How many sexual partners are considered too many?

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  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    wwoooaaahhhh just because someone messages you, it doesnt mean they want to bang you! dont assume and dont be so judgemental!

    Says she not knowing the content of the message I receive, you fool LOL :laugh:

    Offers of webcam sex, meeting up for one night, offers of shagging peoples girl friends whilst they watch are fairly clear cut. But no, you think I'm bragging. Even when I tell women I'm taking I'm told "well if she doesn't find out, it won't hurt her".

    I think I know what i'm on about.

    How much do they want you to pay them?
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    How much do they want you to pay them?

    Que?

    What is with the personal attacks here please? I answer the thread with an honest reply and get this BS? Why?
  • rmhand
    rmhand Posts: 1,067 Member
    Too many at one time???
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    I'm not into sexual shaming. So there's no real number. Be safe, don't become more diseased than the outbreak monkey. Don't cheat.
    Other than that hump away.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    How much do they want you to pay them?

    Que?

    What is with the personal attacks here please? I answer the thread with an honest reply and get this BS? Why?

    What you described sound like the spam e-mails I get from who knows who, but they sound like "professional" come-ons.
  • 75in2013
    75in2013 Posts: 361 Member
    bout tree fiddy
  • runboostie
    runboostie Posts: 51 Member
    I am an extremely charming, hairless skinny pig. I know my looks are not spectacular, but I have a beautiful soul.

    My considered opinion is that people (and pigs) are looking for far too much breadth and not enough depth in their sexual lives. So I urge all guinea pigs everywhere, hairless and furry alike, to consider having ONE sexual partner, but to really engage with that partner fully and not just a bitty bit.

    Yours sincerely,

    The pig who loves the human race

    Boo Thomas Braniac
  • Cranktastic
    Cranktastic Posts: 1,517 Member
    How much do they want you to pay them?

    Que?

    What is with the personal attacks here please? I answer the thread with an honest reply and get this BS? Why?

    seriously...ignore button is useful kind sir.
  • runboostie
    runboostie Posts: 51 Member
    Oh dear, I did not realize that sexual pleasure was only for the pretty.

    My bad.
  • runboostie
    runboostie Posts: 51 Member
    It's about quality not quantity. If your baggin 100 chicks and they're hideous in the face, it doesn't count.
  • I'm not a fan of guys asking me about my number. For the record I'm 30 and my number is 9.

    That being said, I have nothing to be ashamed of. I've been safe, sane, etc. I just don't know why guys want to know that.

    Several people have asked me and then asked "Don't you wanna know mine?" Ummm, not really, your past is your past :ohwell:
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    Idk, I treat my body as a temple... If you let everyone in all sense of value is virtually lost.

    not to split hairs, but technically, all are welcomed in a house of worship.
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    What you described sound like the spam e-mails I get from who knows who, but they sound like "professional" come-ons.

    They very much exist, no money requested and telephone numbers often given. None of this click on this link and add your credit card crap.

    God knows why i'm justifying it to you mind.
  • slay0r
    slay0r Posts: 669 Member
    3 is fine more then that is to much like ew ever thought about your not ONLY sleeping with that person your sleeping with everybody else they slept with and the people that the other people banged ya its like a chain so id say 3 is enough

    Good luck having every guy/girl that you see lie to you about their partners then!
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    What you described sound like the spam e-mails I get from who knows who, but they sound like "professional" come-ons.

    They very much exist, no money requested and telephone numbers often given. None of this click on this link and add your credit card crap.

    God knows why i'm justifying it to you mind.

    You don't have to justify anything. However, I have a strong feeling that if you called those phone numbers, the vast majority would eventually start talking cold, hard cash.
  • runboostie
    runboostie Posts: 51 Member
    It's about quality not quantity. If your baggin 100 chicks and they're hideous in the face, it doesn't count.

    Right, here I am. Now I can say, in reply...

    I hadn't realized that sexual pleasure was only for the pretty. My bad.
  • GamerGurl729
    GamerGurl729 Posts: 286 Member
    I know my opinion won't be popular...but I respect my body (and although I enjoy sharing photos of it on occasion, that's a different story). While, true, I *am* married and therefore not sleeping with any other man but him....even if I wasn't - I'd be *ultra picky* about who I chose to share myself with. I'm old school in that idea, I guess. Sure sex is fun and I like it just as much as the next girl - but, it's such a personal thing. And having sex often times creates connections beyond the physical when emotions come into play and attachment becomes an issue (not to mention spiritual attachments, if you are into that). And quite frankly - I don't care how safe one is - the idea of picking up an STD is such a turn-off. WIth my libido as ravenous as it is - it would definitely SUCK to be single right now. I like to joke and say I'd sow my wild oats if I were single...but when it comes down to it, I wouldn't. And I'm *not* a prude...just love myself too much to let anyone in who may not be worthy. hahah ;)

    This all day long!!!!
  • beduffbrickie
    beduffbrickie Posts: 642 Member
    I can honestly say my number is one, for I would be more attracted to a girl that had had 10 partners from being in a relationship than a girl who had 10 one night stands.
  • Cranktastic
    Cranktastic Posts: 1,517 Member
    What you described sound like the spam e-mails I get from who knows who, but they sound like "professional" come-ons.

    They very much exist, no money requested and telephone numbers often given. None of this click on this link and add your credit card crap.

