Do you like being stared at?

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  • ihateroses
    ihateroses Posts: 893 Member
    Heck yes!

    I am also guilty of staring.

    Makes me feel good so I assume it makes them feel good....maybe I should reign the creep in a bit.

    Edit: Except this one time when I thought a guy was checking out my *kitten* so I have him a wink and he gave me a super disgusted look and walked in the other direction.....apparently I had sat in some melted chocolate :/
  • halffullpgh
    halffullpgh Posts: 74 Member
    I love it. Even an occasional cat call is fine by me. It puts a skip in my step. Plus I am a bit of a lady perve so I am always looking around the gym for a little man flesh.

    Just don't approach me. Ever.
  • j4nash
    j4nash Posts: 1,719 Member
    being nearly 7 feet tall i get stared at all the time, it's annoying especially if it comes w/ dumb comments

    I don't meet many tall people. So I would probably make a dumb comment like:

    "I love you. I never get to feel small!"
    "*stares up grinning* You're tall. It's great."

    Stuff like that. I'm sorry. I just get so giddy when I meet people taller then me.

    I'm not abnormally tall for a female BUT I am the tallest female in all of my circles (and there aren't very many males taller then me in my circle either) so I just get a little excited. >.< I apologize on behalf of all dumb comment makers.

    that's not too bad, i will admit i've never been told i love you by a random stranger :)

    the how's the weather up there is the worst
  • bettacheckyoself
    bettacheckyoself Posts: 570
    Never happens
  • _DaniD_
    _DaniD_ Posts: 2,186 Member
    No. But secretly, yes.
  • jennyrebekka
    jennyrebekka Posts: 626 Member
    staring is only creepy if you don't like who's doing it...
    EXACTUMUNDO
  • clarkeje1
    clarkeje1 Posts: 1,641 Member
    Both. Yes it is disrespectful... but yeah I do like it........
  • thoseblueeyes
    thoseblueeyes Posts: 812 Member
    I don't mind being stared at, as long as there is no cat calls. Looking is not a big deal heck don't we all look at eye candy when we see it walking by? I know I do.
  • jennyrebekka
    jennyrebekka Posts: 626 Member
    I am not a big fan of the
    "AY! AY!........AY!.............AY!" though - - - that one makes me want to punch balls
  • shaynak112
    shaynak112 Posts: 751 Member
    I get started at way too much and it's soooo annoying!
  • _DaniD_
    _DaniD_ Posts: 2,186 Member
    I get started at way too much and it's soooo annoying!

    Probably because you're a talking hamster.
  • DamnImASexyBitch
    DamnImASexyBitch Posts: 740 Member
    Men and women stare at my boobs while I'm cutting and coloring their hair. It doesn't bother me. Infact it's probably part of the reason I get tipped so well...lol
  • iorahkwano
    iorahkwano Posts: 709 Member
    If its not total leeching or creepy I think it's pretty harmless and can even bring a wee smile to your face. I think if your non aggressive about it I see no harm in it. Whenever it's happened to me to be honest I've felt like a supermodel all day :)

    Same! I feel like a super model! And I agree with what most ladies said...

    1) Don't stare for so long that it's uncomfortable.
    2) No aggressive calls or hollering, the act of stopping what you're doing & staring is noticeable enough
    3) Smile, wave or say something nice so we know you're friendly & not creepy :)

    I remember one time I was bored during school break, so I walked around Montreal for a while. On the way back, I had to pass by a building where there were a bunch of latino construction workers. They stopped what they were doing, smiled at me and one called out something in Spanish to me. It sounded like it was said in a nice tone and I was all giggly & felt special.

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  • iorahkwano
    iorahkwano Posts: 709 Member
    Actually, I also stare at construction workers myself... Especially if they have no shirts on :D
  • RunDoozer
    RunDoozer Posts: 1,699 Member
    Men and women stare at my boobs while I'm cutting and coloring their hair. It doesn't bother me. Infact it's probably part of the reason I get tipped so well...lol

    Well deserved
  • ACepero79
    ACepero79 Posts: 711 Member
    If you don't want me staring at you then take down the hidden web cam that I installed.
  • Admiral_Derp
    Admiral_Derp Posts: 866 Member
    It's ok to look as long as you don't look like the Cos before he eats a sandwich

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    I look like this constantly. It get's misinterpreted a lot. I've thought about getting some kinda treatment, but...meh. *has a sandwich*
  • dirtnap63
    dirtnap63 Posts: 1,387 Member
    I don't know if I've ever been stared at but today I got a glance and a silent "wow" from a random female stranger at the gym. Gotta say that felt pretty good!
  • trophywife24
    trophywife24 Posts: 1,472 Member
    I don't mind it... I usually like it......unless you get the vibe that someone is staring at you because they're trying to decide if you'll fit into the trunk of their car in one piece. Then it's just uncool.
  • imchicbad
    imchicbad Posts: 1,650 Member
    Ok....I work on a construction site and every time a woman walks by the freak'n job shuts down. Women, do you think this is disrespectful or do you like it? Men, what about you? I KNOW women don't always have this problem!!!

    For me I try not to stare because I think it can be disrespectful. But at the same time I'm a guy....I too like to look at the ladies.

    What's your take?

    So if I walked by, your telling me I would shut the site down completely, thus causing you to get overtime? I should leave my house while they renovate then?
  • VelvetMornings
    VelvetMornings Posts: 66
    I don't really care. It's when they get aggressive and invasive that it really pisses me off.
    Most of the time I'm oblivious and listening to music anyway.
  • Derpes
    Derpes Posts: 2,033 Member
    staring is only creepy if you don't like who's doing it...

    ^

    This.
  • sexygenius
    sexygenius Posts: 1,078 Member
    I'm awesome of course people are going to stare...

    lol one thing that rainbow hair brings is lots of stares( and tons of compliments.. i kinda love it), but i dont even notice it.. I'll be hanging with my friend and they'll be like,"those people are staring at you" and I'll be like "really? i didnt notice"
  • annabellj
    annabellj Posts: 1,337 Member
    Men and women stare at my boobs while I'm cutting and coloring their hair. It doesn't bother me. Infact it's probably part of the reason I get tipped so well...lol
    smart woman!
  • Ivey05131980
    Ivey05131980 Posts: 1,118 Member
    Ehh...it is very awkward and flattering at the same time...it's when they look you up and down then lick their lips when it's super umcomfortable! I don't know many people who want to be stared at...
  • Natashaa1991
    Natashaa1991 Posts: 866 Member
    kill me, yes.
  • gingerveg
    gingerveg Posts: 748 Member
    staring is only creepy if you don't like who's doing it...
    no, staring is creepy no matter who is looking.
    glancing is fine and can be flattering when it's honest.
  • browneyedbeauteDELETED
    browneyedbeauteDELETED Posts: 42 Member
    staring is only creepy if you don't like who's doing it...

    ^

    This.

    Agree!!
  • TexasDragon45
    TexasDragon45 Posts: 275
    Yes, getting stared at is fun, no matter who is doing it, thats when you get creative and put on a show. lol
    It's all about having fun with an awkward situation, or an inviting one!
  • westerly34
    westerly34 Posts: 898
    Ive started to wear sweatshirts and sweatpants so theres no reason to look at me unless of course im squatting or deadlifting and grunting loudly loll

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