Your first love? How old was you?

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  • nikinyx6
    nikinyx6 Posts: 772 Member
    I was 13, he was 15. Im 26, and we're still together :) Half of my life spent with an awesome guy. :heart:

    I think this goes to show that sometimes love takes over!

    We were both in really dark times in our lives. I don't think either of us would still be here without the other...lol, I still get all warm and fuzzy thinking about him.
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    Shame the guys on here can not bare their souls they must have had first loves also?
  • Dawnymaries
    Dawnymaries Posts: 109
    I was seventeen when I first fell in love. We were together for seven years, and broke up because we didn't want the same things at the time... for our future. I met someone else soon after, was with him for two years, and we broke up because he was insane (lol, rebound guy turned long-term). I got back with my first love and now we've been back together for two years. :) It was like we got to start all over again.... just as madly in love as we always were. I'm very thankful.
  • Evey_bee
    Evey_bee Posts: 77 Member
    Mine was when I was 15, he was 16. We were together a year and a half but sadly things didn't work out. I'm now 20, and a few months ago went to his wedding. We're still very good friends, and him and his new wife are definitely made for each other (:
    I'm now almost a year into seeing someone else myself <3 Who I love very very much :D
  • RedBullLiz
    RedBullLiz Posts: 469 Member
    First love: when I started high school. Always mesmerized with this guy's eyes during lunch. My friend told him that I was interested. She pretty much made it happen. We were together for almost 2.5 years. He was a senior and it was hard to be together when we were both still growing up. Still love his craziness.
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    I was seventeen when I first fell in love. We were together for seven years, and broke up because we didn't want the same things at the time... for our future. I met someone else soon after, was with him for two years, and we broke up because he was insane. I got back with my first love and now we've been back together for two years. :) It was like we got to start all over again.... just as madly in love as we always were. I'm very thankful.
    What a lovely end/.start to your relationship, I hope you go from strength to strength
  • SalubriousGyrl
    SalubriousGyrl Posts: 87 Member
    i was 14 years old, in love with a 19 year old. thought this was true love until he broke my heart. got over him rather quickly and met my true first love my freshman year in college at the age of 18. T had me wide open in love. I will never forget him! First loves are great
  • Dawnymaries
    Dawnymaries Posts: 109
    Thank you. :)

    We've grown up a lot and have both learned what to do and what not to do in order to keep our relationship healthy. I love him so much. :)
  • I_wanna_live
    I_wanna_live Posts: 227 Member
    What is love?

    I learned early off, that it isn't worth the head/heart aches... Cause they will destroy you, given the chance
  • jennibee70
    jennibee70 Posts: 1,067 Member
    I met Garry when I was 15 and fell for him HARD. He flirted with me too but my Dad marked his card for him and told him I was too young. I went away to university at 17 and I'm not sure I ever saw him again, except at my wedding reception, I'm sure he peeped through the door. Was married for 18 years to my first real love, and though we went through a lot of animosity towards the end, I still love him and always will, I'm just not in love with him any more. And I still wonder about Garry, and if he's still as hot!
  • Dawnymaries
    Dawnymaries Posts: 109
    What is love?

    I learned early off, that it isn't worth the head/heart aches... Cause they will destroy you, given the chance
    The wrong people will, that is true. But true love does exist, and I think it is worth everything you have to go through to get it.
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    i was 14 years old, in love with a 19 year old. thought this was true love until he broke my heart. got over him rather quickly and met my true first love my freshman year in college at the age of 18. T had me wide open in love. I will never forget him! First loves are great

    First loves are the best loves, no matter how old you are! They teach us a whole lot of stuff for life ahead
  • Ohmydaze
    Ohmydaze Posts: 403 Member
    I was 16. Still together :) Which is scary! I've made boys cry before, but I've never been dumped. Been through a lot together though.
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    I fell in love when I was 19. Where I come from, we don't fall in love more than once and that was my one and only love
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    What is love?

