Do you like being stared at?

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  • gym_king_carlie
    gym_king_carlie Posts: 528 Member
    I get stared at when Im doing Cardio, not because I look good, but because I go at such a speed and look such a mess, I would like to think they aknollege that I am 'going for it' lol
  • cmcollins001
    cmcollins001 Posts: 3,472 Member
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    Ahahaha. That's beautiful.


    I don't mind staring. But honking while I'm walking is so cringe-worthy.

    Well, if you hadn't ignored me when I yelled, "Hey Baabbbyyy!! How YOU doin?!!??" out the car window as I did the slow roll, maybe I wouldn't have had to honk my horn. And another thing...I was still outside of the 100 ft range as set by the restraining order.
  • gym_king_carlie
    gym_king_carlie Posts: 528 Member
    I hate when guys toot their horns though, that's just quite intimidating and makes you feel quite foolish. It's always white van men hehe

    Not all white van men do this, only 98% of us lol
  • creech6317
    creech6317 Posts: 869 Member
    I enjoy it. It is a definite boost to the ego. If I notice I will usually smile and just keep on with whatever I am doing.
    Sometimes I will go out of my way to have some fun and get stared at at the same time, things like wearing my collar and leash out in public. It is fun to notice who notices, and to see the reactions.
  • penrbrown
    penrbrown Posts: 2,685 Member
    I would LOVE to be stared at. Never happens.

    Cat calls.
    Rude comments.
    Etc.

    Not so much. But that never happens either so I'm speaking from theory not experience!
  • louisel809
    louisel809 Posts: 335
    Haha I realised I may cause offence with that comment! Not all white van men......just some.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I don't mind when the construction workers stop to watch me walk by. Saying hello is fine also (if it is natural and I am right next to them) or waving hello. It does make me uncomfortable if they cat call. It also surprised me one time because I had not noticed they were looking at me and one of the construction workers was getting lunch at the same time as me and he began to comment on how he liked the new way I was doing my hair (and I had no idea who he was). But, he was nice enough, so I got over the initial surprise.
  • Silver_Star
    Silver_Star Posts: 1,351 Member
    feels good to be noticed...but it does tend to scare me off ..LOL!! some of us are weird like that:laugh:
  • Deedsie
    Deedsie Posts: 348 Member
    It's fine to stare. Hell, yelling is even okay but when you start following me I'm going to do 3 things:
    1) pull out my pepper spray
    2) yell "stay back" and then,
    3) run like hell.
  • j75j75
    j75j75 Posts: 854 Member
    Cleavage is like the sun, you glance quickly and then you look away. If you stare too long you will go blind. - Jerry Seinfeld
  • RobfromLakewood
    RobfromLakewood Posts: 684
    Sometimes my wife has to remind me where her eyes are, but she's yet to put a restraining order out on me yet.
  • _SABOTEUR_
    _SABOTEUR_ Posts: 6,833 Member
    I like playing role reversal and wolf-whistling workmen. It's so much fun scaring straight men. :)

    The game is you look until they notice you looking, quickly look away and then look back. If they're still looking you smile.

    If they're not you send them a friend request with numerous pictures of your junk... :laugh:
  • honey_bee_keysha
    honey_bee_keysha Posts: 773 Member
    I never notice. lol
  • penrbrown
    penrbrown Posts: 2,685 Member
    I don't mind when the construction workers stop to watch me walk by. Saying hello is fine also (if it is natural and I am right next to them) or waving hello. It does make me uncomfortable if they cat call. It also surprised me one time because I had not noticed they were looking at me and one of the construction workers was getting lunch at the same time as me and he began to comment on how he liked the new way I was doing my hair (and I had no idea who he was). But, he was nice enough, so I got over the initial surprise.

    LOL! That's kinda cute
  • daveymac1
    daveymac1 Posts: 784 Member
    I tend to drool, and start humping air.
  • MRSCHAZZY
    MRSCHAZZY Posts: 42 Member
    I agree with the majority, it's flattering if done appropriately! Does feel good to be noticed once in a while!

