Hurtful Names!
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Wilder beast
fat b*tch
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In grade 5 a boy at school called me a fat pig, i went home and cried for days and refused to go to school.
My old netball team had two people called abbey so i was known as 'big abbey' and she was known as 'little abbey' we were basically the same height.
I was sexually assaulted when i was younger and when my sister found out she said 'but who would want to touch you?'
I was upset at my dad for some reason last year and when he came to talk to me about it all he said was ' are you crying because of your weight?'
The many many times people have yelled out the generic fat names out of their cars
Oh and just the other day my mums ex boyfriend called me a fat slut.
My ex boyfriend set up a facebook page called 'Abbey is a fat whale'
My last boyfriend and i were laying in his bed with err..not so many clothes on and he said to me 'You have nice curves' while he ran his hand down my side. It was actually a compliment but i got so upset about it.
My weight has always been the thing thats gotten to me most, even when i was thin. I'll always remember these times and ill use them as my motivation.0 -
"Fat *kitten*" "Fat" and "Big Mama"
and I think I might have been called a "Two-ton huskie" before too
I'm not even a mother!0 -
Oh and "Mama's little football player"0
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Oh and another hurtful one:
"The pregnant girl"0 -
I was bullied in middle school and high school I developed really well in the boobs department by 5th grade so the guys would call me boobica and in high school girls would throw their food at me at lunch and told me I needed to kill myself. Thats the mild i can say here. I didn't get fat till I was 23.0
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My Husband has been told hes a "Chubby Chaser".... well excuse me... I guess i'm Large and In Charge....
But what I remember most was when I was in school, I was in a computers class and the chairs were small, So when I sat on them a little but of my theighs hung over the chair, So this guy used to call me Hang over!!!0 -
My Husband has been told hes a "Chubby Chaser".... well excuse me... I guess i'm Large and In Charge....
But what I remember most was when I was in school, I was in a computers class and the chairs were small, So when I sat on them a little but of my theighs hung over the chair, So this guy used to call me Hang over!!!
At least you had fun the night before if you had a hangover :P jk0 -
"you sure are a big boy" Really, that's fascinating... go *kitten* yourself...
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I can't really think of any nicknames really.
I just remember being called HUGE.0 -
A few months ago, I worked with a teenage girl, who was pregnant. And ironically, the more weight that she gained the meaner she was to me. I'm sure she was just trying to make herself feel better by bringing me down...
On her last day before maternity leave, she walked up to me and said, "what's up fat guy". She had said it quietly and I was so caught off guard that I was like, "what did you say?" and she repeated herself again. I just walked away because I was so stunned.
Being called fat is bad enough. But being called "fat guy" when you're a female is not a good feeling.
I had always strongly disliked her, and that comment made me hate her with a passion. She came back from maternity leave, one month later,( I'm assuming because she has the maternal instincts of a toaster and couldn't handle spending time with her baby) and as soon as she came back, I quit. I can't deal with that *****.
When I get to my goal weight, I am going to stop by and pay her a visit.0 -
And, yes. A sweet lady at the grocery store (checkout and sometimes bagger) asked me when I was due with my next child, and I was not pregnant.0
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This is all from high school when I was only 20 lbs over weight (and not the 150 overweight that I am now)
*Fat *kitten*
*Lard *kitten*
*Bessie the Cow
*people have moo'd at me
*some one once offered to hook me up with some coke (as in cocaine) so I could lose weight
*I would always be told by some one when Jenny Craig was having a sale0 -
Big fat pig.. Yep my grandfather was always a charmer -_- lol
And the one I get most and I hate it..
"Margaret Cho"
Just because i'm fat n Asian blahhhhh0 -
"it's a shame.... you would be so pretty if you weren't so fat..."0
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Fatty fatty 2 by 4, cant fit through the kitchen door
Shamu
Parents threatened to put a lock on a fridge.. Stepdad called me fat *kitten*, fat *****
I was eating lunch in the break room at work and a coworker was talking about someone who had the same name as me, all sitting at the lunch table, which sits 6, and mentioned her name, Rachel. She was going on and on and made sure to point out, "Oh you know Rachel, skinny Rachel?" While I was right there. I had already started MFP by then and had just started to lose weight. Keep in mind she goes rock climbing and hiking every weekend. Made me feel sick to my stomach and like I was a fat pig, because obviously I wasn't "skinny Rachel" the one she was referring to.
I was maybe 8 years old sitting on my step grandpas lap eating a tortilla chip and he told me to stop eating because I'm getting fat.
When I was 13 and going through puberty my grandfather had taken us out to dinner. Keep in mind my grandparents are the sweetest people in the world and adore me. However he cracked a joke that I cleared my plate and said he wouldn't want to be on a deserted island with you!
Keep in mind I was going through puberty and gaining weight, so it was an awkward time. He used to joke like that and say that to us as kids growing up encouraging us to "clean our plates" so we could go play in the game rooms at restaurants or get dessert. I don't think he realized how much it hurt till he said it, and now he hasn't said it to me every again. I guess the look on my face said it all.
Oh, and there's always "You have such a pretty face...." and they trail off and sigh.
