Weight and attraction

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  • MSmooth747
    MSmooth747 Posts: 55 Member
    I love bigger women. Skinny girls ain't got nothing for me
  • jg627
    jg627 Posts: 1,221 Member
    I like a guy in the 5'10-11 range, just a little taller than me, and I seem to go for blondes (though Boyfriend is greying and Husband is silvering). Past that, a decent proportion (ahem) elsewhere, and otherwise it's intelligence, wit, a smart mouth, and compatible religious and political views and power orientation.

    Boyfriend and Husband? haha How do you handle two men?
    You must be new here. Welcome to Earth.
  • snoopy7501
    snoopy7501 Posts: 46 Member
    I think skinny girls are hot, and I'll stare at them all day long, but when it comes time to cuddle, I LOVE curvy women! I need something to squeeze, lol.
  • shannyfro
    shannyfro Posts: 641
    I think women with curves are beautiful but then again, everyone is beautiful in their own way. Not every woman is going to have curves. God made everyone special and unique. I think what makes someone beautiful is standing out and just being who you were made to be! :)
  • LordBear
    LordBear Posts: 239 Member
    i have always preferred skinny, petite, and athletic women.. how ever that is not set in stone. i have had an attraction to girls with a bit more as well.. where that cut off point is exactly im not sure. i know im not the greatest and and wouldnt expect the perfect gf either. but health is a major concern to me now and how your taking care of yourself.

    smoking is a no go period , drugs are also on the bad list, drinking is in the fuzzy area .. i would kick it but so hard finding any one else that dont like drinking. and not working out and trying to eat right is also on the fuzzy area. after the chit i have had to fight with i dont want to get pulled back in to the gutter again.. and i would like to be with some one that at least cares enough for themselves to try and take care of there health. even when ur heavier with good diet and exercise ur body chemestry changes.. and face it us big people always have troubles with odd smells and other things.. so if your working at it some of that clears up. and so u are more appealing instead of appalling.

    but any who ..how u take care of yourself gives an example of how you take care of things in your life. and if u dont take care of yourself why should any one else... and that goes for thick and thin.. even if the ladies are on the more to love side ..if they are taking care of them selves and trying to be healthy.. i am more drawn in by their determination and personality..

    lmao... i have never considered myself to be picky but here i am still single..
  • TheFitHooker
    TheFitHooker Posts: 3,357 Member
    I'd rather a fit and healthy man, not over weight or obese but healthy. Not thin either. Myself I rather me be fit and healthy, I don't wanna be a bag of bones and I don't wanna be over weight or obese.
  • SairahRose
    SairahRose Posts: 412 Member
    I'm not fussed about the size so much, as long as they treat me nicely, and are really good at communicating with me.
    Saying that - I prefer the muscle men... or women sometimes :P They're just so strong :D
  • JLand918
    JLand918 Posts: 156
    For me I think I am more attracted to average,fit girls so do I want the toothpick? No but do I want the woman who cant fit in her car No. I like the average woman but to me average might not be what you women feel is average. But I prefer the woman to be somewhat athletic so that she can kayak, hike,bike etc without tiring out or *****ing about it.
  • Ohmydaze
    Ohmydaze Posts: 403 Member
    **** SKINNY BONEY WOMEN ...... NO THANKS!!!!!! A GIRL WHO WILL GO OUT TO DINNER AND EAT A STEAK INSTEAD OF 2 BITES OUT OF A SALAD!!

    Just fyi, the two don't always go together. My cousins wife is naturally very slender, but eats like a horse. I'm on the smaller side myself, I have collarbones and hip bones and I love them. You know what I also love? FOOD. I will devour your steak sir, and savour it. Preferably with red wine and followed by something chocolaty.

    Just sayin'.
  • Begood03
    Begood03 Posts: 1,259 Member
    I prefer smaller women, not boney, but smaller.
  • CassieLyle
    CassieLyle Posts: 50
    I just like men.. As long as you can make me smile and laugh thats all I want.. Ive dated men 360lbs and ive date men 128 lbs.. I dont have any paticular size want... Now I do like the blue collard kinda men.. The ones who work with their hands and like to get dirty and sweaty.. I love a man who can work on a car.. Incredibly sexy!!! My honey is 6ft 286lbs, hairy and works as a contractor.... My ex husband was 5'5 128lbs and a US Marine.. So obviously nothing close to each other.
  • mrs_deg1983
    mrs_deg1983 Posts: 157
    Strong. Big is perfectly fine. Not a fan of skinny .
    I can overhead press you. Wanna hang out?

    Na I am a married woman! Well if its for health and fitness you can overhead press me amy time.
  • Louisianababy93
    Louisianababy93 Posts: 1,709 Member
    i like men in general.
    if there easy to look at and can make me laugh,your good in my book.
    && you have to have a sense of humor.
  • forgtmenot
    forgtmenot Posts: 860 Member
    I've dated everything from lean to muscley to slightly chubby. When I was single I tended to go for clean cut types. I dislike body hair, and although I did have a fling with a guy with a beard who was BEAUTIFUL, I tend to dislike facial hair (a 5 'o clock shadow is sexy though). The heaviest guy I dated, I married and he was (sorry TMI) the best in bed. I definitely agree that personality has more to do with attraction than anything. I'd much rather be with a 5 with a killer personality and sense of humor than a 10 who is a bore.

