ^^This and must like big boobs too... Other than that...I don't really like super skinny guys
  • RavenhairedWoman
    RavenhairedWoman Posts: 661 Member
    When I was dating I really wasn't picky. I dated all types but most of them were pretty much upper range of average weight to skinny. What I cared about most was personality. Of course at that point I had no respect for myself and basically went out with anyone who showed any interest in me. I was also younger and had no idea of what I wanted/needed in a partner.

    I am now on a basically permanent break from dating, working on 3 years, and all things associated with it. I have recently found that the only things that really annoy me are really foul language and jacked up teeth. I think if I date again I would want someone who could at least keep up with my activity levels and encourage me to stay active and adventurous.
  • MsNewBooty83
    MsNewBooty83 Posts: 985 Member
    i pretty much love HUGE guys, lol. hairy and bearded and im drooling, lol. lumber jack type, big shoulders arms, chests, yuuuuummmmmmmy!
    as for women, def not super thin, i like fit, but natural looking.
  • jynxxxed
    jynxxxed Posts: 1,010 Member
    I've never been attracted to thin guys and I'm barely attracted to the whole muscular build. I like really broad shoulders (muscular is fine) with a wider frame, but definitely no abs and not a really thin guy.
    More like a medium/somewhat overweight type build looks best, in my opinion.

    ETA: My boyfriend will be attractive to me either way though.. even though he's working towards getting those stupid abs right now. :P
  • ChristyP0303
    ChristyP0303 Posts: 212 Member
    I prefer men that are slightly built. However I prefer my women chubby but not obese. ;-)
  • mandorla
    mandorla Posts: 81 Member
    Tall and skinny, short and chubby, or anything in between. What matters to me is what is going on between the ears ... whichever gender.
  • Solisci
    Solisci Posts: 63 Member
    ~ As long as they are bigger than me! I can't be with a thin man.... just doesn't feel right lol I’m okay with a "teddy bear" type (on the softer side) and who doesn't like a fit man? As long as they are not too into themselves big headed, think they are God's gift to woman constantly taking self portraits.. ugh no thanks
  • livelivefree
    livelivefree Posts: 18 Member
    tall tall tall. i pretty much always wear heels and i just love it if the guy is still a lot taller. so a tall slim to muscular guy with a great personality that is smart, knows his history and his politics, that i can have a laugh with.
    I have been told that man does not exist but i already dated a guy like that and yeah i`ll find another ;)

    so yeah i have pretty specific ideas but i`m always willing to compromise on everything except the smart/great humor thing.
  • vikdexkaykai
    vikdexkaykai Posts: 92 Member
    **** SKINNY BONEY WOMEN ...... NO THANKS!!!!!! A GIRL WHO WILL GO OUT TO DINNER AND EAT A STEAK INSTEAD OF 2 BITES OUT OF A SALAD!!

    LOVE THIS!!! Wahoo!!! LOL
  • shannajojo
    shannajojo Posts: 192 Member
    I have always been attracted to tall, thin men. My first serious bf was 6'2 and maybe 175 lbs. He was also half Cherokee and half Irish and had a slow metabolism and could eat whatever he wanted and still had killer abs, sooo....

    I find myself attracted to men who are a little taller than me (I'm 5'5") with a medium build or a little more heavyset. Not into bodybuilder type guys.
  • shannajojo
    shannajojo Posts: 192 Member
    ~ As long as they are bigger than me! I can't be with a thin man.... just doesn't feel right lol I’m okay with a "teddy bear" type (on the softer side) and who doesn't like a fit man? As long as they are not too into themselves big headed, think they are God's gift to woman constantly taking self portraits.. ugh no thanks

    Amen,Sister! Me too!
  • MattPBTX
    MattPBTX Posts: 37 Member
    I'm a bigger guy with a moderate amount of body hair (none on the back thank God) and I've found a serious lack of women that actually like it. Most of them tolerate it though. I've even had a woman tell me I was an amazing person but wouldn't date me unless I shaved it all off...

    As far as my taste in women. I like 'em all. My wife started out at 110lbs and she's 5'8". Then she gained a little bit and then got pregnant. She hasn't lost any of the weight and is about 175lbs now. Still hasn't changed my attraction to her. I do tend to prefer the short, slightly chubby ones though. I like "cute' more than "hot".
  • Peggb
    Peggb Posts: 84 Member
    My husband lost attraction to me when I gained all this weight. I wish people would understand you are still the same inside and love you just as much but the reality is I think its not true and that most men don't like "big girls".
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    Defined arms, shoulders - fit, but not super muscular.
  • anthemforagirl
    anthemforagirl Posts: 81
    I like a man who looks like he could literally tear me apart (in bed).
  • Silverkittycat
    Silverkittycat Posts: 1,997 Member
    eh...skinny. but I'll eat the steak instead of the salad. Men that worry about these things hurt my head....
  • shannajojo
    shannajojo Posts: 192 Member
    I'm a bigger guy with a moderate amount of body hair (none on the back thank God) and I've found a serious lack of women that actually like it. Most of them tolerate it though. I've even had a woman tell me I was an amazing person but wouldn't date me unless I shaved it all off...

    As far as my taste in women. I like 'em all. My wife started out at 110lbs and she's 5'8". Then she gained a little bit and then got pregnant. She hasn't lost any of the weight and is about 175lbs now. Still hasn't changed my attraction to her. I do tend to prefer the short, slightly chubby ones though. I like "cute' more than "hot".

    Hair on men really doesn't bother me because the men in my family are hairy and my forearms are hairy. Lack of proper hygiene would bother me more than hair on a back.

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