    God knows why i'm justifying it to you mind.

    You don't have to justify anything. However, I have a strong feeling that if you called those phone numbers, the vast majority would eventually start talking cold, hard cash.

    okkkk then.
  • Skinny_minny_mo
    Skinny_minny_mo Posts: 1,272 Member
    wwoooaaahhhh just because someone messages you, it doesnt mean they want to bang you! dont assume and dont be so judgemental!

    Says she not knowing the content of the message I receive, you fool LOL :laugh:

    Offers of webcam sex, meeting up for one night, offers of shagging peoples girl friends whilst they watch are fairly clear cut. But no, you think I'm bragging. Even when I tell women I'm taking I'm told "well if she doesn't find out, it won't hurt her".

    I think I know what i'm on about.

    yikes! ok then :D

    amazed that people have the balls to do that straight out, no back and forth flirty messages first.
  • michelejoann
    michelejoann Posts: 295 Member
    Any count past ME is too many. LOL.
  • shelbyfrootcake
    shelbyfrootcake Posts: 965 Member
    There is no too many. If you're after a relationship, don't hook up with the person who's happy screwing around at the moment. If you're looking to screw around, happy days. As long as people are honest about their hook up intentions I say its game on all day and all night.
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    You don't have to justify anything. However, I have a strong feeling that if you called those phone numbers, the vast majority would eventually start talking cold, hard cash.

    No, not when often they offer ME cash. You really are talking about things you really have no idea about. Please stop it.
  • 31993703
    31993703 Posts: 1,144
    :laugh: :heart:
  • Skinny_minny_mo
    Skinny_minny_mo Posts: 1,272 Member
    I know my opinion won't be popular...but I respect my body (and although I enjoy sharing photos of it on occasion, that's a different story). While, true, I *am* married and therefore not sleeping with any other man but him....even if I wasn't - I'd be *ultra picky* about who I chose to share myself with. I'm old school in that idea, I guess. Sure sex is fun and I like it just as much as the next girl - but, it's such a personal thing. And having sex often times creates connections beyond the physical when emotions come into play and attachment becomes an issue (not to mention spiritual attachments, if you are into that). And quite frankly - I don't care how safe one is - the idea of picking up an STD is such a turn-off. WIth my libido as ravenous as it is - it would definitely SUCK to be single right now. I like to joke and say I'd sow my wild oats if I were single...but when it comes down to it, I wouldn't. And I'm *not* a prude...just love myself too much to let anyone in who may not be worthy. hahah ;)

    This all day long!!!!

    :heart:
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    You don't have to justify anything. However, I have a strong feeling that if you called those phone numbers, the vast majority would eventually start talking cold, hard cash.

    No, not when often they offer ME cash. You really are talking about things you really have no idea about. Please stop it.

    You know you don't have to respond to me, right?
  • How much do they want you to pay them?

    Que?

    What is with the personal attacks here please? I answer the thread with an honest reply and get this BS? Why?

    You're a good looking guy, and you're talking in a mature, non-douchey manner. Sadly, that's why you're getting the personal attacks.
  • AllTehBeers
    AllTehBeers Posts: 5,030 Member
    I know my opinion won't be popular...but I respect my body (and although I enjoy sharing photos of it on occasion, that's a different story). While, true, I *am* married and therefore not sleeping with any other man but him....even if I wasn't - I'd be *ultra picky* about who I chose to share myself with. I'm old school in that idea, I guess. Sure sex is fun and I like it just as much as the next girl - but, it's such a personal thing. And having sex often times creates connections beyond the physical when emotions come into play and attachment becomes an issue (not to mention spiritual attachments, if you are into that). And quite frankly - I don't care how safe one is - the idea of picking up an STD is such a turn-off. WIth my libido as ravenous as it is - it would definitely SUCK to be single right now. I like to joke and say I'd sow my wild oats if I were single...but when it comes down to it, I wouldn't. And I'm *not* a prude...just love myself too much to let anyone in who may not be worthy. hahah ;)

    This. I've only had three partners but all were long term relationships. I live in the STD capital of the US and I don't want that crap.
    I can honestly say my number is one, for I would be more attracted to a girl that had had 10 partners from being in a relationship than a girl who had 10 one night stands.

    Exactly.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    How much do they want you to pay them?

    Que?

    What is with the personal attacks here please? I answer the thread with an honest reply and get this BS? Why?

    You're a good looking guy, and you're talking in a mature, non-douchey manner. Sadly, that's why you're getting the personal attacks.

    It wasn't a personal attack. I'm honestly shocked that someone would be getting PMs like that on a site like this (some appreantly offering money) and not be a bit suspicious of motives is all.
  • onedayillbeamilf
    onedayillbeamilf Posts: 966 Member
    You're just saying that to pick up women!

    I'm happily in a couple. Check my profile, it says exactly the same too.

    In fact first thing on my profile it says "FIRST THINGS FIRST - No flirty messages peeps - I'm taken and don't appreciate suggestive or flirty messages - ta!
    "


    I don't want, need or desire comments from women to help validate me. I know I've got a fairly decent body and could have a choice if I wanted. I don't.

    I respect my body and worship my other half, Yo Lazarov. She's the only girl on this planet I have eyes for. If people spent more time concentrating on their partners and less on other people, we'd have a lot more happy relationships :)

    You are aware that your profile is private so only your friends can see all of that, right?
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