tell me I am hot..???!!! WTF?
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to the OP...what in the world is this thread even about? :grumble: :noway:0
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to the OP...what in the world is this thread even about? :grumble: :noway:
I have no idea now if I'm honest.0 -
I would bang everyone that has replied, dudes included. F--k it, I am 40, time to try something new. What could it hurt? Well....I guess my *kitten*......
LOL. Thanks for the giggle! Maybe it's a "40" thing... is that when we all figure out that sex is great and we want more of it? Hence the cougars? LOL
Well I'm almost 52 and as much attention as I'm getting right now I have no interest in being a cougar! I love my sweet husband way too much. I'm not judging though. Do as you want and so will I.
And you are hot!
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My wife is the only one who ever calls me "hot" and I'm good with that cause the feeling is mutual
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Ok so I enjoy the posts in these forums as much as the next person, but I have decided that it is also very depressing at times. <insert whiney b*tch voice here> .. we all wish someone would say "wow you are hot!" but no, its just for the bikini clad photo ladies and gents! So instead of WOW you are HOT, I say SCRAM!!! Make room for the rest of us beauties that don't meet your standards!
Why should this matter either way? Is the approval of others so significant?0 -
Hot is confidence and an attitude, not looks.0
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Hmmmmm. Interesting. NOT.
In general, if you have to ask or if you have to ask to be told - FAIL.
Hotness comes from many places - not just looks or the size or shape of your body - and certainly not having a "bikini body". CONFIDENCE and everything else you bring to the table. That BAM-ness !0 -
Those girls with flawless model sculpted bodies work very hard to get to that point. It was not magically sent down from heaven. We are all here to lose weight and get in the best shape of our lives. So of course the people with the most toned and sculpted bodies are praised the most. They look great and it's hard work!! There should be no relationship between the compliments that they get and the ones that others don't get. And I'm sorry but I don't think that they are all conceited. They are proud of the results that they got. If I had a hard-sexy body I wouldn't want to hide it either!! lol. I do admit that some go overboard but come on.. It's a fitness site!! Those people actually inspire me because they are human just like me and they are in their best shape. I know that one day I can get in shape too if I stay consistent. I won't look like anyone else but I will be the best me I can be! And those that seek attention probably still feel unattractive inside and seek empty outside validation. We have to get our validation from within. AND We don't have to put others down to feel better about ourselves. Peace and love peeps.
*round of applause*
How many of you hope to get to your goal weight and show off the body you worked so hard for?
I hope for your sakes you don't have to deal with people like these who think you're shallow and should get off the site just because of their own jealousy and insecurities.
That's right I said it.
I love you Brett...jus sayin...
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Karyn you and I are both HOT! I know lots of guys and yes girls what would love to cuddle with us, if not more. I do not care how thin, toned oar what ever you want to call it. I will NEVER wear a bikini, just not my style. Being healthy is. I think you are hot in and out. Have a great day, Hottie.0
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My wife is the only one who ever calls me "hot" and I'm good with that cause the feeling is mutual
Awww, you adorable softy.0 -
I am hot. But I only need one person to tell me that, and he's not on this forum.0
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Ok so I enjoy the posts in these forums as much as the next person, but I have decided that it is also very depressing at times. <insert whiney b*tch voice here> .. we all wish someone would say "wow you are hot!" but no, its just for the bikini clad photo ladies and gents! So instead of WOW you are HOT, I say SCRAM!!! Make room for the rest of us beauties that don't meet your standards!
Why should this matter either way? Is the approval of others so significant?
Seriously. I've jumped in and out of this thread since its conception and based on what I've read-- I don't get it. It sounds like many people expect to be called a 10/seeking the approval of others for their own self worth? I personally don't go into the "tell me I'm hot" threads.
Having self confidence is hot!!0 -
Holla! Amen Sister!Karyn you and I are both HOT! I know lots of guys and yes girls what would love to cuddle with us, if not more. I do not care how thin, toned oar what ever you want to call it. I will NEVER wear a bikini, just not my style. Being healthy is. I think you are hot in and out. Have a great day, Hottie.0 -
Good hair/teeth/skin/whatever are sexy though, and should be complimented accordingly.
should should should subjective trophies for everyone congratulations on keeping yourself clean like humans are supposed to do anyway. your hygiene makes you freaking delicious.
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LOL! what a debate I got started, huh! If someone is overheard saying SCRAM today, I am going to wonder who the hell they got it from now! LOL0
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No one told me I was hot when I wore my mankini.
