MFP Friending 101
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I like knowing where you found me in the forums, or through a mutual friend or what not but I would rather add any requests then delete if needed. I think everyone deserves a chance to be part of a fun and supportive network on this journey.
I guess I don't really have criteria for adding, but I do for deleting. If you haven't been on in a month or so, or have never interacted with me but collect friends I may delete. I have only ever deleted one person for pro-ed behaviour though supposedly several years into recovery. I don't like being criticized for the glass of Malbec that fits my cals because I'll never get a thigh gap lol.
I hope that answered your question OP0 -
Personally, I just want to know you are literate and have some sense of humor. Bonus if you're a sarcastic person. I don't think I ask for much.
LOVE this...
I just want to know:
1) how you found me
or
2) why you thought it would be a good idea for us to be friends.
That's it. I'm not friend collecting, and I REALLY mean it when I say I want to be supportive to my friends, and that I want my friends to be supportive of me, too.
Pretty much both of these....I did accept a blank one today though, more out of curiosity than anything else.
1) Found you on MFP - Stating the obvious
2) Ever thought that people invite you as a friend to follow your posts for advice, or to be inspired by your dedication and discipline...
I noticed a ton of these people who shed the weight has gained it back in arrogance...
Probably half of my friends that requested me did not send a message but I still added them. I have never declined someone. I just PREFER a little "hello message".
None required though... 0 -
THANK YOU! :drinker:. I mean, it's right there in my profile *Please send a message with your FR. If you do not send a message, I will not accept*. IF they do not send a message I would assume that they either can't read, don't read, or are just creepy stalker people!0
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I don't accept friend requests, because I am anti-social and weird.0
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a message is nice, I always send one. it feels weird not too. no message is still a message "I am a totally random person that somehow thinks you would be cool to get to know but I can't find the words to express it to you".
I've added non-messagers. but honestly it's great to know if we have something in common.
I want to know people who are give and take with support and humor is a bonus. it's nice if we are around the same age or following similar lifestyles or activities but it's not really criteria. I start deleting when people haven't logged in for months (sorry people! I'm sure there's a good reason) or if you literally added me but have never said one word to me even if I write on your wall or respond to your status messages. Aren't we all here for support or am I at the wrong place??0 -
Some of the people in this post are absolutely not the kind of friends I'd want anyway. If they somehow snuck through my filter, there would be a race between us to delete. Thin skin need not apply.0
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that's cool, at least you are honest! but are you here to get support? do you post mostly in the forums then?I don't accept friend requests, because I am anti-social and weird.0 -
Why would you want to be friends with someone who doesn't care enough to even say hello?
That's what seems weird to me.
Personally, I deny people every day for this simple breach of etiquette. I also clean out my FL a couple of times a week to keep it to people who are supportive, active, and awesome. *GASP*
For everyone else, there's sarahwhynacht.0 -
sum form literassy ? ....I'm out0
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Excuse me?Why would you want to be friends with someone who doesn't care enough to even say hello?
That's what seems weird to me.
Personally, I deny people every day for this simple breach of etiquette. I also clean out my FL a couple of times a week to keep it to people who are supportive, active, and awesome. *GASP*
For everyone else, there's sarahwhynacht.0 -
What's your requirement in a friend request?
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How you doin? lol0 -
Excuse me?Why would you want to be friends with someone who doesn't care enough to even say hello?
That's what seems weird to me.
Personally, I deny people every day for this simple breach of etiquette. I also clean out my FL a couple of times a week to keep it to people who are supportive, active, and awesome. *GASP*
For everyone else, there's sarahwhynacht.
Well, you did say you don't decline anyone....0 -
Excuse me?Why would you want to be friends with someone who doesn't care enough to even say hello?
That's what seems weird to me.
Personally, I deny people every day for this simple breach of etiquette. I also clean out my FL a couple of times a week to keep it to people who are supportive, active, and awesome. *GASP*
For everyone else, there's sarahwhynacht.
Well, you did say you don't decline anyone....
Yes, I did say that. HOWEVER, I do clean out my FL quite often and seem to follow similar rules as you. Don't worry, no FR coming your way from me - not that you will care anyway.0 -
Why concern yourself over such menial things? I am just glad I am able to inspire others and be inspired, I don't need a message or a justification for a friendship.
exactly!0 -
I post in the forums, but am not really looking for support.
that's cool, at least you are honest! but are you here to get support? do you post mostly in the forums then?I don't accept friend requests, because I am anti-social and weird.0 -
Folks, we all know it's just good common sense to include a message with your friend request. So, please, stop sending me and my friends blank requests. There WILL be a test on this later. Class dismissed.
What's your requirement in a friend request? Do they have to mention something you stated in your profile? Share a favorite exercise or similar diet? I know at least one person that requires answers to 3 random questions. I'm considering implementing a personality test.
I honestly Like this a lot:):) I agree totally:):)
Personally, I just want to know you are literate and have some sense of humor. Bonus if you're a sarcastic *kitten*. I don't think I ask for much.0 -
I post in the forums, but am not really looking for support.
that's cool, at least you are honest! but are you here to get support? do you post mostly in the forums then?I don't accept friend requests, because I am anti-social and weird.
Off topic..
Thanks for your valuable input on the forum as I enjoy reading your posts0 -
OP you are one of my friend favorites because you make me giggle.
Seriously though, I don't know why it is a big deal.
Let us play the scenario real quick
"Friend Request from Zachatta: No message"
Hmmm, ok ill chance this: add.
"Message from Zachatta: Hi I am a creeper insert 10000 inappropriate comments here without even saying hello first"
Oh wow that was a terrible idea;
"Delete; Block"
Can't be that scary can it?0 -
OP you are one of my friend favorites because you make me giggle.
Seriously though, I don't know why it is a big deal.
Let us play the scenario real quick
"Friend Request from Zachatta: No message"
Hmmm, ok ill chance this: add.
"Message from Zachatta: Hi I am a creeper insert 10000 inappropriate comments here without even saying hello first"
Oh wow that was a terrible idea;
"Delete; Block"
Can't be that scary can it?
EXACTLY!!!0 -
i dont get friend requests
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