    THIS! also while dancing at the club. makes me shake it harder! LOL!
  • RobfromLakewood
    RobfromLakewood Posts: 684
    I like playing role reversal and wolf-whistling workmen. It's so much fun scaring straight men. :)

    The game is you look until they notice you looking, quickly look away and then look back. If they're still looking you smile.

    If they're not you send them a friend request with numerous pictures of your junk... :laugh:

    This post shows my security and insecurity at the same time. I'm secure enough with my sexuality to not be bothered by a man checking me out, but I am also insecure when EVERYONE doesn't check me out. I have issues.
  • Pokermom10
    Pokermom10 Posts: 78 Member
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    Ahahaha. That's beautiful.


    I don't mind staring. But honking while I'm walking is so cringe-worthy.

    Well, if you hadn't ignored me when I yelled, "Hey Baabbbyyy!! How YOU doin?!!??" out the car window as I did the slow roll, maybe I wouldn't have had to honk my horn. And another thing...I was still outside of the 100 ft range as set by the restraining order.

    LMAO!!!!!
  • Superdave24
    Superdave24 Posts: 158 Member
    GO COLTS!!! Oh, nevermind, maybe next year. BTW, my favorite team, its where i am originally from.
  • stepherzzzzz
    stepherzzzzz Posts: 469 Member
    I hate it. I usually start thinking 'Did I wait on him/her at work and refused to give them a refund?'. Or if it's a guy sometimes it'll be 'Is that the guy I wouldn't dance with last weekend?', and if it's a girl 'Is that one of *so-n-so*'s ex-girlfriends?' I just get paranoid.
  • porky44
    porky44 Posts: 34
    Definately disrespectful!!! ESPECIALLY when ya gotta have some stupid comment fly outta your mouth along with the stares!!!Cant y'all look without gawking and being so obvious!!!
  • Superdave24
    Superdave24 Posts: 158 Member
    Hysterical!!!
  • Sister_Someone
    Sister_Someone Posts: 567 Member
    When I catch people staring at me, I give them something to stare at - my middle finger.
  • HurricaneElaine
    HurricaneElaine Posts: 984 Member
    No. I don't like being stared at; I've been stared at my whole life because of my size (huge).

    That said, once in my 20s, when I'd worked my way down to 130, I was walking downtown and kept looking at myself in the store windows as I passed them by - someone actually yelled out "Yeah, you're hot, honey!" :blushing:
  • mccloskey10
    mccloskey10 Posts: 6
    I LOVE IT! =) means I've worked my *kitten* off!
  • RunDoozer
    RunDoozer Posts: 1,699 Member
    I don't like being stared at by men either ... happens way too often oddly enough
  • thegeordielass
    thegeordielass Posts: 208 Member
    I've never been stared at in a 'she's hot' way - always the opposite. I do everything I can not to be noticed in general! Even when I get to my goal size/weight I'll probably still live in my jeans and a baggy tshirt over summer. I'm doing it for me, not for everyone else to stare at.
    Guess I'm firmly in the 'please don't stare at me, it freaks me out' camp.
  • Stacyplus5
    Stacyplus5 Posts: 493
    I like it unless they are staring like creepy staring then NO! But if they are looking like they are enjoying the scenery then hell yes!! Let them look!
  • j4nash
    j4nash Posts: 1,719 Member
    being nearly 7 feet tall i get stared at all the time, it's annoying especially if it comes w/ dumb comments
  • penrbrown
    penrbrown Posts: 2,685 Member
    being nearly 7 feet tall i get stared at all the time, it's annoying especially if it comes w/ dumb comments

    I don't meet many tall people. So I would probably make a dumb comment like:

    "I love you. I never get to feel small!"
    "*stares up grinning* You're tall. It's great."

    Stuff like that. I'm sorry. I just get so giddy when I meet people taller then me.

    I'm not abnormally tall for a female BUT I am the tallest female in all of my circles (and there aren't very many males taller then me in my circle either) so I just get a little excited. >.< I apologize on behalf of all dumb comment makers.

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