How many sexual partners are considered too many?

gingerjen7

I have to disagree that Sex is not a basic need!! They teach you these things in basic nursing classes, try googling Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Sex is right there with food and water.

Then how is that all nuns don't die early?

I've gone quite long periods without sex and been just fine.

Right? Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs is a theory, not a proven fact. Fact: if you go long enough without water, you'll die of dehydration. Fact: if you go long enough without food you'll die of starvation. Fact: you can go without sex for an entire lifetime and you won't die from lack of sex. The whole foundation of that theory is that if your lower level needs aren't met, you can't meet your higher level needs, which is something they really focus on in education classes to explain why kids might not be able to focus on school work or develop problem solving skills, but we're certainly not encouraging kids to have sex so they can have their lower level needs met and achieve more. I went 19 whole years without it and still managed to satisfy the top tier needs.

Alex_is_Hawks

Who the heck counts anyway? I mean, I understand if you've had just a few people in your life that you were intimate with, it'd be easy to keep track, but otherwise...what, are we notching our bed posts? Keeping a ledger?

Is that what goes through your mind when zipping up, "Well, that's 182!"

You've been watching Reality Bites again...have you....

BEERRUNNER

I actually have a list!!! for nostalgic reasons of course I like to pull out my list and think about all the great times!!!
31 and counting!
True story!!!

hell yeah!! :devil:

pyrowill

I have 'been' with about 30 women and I'm 27 years young. I don't seek extra notches on a bedpost at all or accumulation of partners. I don't think there is a limit of too many so long as no one get hurts and everyone is happy. i probably can't have too many more as I'm running out of places to bury them. Did I say that out loud :laugh:


Could have sworn someone said bacon.

oregonzoo

Who the heck counts anyway? I mean, I understand if you've had just a few people in your life that you were intimate with, it'd be easy to keep track, but otherwise...what, are we notching our bed posts? Keeping a ledger?

Is that what goes through your mind when zipping up, "Well, that's 182!"

You've been watching Reality Bites again...have you....

That movie might have been where I got my sexual philosophy when I was in my "fun days'

raggyanndoll

Any sexual partner outside of marriage is one too many.

scosway

It is usually us women--sex automatically means love.

Don't put all us 'women' in the same boat. Women are perfectly capable of having 'meaningless' sex.

serena569

Any sexual partner outside of marriage is one too many.

You mean like I'm married and I have someone else on the side? OK. No marriage for me.

billsica

iAMsmiling

Who the heck counts anyway? I mean, I understand if you've had just a few people in your life that you were intimate with, it'd be easy to keep track, but otherwise...what, are we notching our bed posts? Keeping a ledger?

Is that what goes through your mind when zipping up, "Well, that's 182!"

You've been watching Reality Bites again...have you....

That movie might have been where I got my sexual philosophy when I was in my "fun days'

Heard of it. Never seen it.

RikanSoulja

This thread is great. As far as numbers go I don't think you can have to many. As far as my number goes... I honestly don't know the exact one. It is hard to remember sometimes.

BEERRUNNER

This thread is great. As far as numbers go I don't think you can have to many. As far as my number goes... I honestly don't know the exact one. It is hard to remember sometimes.

Thats right Playa!!!! You should keep a list. It makes it so much easier to track and reminisce of the good times!!!:bigsmile:

CKAatKOC

A womans sex drive can be every bit as powerful as a mans. I enjoy sex as much or more than any man, and, have every right to enjoy it. If that makes you think less of me, then, rock on... Opinions of the stupid don't count. Now saying that I am married but if I was not I would have a higher number. :smooched:

n2thenight24

A womans sex drive can be every bit as powerful as a mans. I enjoy sex as much or more than any man, and, have every right to enjoy it. If that makes you think less of me, then, rock on... Opinions of the stupid don't count. Now saying that I am married but if I was not I would have a higher number. :smooched:

I agree with this^^ My husband knows my round a bout number, cuz I sure as hell don't know an exact one and vice versa!! He's the only person in the world who's opinion counts!!!

doorki

I have to disagree that Sex is not a basic need!! They teach you these things in basic nursing classes, try googling Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Sex is right there with food and water.

Then how is that all nuns don't die early?

I've gone quite long periods without sex and been just fine.

Right? Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs is a theory, not a proven fact. Fact: if you go long enough without water, you'll die of dehydration. Fact: if you go long enough without food you'll die of starvation. Fact: you can go without sex for an entire lifetime and you won't die from lack of sex. The whole foundation of that theory is that if your lower level needs aren't met, you can't meet your higher level needs, which is something they really focus on in education classes to explain why kids might not be able to focus on school work or develop problem solving skills, but we're certainly not encouraging kids to have sex so they can have their lower level needs met and achieve more. I went 19 whole years without it and still managed to satisfy the top tier needs.

