How many sexual partners are considered too many?

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  • Sick_Beard
    Sick_Beard Posts: 407 Member
    Lost count a long time ago....
  • WeekndOVOXO
    WeekndOVOXO Posts: 779 Member
    72
  • indigo_rose
    indigo_rose Posts: 250
    Meh.. this is an endless topic.. I'm waiting for the holier than thou trolls to emerge.. Hahaha.. I personally couldn't give a rats how many people some one has slept with.. But if they have slept with say 100 women and they are still crap in bed I'd be pretty disappointed. A womans sex drive can be every bit as powerful as a mans. I enjoy sex as much or more than any man, and, have every right to enjoy it. If that makes you think less of me, then, rock on... Opinions of the stupid don't count
  • Dinamita_TNT
    Dinamita_TNT Posts: 333
    I really don't know my number... Stopped counting long time ago :smile: Does that make me a 'slut'? Don't think so: never cheated on anyone, never have taken sex as a way to make my self esteem or security rise, never have given sex when I wanted love, never lied to anyone... And always have safe, healthy and fab sex! :happy:
  • shelbyfrootcake
    shelbyfrootcake Posts: 965 Member
    3 is fine more then that is to much like ew ever thought about your not ONLY sleeping with that person your sleeping with everybody else they slept with and the people that the other people banged ya its like a chain so id say 3 is enough
    3?? I slept with 3 people while making this post!

    :D
  • ZeeShay
    ZeeShay Posts: 1,132 Member
    i feel like if you question whether you are slutty or not, then you probably feel like a slut. But if you enjoy sex and want to ingage multiple partners over how ever long then own it and who cares what others think. With that being said triple digits is just too much for me personally.
  • SweetCheekszx0
    SweetCheekszx0 Posts: 478 Member
    Idk, I treat my body as a temple... If you let everyone in all sense of value is virtually lost. Sex is enjoyable but seriously it's 2012 just like most ppl dnt care about numbers anymore there's also a million advances in technology.. Hello um a vibrator would suffice :huh: . I'm 22 and I lst my virginity to the same guy I had my son with. Needless to say it Didnt work out... Even so in four years I've only slept with one other person who I'm committed to... I'd rather make love to one man in a hundred different ways then have 100 different partners.. In my opinion if your only in your twenties and you've ran out of fingers already all hope is lost... I don't intend to go past the #5 and that's high if it ever happens... Although I do notice guys like to experiment twice as much as girls do and from a young age that being said I wouldn't date a guy if he passed the #20.:noway:
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    I have a very low number. I only get involved with a girl once I know she's one I'd like to spend a lot of time with and can connect. If I cannot connect with her, I won't sleep with her. As a BBer, I could easily bag several a week, esp when I'm cut up and towards show ready. Would I want to? No, not at all - nothing more revolting in my eyes than a new partner every week/month.

    When I'm ready to sleep with someone, they become the only person in my eyes, no one else exists and I'll never look elsewhere nor cheat. Just not my style nor how I work.

    I *hate* when I get mail here and on facebook from women saying what they like about me and what they'd like to do. Makes me cringe. A woman with self respect IMO goes a long way.

    Will never apologise for my view on it tho, its how I was raised and how I learned to respect myself and others.
  • NocturnalGirl
    NocturnalGirl Posts: 1,762
    I have a very low number. I only get involved with a girl once I know she's one I'd like to spend a lot of time with and can connect. If I cannot connect with her, I won't sleep with her. As a BBer, I could easily bag several a week, esp when I'm cut up and towards show ready. Would I want to? No, not at all - nothing more revolting in my eyes than a new partner every week/month.

    When I'm ready to sleep with someone, they become the only person in my eyes, no one else exists and I'll never look elsewhere nor cheat. Just not my style nor how I work.

    I *hate* when I get mail here and on facebook from women saying what they like about me and what they'd like to do. Makes me cringe. A woman with self respect IMO goes a long way.

    Will never apologise for my view on it tho, its how I was raised and how I learned to respect myself and others.

