How many sexual partners are considered too many?

RodSuarez

So I 've been wondering this how many sexual partners are too many?

I don't meant at the same time (but if at the same time I don't mind it).

Just how many in a year, a month or a life are too many? I don't think there's such a number as too many (as long as you aren't lying to anybody) but some people (quote a different topic) called those of us who like one night stands "sluts" so under her judgement I am a slut, but seeing it the way I do I am just a guy who enjoys life and is responsible and consensual about what he does.

It also reminds me of the movie "What's your number?"

ihateroses

Since its 2012, if you are safe, don't cheat on anybody, and are honest about your intentions I don't really think its about the number.

I've noticed those who judge are usually pretty sexually deprived.....

RodSuarez

Since its 2012, if you are safe, don't cheat on anybody, and are honest about your intentions I don't really think its about the number.

I've noticed those who judge are usually pretty sexually deprived.....

amen!

RodSuarez

Gotta kiss a lot of frogs to find a charming prince or princess, right?

farfoorah

It's about quality not quantity. If your baggin 100 chicks and they're hideous in the face, it doesn't count.

RodSuarez

It's about quality not quantity. If your baggin 100 chicks and they're hideous in the face, it doesn't count.

well I don't think people should brag about their number it isn't classy

farfoorah

It's about quality not quantity. If your baggin 100 chicks and they're hideous in the face, it doesn't count.

well I don't think people should brag about their number it isn't classy

Your number must be tiny.

RodSuarez

It's about quality not quantity. If your baggin 100 chicks and they're hideous in the face, it doesn't count.

well I don't think people should brag about their number it isn't classy

Your number must be tiny.

And I am also a Gentleman

stinkpurty

Since its 2012, if you are safe, don't cheat on anybody, and are honest about your intentions I don't really think its about the number.

I've noticed those who judge are usually pretty sexually deprived.....

^^^This. Although I wouldn't go so far to say those judgemental people are deprived. Rather they have different views on sex (although that is by no means a license to judge). For a lot of people--and please don't flame me, ladies. It is usually us women--sex automatically means love. Does being in love enhance sex? Without a doubt. However, I do not believe you have to be in love with someone to sleep with them or that it means they that must love you. Honestly, sometimes, a good lay is all I need. Without the pretense of being or possibly being in a relationship.

RodSuarez

hey I just met you, and this is crazy, so here's my number, so call me maybe?

ladymiseryali

I don't think any number is too many. Adults like sex and as long as they're doing it responsibly, who the hell cares how many partners they have?

Javela

This is what's wrong with America! We limit ourselves with numbers and labels! We should be asking why you even know how many people you've been with? *Ok, hops off soap box*. Stop counting and enjoy your encounters as what they are. Fun and intimate, some good some bad, and the worst ones are the ones that are forgettable anyway.

Awkward30

Since its 2012, if you are safe, don't cheat on anybody, and are honest about your intentions I don't really think its about the number.

I've noticed those who judge are usually pretty sexually deprived.....

I agree. I think a few years ago I heard the average number of partners is 2.5/year.

I'm on the lower side because I have to invest some time teaching a guy what I want and so one night stands aren't that good.

Also, I probably would be a bit guarded about entering into a relationship with someone if they had a number 10 times mine... but aside from that, someone's sexual history doesn't effect me.

ParaSempreAmor11

3 is fine more then that is to much like ew ever thought about your not ONLY sleeping with that person your sleeping with everybody else they slept with and the people that the other people banged ya its like a chain so id say 3 is enough

BondBomb

I guess the one that gives you the clap is one too many.

BondBomb

3 is fine more then that is to much like ew ever thought about your not ONLY sleeping with that person your sleeping with everybody else they slept with and the people that the other people banged ya its like a chain so id say 3 is enough

3?? I slept with 3 people while making this post!

RodSuarez

3 is fine more then that is to much like ew ever thought about your not ONLY sleeping with that person your sleeping with everybody else they slept with and the people that the other people banged ya its like a chain so id say 3 is enough

3?? I slept with 3 people while making this post!

amen bondbomb! may I be 4th?

ihateroses

3 is fine more then that is to much like ew ever thought about your not ONLY sleeping with that person your sleeping with everybody else they slept with and the people that the other people banged ya its like a chain so id say 3 is enough

3?? I slept with 3 people while making this post!

:laugh:

billsica

Like men or women, were are we going with this?

For me, its been 1 over the past 6 years.

chubbygirl253

I think there is no firm number. I'm inclined to think if you can count on your fingers, you're good. If you use your toes to finish counting you're pushing it. If that isn't enough digits, that's no bueno. But if it's spaced out that makes a difference, ya know? If you have 2 sexual partners a year for 10 years that's 20 people. I guess it depends on how long you're single. If you are single and sexually active for 2 years and have 20 partners in that time, that's a lot more "active."

nickyfm

I feel like triple digits might be pushing it, lol.

When a man tells me he's in the triples, I can't help but feel like he must have contracted SOMETHING by now