    I learned early off, that it isn't worth the head/heart aches... Cause they will destroy you, given the chance

    Love is a wonderful thing, given the chance from either side! I hope you find it one day and not just for the person that you arwe going to give your love to but from the love you will get back x
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    I fell in love when I was 19. Where I come from, we don't fall in love more than once and that was my one and only love

    I hope you are still in love???
  • vicki9168
    vicki9168 Posts: 89 Member
    My first was when I was 14, we went out for 10 months and at the time I thought it was forever.
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    Met him when I was 15, he was 19? Married him at 16. Working on our 39th anniversary. Still the love of my life.

    sorry to keep posting but, but wow, 39th year coming up, that is amazing, sending super hugs to you and your man x
  • SeaChele77
    SeaChele77 Posts: 1,103 Member
    My first real love started at 14...however at that time it may have been more "puppy love" - but it did grow. We dated for 2yrs broke up and then got back together after high school. We didnt last long but we are still friends and he still holds a very special place in my heart!!
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    I fell in love when I was 19. Where I come from, we don't fall in love more than once and that was my one and only love

    I hope you are still in love???

    I will most likely love her till the day I die. She is married to some other guy though and I hope she's very happy with him
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    My first was when I was 14, we went out for 10 months and at the time I thought it was forever.

    At 14 it is always forever :brokenheart:
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    I fell in love when I was 19. Where I come from, we don't fall in love more than once and that was my one and only love

    I hope you are still in love???

    I will most likely love her till the day I die. She is married to some other guy though and I hope she's very happy with him

    I hope she is very happy too!!! She obviously missed out on a lovely person, but everything happens for a reason x
  • Dead_Darling
    Dead_Darling Posts: 478 Member
    I was 16. Was with him up until last month :\

    Ah well, it wasn't gonna be forever - only took me 9 years to realise that!
  • Jongfaith
    Jongfaith Posts: 195
    I was in Fouth grade and a sixth grader named Eric drew me a picture of a lion and gave it to me on the bus ride home. I was in love and we even dated for while in high school but he was a tool and the only person to ever break up with me. Then there was Shawn who I dated for four years and he moved away. Luke next and he tried to propose at my senior homecoming. oh the memories! Why is it so much sweeter and more fairy tale like when you are young?
  • thoseblueeyes
    thoseblueeyes Posts: 812 Member
    I was 15 when I fell in love. His name was Russell, I meet him at a church dance. He was very sweet and treated me really well. My mom didn't want me to have a boyfriend so I dated others boys but still remained friends with him through high school and after that we lost track of each other.
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    I was 16. Was with him up until last month :\

    Ah well, it wasn't gonna be forever - only took me 9 years to realise that!

    Well done you for your 9 years, think of it that you will always have learnt a lot about love x
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    I was in Fouth grade and a sixth grader named Eric drew me a picture of a lion and gave it to me on the bus ride home. I was in love and we even dated for while in high school but he was a tool and the only person to ever break up with me. Then there was Shawn who I dated for four years and he moved away. Luke next and he tried to propose at my senior homecoming. oh the memories! Why is it so much sweeter and more fairy tale like when you are young?

    I hope Eric, Luke and Shawn kick themselves now for letting you go lol!
  • ohmariposa
    ohmariposa Posts: 372 Member
    I was in the 8th grade and he was in 7th
    I went to private school and he went to public
    it lasted 3 months....until my parents found out LOL
  • tvanhooser
    tvanhooser Posts: 326 Member
    First minor crush -- boy named Ryan in my when I was in 4th grade, major crush 7th grade, boy who sat behind me in homeroom but never really gave me the time of day. First kiss -- Don Coffee, 14 years old at Island Lake summer camp. We spent most of our free time together holding hands all week and he kissed me on the last night after he walked me back to my cabin. We talked on the phone alot after camp until my dad got the phone bill and forbid any more long distance calling. Last I knew of him was when he called me once the next spring to tell me his Navy dad was being transferred to Japan. I had romantic notions of First Kiss to Happily Ever After but not really realistic under the circumstances. ha ha
  • stinkpurty
    stinkpurty Posts: 148
    I met him when I was 16. It was Halloween night. I was going to the French Quarter with some friends and he came along. That night we became inseparable. He was my first love, the first guy I slept with, the first guy that actually meant something other than having someone to "go out" with. He was a year ahead of me and when he graduated, he moved 2000 miles away to go to school and live with his dad. We really thought it would we could make it work. It did for a while (my parents even let me miss a week of school to go visit him). But the fickleness of youth and lack proximity got to us. I cheated on him (BIG mistake! Oh, to be able to go back and beat the crap out of my 18-year-old self. Not that i think we would still be toghether, but it's just an awful thing to do.) and I broke up with him. Thanks to social media, we are still friends. We actually give each other relationship advice. He came to my town last year to visit another friend and while he was here, well, we had a "good time." The spark was still there, but not so much as when we were younger. So we stick to giving each other relationship advice and arguing about football.

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