Do you like being stared at?

Superdave24

Ok....I work on a construction site and every time a woman walks by the freak'n job shuts down. Women, do you think this is disrespectful or do you like it? Men, what about you? I KNOW women don't always have this problem!!!

For me I try not to stare because I think it can be disrespectful. But at the same time I'm a guy....I too like to look at the ladies.

What's your take?

wareagle8706

You know, it's just whatever. I workout for lots of reasons but I won't lie and say that one of them isn't to get looks lol. As long as they don't cross a line (certain comments or being too aggressive) then stare all you want.

I get stared at in the gym all the time. Don't know why but I don't really care lol.

IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym

looking is ok, but to hoot and holler and beat on the side of a truck or not just be polite and say hi is the part that gets annoying. So, don't just stare and don't act like she's a dog and as far as I'm concerned, no biggy. It's going to happen. People people watch.

Cr01502

I stare.

I smile if they look back at me.

I don't whistle or cat call or any of that as usually it doesn't produce a great response.

IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym

I stare.

I smile if they look back at me.

I don't whistle or cat call or any of that as usually it doesn't produce a great response.

smart. It's definitely not a turn on to be treated like a piece of meat and is generally not going to get you introduced to the person, if that was the intent, of course.

cyberblonde

I actually quite like it, as long as the guys are being nice and not rude. I would not like to think I was getting past the age of getting attention.

Chief_Rocka

n0ob

staring is only creepy if you don't like who's doing it...

louisel809

If its not total leeching or creepy I think it's pretty harmless and can even bring a wee smile to your face. I think if your non aggressive about it I see no harm in it. Whenever it's happened to me to be honest I've felt like a supermodel all day

ReddRidingHood

I am horrified when this happens..I suppose it is flattering on some level BUT really it makes me want to melt through the concrete. I feel like they see everything negative and I get extremely self conscious.

dtreg35

I dont stare..... I dont even look, I love my gf

ChecktheRhyme

Ahahaha. That's beautiful.


I don't mind staring. But honking while I'm walking is so cringe-worthy.

brendaj39

i think of it as a ego boost. if I worked hard to look good, i like to get noticed..

SavvyCake

I dislike it, because my BDD makes me automatically assume they're staring at me in disgust thinking "Dear God, what is that thing?!"

Jacwhite22

I stare....and then lick my lips and flex. Maybe a wink.

serenapitala

Depends. I don't really care if there's a stare, but there is a line. There is definitely a creepy stare where it looks like the guy has terrifying thoughts. Any comments are uncool.

sunsnstatheart

I definitely look. I'm a guy. No i'm not staring or cat calling. But yes, I'm going to look. And no, I don't feel the slightest bit guilty about it.

beernpizza

It makes me giggle.

Crankstr

staring is only creepy if you don't like who's doing it...

how YOU doin?:flowerforyou:

Amazonbella

I think if someone is just "staring" it may make the other person feel uncomfortable regardless of the reason.

I think if someone looks, likes what they see, looks back and smiles at you, that is sexy and flattering

Tilran

I mean....if a girl is hot, I'm gonna look...its only natural, I think girls do the same thing. Attraction is attraction.

I think hooting and hollering is completely different, and I also wont look at women if I'm with my girlfriend out of respect, but its not like she doesnt stare at guys sometimes when with her girlfriends or whatever.

Crankstr

I like to stare at my prey.

Anthonydaman

Give a quick look, the trick is to not act like you have never seen a women before...

diodelcibo

I am not a piece of meat.

NikkiSixGuns

staring is only creepy if you don't like who's doing it...

Exactly this.

funforsports

Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun. You don't stare at it. It's too risky. Ya get a sense of it and then you look away.

brendaj39

and yes, i notice nice looking guys too, a glance or two...:blushing:

lingeriemodel

I don't mind stares. It's my job to look like people would live to stare at me.
I send appreciative looks myself to people in good shape.

_Timmeh_

Alex_is_Hawks

I like to stare at my prey.

^^True Story

I don't like being stared at...i suddenly start worrying about what 5 million things could be going wrong with my wardrobe or something...

estrobabe

If a guy look at me and smile or something (although that's very rare lol), I smile back and/or say hello. If they stare me down (and I know it's hormones raging) I find it pretty uncomfortable. It can become really creepy though