Do you like being stared at?

emilykg12

I get super uncomfortable if people pay too much attention to me. I'm not a very observant person when I'm out walking around, because I think it's rude to stare. It's different if you're going to talk to the person and have an interest in getting to know them - what does just looking REALLY do for you?

ZeeShay

if someone is staring at me i usually assume i have a booger hanging out or something.

oneworkoutatatime

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scorpiotwinkles

I used to get stared at and whistled as a teen. If that happens now after 30 years of being severely obese, I WOULD LOVE IT! ha!!

witchy_wife

I don't like been stared at. I've spent so many years being overweight and simply blending in to the background that I am not used to it and it makes me feel uncomfortable.

I think it maybe comes from the fact that I have such a low self esteem that I don't think for a second they are looking because they find me attractive. I get in my head they are looking because they are thinking "wow look at the size of her @rse" or "omg what a dog"!!

pinkraynedropjacki

Before....hated it.

Now? Love it.

I've worked damn hard to BE stared at & it works. I am far from attention seeking, but before I had stares because I was fat & repulsive..... now I get it because I'm fit & fab.

tisa5150

It's nice to be noticed as long as the person doing the noticing isn't completely disrespectful and over the top.

Unfortunately for me, being 100+ lbs. overweight means I don't get stared at for the same reasons I did when I was thin! Lol Working hard on changing that though!