Girls, do you stare at..

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  • tageekly
    tageekly Posts: 3,755 Member
    I'm in the "notice, but don't stare" group.
  • horndave
    horndave Posts: 565
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    No, we don't all notice. That's about the last place on a man's body I want to look, even if he is otherwise attractive. Men's junk is just awkward looking to me.
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    You just need a great deal of "hands on" to appreciate it more. LOL
  • More likely to look at shoulders, arms, butt, etc, unless there's something unusual going on. :tongue:
  • Bridget28152723
    Bridget28152723 Posts: 372 Member
    I personally dont. If a man is wearing tight enough pants that I can see his belongings, I try to look as far away as I can.
    I dont try to look, but if the pants are fitted and i see some junk , I feel wierd and look away...I look at random people(women) at the store, etc. and wonder......
    Are they on MFP? Do they workout? have they already lost a lot of weight?do they lift heavy(girls)
    Are they in a cut or bulk cycle? I know its weird but Ill be looking at a women who's clearly works out and wonder these things....
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    I don't stare, but I notice my eyes automatically gravitate to that area
  • chubbygirl253
    chubbygirl253 Posts: 1,309 Member
    no, not even a little. does that make me weird? Is it weird that I'm too busy checking out other women? Not in a sexual way at all. Just like oh, she is my height and she has a nice figure. wonder how much she weighs. wonder if I'll look that good when I'm at my goal. Or, I used to be as big as that girl, wonder if she's dieting like me. Hmm did my @s$ look like that when I was over 300lbs? It's rarely ever negative though. It's usually me admiring fit girls and wondering how close they are to my goals. I've been overweight since my teen years so I really have no concept of what I'll look like as a healthy adult. So I admire fit girls. Before I was working out like crazy I admired skinny girls but now I look at how toned they are.
  • LowFatMama
    LowFatMama Posts: 625 Member
    Stare??? No. Look...... FOR SURE!!! can't help it... well, that and I'm a perv. :laugh:
  • lisy28
    lisy28 Posts: 156 Member
    OMG i thought i was the only one!!!

    I cant help it my eyes are just drawn there
  • Steve_Runs
    Steve_Runs Posts: 443 Member
    I would think that if we all are being honest, we all "notice" but we all don't "stare". I'll admit, the "package' in a good pair of jeans is on my top 10 list of sexiest parts on a man's body. :blushing:

    I learned when I was still young that the type of the package dont mean anything, so I dont even bother having that on the list ( not that I have a list, I swear:) ).
    You are awesome!
  • lorib75
    lorib75 Posts: 490 Member
    Not anymore, but when I was dating my husband before we..... well you know, I noticed it... and yes, I liked what I saw or I wouldn't have married him!!! :blushing:
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    What if I simply say "not on purpose" does that count?
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    no, not even a little. does that make me weird? Is it weird that I'm too busy checking out other women? Not in a sexual way at all. Just like oh, she is my height and she has a nice figure. wonder how much she weighs. wonder if I'll look that good when I'm at my goal. Or, I used to be as big as that girl, wonder if she's dieting like me. Hmm did my @s$ look like that when I was over 300lbs? It's rarely ever negative though. It's usually me admiring fit girls and wondering how close they are to my goals. I've been overweight since my teen years so I really have no concept of what I'll look like as a healthy adult. So I admire fit girls. Before I was working out like crazy I admired skinny girls but now I look at how toned they are.

    Well, you're going to have to start to consider this, because there will come a time in your weight loss where you're starting to become more content with where you are and bored with contemplating how other ladies look. This is the next step . . .
  • Hourglass_Lass
    Hourglass_Lass Posts: 8 Member
    Well, if they have their junk on display in overly tight trousers/jeans, then I think it's only natural to glance, but it doesn't impress me or cause me to outright stare. I actually prefer mens' thighs. Slender, but toned - those I notice. Oh and ankles. I love the way a man's instep and ankle look in a pair of combat boots.