    Respect :flowerforyou:
  • Going4Lean
    Going4Lean Posts: 1,078 Member
    I don't count, but i also haven't had sex in 5 years.
  • Zomoniac
    Zomoniac Posts: 1,169 Member
    612.
  • FitBeto
    FitBeto Posts: 2,121 Member
    I've had a few times I wouldn't consider a partnership, do those count?

    muahhahaha
  • thebigcb
    thebigcb Posts: 2,210 Member
    Anything voer 72 is just wrong
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    can i seriously say,,,,, HILARIOUS!!!!!!!
  • taekwonkenpo
    taekwonkenpo Posts: 1,004
    Do you mean at the same time? :love:
  • AntWrig
    AntWrig Posts: 2,273 Member
    I have had my fair share. You live, learn, and move on. If someone judges you negatively for that then **** em. No pun intended.
  • d_Mode
    d_Mode Posts: 880 Member
    ...in one day or all at the same time? :P
  • JennW130
    JennW130 Posts: 460 Member
    3 is fine more then that is to much like ew ever thought about your not ONLY sleeping with that person your sleeping with everybody else they slept with and the people that the other people banged ya its like a chain so id say 3 is enough
    3?? I slept with 3 people while making this post!
    :laugh:
  • katcunock
    katcunock Posts: 664 Member
    different strokes for different folks.

    my fella is 17 years older than me and i'm only the second person he's slept with, the previous being his late wife.

    i on the other hand have been with somewhere between 10-15 people - i don't bother counting because i always forget someone.

    judging is pointless because everyone has different reasons for the choices they've made and actions they've taken.
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
    It's about quality not quantity.

    :heart:
  • Isla__
    Isla__ Posts: 3
    Practise (safe!!!) makes perfect ;)
  • kr3851
    kr3851 Posts: 994 Member
    My Gran told me that if you run out of fingers and toes, you've probably had enough practice..!

    I was a late bloomer in that respect, and am comfortable with my number. Who cares? As long as you're safe, have as many as you like!
  • yummymummyt2
    yummymummyt2 Posts: 3
    does anyone actually care? i cant say ive counted but lets just say number 1 probably wasnt as pleased as number 2 and so on...... ;)
    i think its judgmental to say sleeping with over a paticular number is too many, if you have a number in mind then use it for yourself dont apply it to others as long as you stay safe and have fun go for it :)
  • beccyleigh
    beccyleigh Posts: 846 Member
    the answer is 368 or 1 or bacon. whatever suits your own personal moral code
  • robin52077
    robin52077 Posts: 4,383 Member
    3 is fine more then that is to much like ew ever thought about your not ONLY sleeping with that person your sleeping with everybody else they slept with and the people that the other people banged ya its like a chain so id say 3 is enough
    3?? I slept with 3 people while making this post!

    right? I guess I was "wrong" before I even graduated high school then....

    I could kinda get a count up until I was about 23, but then it was all out the window one wild summer and there's no way I could get a count now.

    No specific number is considered too many. If both people are consenting and you're safe, then have fun!
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
    This is a subjective rather than objective question.

    There is no one "right" answer.
  • taekwonkenpo
    taekwonkenpo Posts: 1,004
    different strokes for different folks.

    my fella is 17 years older than me and i'm only the second person he's slept with, the previous being his late wife.

    i on the other hand have been with somewhere between 10-15 people - i don't bother counting because i always forget someone.

    judging is pointless because everyone has different reasons for the choices they've made and actions they've taken.


    You would never forgot you some turtle power.
  • FitBeto
    FitBeto Posts: 2,121 Member
    different strokes for different folks.

    my fella is 17 years older than me and i'm only the second person he's slept with, the previous being his late wife.

    i on the other hand have been with somewhere between 10-15 people - i don't bother counting because i always forget someone.

    judging is pointless because everyone has different reasons for the choices they've made and actions they've taken.

    Yeah dude sometimes I'm sitting here bored at work thinking about what I have done and I'm like her...oh yeah!

    Makes me really wonder what I have done drunk that I cant remember :/
  • Bethie_B
    Bethie_B Posts: 292 Member
    There is only one correct answer: 873,462. 873,461 is acceptable. Any more than that, and you're a tramp.
  • dcurzon
    dcurzon Posts: 653 Member
    if its in 3 figures then thats probably too many, but im not going to judge
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