How many sexual partners are considered too many?

farfoorah

It's about quality not quantity. If your baggin 100 chicks and they're hideous in the face, it doesn't count.

Right, here I am. Now I can say, in reply...

I hadn't realized that sexual pleasure was only for the pretty. My bad.

Because I was serious.....

RunIntheMud

i could not care less what anyone's number is.

reminds of this from Chris Rock:
Never ask a woman how many men she slept with... cause you don’t wanna know. Just be happy you’re ******* her now. Why you wanna know? You ain’t discovering ****. You ain’t puttin the flag nowhere. Just be happy you’re getting it now. Why you wanna know? Why? First of all no matter what she say, it’s too much for you. No matter what she say. She can go “Two” and you’re like “Two?!?!? TWO?!?! TWO?!?! NO NO NO! TWO?! I guess that’s how you was raised.

Women will lie about how many guys she’s ****** in court, they don’t care “Yeah, I swear” If she says 3… thats 10. It’s like you gotta give every woman like a 7 **** curve. That’s more like 3 ***** to the 8th power. And women y’all think y’all slick, y’all ain’t slick. I know the game. i watched it unfold. You ask a woman how many guys she ******, she’s not gonna tell you how many guys she ******. She’ll tell you how many boyfriends she had. Cause women only count their boyfriends. That’s right they don’t count all those miscellaneous ***** she had. “Yeah that guy I met at the club, that guy I ****** at the club that night. Oh that time I ****** Bobby Brown. Oh that guy I ****** in Jamaica but that’s another country! That don’t count! I thought you was talking bout domestic *****!"

^^^ This

For both sides. I won't discuss previous partners with a boyfriend. Not numbers, not what "we've done". I don't want to know what he's done or who he's done. Likewise I don't want him to know that about me. Because once you start thinking, you don't stop thinking.

Matt_Wild

You're just saying that to pick up women!

I'm happily in a couple. Check my profile, it says exactly the same too.

In fact first thing on my profile it says "FIRST THINGS FIRST - No flirty messages peeps - I'm taken and don't appreciate suggestive or flirty messages - ta!
"

I don't want, need or desire comments from women to help validate me. I know I've got a fairly decent body and could have a choice if I wanted. I don't.

I respect my body and worship my other half, Yo Lazarov. She's the only girl on this planet I have eyes for. If people spent more time concentrating on their partners and less on other people, we'd have a lot more happy relationships

You are aware that your profile is private so only your friends can see all of that, right?

I do, thats why its locked down bar the pic to the left <<<

By locking it down to just friends, it has lowered the number of comments

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Opened briefly so you can see...

yoovie

Idk, I treat my body as a temple... If you let everyone in all sense of value is virtually lost.

My body is an amusement park. However, the standards you must meet to come in and play are astronomical. Like way worse than Disney prices.

spade117

Idk, I treat my body as a temple... If you let everyone in all sense of value is virtually lost.

My body is an amusement park. However, the standards you must meet to come in and play are astronomical. Like way worse than Disney prices.

You charge admission?

odusgolp

Idk, I treat my body as a temple... If you let everyone in all sense of value is virtually lost.

My body is an amusement park. However, the standards you must meet to come in and play are astronomical. Like way worse than Disney prices.

What if I'm Prince Charming? Is admission free then?

witchy_wife

You're just saying that to pick up women!

I'm happily in a couple. Check my profile, it says exactly the same too.

In fact first thing on my profile it says "FIRST THINGS FIRST - No flirty messages peeps - I'm taken and don't appreciate suggestive or flirty messages - ta!
"

I don't want, need or desire comments from women to help validate me. I know I've got a fairly decent body and could have a choice if I wanted. I don't.

I respect my body and worship my other half, Yo Lazarov. She's the only girl on this planet I have eyes for. If people spent more time concentrating on their partners and less on other people, we'd have a lot more happy relationships

You are aware that your profile is private so only your friends can see all of that, right?

I do, thats why its locked down bar the pic to the left <<<

By locking it down to just friends, it has lowered the number of comments

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Opened briefly so you can see...

No wonder you only have eyes for your missus, she is stunning!

Easywider

For my taste?

Anything over 5 is too much.

ihateroses

For my taste?

Anything over 5 is too much.

Legit.....

...unless you yourself have slept with more than 5 women.

Easywider

For my taste?

Anything over 5 is too much.

Legit.....

...unless you yourself have slept with more than 5 women.

3.

RachelSRoach1

for me? 2.

My husband was my first.