Actually, men can suffer from a terrible affliction known as DSB - or Deadly Sperm Backup. It can cause serious issues in a male's reproductive and urinary system. It also leads to foul moods.

RikanSoulja

This thread is great. As far as numbers go I don't think you can have to many. As far as my number goes... I honestly don't know the exact one. It is hard to remember sometimes.

Thats right Playa!!!! You should keep a list. It makes it so much easier to track and reminisce of the good times!!!:bigsmile:

Lol my biggest problem is names. I think a list is a great idea. I will keep it in a lil treasure chest buried in the backyard with a map that I only know the location too. Make it an adventure you know? :laugh:

NormalSaneFLGuy

Any sexual partner outside of marriage is one too many.

Preach it sister!

BEERRUNNER

This thread is great. As far as numbers go I don't think you can have to many. As far as my number goes... I honestly don't know the exact one. It is hard to remember sometimes.

Thats right Playa!!!! You should keep a list. It makes it so much easier to track and reminisce of the good times!!!:bigsmile:

Lol my biggest problem is names. I think a list is a great idea. I will keep it in a lil treasure chest buried in the backyard with a map that I only know the location too. Make it an adventure you know? :laugh:

Thats what im talkin about! I keep mine stashed away......and bring it out out occasionally like I told ya before. Right now im looking to add to that bad boy!!!
MFP girls PM if you your feelin sexyyyy!!!!!:bigsmile:

sandiki

Just the ones that sucked in bed.

Sarauk2sf

How many are too many? Only the ones that are crap in bed count in the too many category!

Awkward30

Idk, I treat my body as a temple... If you let everyone in all sense of value is virtually lost.

not to split hairs, but technically, all are welcomed in a house of worship.

Way to make me laugh at work. ^^

gingerjen7

I have to disagree that Sex is not a basic need!! They teach you these things in basic nursing classes, try googling Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Sex is right there with food and water.

Then how is that all nuns don't die early?

I've gone quite long periods without sex and been just fine.

Right? Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs is a theory, not a proven fact. Fact: if you go long enough without water, you'll die of dehydration. Fact: if you go long enough without food you'll die of starvation. Fact: you can go without sex for an entire lifetime and you won't die from lack of sex. The whole foundation of that theory is that if your lower level needs aren't met, you can't meet your higher level needs, which is something they really focus on in education classes to explain why kids might not be able to focus on school work or develop problem solving skills, but we're certainly not encouraging kids to have sex so they can have their lower level needs met and achieve more. I went 19 whole years without it and still managed to satisfy the top tier needs.

Actually, men can suffer from a terrible affliction known as DSB - or Deadly Sperm Backup. It can cause serious issues in a male's reproductive and urinary system. It also leads to foul moods.

Has that ever worked on a female that wasn't a character in a bad movie?

dodihere

I am going to say 18.

doorki

I have to disagree that Sex is not a basic need!! They teach you these things in basic nursing classes, try googling Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Sex is right there with food and water.

Then how is that all nuns don't die early?

I've gone quite long periods without sex and been just fine.

Right? Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs is a theory, not a proven fact. Fact: if you go long enough without water, you'll die of dehydration. Fact: if you go long enough without food you'll die of starvation. Fact: you can go without sex for an entire lifetime and you won't die from lack of sex. The whole foundation of that theory is that if your lower level needs aren't met, you can't meet your higher level needs, which is something they really focus on in education classes to explain why kids might not be able to focus on school work or develop problem solving skills, but we're certainly not encouraging kids to have sex so they can have their lower level needs met and achieve more. I went 19 whole years without it and still managed to satisfy the top tier needs.

Actually, men can suffer from a terrible affliction known as DSB - or Deadly Sperm Backup. It can cause serious issues in a male's reproductive and urinary system. It also leads to foul moods.

Has that ever worked on a female that wasn't a character in a bad movie?

Wanna see where the monkey bit me?

BinaryPulsar

A womans sex drive can be every bit as powerful as a mans. I enjoy sex as much or more than any man, and, have every right to enjoy it. If that makes you think less of me, then, rock on... Opinions of the stupid don't count. Now saying that I am married but if I was not I would have a higher number. :smooched:

Yes, I like this response!!

iAMsmiling

A womans sex drive can be every bit as powerful as a mans. I enjoy sex as much or more than any man, and, have every right to enjoy it. If that makes you think less of me, then, rock on... Opinions of the stupid don't count. Now saying that I am married but if I was not I would have a higher number. :smooched:

To date, I've cured 2 women of this issue...by marrying them.

trinak1

Great response!

_JR_

I am going to say 18.

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

That's such a decisive number. I love it!

trinak1

Counting the amount is just sad.

Great Response!

TylerJ76

OP is just creepy..