Why are you single?
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I'm picky and I am not financially independent. I want to learn how to cook and have my own place before I get a girlfriend. I use to always wonder what's wrong with me and why i never had a girlfriend.
But I realize that I should learn to be happy about myself first, before i take a step and let someone into my world. It wouldn't be fair for the girl if she was stuck with someone who asks mom for money all the time and doesn't really know how to cook that well. I have to finish school with good grades and learn to improve my character. So I'll be seeing more lonely weekends, but I'll gladly use that time to achieve my other goals in life.0 -
I accept the love I think I deserve. So, there is a serious lack of love in my life.
I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer and all.. but I totally don't get what you meant. Please explain
She's holding out for that super special person; therefor, she hasn't found that love yet.0 -
because all the guys i know are douche bags lol0
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Because the guy I like lives 8 hours away
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I guess women find me unattractive and gross I guess. Maybe it is my personality. One day perhaps I will find someone who likes me for who I am.0
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simply because no girls deserve to be with me.0
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Pretty simple for me. No confidence around girls. I've always been the funny fat guy or "the friend."
OP you're cute, I'd date you :flowerforyou: , just my luck you're no where near me
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I accept the love I think I deserve. So, there is a serious lack of love in my life.
I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer and all.. but I totally don't get what you meant. Please explain
She's holding out for that super special person; therefor, she hasn't found that love yet.
Well just don't wait to long, you will end up like me, 37 and not married. I've been absurdly picky most of my adult life.0 -
because I'm in the middle of a divorce from a controlling and narcissistic person.
because i wonder whether it is even possible to have a good relationship.
because I have so much happening in my life that has turned me into a bit of a wreck0 -
Because I can squat more than most guys at the gym. Okay, no, not really.
And also because I have trust issues.0 -
Because I date LOSERS! (my fault... really) so I just put a hold on it.0
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simply because no girls deserve to be with me.
I read this and went ... Pfft ... But then I thought about it, and I feel the same. I am single because I am only going to be with someone is suited to me and I them. Why bother otherwise? I've spent a lot of time with people who don't suit me on most/all levels, and while I don't think I wasted my time at all, I do think they made me realise what I would and wouldn't put up with and who I did and did not want to be with.0 -
that's what i'm hoping therapy will explain to me....
no seriously.....it's the truth...
I'm single because i have a historical pattern of dating abusive men. And my daughter deserves much better than that...so I have to break the cycle...
until I learn what i'm doing wrong, i'm not dating...
it's that simple.0 -
Because i put up walls and make excuses to protect myself.
(have to love myself before i can let someone love me)0 -
Because I just haven't been able to find a good one yet.
Yeah, me either.0 -
Always been the funny fat guy stuck in the friend-zone too. And get too nervous trying to talk to women I don't know...because I am the funny fat guy, they won't take me serious.0
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Because my husband of 44 years died. Right now I have NO desire to be anything but single. Living by myself is total freedom to do as I wish.0
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Because relationships are so, so depressing.0
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I've been single since the day before I turned 25. (I'll be 28 on the 18th)
Until about this year, it was mainly by choice, I took a lot of time to stay single, not deal with drama, focus on self improvement, etc..
It took me until the end of September to really find anyone worth pursuing, but it happened. Unfortunately, despite making a huge level of connection, it apparently isn't the right time for her, so my search continues. In a way that was good because it showed me that yeah, I can attract someone who is a '9' in every aspect, but it was bad too because it has raised my bar that much further. v___________v
In general.. I don't really put myself out there as much as I perhaps should. I'm kind of anti-social in ways, and I'm pretty sure I have a solid fear of rejection.0 -
I'm harder, better, faster, stronger alone.
(Lol. Also, lazy, slow, & weak when I want to be, with no daily judgment.)0 -
Because being single is just so much more relaxing!!0
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Single because I realized I'm a psychopath magnet. Trying to remove the flashing neon Psycho from my forehead by learning how to love myself and not settle.....also learning how to spot those pesty gnats.0
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Because I have lousy taste in men?
I left my marriage to a complete douche and leapt into another relationship with someone who had severe mental health issues. Now I am too burnt, can't trust myself to pick a decent guy and working on my own self so when I am ready to try again some lucky guy will get the best version of me.0 -
In my experience, because single men my age are obviously single for a reason. The good ones stay married.0
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I don't know. I forgot.0
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because dating in my area SUCKS. and apparently I'm a *kitten* magnet. =\0
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My wife met some skinny *kitten* on World of Warcraft and decided she'd rather be with him.0
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I have been married 3 times...all were abusive and woman chasers....I divorced the last one 30 years ago....since then I seem only to attract MARRIED MEN, LOL...don't find out till later.... I am now in a relationship with a good one, does not drink, smoke, do drugs, or anything else...He is an Apache...and 16 years older than me! he is retired, but is still working, 250 miles away...so he is only home 2-3 days a week....we have been together 13 years...because of my health issues, we are not intimate, but we are still close... he is a dear one...0
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Because I am a douche bag DUH!
No really, because I am to picky when falling in love - because I can keep love and sex as 2 different things and while I do have sex I don't fall in love because Love for me requires an almost impossible to find list of qualities in my partner so ladies and gentlemen it is really hard to make me fall in love with you, and If I don't think I love you there is no need for me to have a label with you, I might eff you and enjoy your body but my heart is sacred.
Also I am way too career driven and if you can't keep up with it you weren't made for me + right now I am not where I am meant to be so nobody is good enough in this town to make me fall in love.
So yes I am a douche0 -
Because all of the girls in my area have terrible taste :laugh:0
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