The Friend Request Gauntlet

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  • chivalryder
    chivalryder Posts: 4,391 Member
    A.

    Really, it's no big deal. If they turn out to not fit, there's a button for that.

    ^This
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I analyze their spirit guides to see if they sync with mine...I mean who wants spirit guides that don't get along, right?

    My spirit guide can beat up your spirit guide.

    But he won't.
  • _crafty_
    _crafty_ Posts: 1,682 Member
    Wonder why they chose me. I'm not a nice person.

    this and then D. If I don't recognize someone from the forums or my friends FLs I'll ask my FL for any dirt. 95% of them I decline. the other 5% is immediately referred to the disclaimer on my profile. they need to know what they are getting themselves into.
  • contingencyplan
    contingencyplan Posts: 3,639 Member
    I use their friends list, profile info, and diary info to figure out whether or not I'm dealing with someone with an ED first and foremost. If they are, or if they're a beachbody coach, I decline. All others, I accept. If they don't give me enough info to go off of, then decline.
  • gotogirl81
    gotogirl81 Posts: 278 Member
    Mostly B .

    I like friends who are active on the boards too then you can see the real personality
    come out.
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    If they have a (non-creepy) message, I accept.

    If they don't, I check their profile. A blank profile and blank photo with no posts on the forum... deny.
  • Starla_
    Starla_ Posts: 349
    A

    There is always the delete button if they have an ED or are a little creepy.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    Furthermore I don't understand why people get so butthurt over the friend accepting methods of others.

    I don't want every single MFP member in my business and with some of the drama idiots cause, some caution isn't a bad thing.
  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member
    a). Then I wonder why they wanted to be friends in the first place. I usually message them and ask them why.
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    B
    C
    D - can happen with or without and message. It's my page I do want I want! Boom.

    How we became friends is a funny story, but lets not talk about that..
  • ShreddedTweet
    ShreddedTweet Posts: 1,326 Member
    Furthermore I don't understand why people get so butthurt over the friend accepting methods of others.

    I don't want every single MFP member in my business and with some of the drama idiots cause, some caution isn't a bad thing.

    Preach! Melodrama mamas need not apply!
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    I analyze their spirit guides to see if they sync with mine...I mean who wants spirit guides that don't get along, right?

    My spirit guide can beat up your spirit guide.

    But he won't.

    he won't because they are spirit guides with benefits...
  • chocl8girl
    chocl8girl Posts: 1,968 Member
    I guess to actually answer the question instead of only peddling Sauron's good word, I'd have to say A. I really don't care all that much why someone wants to be or not be my friend on here, although it is nice to know why. I don't think I have ever deleted anyone. I know I have been deleted by several people, but whatever, I guess it just meant I wasn't right for their list. Why worry so much about it? I am here for me...
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Furthermore I don't understand why people get so butthurt over the friend accepting methods of others.

    I don't want every single MFP member in my business and with some of the drama idiots cause, some caution isn't a bad thing.

    I never understood it, either. All the threads about how awful it is that people ask for messages or whatever. Um, clearly, that is not a friend for you, so don't request. Why the need to complain about it?
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    Blood & urine sample

    wait a second..... was I the only one required to give a seven sample?
  • wonderfulboodad
    wonderfulboodad Posts: 36
    A
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I analyze their spirit guides to see if they sync with mine...I mean who wants spirit guides that don't get along, right?

    My spirit guide can beat up your spirit guide.

    But he won't.

    he won't because they are spirit guides with benefits...
    How YOU doin'?
  • superpapa16
    superpapa16 Posts: 244 Member
    B & C usually....

    This may be my new favorite word... "douchecanoe"!
    I usually don't accept if they have no message unless I've seen them around and liked their posts.

    I don't add them if they say something creepy or have 300plus scantily clad teenagers in their FL.

    I don't add if they use the words 'weight loss journey', 'inspirational Moms' or 'my hubby.'

    I don't accept if they have no head, no profile pic or only one picture that looks questionable.

    Simple really!!! Be funny, have a photo, don't be a douchecanoe!!!!
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    Blood & urine sample

    wait a second..... was I the only one required to give a seven sample?

    Damn auto correct...... anyways.... you know what kind of sample you made me submit Brett.....
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
    DGAF.....in that order.......\m/
  • omanitshann
    omanitshann Posts: 179
    I usually accept, and then i check out there profile, and if they seem strange or have an eating disorder I delete
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    I have to check them out to see if they have naughty tendencies or have a streak of smart *kitten* in them...if the answer is no...then I am less likely to add them at this point
  • MiloBloom83
    MiloBloom83 Posts: 2,724 Member
    Blood & urine sample

    wait a second..... was I the only one required to give a seven sample?

    I had to give Brett a seven sample also....
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    Blood & urine sample

    wait a second..... was I the only one required to give a seven sample?

    I had to give Brett a seven sample also....

    Hate you guys...
  • BurtHuttz
    BurtHuttz Posts: 3,653 Member
    I look at their friends list. f you already have 300 friends, you're probably all set already.
    I don't want a feed full of every tom, d!ck and harry being bummed because they ate a bag of chips last night and put on a pound of water weight. I'm a weird dude and I don't click with everyone.
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
    Blood & urine sample

    wait a second..... was I the only one required to give a seven sample?

    I had to give Brett a seven sample also....

    Hate you guys...
    "aw man.....what's in the boooooxxxxx!!!! what's in the BOX!!!!!!" \m/
  • stephdeeable
    stephdeeable Posts: 1,407 Member
    A. I'm not a "friend collector" and rarely send friend requests but I have a lot of friends, because I accept everyone. Most of them don't have messages, I just assume they think I'm awesome and go on with my day.

    I also don't delete people, because who cares? I've only deleted one person and that's because she was a c u next Tuesday. :happy:
  • coachblt
    coachblt Posts: 1,090
    I pretty much add everyone. If they turn out to be a POS, I delete them. But...I do look at the profile.
  • chocl8girl
    chocl8girl Posts: 1,968 Member
    I look at their friends list. f you already have 300 friends, you're probably all set already.
    I don't want a feed full of every tom, d!ck and harry being bummed because they ate a bag of chips last night and put on a pound of water weight. I'm a weird dude and I don't click with everyone.

    sick-weirdo.jpg
  • BurtHuttz
    BurtHuttz Posts: 3,653 Member
    What kind of sick weirdo are you?!

    I've seen things you people wouldn't believe.

    Attack ships, on fire, off the shoulder of Orion.

    I watched C-beams glitter in the dark near the tannhauser gate.

    . . . and all these moments will be lost in time, like tears in rain.

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