And I get told I look like Kelly Clarkson all the time. At first I took it as a compliment, but now that she has gotten fat and lost and repeated the cycle I never know if it is a good thing or bad thing.
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chunky and pregnant (I wasn't)0
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Well this really isn't a hurtful name... but one of my 1st grade students asked me if I had a baby in my tummy.:mad: Another one said "I have an uncle that is fatter than you." Some kids are just rotten. But they are also just so darn cute.0
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Not really called a name, but I was in a community theater show, and was having trouble with a dance move. I said to one of my friends in the chorus, "God, a big girl should not be moving like this!". The super-skinny b**** of a dance captain butted in to say, "Well, at least you admit it."
I'm thinner, stronger, and a better dancer than her now.0 -
Fat *kitten*. Over and over by a guy in the back of a patrol car being taken to jail. It was the last straw. I realized it was true. I started my weight loss quest the next day and I've never looked back. Now I'm admired and respected by the guys I work with and it's a good feeling.0
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Flat Back- Let me explain. I have no butt. Ppl used to always make remarks on how i should quote "push my stomach to my butt to give me a proper *kitten*0
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The names people called me I never considered hurtful. Mostly because they were completely uninspired. I am a redhead, so Carrot Top & Strawberry Shortcake. I am smart, so Nerd and Smarty. And many variations of my last name, which was lemon Lemonhead. LemonPledge. Lemon Tree. Lemon Pie.
Actually, looking back, I realize the people that called me names were apparently not very creative. :laugh:0 -
Funny thing is nobody made fun of me when I was overweight. I get called Jefferexic stick man, bony etc now that am thin.0
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I am American , and lived on the Island of Borneo, which is part of Malaysia for 4 yrs. The people there are tiny. I picked up some of the language , and would hear people saying I looked like a dugong..:sad:
A dugong is a sea cow.
My mom is and has always been tiny...all her kids except one have been overweight at one time or another and she has no qualms about calling us fat.
And once , right after a pregnancy, I was at the beach, and some guy was driving by , and yelled pig out the window. He better be glad he was in a gar and moving , cause my hormones were CRAZY and I wanted to HURT him , lol.0 -
Hmm..I remember my dad singing that "roly poly, daddy's little fatty" song..which he claims he was just singing, not aiming at me..but I was swimming..still think it was about me.
A boy told me to lay off the burger king after comparing me to my naturally really thin friend.
Little brother told me I was too big to be in the bouncy house at my son's party..even after all the big guys had been on it.
I was talking about something (idk what now) was "going to make me fat" then added "well, fat-ter" and my dad said "Yeah..I was about to say.." Like REALLY?! so wrong to come from a parent.
I got told loads of times that I'd be really attractive if I lost some weight..and I wasn't even fat..had a little extra weight but didn't even consider myself chubby back then. Ugh.0 -
whale, fat, flabby, buxom wench, vikky pollard (although i dress very well, hate track suits and pink!), lazy, ugly the list goes on
my grandad is the worst wont see him years and the first thing he'll say is 'you've put on weight, better stay off the cakes' for one i've lost 2 1/2 stone you wrinkly git! second i dont eat cakes that often anyway! i hate that man
and a nurse asked me while i was wairing for my friend to have her baby scan if i was next! i was only a size 16 at the time!0 -
I remember kids poking fun since i was chubby but i had a phase when i was normal weight then puffed out big time in the later years of high school. I just hate so much when people say stuff like " you know people like you". " you know if your bigger". I live in florida and say its hot and my family would tell me im only hot cause im overweight and people like you sweat more.... Feels like i am a leaper sometimes. The worse thing is the family downers " you know Jennifer you work out all the time and barely eat why are you still so big?" Most people in my life are cruel when it comes to my weight. I think my weight loss has been so successful lately cause ive been living in another state with my boyfriend away from all the negativity. I do have to go back home and go to school i am terrified ... But screw them of they still think im fat whatever my man loves me
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We call out 7 month old son Fatty McFatFat LOL!Does Fatty Mc-Fat-Fat count if it's used by a close friend and makes me laugh and always gets me to work out?? lol
My personality always seemed to make up for it....never called names - except when my daughter told me I was Fat haha0 -
Chunky by my mom (I was only a size 9 and 13 or so years old Now that I look back I was very thin and she has a very bad complex about weight)
I carry my weight well, so I was never called anything bad straight out unless someone was saying it out of anger because they were hurt at me or something. Just remember the one thing that sticks out more is the compliments that you get from your hard work. When I was in high school I started to work out and I was so self conscious I didn't even realize I had lost 20+lbs. Until one day I will never forget a girl I always admired for her curves and how thin she looked (to me) said wow Jolene you lost weight. You look nice, what did you do to lose it? I told her and was so proud of myself I walked with my head held higher than a long time that day! :] To think I thought she was looking at me thinking how much better she was than me and she really was thinking the same way I was.0 -
Side of Beef (by my Mom)
Fat Pig (by my Siblings)
No Strangers / classmates that I remember called me names. What my Mom & Silings called me many many moons ago sticks & I' ll never forget :-(0
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