    Hey, I never said I wasn't weird. :tongue:
  • I can't stay that I stare but in the process of checking someone out that's a pit stop my eyes will make :laugh: :wink:
  • never.
  • RosaC773
    RosaC773 Posts: 126
    Yes... and the backside, and the rear, and the arms, and the hands, the feet, the face, the thigh, the forearm.

    I think that is it. ;-)

    Btw, I am happily married!
  • RunnerBlonde808
    RunnerBlonde808 Posts: 257 Member
    Well I have to agree with many on here, if the pants are tight and it is 'obviously' on display you just can't help glancing. But I think women are a bit less obvious than men. I don't stare at all. As for body parts I'm more attracted to a nice *kitten* and big shoulders. The "package" is not even on the top 10 of things I look for in a man.
  • Steve_Runs
    Steve_Runs Posts: 443 Member
    I have to tell this story. My daughter came home after the first few weeks of school last year in the 8th grade and told me that her science teacher wore his pants so tight that it was making her and the other kids uncomfortable. I asked her if she wanted me to say something or report him or what and she was like, 'no, I'll just ignore it!". I thought that was the end of it. Unfortunately, a few days later, she came back and said it was just too bad and it was bothering her. I really wanted to talk to the teacher, but I have to be honest, I really didn't know how to approach the subject. Instead, I talked to one of the male teachers that I run with and was friends. Believe it or not, he know exactly what I was talking about and said other teachers had approached the subject. Ultimately, we had to go the administration and complain, before it was resolved. Lucky for me, I never saw said 'junk'. I'm sure I would have got in trouble had I!

    Now stop looking at my junk dammit!
  • fcp1234
    fcp1234 Posts: 1,098 Member
    I have to tell this story. My daughter came home after the first few weeks of school last year in the 8th grade and told me that her science teacher wore his pants so tight that it was making her and the other kids uncomfortable. I asked her if she wanted me to say something or report him or what and she was like, 'no, I'll just ignore it!". I thought that was the end of it. Unfortunately, a few days later, she came back and said it was just too bad and it was bothering her. I really wanted to talk to the teacher, but I have to be honest, I really didn't know how to approach the subject. Instead, I talked to one of the male teachers that I run with and was friends. Believe it or not, he know exactly what I was talking about and said other teachers had approached the subject. Ultimately, we had to go the administration and complain, before it was resolved. Lucky for me, I never saw said 'junk'. I'm sure I would have got in trouble had I!

    Now stop looking at my junk dammit!

    Ha:) the joy of having daughters lol
  • KatKisses
    KatKisses Posts: 296 Member
    I try to avoid having to look at people.


    THIS ^^^
  • roxierachael
    roxierachael Posts: 81 Member
    If he has a cameltoe, I can guarantee I'm lookin'.

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  • HMD7703
    HMD7703 Posts: 761 Member
    Oh.. stare at the mic?
    No no.. you speak into the mic!
    You have it all wrong!

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  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    If he has a cameltoe, I can guarantee I'm lookin'.

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    There, fixed that for ya.
  • want2belean
    want2belean Posts: 124 Member
    I admit..I'm a watcher....lol...WHY I have no idea, because i am not looking for being interested, but if something is standing out or not I always have a tendency to look..What the heck is wrong with me...lol...
  • ohmelgosh79
    ohmelgosh79 Posts: 118 Member
    :blushing: I'm a crotch gazer. just with the men though :wink:
  • servilia
    servilia Posts: 3,452 Member
    Not always, but sometimes it just jumps out at you.

    I see what you did there.. LOL!
  • ShmoozyQ
    ShmoozyQ Posts: 390 Member
    Yes.
  • Icelandic_Saga
    Icelandic_Saga Posts: 2,926 Member
    You know, i actually don't stare at the package area. now a cute bum? I stare unashamedly. And sometimes I tell the guy cause who doesn't like hearing that they have a great rear??
  • nonstopper
    nonstopper Posts: 1,108 Member
    I have catch women staring at my boldge alot, then they decide to creep a lil bit closer. They might s well just take a picture! haha ;)
  • Crying_In_Color
    Crying_In_Color Posts: 246 Member
    Not unless I'm walking buy and have to do a double take because it may be hard....Other then that, I don't make it a regular thing.