    My boyfriend of 3 years now is 6'5 and is usually 190-200lbs. He has natural muscle that I hope never goes away and is lean but not skinny by any means. I'm only 5'5 and I love that I feel small in his arms. He naturally has NO chest hair and has the prettiest blue/green eyes and this sexy John Wayne-esque deep southern accent. I've dated lots of men, some of which were so gorgeous they could be models, but I am far more attracted to my boyfriend than any of them :)
  • admanMike
    admanMike Posts: 371 Member
    I like athletic-minded women. Size doesn't matter, rather someone who is active.
  • jg627
    jg627 Posts: 1,221 Member
    Strong. Big is perfectly fine. Not a fan of skinny .
    I can overhead press you. Wanna hang out?

    Na I am a married woman! Well if its for health and fitness you can overhead press me amy time.
    What a coincidence, so am I. You skate. I skate. We skate. Maybe we can get together and kinda be a skating team.
  • Krizzo87
    Krizzo87 Posts: 14,186 Member
    I like built guys, sure...but I also like the "teddy bear" type :bigsmile:
  • trophywife24
    trophywife24 Posts: 1,472 Member
    I'm also a fan of the teddy bear type. I love broad shoulders, big hands, strong arms, broad backs and I DIE over a little bit of a chubby baby face. I adore baby faces. My husband lost 40lbs last year but kept his sweet little face, it kills me.
  • hesn92
    hesn92 Posts: 5,966 Member
    I don't really know. personality is more important. My boyfriend is pretty lean. not scrawny but not muscular. He's really strong, though. I like muscular guys but not too muscular. I also have been attracted to chubbier guys. *shrug*
  • madelonism
    madelonism Posts: 292 Member
    I am attracted to tall thin guys or toned/muscular guys. im not attracted to heavy guys, and honestly i do not think that makes me hypocritical lol. opposites attract man. i would never date a man that mirrored my body type. i dont expect muscular guys to want a fat chick like me, however i was lucky enough to find one that did. so they are out there. and that pleases me. lol
  • pudadough
    pudadough Posts: 1,271 Member
    I can't be the only one who is all about the face. I will take a chubby guy with a cute face and a nice smile every time over one with a butt face and a six pack.
  • HealthierAndFitterMe
    HealthierAndFitterMe Posts: 52 Member
    i'm attracted to tall , thin guys . not really into the whole body built thing . not that i wouldn't date a guy like that , same for a guy who has a bit of meat here & there , but i've always like guys who are on the side of tall & skinny . maybe , because i'm so tall , i just prefer a guy who is taller . (:
  • jg627
    jg627 Posts: 1,221 Member
    I can't be the only one who is all about the face. I will take a chubby guy with a cute face and a nice smile every time over one with a butt face and a six pack.
    That's hilarious! Imagine the pillow talk between him and his soul mate.
    Brrrraaap
    Oh, Buttface, I really identify with you!
  • Chapter3point6
    Chapter3point6 Posts: 1,233
    i like any guy that will love my curves! :)

    a guy that like hips and a booty on a woman is my kinda man.

    Can't see the hips and booty you are referring to, but WOW on those eyes. :love:
  • Chapter3point6
    Chapter3point6 Posts: 1,233
    Wait...your asking the guys.....but are they sober?:huh:

    :laugh: :drinker:
  • laineyluma
    laineyluma Posts: 358 Member
    I notice personality first. If they are funny thats an instant plus. I dunno, I don't really have a "type" i guess. :ohwell:
  • hausofnichele
    hausofnichele Posts: 531 Member
    I can't be the only one who is all about the face. I will take a chubby guy with a cute face and a nice smile every time over one with a butt face and a six pack.

    Amen sister
  • ElizaRoche
    ElizaRoche Posts: 2,005 Member
    ehhh, I dont like skinny, I dont like to hug and feel im hugging a broom stick, I like to feel a bit of meat at least, other way I feel im embracing myself. I dont like morbid obese, but a few extra pounds is ok for me.
  • MommaSpunk
    MommaSpunk Posts: 113
    Tall, skinny-fit, and less body hair as possible. I hate body hair on men and women. Thankfully my Hub's fits the bill and has the same opinion on body hair lol. It just bothers me being much chunkier than he is, but maybe one day.. I so will have a hawt bod back.
  • RockinBooty89
    RockinBooty89 Posts: 69
    I'm into cute guys period lol. Now if you cant bend over to tie your own shoe maybe not as much, but I look at the face first, then its a matter of intellect, can't stand stupid people, actually I'm a bit of a snob in that respect I suppose. Then there's the whole personality and chemistry thing which both have to be on point and then the physical body is the last thing I look at. I like nice, smart, charismatic guys with a winning personality who are supportive of me no matter what I look like and who have nice teeth lol, that last part is only important because I had braces for 6 years so I'm a little obsessed with teeth.

    As for me, I don't ever want to lose my curves. I might be very over weight but I still have a nice and defined figure. I have a great butt, defined waist, wide hips and smaller up top except where it counts ; ) If someone were to tell me right now that in order to get to my goal weight I would have to be flat as a board, I'd be just as happy to stay the way I am. I'm doing this strictly for health reasons, not to change my appearance, I rather like my figure.

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