*Pat pat* I think you're hot. Mankini and all.0 -
Did you post in the hot thread wearing the paint and stuff? It's hard to tell what you look like--people are going to get caught up in the paint and stuff, not look for a nice smile or hair. It's kind of like showing up for an evening gown competition wearing a smock over your dress. If you want to be complimented on your natural beauty, show it! I wouldn't be able to give you a sincere compliment on your physical beauty if I don't honestly know what it is because it's hiding behind a costume. I bet if you posted a picture of yourself though, it would be a different story.0
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Even when you do compliment her, she finds something negative in the compliment. I don't get it.omfg no matter what I say, im going to be wrong because im in my damn underwear.
Whinny chicks are not hot 0 -
A little validation is a good thing for sure. A compliment sometimes can make the day of a particular person. Its all about attention really and yes, we all like it in many forms. Not everybody is gonna think you're hot, beautiful, gorgeous or whatever. I've noticed that when it comes to hot comments its usually about a body. To me thats not what hot is at all, because ya gotta have a face as well and its gotta be attractive.
I've never been a big supporter of the whole participation medal thing, however I have saw some benefits to it as I coach multiple sports and played all my life. I've been the star on my teams and I can still ball like nobody's business. What i've tended to see is those who lose interest because of not receiving a type of validation.
I could easily say suck it up and deal with it but some just aren't able to do that, but a nice compliment even if there is something hot about them can go a long way. Sure if you're on top of your craft you should get those top of your craft awards or compliments. Some would like to just know that they're doing a good job, who doesn't want that. There are many and I mean many who I wouldn't think are hot that others think are just about perfect, for many reasons. OP is hot to me by the way
Very well written! A nice complement to anyone can go a very long way... we do all like to hear them. It just cracks me up when an obviously beautiful person with an amazing body is begging for " I'm so hot" comments. I just want to scream at them GTFU!
I also love the suck it up comment - I'm always telling my daughter that!0 -
Every chick on page 1 except the OP is HOT!
JK OP!0 -
I don't even understand what the OP is saying, but I think its some form of complaining.0
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Very well written! A nice complement to anyone can go a very long way... we do all like to hear them. It just cracks me up when an obviously beautiful person with an amazing body is begging for " I'm so hot" comments. I just want to scream at them GTFU!
Days later and you're still trying to tell people who is and is not allowed to receive compliments.
Sad.0 -
Really? You want strangers to tell you you're hot? I get a little uncomfortable when a guy I don't know tells me I'm hot. Beautiful and its variations, sure, but the words "hot" and "sexy" make a really poor first impression on me.0
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Ok so I enjoy the posts in these forums as much as the next person, but I have decided that it is also very depressing at times. <insert whiney b*tch voice here> .. we all wish someone would say "wow you are hot!" but no, its just for the bikini clad photo ladies and gents! So instead of WOW you are HOT, I say SCRAM!!! Make room for the rest of us beauties that don't meet your standards!
Whats ironic about this post is that generally speaking, I don't see many women call any guys hot except the ones that show their abs, muscles, and ****. :huh:0 -
I would bang everyone that has replied, dudes included. F--k it, I am 40, time to try something new. What could it hurt? Well....I guess my *kitten*......
LOL. Thanks for the giggle! Maybe it's a "40" thing... is that when we all figure out that sex is great and we want more of it? Hence the cougars? LOL
Yes, it's a 40's thing. Everyone is scared of it, but lemme tell ya, EVERYTHING gets better, including sex! purrrrrrrrr! 0 -
Really? You want strangers to tell you you're hot? I get a little uncomfortable when a guy I don't know tells me I'm hot. Beautiful and its variations, sure, but the words "hot" and "sexy" make a really poor first impression on me.
You are quite lovely in a very reserved and classy way.0 -
Really? You want strangers to tell you you're hot? I get a little uncomfortable when a guy I don't know tells me I'm hot. Beautiful and its variations, sure, but the words "hot" and "sexy" make a really poor first impression on me.
Damn you're hot....the things I'd do to you.:devil:0 -
Really? You want strangers to tell you you're hot? I get a little uncomfortable when a guy I don't know tells me I'm hot. Beautiful and its variations, sure, but the words "hot" and "sexy" make a really poor first impression on me.
What reaction were you going for with the picture in the bottom row toward the end?0 -
Really? You want strangers to tell you you're hot? I get a little uncomfortable when a guy I don't know tells me I'm hot. Beautiful and its variations, sure, but the words "hot" and "sexy" make a really poor first impression on me.
What reaction were you going for with the picture in the bottom row toward the end?
"Damn you have questionable posture"0 -
Very well written! A nice complement to anyone can go a very long way... we do all like to hear them. It just cracks me up when an obviously beautiful person with an amazing body is begging for " I'm so hot" comments. I just want to scream at them GTFU!
Days later and you're still trying to tell people who is and is not allowed to receive compliments.
Sad.
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