_crafty_

I'm 36 and if I added mine up using my fingers . . . I'd have fingers left over. :laugh:

I'm not judgemental though when it comes to other people's numbers. Adults being responsible = win for everyone.

S1NN3R

Idk, I treat my body as a temple... If you let everyone in all sense of value is virtually lost.

My body is an amusement park. However, the standards you must meet to come in and play are astronomical. Like way worse than Disney prices.

I have a Minnie Mouse costume... does that get me in automatically???

saxmaniac

I agree. I think a few years ago I heard the average number of partners is 2.5/year.

If you're 2 years old.

The lifetime median is 6 for men, and 3 for women.

The original question is incomplete, though. "Too many" for what?

maab_connor

Hmmmm.... I figure I'll weigh in for fun and since I'm older than most of the posters. I'm struggling a bit to not sound preachy, and not veer into TMI, so if I come off that way it's not my intent. I think it's all very personal. If you feel or view things differently than your peers or family that doesn't make either view wrong, just different. You have to be comfortable in your own skin. If you're out there playing casually and being honest and having fun with it, go for it! If you're having casual sex and feeling bad about it, stop. If whatever you're into - one-on-one, multiples, same sex, costumes, toys, gymnastics - is consensual, I think it's fine. Personally, I know my sister and I talk and our approaches are different and she's pretty shocked at my antics (she's a 5 minutes in the dark with the hubby and I'm fine in the bright sunshine with my guy, a tarp, and bottle of baby oil) but we've learned to just laugh about the differences. Personally, for me, it's always been more about the chemistry and the partner's views and likes than love or committment.

I say go for it. Do what makes you happy. Life is short and amazing and to be enjoyed.

THIS!!!

TylerJ76

I'm 36 and if I added mine up using my fingers . . . I'd have fingers left over. :laugh:

I'm not judgmental though when it comes to other people's numbers. Adults being responsible = win for everyone.

Pretty much this..

LetsTryThisAgain54

Sounds like the typical "I need attention" post from the OP. Gotta love the internet!

NatashaB8

I know my opinion won't be popular...but I respect my body (and although I enjoy sharing photos of it on occasion, that's a different story). While, true, I *am* married and therefore not sleeping with any other man but him....even if I wasn't - I'd be *ultra picky* about who I chose to share myself with. I'm old school in that idea, I guess. Sure sex is fun and I like it just as much as the next girl - but, it's such a personal thing. And having sex often times creates connections beyond the physical when emotions come into play and attachment becomes an issue (not to mention spiritual attachments, if you are into that). And quite frankly - I don't care how safe one is - the idea of picking up an STD is such a turn-off. WIth my libido as ravenous as it is - it would definitely SUCK to be single right now. I like to joke and say I'd sow my wild oats if I were single...but when it comes down to it, I wouldn't. And I'm *not* a prude...just love myself too much to let anyone in who may not be worthy. hahah

This!
I have only been with one person, my current boyfriend of over two years. I waited a long time and had several 'opportunities' lets say to sleep with other guys but I refused. I don't think I could do one night stands, but I am not saying there is anything wrong with them.

doorki

I plead the fifth.

But with all honesty, its not the past that matters, its the present.

Steve_Runs

none of your damn business! lol ok fine. ****, i've had as many in one night as some of you in your life!

Danny_Boy13

It's about quality not quantity. If your baggin 100 chicks and they're hideous in the face, it doesn't count.

^^^

Alex_is_Hawks

When I hit that number I'll let you know....

till then? I'm having fun...thanks!

AmberJo1984

I'm going to go with the unpopular answer and say... 2 is one too many. I plan to wait until I am married... and I plan on having that marriage last.

ETA: I'm talking about pre-marital sex -- or out-of-wedlock. God forbid your partner dies, and you remarry... that is something completely different.

iAMsmiling

I'm sorry, was this in total, or at one time?

Dub_D

My friend is over 500.. I think that's a little much. She is a grown woman though so I don't judge her.

jackpotclown

My friend is over 500.. I think that's a little much. She is a grown woman though so I don't judge her.

Wow, now that's an accomplishment.....\m/

saxmaniac

Wow, now that's an accomplishment.....\m/

Not for a woman...

AllTehBeers

I'm going to go with the unpopular answer and say... 2 is one too many. I plan to wait until I am married... and I plan on having that marriage last.

What if you get married twice? God forbid people pass away.

odusgolp

My friend is over 500.. I think that's a little much. She is a grown woman though so I don't judge her.

Stop talking about me!!

Sheesh!

AllTehBeers

Wow, now that's an accomplishment.....\m/

Not for a woman...

Not for a man either...